Journey of Faith: From Inquiry to Conviction
Summary
In every relationship, we tend to fall into one of two camps: those who jump to conclusions and those who need time to process. This dynamic is not just present in our human interactions but also in our spiritual journeys. Some, like the Roman centurion at the cross, come to faith in a single, dramatic moment. Others, like Nicodemus, need time, questions, and a process before conviction takes root. God, in His grace, honors both paths. He is not threatened by our questions or our need for due process; in fact, He welcomes sincere inquiry and patient searching.
Nicodemus, a highly educated Pharisee and member of the Sanhedrin, represents the thoughtful seeker. Despite his knowledge and religious standing, he comes to Jesus at night, still in darkness, seeking answers. Jesus meets him not with rebuke but with truth, challenging him to move beyond information and religion to experience and relationship. The call to be “born again” is not about accumulating knowledge or performing rituals, but about a spiritual transformation that only God’s Spirit can bring.
Throughout Nicodemus’s journey, we see the importance of humility. Knowledge and tradition, while valuable, can become stumbling blocks if they prevent us from seeing the truth of Christ. The religious leaders around Nicodemus were blinded by their certainty and self-righteousness, unwilling to ask even the simplest questions that could have led them to the truth. Nicodemus, however, models a different way: he asks, he listens, and eventually, he acts.
At the crucifixion, Nicodemus steps into the light, honoring Jesus with a burial fit for a king. His journey from curiosity to conviction is a testament to the patience and love of God, who allows us the space to process, question, and ultimately believe. The scales of justice, so unbalanced by the wrath poured out on Christ, are finally leveled not by our knowledge or good works, but by our faith in Jesus. God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, so that whoever believes—no matter their background, questions, or process—will not perish but have eternal life.
Key Takeaways
- God Honors the Process of Seeking
God is not impatient with our questions or our need for time. Like Nicodemus, many of us require a journey of inquiry, wrestling, and gradual understanding before faith becomes conviction. The Lord welcomes sincere seekers and is more than willing to give us the space and grace to process, as long as we approach Him with humility and honesty. [03:43]
- Information Alone Cannot Save
Nicodemus had immense religious knowledge and status, yet he remained in spiritual darkness until he encountered Jesus personally. Salvation is not the result of information or religious ritual, but of a spiritual rebirth that only the Holy Spirit can accomplish. We must not mistake knowing about God for knowing God Himself. [19:05]
- Humility Opens the Door to Understanding
The difference between Nicodemus and the other religious leaders was not intellect, but humility. While others clung to their certainty and dismissed Jesus, Nicodemus was willing to ask questions and admit what he did not know. True spiritual growth begins when we lay down our pride and allow God to reveal what we cannot grasp on our own. [21:19]
- Faith, Not Works or Knowledge, Balances the Scales
At the cross, the weight of God’s wrath and justice was overwhelming. No amount of good deeds, religious observance, or knowledge can balance the scales. Only faith in Jesus—trusting in His sacrifice and love—can bring us into right relationship with God and tip the balance toward forgiveness and eternal life. [42:47]
- The Invitation Is for All, but the Decision Is Urgent
God’s love is wide enough to include everyone—“whosoever will believe.” Yet, the opportunity to respond is not indefinite; the sun eventually goes down for each of us. We are invited to bring our questions, our doubts, and our process to God, but ultimately, we must decide to trust in Christ before it is too late. [45:10]
Youtube Chapters
[00:00] - Welcome
[01:03] - Jumping to Conclusions vs. Due Process
[03:43] - Jesus Denied Due Process
[05:32] - Introducing Nicodemus: The Thoughtful Seeker
[10:13] - Religion vs. Relationship
[17:00] - The Call to Be Born Again
[19:05] - Word and Spirit: The Means of New Birth
[21:19] - The Limits of Knowledge and the Need for Experience
[25:26] - Honest Questions and the Process of Faith
[26:50] - The Pharisees’ Self-Righteousness
[29:04] - Nicodemus Advocates for Due Process
[32:29] - The Danger of Assumptions and Missed Truth
[34:08] - The Urgency of Decision
[38:33] - Nicodemus Steps into the Light
[42:47] - Faith Balances the Scales
[45:10] - The Universal Invitation of John 3:16
[48:06] - Communion: Remembering Christ’s Sacrifice
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide
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### Bible Reading
- John 3:1-21 (Nicodemus visits Jesus at night; Jesus teaches about being born again)
- John 7:45-52 (Nicodemus advocates for due process among the Pharisees)
- John 19:38-42 (Nicodemus helps bury Jesus, stepping into the light)
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### Observation Questions
1. When Nicodemus first comes to Jesus, what time of day is it, and why might that detail be important? (John 3:2; [05:32])
2. What does Jesus say is necessary to “see the kingdom of God”? (John 3:3; [17:00])
3. In John 7, what question does Nicodemus ask the other religious leaders, and how do they respond? (John 7:51; [29:04])
4. At the crucifixion, what does Nicodemus do to honor Jesus, and what is significant about the amount of spices he brings? (John 19:39; [38:33])
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### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does Jesus challenge Nicodemus to move beyond knowledge and religious ritual to a spiritual rebirth? What does this reveal about the difference between knowing about God and knowing God personally? ([19:05])
2. How does Nicodemus’s willingness to ask questions and admit what he doesn’t know set him apart from the other religious leaders? ([21:19])
3. What does the journey of Nicodemus—from coming at night to honoring Jesus publicly—teach us about the process of coming to faith? ([38:33])
4. According to the sermon, why can’t good works or religious knowledge “balance the scales” of God’s justice? What alone can do this? ([42:47])
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### Application Questions
1. Are you more like the centurion who jumps to conclusions, or like Nicodemus who needs time to process? How has this shaped your spiritual journey so far? ([01:03])
2. Have you ever felt hesitant to bring your questions or doubts to God? What holds you back, and what would it look like to approach God with honest questions this week? ([25:26])
3. In what ways might religious knowledge, tradition, or pride be keeping you from experiencing a deeper relationship with Jesus? Is there an area where you need to lay down your certainty and ask God for understanding? ([21:19])
4. Think about a time when you saw someone else’s spiritual process and were tempted to judge or rush them. How can you better honor the process of seeking in others, as God does? ([34:43])
5. The sermon says that faith, not works or knowledge, is what “balances the scales” before God. Are there things you’ve been relying on besides faith in Jesus? What would it look like to trust Him more fully? ([42:47])
6. Nicodemus eventually stepped into the light and honored Jesus publicly. Is there a step of faith or obedience you’ve been processing but haven’t yet taken? What is holding you back, and what would it look like to move forward? ([38:33])
7. The invitation to believe is for everyone, but the opportunity is not indefinite. Is there a decision about Jesus you’ve been putting off? What would it take for you to respond before “the sun goes down”? ([45:10])
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Devotional
Day 1: The Necessity of Being Born Again
No amount of religious knowledge or good works can substitute for the spiritual rebirth that Jesus describes; only by being born again through the Word and the Spirit can anyone see or enter the kingdom of God. Nicodemus, though highly educated and deeply religious, was still in the dark about the true nature of salvation. Jesus gently but firmly redirected his questions, making it clear that spiritual transformation is not about accumulating information or performing rituals, but about experiencing a new birth from above—a work of God’s Spirit that cannot be fully explained, only received by faith. This is a humbling truth for all who think they can reason or work their way into God’s favor; instead, we are invited to trust in the mysterious, life-giving work of the Spirit. [19:05]
John 3:3-7 (ESV)
Jesus answered him, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.” Nicodemus said to him, “How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother’s womb and be born?” Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You must be born again.’”
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you have relied on knowledge, tradition, or good works instead of surrendering to the transforming work of the Holy Spirit? How can you invite God to bring new spiritual life there today?
Day 2: God Welcomes Honest Questions and the Process of Faith
God isn't threatened by your questions or doubts; He welcomes sincere seekers like Nicodemus to come with their uncertainties, and He graciously gives space for a process of discovery and faith. Nicodemus approached Jesus at night, perhaps out of fear or caution, but also out of genuine curiosity and a desire to understand. Jesus did not rebuke him for his questions or his slow journey toward faith; instead, He engaged him in meaningful dialogue, showing that God honors those who seek Him with humility and honesty. The journey from curiosity to conviction may take time, and God is patient with those who are sincerely searching, allowing them to process, ask, and wrestle until they are ready to believe. [10:13]
Psalm 34:4-5 (ESV)
I sought the Lord, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears. Those who look to him are radiant, and their faces shall never be ashamed.
Reflection: What is one honest question or doubt you have about God or faith? Will you bring it to God in prayer today, trusting that He welcomes your process and will meet you in your seeking?
Day 3: Humility Opens the Door to Understanding and Salvation
True understanding and salvation come not from pride or self-assurance, but from humility—a willingness to admit what we do not know and to receive what only God can give. Nicodemus, though a respected teacher and leader, was willing to humble himself by asking questions and admitting his confusion. In contrast, the other religious leaders clung to their self-righteousness and refused to consider that they might be wrong, missing the truth that was right in front of them. Humility allows us to move from mere information to genuine transformation, and it is the posture that God honors in those who seek Him. [21:19]
James 4:6 (ESV)
But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”
Reflection: Where do you sense pride or self-sufficiency keeping you from deeper understanding or relationship with God? What would it look like to humble yourself before Him today?
Day 4: Faith in Christ Alone Balances the Scales of Justice
No amount of knowledge, good deeds, or religious observance can balance the scales of God’s justice; only faith in Jesus Christ and His sacrifice on the cross can bring forgiveness and eternal life. The image of Nicodemus bringing 75 pounds of spices to honor Jesus’ body is a powerful reminder that all our efforts, no matter how weighty, cannot outweigh the wrath and justice poured out on Christ for our sins. It is only by placing our faith in Jesus—trusting that He is who He says He is and did what the Bible says He did—that we find the scales balanced and our hearts made right with God. [43:47]
Ephesians 2:8-9 (ESV)
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.
Reflection: Are you still trying to “balance the scales” with your own efforts, or have you fully trusted in Christ’s finished work for you? What step can you take today to rest in His grace?
Day 5: God’s Love Makes Salvation Available to All Who Believe
The heart of the gospel is that God so loved the world—every person, regardless of background, status, or past—that He gave His only Son so that anyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life. Nicodemus, after witnessing the crucifixion, finally understood the depth of God’s love, moving from law to love, from darkness to light. This invitation is open to all: the educated and the uneducated, the powerful and the powerless, the curious and the convicted. The only requirement is to believe, to receive the gift of eternal life offered through Jesus Christ. [45:10]
John 3:16 (ESV)
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.”
Reflection: Who in your life needs to hear that God’s love and salvation are available to “whoever believes”? How can you share this good news with them in a personal way this week?
Quotes
He's more than willing to allow you to process the information, to process the experiences, to go from point A to point B in a matter of time rather than just a matter of moments. Not everybody's the Roman centurion. Not everybody's going to have an instantaneous, mind -blowing, life -changing encounter with Jesus Christ in a single moment. Most of us in this room, if you're saved, you could identify the fact that you went through a process. You accumulated information. Hopefully you were courageous enough to ask some questions and you finally came to a point where, okay, I've seen enough, to know enough, to believe enough to be saved. [00:04:48] (37 seconds)
So here's Nicodemus and he approaches Jesus at night. Now you can read a handful of commentaries and get a variety of opinions why he came at night. And they're basically all correct because we don't know basically why he came at night. Was it because he wanted to do it under the cloak of secrecy? Possibly. Was it because he had worked all day and the sun went down and so he only had time to approach Jesus at night? Possibly. Possibly. But the one thing all reasonable writers understand is that in John's gospel, there's a constant contrast between light and dark, light and dark, light and dark. And it starts in chapter one because Christ is the light of man. He is the light of the world. So what John, again, it's not, if he wanted to really focus on time of day, he would have given us more description. He just wants to use the cloak of darkness to let you know that this is a highly educated, very intelligent, probably a great guy to be friends with. He is not, he's the complete opposite of Centurion would probably be it. He's not violent. He's not reckless. He's highly educated, but he's still in darkness. [00:08:29] (68 seconds)
He never even responds to what Nicodemus says. Jesus says, very truly, I tell you, truly, truly, amen, amen is what that is. I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they're born again, okay? You have seen some signs, but you have not seen the kingdom, and you're never going to see the kingdom by seeing signs. Not going to happen. The only way you see the kingdom is if you're born again. [00:17:00] (28 seconds)
Nicodemus goes, a man who earlier had visited Jesus at night, Nicodemus brought a mixture of myrrh and aloes, about 75 pounds, to anoint and prepare this body for burial. Historically, this is considered to be the weight of aloe and mixtures to prepare the body of a deceased king. [00:38:39] (26 seconds)
That he really is who he says he is. He really came to do what the Bible says he did. And he did it for one reason and one reason only. It's the verse that goes right after Nicodemus finally saying, how can this be? And Jesus did answer that by saying, for God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son. That whosoever will believe will not perish, but have everlasting life. [00:43:54] (37 seconds)
But you got to make the willful decision to believe what God did over here. He so loved the world that he gave his one and only son, but whosoever will believe, you got to balance this thing out or it's going to be all wrath and all justice. [00:45:19] (17 seconds)