Jonathan’s life is a powerful example of leadership that is rooted in serving others rather than seeking personal advancement. Though he was the rightful heir to the throne of Israel, Jonathan recognized the hand of God on David and chose to support and champion him, even at great personal cost. He saw that the goal—the flourishing of God’s people—was far more important than his own role or title. This kind of leadership is marked by humility, security, and a willingness to put the needs of others and the greater good above one’s own ambitions. When we lead by serving, we reflect the heart of God and become catalysts for meaningful change in the lives of those around us. [28:52]
1 Samuel 18:1-4 (ESV)
As soon as he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. And Saul took him that day and would not let him return to his father’s house. Then Jonathan made a covenant with David, because he loved him as his own soul. And Jonathan stripped himself of the robe that was on him and gave it to David, and his armor, and even his sword and his bow and his belt.
Reflection: Who in your life can you intentionally serve or champion today, even if it means putting aside your own preferences or recognition?
Jonathan’s ability to see the bigger picture allowed him to be secure in who he was and to act with humility. He did not see David’s success as a threat, but as an opportunity for the nation to thrive. When we are secure in our identity in Christ, we are freed from the need to compare ourselves to others or to tear them down. Instead, we can celebrate their gifts and support their calling, knowing that God’s purposes are always greater than our personal ambitions. This security and humility are attractive and life-giving, drawing others to us and creating an environment where everyone can flourish. [36:21]
Philippians 2:3-4 (ESV)
Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.
Reflection: In what area of your life do you struggle with insecurity or comparison, and how can you ask God to help you see yourself and others through His eyes today?
Jonathan’s devotion to God’s kingdom and the greater good of Israel was greater than his desire for self-promotion. He understood that the throne, the nation, and all its blessings ultimately belonged to God, not to him. This perspective allowed him to see David not as competition, but as God’s chosen answer for the future of Israel. When we let go of our need to be right, to be first, or to be served, we find true freedom and peace. Our ambitions are safest and most fruitful when they are surrendered to God’s direction and used for His purposes. [41:52]
Matthew 6:33 (ESV)
But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
Reflection: What is one area where you can surrender your personal ambitions to God’s greater purpose, trusting Him to use you for His kingdom?
Jonathan’s legacy is a reminder that when we invest in others, encourage them, and help them reach their God-given potential, we share in their success and experience deep fulfillment. You don’t have to be on a stage or in the spotlight to make a difference; sometimes the most significant impact comes from believing in someone when they can’t yet believe in themselves. God calls us to be encouragers, lifters, and builders—people who leave others better than we found them. When we live open-handed and open-hearted, our influence grows and we become part of God’s work in the world. [54:28]
Hebrews 10:24-25 (ESV)
And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.
Reflection: Who is one person you can intentionally encourage or affirm today, helping them see the potential God has placed in them?
God has not given us life just for ourselves, but to serve and advance His kingdom by loving and investing in people. The only thing God will rescue from this world is people, so our mission is to see others as He sees them and to serve them with His love. When we pray for God to show us how to serve others and then act on what He reveals, our lives and the lives of those around us are transformed. Let us not be content to be hearers only, but doers—living each day as big picture people who make room for one more to experience the forgiveness and healing that only Jesus can bring. [58:12]
John 13:34-35 (ESV)
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.
Reflection: Will you pray today, “God, help me see people through Your eyes and show me how I can serve them”? What is one specific action you can take in response to what He shows you?
Today, we celebrated the incredible growth and movement of God within our Canvas Church family, welcoming new members from various campuses and correctional facilities, and announcing exciting changes to our service times to make room for even more people to encounter Jesus. As we look ahead, we are committed to doing whatever it takes to reach one more person with the gospel, adjusting and flexing as needed so that no one is turned away from hearing the life-changing message of Christ.
We then turned our attention to a powerful lesson from the life of Jonathan, son of King Saul, whose story in the Old Testament offers one of the most profound examples of true, godly leadership. Jonathan’s life teaches us that leadership is not about titles, positions, or personal advancement, but about serving others, championing their potential, and being secure enough in our own identity to lift others up—even when it costs us personally. Jonathan, though the rightful heir to the throne, recognized the hand of God on David and willingly relinquished his own claim, choosing instead to support and encourage David to become the king Israel needed.
Jonathan’s big-picture thinking allowed him to see himself securely, free from the traps of inferiority or superiority. He was able to judge himself realistically, neither underestimating nor overestimating his value, and this security freed him to see others correctly. He did not view David as a threat, but as God’s chosen answer for the nation. Jonathan’s devotion to the kingdom and to God’s purposes was greater than his desire for self-promotion, and this allowed him to follow God courageously, even when it meant personal sacrifice.
We are challenged to adopt this same big-picture mentality: to see our lives as part of something much greater than ourselves, to serve others selflessly, and to invest in the potential of those around us. When we do, we not only share in their success, but we also fulfill our highest calling as followers of Christ—to love, serve, and build up others for the glory of God. May we be a people who don’t just hear these truths, but live them out daily, making it our mission to leave everyone we meet better than we found them, and to see and serve others through the eyes of Christ.
1 Samuel 18:1-4 (ESV) — 1 As soon as he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.
2 And Saul took him that day and would not let him return to his father's house.
3 Then Jonathan made a covenant with David, because he loved him as his own soul.
4 And Jonathan stripped himself of the robe that was on him and gave it to David, and his armor, and even his sword and his bow and his belt.
Leadership is about serving others, and not waiting to be served. It's about giving to others, and helping others, and seeing the value of others, and championing others more than they champion you, and blessing others more than they bless you, and seeing their value, and helping others become all that God has called them to be. That's what leadership really, really is. [00:27:48] (19 seconds) #ServeToLead
When Jonathan gave David his royal robe and his weapons, what he was actually saying was, even though I am the prince of Israel, today I see the hand of God on your life, and I relinquish all of my royal rights and power to you. I believe that you, David, are the better man to lead our nation than me, and from this day forward, I am committing my life to help you be the best king and leader you can be. [00:32:12] (27 seconds) #RelinquishForGreater
We look for a chance to champion other people, to give, not be given to, to serve, not always be served. We go first and we identify people and give to them when we realize who we are in Christ. We feel that we never have to tear someone else down in order to try to build ourselves up. We can simply stand firm on our own merits and who God has called us to be while celebrating other people's gifts and who God has called them to be. [00:39:13] (28 seconds) #ChampionOthers
Jonathan's big picture thinking allowed him to then see others correctly. When he saw himself securely, he was free to treat others the way they deserve to be treated. He was able to understand that helping David succeed was not bad for him. It was great for the nation. It was his way of truly serving his country and securing the long-term future of the people that he deeply loved. [00:39:49] (26 seconds) #ServeNationFirst
It's only when we let go, please listen, it's only when you and I let go of always having to be right. It's only when you and I let go of always having to have it our way. It's when we let go of always waiting for others to give and to serve us that we truly find the freedom and peace in our hearts and homes that we so desperately need. [00:41:29] (23 seconds) #LetGoToGrow
If serving is beneath you, then leadership is beyond you. I've noticed something about true leaders. They focus on contribution. They don't care who gets the credit. They don't care who gets the credit. They don't feel slighted when somebody else gets the credit. Real leaders love progress. They're not in love with power for power's sake. They are committed to adding the most value they can. [00:48:45] (22 seconds) #ServeToLeadBetter
May we be sold out like Rebecca and committed to the highest degree that we are not just going to be hearers of the word but that we are going to be doers of the work and that every day we get up that God allows us another day to breathe his air that we are going to see it as an opportunity to find someone and invest in them and bless them and champion them and serve them and give to them and to live our lives as big picture people realizing this life was not given to me by God for me it's not about me it's about serving and advancing the kingdom of God. [00:58:12] (41 seconds) #BelieveInOthers
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