John stood in line, shoulders tense, expecting rejection. When he reached the front, tears streamed down his beard as he took the bread. For years, religious gatekeepers had told him he wasn’t worthy. But here, grace met him at the table—not as a spectator, but as a participant. [34:02]
Jesus builds His church through broken people serving broken people. John’s story shows how communion isn’t just about receiving—it’s about being restored to serve. When we welcome others to the table, we embody Christ’s scandalous grace.
Many of us carry shame from past exclusion. But Jesus invites you to not just take, but to give. Step into serving, even if your hands still shake. Where have you let old wounds keep you from fully joining God’s team?
“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”
(Ephesians 2:10, NIV)
Prayer: Ask God to reveal one area where He’s calling you to serve, not just receive.
Challenge: Text someone today: “How can I pray for you this week?”
Paul listed apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds, and teachers—not to create hierarchy, but to highlight diversity. Like a baseball team needing pitchers and outfielders, the church thrives when all gifts work together. [23:10]
Jesus designed His body to depend on varied strengths. Prophets disrupt complacency. Shepherds bind wounds. Teachers ground us in truth. No role is “minor”—each fights for the same victory: Christ’s fullness in His people.
You weren’t meant to mimic someone else’s calling. Stop comparing your role to others’. What unique grace has God placed in you to strengthen His team?
“So Christ himself gave… pastors and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up.”
(Ephesians 4:11–12, NIV)
Prayer: Confess any envy or insecurity about your gifts. Thank God for how He wired you.
Challenge: Write down three strengths you bring to your community.
Paul insists we’re saved by grace, but also crafted for action. Like a sculptor shaping clay, God molds us not just to admire His mercy, but to leak it everywhere. [07:57]
Grace isn’t a trophy to display—it’s fuel for radical love. Jesus didn’t die to make us consumers of religious events. He died to unleash repairers of brokenness, starting in our homes and streets.
What “good work” is within your reach today? A neglected neighbor? A struggling coworker? Don’t spiritualize it—act. What ordinary space is God asking you to sanctify with His presence?
“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith… not by works, so that no one can boast.”
(Ephesians 2:8–9, NIV)
Prayer: Thank Jesus for saving you, then ask Him to make you restless until you serve someone.
Challenge: Buy groceries for a friend without explaining why.
Paul warns against spiritual infancy—being swayed by trends or fear. Maturity isn’t knowing more Bible verses; it’s wielding truth in love, like Jesus did. [19:15]
The world craves steady souls who won’t bend to outrage or apathy. Mature believers dig roots into Christ’s character, not cultural currents. They confront lies without crucifying opponents.
Where have you let noise drown out Christ’s voice? Turn off one source of chaos today. What compromise have you tolerated that needs truth’s light?
“Then we will no longer be infants… Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.”
(Ephesians 4:14–15, NIV)
Prayer: Confess one area where you’ve chosen comfort over growth.
Challenge: Delete a divisive app for 24 hours.
Jesus didn’t die to fill stadiums of passive fans. He recruits players—the addicted, the doubters, the excluded—to join His redemption game. John went from weeping spectator to communion server because someone said, “You’re up.” [35:38]
The church wins when every member touches the ball. Setup crews, prayer warriors, coffee makers—all advance Christ’s mission. Your presence matters, but your participation changes eternity.
Are you warming the bench or sweating on the field? What fear keeps you from saying “yes” to serving?
“From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.”
(Ephesians 4:16, NIV)
Prayer: Beg God for courage to step into one uncomfortable act of service.
Challenge: Sign up for a ministry team before sundown.
Ephesians 4 unpacks grace as the foundation for communal life and practical ministry. Grace does more than secure individual salvation; it reveals God’s character and commissions people to participate in good works prepared in advance. The letter moves from identity to practice, urging a community to pursue unity, deepen relational knowledge of Jesus, and grow into maturity that reflects Christ’s fullness. Church functions like a team sport: strategy, roles, and partnership matter more than individual victories. Sports imagery highlights how shared goals, repeated practice, and mutual dependence form character and strengthen relationships.
Winning in this framework looks different from scoreboard success. Winning means a uniting community committed to God and one another, growth marked by knowing Jesus rather than numerical increase, and maturity that results in transformation into Christlike service. Paul outlines five leadership gifts that cultivate these environments: apostles who activate and start initiatives, prophets who call the community toward justice and integrity, evangelists who craft welcoming spaces, shepherds who nurture healing and reconciliation, and teachers who ground the community in scripture for faithful living. Healthy congregational life recognizes and cultivates all five, understanding that gifts inform how tasks are done rather than rigid job descriptions.
Participation sits at the heart of inclusion. The vision moves beyond mere access to belonging that includes active service at the table and in the work. Practical steps encourage engagement: joining relational conversations, signing up to serve, and using the APEST assessment to discover giftings. A story of a newcomer who moves from exclusion to serving communion shows how belonging and responsibility heal and redirect lives. The overarching call emphasizes widening the circle so more people can experience the good news as both comfort and commission. The trajectory of grace in community points toward a church that is united, growing in intimate knowledge of Christ, and maturing into an others-oriented, creative, and mission-shaped body.
Now, a healthy church, a winning church, nurtures all five of these environments, identifies leaders who can help contribute to these environments. And again, I wanna make it very clear. Leadership is very important, but it's also not the end all, be all. Not everybody needs to be or or should be a leader, but all of us can contribute to each of these environments. Right? These are the environments that lead to unity and maturity and the fullness of Christ showing up in our community.
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#NurtureAllEnvironments
Now unity does not mean that we all look the same and act the same and talk the same. Unity is not uniformity. Unity is a shared commitment to God and to each other. Unity is a shared commitment to God and to each other. It is a commitment to keep the mission of God to restore his creation back to shalom at the center of everything that we do.
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#UnityNotUniformity
This might this might be pushing it a little bit. It might be heretical, but I think it is true. John or Jesus saved John's soul, but Reunion Christian Church saved his life. This is what Paul is talking about in Ephesians chapter four. This is what we are talking about here in this Carus conversation. This is what we are about as a church community here in Davis.
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#ChurchSavedHisLife
Nothing about numbers or size or anything like that. He talks about growing in the knowledge of Jesus. And then the last piece, I think that a lot of churches are focused on consuming consumption versus maturity. Maturity is is an others orientation. It's being focused on other people more than yourself, whereas consumption is purely a self orientation perspective.
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#MaturityOverConsumption
Paul says. Also, this this idea of knowledge. Now, again, in our day and age, knowledge tends to get treated like information. And we live in a moment in in history where we have more information available to us than any human beings ever. But but knowledge, the type of knowledge that Paul is talking about here is not just about information. Knowing Jesus is is relational, not informational.
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#RelationalKnowing
Second, the American church, I think, does focus on growing, but it focuses on growing numerically. No. Here's an interesting thing. Almost nowhere in the New Testament does it ever talk about numerical growth. Isn't that fascinating? When Paul talks about growth here, what does he say? He talks about growing in the knowledge of Jesus.
[00:14:14]
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#GrowthInJesusNotNumbers
The excluded, not just being included, but participating. Not just at the table, but serving the meal. Not just at the game, in the game. And so again, my question for you, are you in the game? Are you in the game? There there is a John who needs you to be in the game.
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#BeInTheGame
And he goes for a walk on a very cold February morning, and he sees the sign for the church, and he comes in. He's like, at least it'll be warm in there. And he sits in the back, and he hears the good news of Jesus, and he's greeted by some friendly people. And then again, he has this experience at the end of that gathering, where he it just all sort of hits him, and and he's weeping back there.
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#StandFirmInMaturity
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