Bible ReadingJonah 4 “But it displeased Jonah exceedingly, and he was angry. And he prayed to the Lord and said, 'O Lord, is not this what I said when I was yet in my country? That is why I made haste to flee to Tarshish; for I knew that you are a gracious God and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love, and relenting from disaster. Therefore now, O Lord, please take my life from me, for it is better for me to die than to live.' And the Lord said, 'Do you do well to be angry?' Then Jonah went out of the city and sat to the east of the city and made a booth for himself there. He sat under it in the shade, till he should see what would become of the city. Now the Lord God appointed a plant and made it come up over Jonah, that it might be a shade over his head, to save him from his discomfort. So Jonah was exceedingly glad because of the plant. But when dawn came up the next day, God appointed a worm that attacked the plant, so that it withered. When the sun rose, God appointed a scorching east wind, and the sun beat down on the head of Jonah so that he was faint. And he asked that he might die and said, 'It is better for me to die than to live.' But God said to Jonah, 'Do you do well to be angry for the plant?' And he said, 'Yes, I do well to be angry, angry enough to die.' And the Lord said, 'You pity the plant, for which you did not labor, nor did you make it grow, which came into being in a night and perished in a night. And should not I pity Nineveh, that great city, in which there are more than 120,000 persons who do not know their right hand from their left, and also much cattle?'”
[10:37]Exodus 34:6-7 “The Lord passed before him and proclaimed, 'The Lord, the Lord, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness, keeping steadfast love for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, but who will by no means clear the guilty, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children and the children's children, to the third and the fourth generation.'”
[11:48]Ephesians 4:26-27 “Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil.”
[19:15]Ephesians 4:31-32 “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
[38:07]Observation questions- In Jonah 4, what details show that Jonah is more upset about Nineveh receiving mercy than he is glad about their repentance? [10:37]
- What does Jonah say about God’s character in Jonah 4:2, and where else do those same words appear in Scripture?
- After God asks Jonah, “Do you do well to be angry?”, what does Jonah actually do next, and what kind of shelter does he build? [21:38]
- In Jonah 4, what things does God appoint, and how does Jonah respond to each one? [29:04]
Interpretation questions- Jonah knows that God is gracious, merciful, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love. What does Jonah’s reaction show about the difference between knowing true things about God and actually loving God’s ways? [11:48]
- God asks Jonah, “Do you do well to be angry?” If anger is like smoke, what might the fire underneath Jonah’s anger be revealing about his heart? [16:05]
- Jonah’s booth should have been a picture of dependence on God, but it becomes a place where he waits for judgment. What does that say about the way bitterness can twist even good and religious things into self-protection? [24:33]
- Jonah wants mercy for himself and justice for Nineveh. How does the cross answer that false choice between mercy and justice? [34:51]
Application questions- What tends to make anger rise quickly in this season of life—an offense, a disappointment, an old wound, a fear, a sense of unfairness? What might that anger be revealing that is burning underneath? [16:05]
- Anger is not always sin, but it becomes dangerous when it settles in and starts to feel like home. Where is there a risk of making anger an address instead of bringing it honestly before the Lord? [19:15]
- Bitterness often feels like a shelter because it gives pain a roof. Where has bitterness felt strangely comforting, even while it has started to close the heart off from joy, tenderness, or trust? [26:37]
- Sometimes the loss of comfort exposes what was already in the heart. Has there been a recent frustration, loss, or pressure that pulled the roof off and showed something deeper going on inside? [29:04]
- “Mercy for me, justice for them” can hide in very respectable places. Where is there a temptation to want God’s patience for personal failures while wanting quick judgment for someone else’s sin? [31:06]
- Every sin will be paid either in judgment or in Christ. How could trusting God with vengeance begin to loosen the grip of resentment in a real and practical relationship or situation? [39:33]
- Forgiveness is not the same as reconciliation, and boundaries can be wise. Is there someone who needs to be forgiven before God, even if rebuilding trust would take time or may not be wise right now? [41:30]