The love stories of a healthy local church do not have to be famous to be real. Meals during sickness, rent quietly paid, medical bills covered, decks removed, chemotherapy rides given, children watched, Scripture shared, marriages helped, funerals endured, homes rebuilt, and prayers offered all show the fruit John is talking about. That kind of love may never make social media, but it is the real stuff of a church family loving one another while waiting for Christ to return.
John uses the word love 11 times in five verses because love is evidence that a person has been born of God and knows God. First John was written so believers could know they have eternal life, and love is one of the fruits that gives that assurance. John is not talking about the world’s kind of love, not love that accepts falsehood, avoids correction, tolerates wrongdoing, follows desire, or gives only as long as it gets. John is talking about agape, a Spirit-generated, self-giving, sacrificially generous love that is patient, kind, truthful, enduring, and not centered on self.
God is the mainspring of that love. Love has a source like a river has a source, and that source is God because God is love. Since only God produces this kind of love, the presence of it in a Christian’s life becomes a litmus test. If that love is flowing out toward other Christians, John says it is proof that the Spirit of God is living there and producing fruit that does not come from the world.
God also manifested His love. God did not merely say He is love. God showed it by sending His only Son into the world so sinners might live through Him. Jesus put on flesh, lived without sin, died the death sinners owed, and rose again so all who repent and trust in Him can be forgiven and brought from death to life.
John then points to the gracious heart of that love. God did not love because sinners loved Him first. God loved while sinners were rebelling, and He sent His Son to be the propitiation for sin, satisfying the wrath of God at the cross. Because God so loved His people, Christians ought to love one another. His love is the motivation, the source, and the power behind the church continuing to love in word and deed.
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Key Takeaways
- 1. Love is God’s litmus test John gives love as real evidence that a person has been born of God and knows God. This kind of love is not personality, politeness, or natural affection dressed up in church clothes. It is the Spirit producing something that cannot be traced back to self-interest or the world’s definitions. [70:40]
- 2. God is the mainspring of love Love does not begin in human willpower or emotional warmth. God is the source, the riverhead, the definition itself, so Christian love flows from Him before it ever flows through His people. Assurance grows when a believer sees that self-giving love coming from the only One who can produce it. [67:39]
- 3. The cross defines true love God’s love became visible when He sent His Son into the world so sinners might live through Him. The cross strips love of sentimentality because it shows love as costly, holy, and saving. Jesus did not pay a debt He owed, but the debt guilty sinners owed. [74:36]
- 4. Grace loved before sinners responded John says love is not that sinners loved God, but that God loved them and sent His Son as the propitiation for sin. That means salvation rests on God’s gracious initiative, not human deserving, religious effort, or prior affection for Him. The wrath due to sin is satisfied in Christ for all who turn to Him in faith. [78:11]
- 5. God’s love motivates church love Because God loved His people in this way, Christians ought to love one another in that same self-giving pattern. Church love is not just words, but meals, visits, forgiveness, truth spoken in love, resources shared, and burdens carried. The church keeps loving because God’s own love is being poured out through His children.
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Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [57:33] - Hidden Love Stories in the Church
- [61:12] - Keep Loving Until Christ Returns
- [62:14] - Reading 1 John 4:7-11
- [63:50] - Love Repeated Eleven Times
- [65:12] - What Christian Love Is Not
- [66:18] - Agape as Sacrificial Love
- [67:06] - God as the Mainspring of Love
- [69:10] - Love as Assurance of Salvation
- [72:19] - God Manifested Love in Christ
- [76:08] - The Call to Trust Jesus Now
- [78:11] - Propitiation and Gracious Love
- [80:12] - Communion and Remembering Christ
- [88:43] - God’s Love Motivates Love
- [90:24] - Keep Loving One Another