In today's reflection, we explored the profound question of what it means to be a truly good person and how one can achieve such a state. In our society, we often have clear paths and mentors for achieving wealth, health, or success in various fields. However, when it comes to becoming a person of virtue and moral beauty, the path is less defined. This is a curious omission, especially when considering that throughout history, many cultures have prioritized the cultivation of goodness as a fundamental aspect of human life.
The teachings of Jesus and the writings of Peter remind us that the pursuit of goodness is not merely a religious or spiritual endeavor but a central question of human existence. Peter's words, as highlighted in 2 Peter 1:3-7, emphasize that God's divine power has provided us with everything we need for a godly life. This includes a progression of virtues: faith, goodness, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, mutual affection, and love. Each of these virtues builds upon the other, leading us toward a life that reflects the divine nature.
Dallas Willard's insights in "Renovation of the Heart" further illuminate this journey, urging us to put our best effort into what truly matters. The process of sanctification, or becoming differentiated, involves a conscious and sustained relationship with God, where we are transformed to do what is right. This transformation is not about outward appearances or experiences but about developing a track record and system of habits that align with God's will.
The concept of differentiation, as discussed by psychologist Murray Bowen, parallels the idea of sanctification. It involves developing a solid sense of self that is not dependent on others' opinions, allowing for genuine, loving relationships. This journey of becoming a truly good person is a lifelong process, one that requires intentional effort and reliance on God's inexhaustible resources of goodness.
Key Takeaways
- 1. reactive and maintaining a sense of self that is not dependent on others' opinions. [09:33]
5. Sanctification as a Process: Sanctification is a consciously chosen and sustained relationship with God, leading to transformation. It is not about outward appearances but about developing a track record and system of habits that reflect God's will.
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Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:34] - The Quest for Riches and Success
- [01:21] - The Pursuit of Goodness
- [02:06] - Historical Perspective on Virtue
- [02:47] - Jesus and the Good Person Business
- [03:13] - Peter's Words on Divine Power
- [04:10] - Participating in the Divine Nature
- [04:22] - The Path to Virtue
- [05:01] - Effort in Pursuing Goodness
- [06:05] - Developing Self-Control and Perseverance
- [06:48] - Mutual Affection and Love
- [08:07] - Understanding Sanctification
- [09:33] - Differentiation and Relationships
- [10:57] - Summary of Sanctification
- [11:56] - Closing Remarks