Bible Reading1 Corinthians 7:25-35 “Now concerning the betrothed, I have no command from the Lord, but I give my judgment as one who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy. I think that in view of the present distress it is good for a person to remain as he is. Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be free. Are you free from a wife? Do not seek a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned, and if a betrothed woman marries, she has not sinned. Yet those who marry will have worldly troubles, and I would spare you that. This is what I mean, brothers: the appointed time has grown very short. From now on, let those who have wives live as though they had none, and those who mourn as though they were not mourning, and those who rejoice as though they were not rejoicing, and those who buy as though they had no goods, and those who deal with the world as though they had no dealings with it. For the present form of this world is passing away. I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband. I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord.”
[45:38]1 Corinthians 7:17 “Only let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him. This is my rule in all the churches.”
[01:03:20]1 Corinthians 7:20 “Each one should remain in the condition in which he was called.”
[01:03:24]1 Corinthians 7:24 “So, brothers, in whatever condition each was called, there let him remain with God.”
[01:03:28]James 4:13-15 “Come now, you who say, 'Today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit'—yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes. Instead you ought to say, 'If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.'”
[01:01:45]Observation questions- In 1 Corinthians 7:25-35, what reasons does Paul give for telling some people to remain as they are instead of seeking marriage or a change in status? [01:05:08]
- What repeated words or ideas show up in 1 Corinthians 7:17, 20, and 24 about where a believer should stand before God?
- In this passage, what different kinds of anxieties does Paul describe for unmarried and married believers? [01:15:02]
- What temporary things does Paul mention in verses 29-31, and how does he describe this present world? [01:12:00]
Interpretation questions- Paul says, “if you do marry, you have not sinned,” and yet he also says, “do not seek a wife” in view of the present distress. How can both of those statements be true at the same time? [55:36]
- Paul says his goal is not to lay a restraint on believers, but to secure undivided devotion to the Lord. What does that show about the difference between loving guidance and legalism? [01:17:17]
- The desire for marriage can become an idol when a person expects a spouse to do what only God can do. What are some signs that a good desire has started to carry too much weight? [57:06]
- Paul ties his counsel to the shortness of time and the passing nature of the world. How does thinking seriously about Christ’s return help a believer live more faithfully in ordinary life rather than less? [01:06:14]
Application questions- God often calls a person to stand where He has planted them instead of assuming that a change in circumstances will fix the heart. Where are you most tempted to think, “If this part of my life changed, everything would finally be okay”? [01:04:27]
- Marriage cannot carry God’s weight. If you are single, are you tempted to imagine marriage as the answer to your deepest ache? If you are married, are you tempted to ask your spouse to give you what only Christ can give? [59:18]
- Singleness can be used for deep devotion to the Lord, but it can also be protected for selfish reasons. If you are single, what might reveal whether your freedom is being spent for Christ or mainly for yourself? [01:00:13]
- James says, “If the Lord wills,” and Paul says to remain where God has called. What plans for the future are hardest for you to hold with an open hand before the Lord right now? [01:01:45]
- This present world is passing away, so temporary things should be held loosely. What has been taking too much of your time, emotional energy, or imagination lately, even though it will not last? [01:14:27]
- “Only what’s done for Christ will last.” If that becomes the filter for this week, what might need to change in your schedule, your spending, your conversations, or your priorities? [01:13:27]
- Anxiety needs a holy audit. What concern in your life feels heavy right now, and how can you tell whether it is a faithful concern God wants you to carry or a draining anxiety fed by fear, demands, or divided loyalties? [01:17:07]