Bible reading: John 4:5-26 (ESV)
So he came to a town of Samaria called Sychar, near the field that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob's well was there; so Jesus, wearied as he was from his journey, was sitting beside the well. It was about the sixth hour. A woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” (For his disciples had gone away into the city to buy food.) The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?” (For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.) Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.” The woman said to him, “Sir, you have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? Are you greater than our father Jacob? He gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did his sons and his livestock.” Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water.” Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.” The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.” The woman said to him, “Sir, I perceive that you are a prophet. Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship.” Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father. You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” The woman said to him, “I know that Messiah is coming (he who is called Christ). When he comes, he will tell us all things.” Jesus said to her, “I who speak to you am he.”
Observation questions
- What was the woman's initial reaction when Jesus, a Jew, asked her for a drink? What does her response reveal about the social and cultural barriers of the time?
- How does Jesus describe the "living water" he offers, and how is it different from the water in Jacob's well? [26:51]
- What specific detail about the woman's life does Jesus bring to light, and how does she immediately try to change the subject afterward? [27:08]
- According to Jesus, what are the two essential components of the worship that God the Father is seeking? [16:13]
Interpretation questions
- Why do you think Jesus chose to abruptly shift the conversation from the topic of living water to the woman's personal life by telling her to call her husband?
- The woman tries to start a theological debate about the correct location for worship. Why is this a common response when people feel their personal sin or brokenness is exposed?
- Jesus says the Father seeks people to worship him in spirit and truth. What does it mean for worship to be "in truth," and how is it different from just having correct rituals?
- Jesus tells the woman he is the Messiah she is waiting for. What is the significance of him revealing his identity to her, of all people, at this moment?
Application questions
- Jesus offers a gift that reorients our thirst from temporary things to an indwelling, life-giving presence. What are some of the "temporary goods" or "earthly substitutes" you find yourself repeatedly going to in an attempt to feel satisfied or significant? [34:45]
- How easy is it to turn a "thing" into the problem—like busyness, money, or a relationship—instead of seeing the misuse of it that comes from your own heart? Can you identify a recent situation where you blamed circumstances rather than your own sinful inclinations? [33:24]
- True worship must arise from a reconciled heart empowered by the Spirit. How does knowing that God is seeking you to worship him in this way change your motivation for coming to church or spending time in prayer?
- Jesus intentionally crossed social and moral barriers to meet this woman in her need. Who in your life seems "messy" or difficult, and how can you trust that Jesus is already pursuing them, freeing you to simply be a kind and gracious presence? [37:01]
- The living water becomes a spring within, promising to overflow and bless others. In what practical ways can you let this inner satisfaction flow out to your family, friends, or coworkers this week instead of keeping it to yourself?
- The account shows that Jesus knew everything about the woman's past and still offered himself to her. What past failure or current struggle makes it hardest for you to believe that Jesus knowingly offers himself to you as the complete solution?