Jesus calls us to discernment, not judgment. This means being aware of sin and addressing it with love and truth, while avoiding a condemning spirit that sets us up for judgment by the same standards we impose on others. Discernment requires wisdom and understanding, allowing us to see situations clearly and respond appropriately. It is not about ignoring wrongdoing but about approaching it with a heart of compassion and a desire for restoration. [00:50]
"Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted." (Galatians 6:1, ESV)
Reflection: Think of a situation where you have been quick to judge. How can you approach it with discernment and compassion instead?
Day 2: The Mirror of Self-Examination
Before judging others, we must examine our own lives. Often, the faults we see in others are reflections of our own. By addressing our own sins first, we can approach others with humility and grace. This self-examination is crucial because it helps us recognize our own need for growth and transformation. It prevents us from falling into hypocrisy and allows us to extend genuine love and understanding to those around us. [24:26]
"Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless indeed you fail to meet the test!" (2 Corinthians 13:5, ESV)
Reflection: What is one area in your life that you need to examine more closely? How can you begin to address it today?
Day 3: The Power of Mercy and Forgiveness
Our willingness to forgive others directly impacts how God forgives us. The parable of the unforgiving servant teaches us that mercy should be a defining characteristic of our lives. When we forgive, we reflect God's grace and open ourselves to receive His mercy. Forgiveness is not always easy, but it is a powerful act that frees us from bitterness and allows us to experience the fullness of God's love. [22:18]
"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32, ESV)
Reflection: Is there someone you need to forgive today? How can you take a step towards offering them forgiveness?
Day 4: Living with Integrity
Hypocrisy damages our witness and dishonors God. We must live by the standards we preach, ensuring our actions align with our words to avoid leading others astray. Integrity involves being consistent in our beliefs and actions, even when no one is watching. It is about being true to our faith and allowing it to guide every aspect of our lives. [13:25]
"Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out." (Proverbs 10:9, ESV)
Reflection: In what ways can you ensure that your actions align with your beliefs today? How can you demonstrate integrity in your daily interactions?
Day 5: Embracing God's Holiness
Seeing ourselves in the light of God's holiness reveals our need for repentance and transformation. This awareness should drive us to seek God's mercy and extend it to others. Recognizing our own sinfulness in contrast to God's holiness humbles us and reminds us of our dependence on His grace. It encourages us to pursue a life of holiness and to share His love with those around us. [31:46]
"As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance, but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct." (1 Peter 1:14-15, ESV)
Reflection: How does recognizing God's holiness impact your view of yourself and others? What steps can you take to align your life more closely with His holiness today?
Sermon Summary
In Matthew 7, Jesus instructs us not to judge others lest we be judged ourselves. This teaching is not a call to abandon discernment, as Jesus later advises against giving what is holy to dogs or casting pearls before swine, which requires discernment. Instead, Jesus warns against a critical and condemning spirit. When we judge others, we set the standard by which we will be judged. This is a sobering reminder that our awareness of others' wrongdoings implies our understanding of right and wrong, thus holding us accountable to the same standards.
The story of Nathan confronting David about his sin with Bathsheba illustrates this principle. David, quick to judge the rich man in Nathan's parable, was blind to his own sin until Nathan revealed it to him. This story shows that God’s judgment is just and that we often judge others more harshly than we judge ourselves. Jesus emphasizes that we should first address our own faults before pointing out the faults of others. This self-examination is crucial because our hypocrisy can lead others to blaspheme God.
Jesus also teaches that mercy and forgiveness are essential. The parable of the unforgiving servant, who was forgiven a massive debt but refused to forgive a small debt owed to him, underscores the importance of showing mercy. Our willingness to forgive others sets the standard for how God will forgive us. If we are merciful, we will receive mercy; if we are unforgiving, we will not be forgiven.
Ultimately, Jesus calls us to focus on our own spiritual condition rather than judging others. We should be more concerned with removing the "beam" from our own eye than the "speck" in our brother's eye. This introspection leads to a more authentic and humble walk with God, freeing us from hypocrisy and enabling us to extend grace to others.
Key Takeaways
1. **Discernment vs. Judgment:** Jesus calls us to discernment, not judgment. We must be aware of sin and address it with love and truth, but avoid a condemning spirit that sets us up for judgment by the same standards we impose on others. [00:50]
2. Self-Examination: Before judging others, we must examine our own lives. Often, the faults we see in others are reflections of our own. By addressing our own sins first, we can approach others with humility and grace. [24:26]
3. Mercy and Forgiveness: Our willingness to forgive others directly impacts how God forgives us. The parable of the unforgiving servant teaches us that mercy should be a defining characteristic of our lives. [22:18]
4. Hypocrisy and Integrity: Hypocrisy damages our witness and dishonors God. We must live by the standards we preach, ensuring our actions align with our words to avoid leading others astray. [13:25]
5. God’s Holiness and Our Sinfulness: Seeing ourselves in the light of God's holiness reveals our need for repentance and transformation. This awareness should drive us to seek God's mercy and extend it to others. [31:46] ** [31:46]
In Matthew 7:1-6, what distinction does Jesus make between judgment and discernment? How does this relate to the instruction about not giving what is holy to dogs or casting pearls before swine? [00:50]
How does the story of Nathan confronting David in 2 Samuel 12:1-14 illustrate the principle of judging others by the standards we set for ourselves? [06:44]
What is the main lesson from the parable of the unforgiving servant in Matthew 18:21-35, and how does it relate to the concept of mercy and forgiveness? [19:53]
According to the sermon, what are the consequences of hypocrisy in our judgment of others? [13:25]
Interpretation Questions:
How does Jesus' teaching in Matthew 7:1-6 challenge the way we typically view judgment and discernment in our daily interactions? [00:50]
In what ways does the story of Nathan and David serve as a warning about the dangers of self-righteousness and hypocrisy? [06:44]
How does the parable of the unforgiving servant highlight the importance of mercy in our relationships with others? What does this parable suggest about the nature of God's forgiveness? [19:53]
How does the sermon suggest that our awareness of others' wrongdoings holds us accountable to the same standards? What implications does this have for our personal conduct? [05:12]
Application Questions:
Reflect on a time when you judged someone harshly. How did that experience affect your relationship with them, and what could you have done differently to approach the situation with discernment rather than judgment? [04:35]
Consider the story of Nathan and David. Are there areas in your life where you might be blind to your own faults while being quick to judge others? How can you seek accountability and self-awareness in these areas? [06:44]
The parable of the unforgiving servant emphasizes the importance of mercy. Is there someone in your life you need to forgive? What steps can you take this week to extend forgiveness and show mercy? [19:53]
How can you practice self-examination to ensure that your actions align with the standards you hold others to? What practical steps can you take to address any hypocrisy in your life? [13:25]
Jesus calls us to focus on our own spiritual condition. What specific actions can you take to remove the "beam" from your own eye before addressing the "speck" in someone else's eye? [24:26]
How can you cultivate a spirit of humility and grace in your interactions with others, especially when you are tempted to judge or criticize? [27:23]
Reflect on the concept of God's holiness and your own sinfulness. How does this awareness drive you to seek transformation and extend grace to others? What changes can you make in your daily life to live more authentically and humbly before God? [31:46]
Sermon Clips
Now last study we realize that when Jesus said judge not that you be not judged he was not saying that we should not be Discerning for when we get to verse six he's going to tell us give not that which is holy to the dog neither cast your Pearls Before Swine that is a matter of Discerning the Lord doesn't mean for us to just walk around blindly oblivious to sin or to problems in people's lives. [00:40:46]
It is interesting how that whenever you do rebuke someone for sin not every time but so many times when you rebuke someone for their sin they will throw that up to you you're judging me brother uh and it is a sort of a smoke screen it's sort of to turn around the guilt to you you you know you're the guilty one because you're judging them and Jesus said judge not that you be not judged. [00:21:12]
Paul writing to the Romans said you are inexcusable oh man who soever you are that judges for wherein you judge another you condemn yourself for you do the same things so if I am doing those same things and I am judging someone else who is doing them by am I judging I'm declaring that I know better now it may be that they don't know better but if I am capable of judging them it definitely indicates that I do know better. [00:55:34]
Paul again in writing to the Romans asked you who teach others do you not teach yourself you that preach that a man should not steal do you steal you that say a man should not commit adultery do you commit adultery you who abhor Idols do you commit sacrilege you that make your boasts of the law through breaking the law do you dishonor God for the name of God is is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you. [00:12:49]
Jesus said blessed are the merciful for they shall obtain Mercy back in 2 Samuel 22 David said with the merciful you will show yourself merciful F and with the upright man you will show yourself upright and with the pure you will show yourself pure but with the forward you will show yourself unsavory in other words God will deal with me according to what I know and according to how I am how I respond and to react to what I know. [00:18:37]
The importance of mercy and the importance of forgiveness because we set the standards for ourselves how we will be judged if you are forgiving others then God will be forgiving toward you but Jesus said if you don't forgive men their Tres their trespasses neither will your father forgive your trespasses so you see we set the standards I will be judged according to how I judge if I am forgiving I will be forgiven. [00:22:03]
Paul tells us that we need to examine ourselves for if we will judge ourselves we will not be judged of God often times we are guilty of things that are far worse than the things that we are judging in others like the speck of dust compared to the beam Jesus said in another place if the blind lead the blind they will both fall in a ditch but here Jesus is talking about going to a blind optometrist. [00:24:59]
We need to see the Holiness of God and we need to see ourselves in the light of the Holiness of God and we will realize that none of us really are qualified to judge someone else we should be more interested in judging ourselves than in judging others once you get the beam out of your own eye then Jesus said you will be able to see clearly to get the speck out of your brother's eye. [00:34:21]
You remember the story of the woman that was brought to Jesus by the Pharisees who they claimed that they caught her in the very Act of adultery and that their law said that they were to Stone her and they said to Jesus what do you say and then Jesus began to write on the ground and then he stood up and he said I say he that is without sin Let Him cast the first stone. [00:34:57]
We need to be concerned with the beam in our eye more concerned with that than we are the speck in our brother's eyes in other words if you just take care of yourself you've got a full-time job and you don't need to be concerned or worried about someone else you really need to be concerned and worried about yourself living unto the Lord as would please Him. [00:37:09]
We ask your forgiveness for our often judgmental attitude towards others looking down sometimes on others and upon their sinful practices Lord we ask that you would deal with our hearts and that you would speak to our hearts and that we lord would be kind tenderhearted forgiving one another even as you have forgiven us that we would be merciful Lord patient longsuffering even as you have been so merciful and patient and longsuffering with us. [00:38:01]
May the word of God just really penetrate into our hearts and if I am guilty of judging someone else for the things that I'm doing myself maybe in just a little different coloring a Different Light May God deal with me and might may I learn to be merciful that I might obtain his Mercy on my life. [00:42:01]