Intentional Spiritual Growth: Partnering with God Daily

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Nurturing a growing spirituality with depth will require a conscious intentional plan for our spiritual lives. And I think that language is really important. It's a plan for our spiritual lives. He's not saying we plan our spiritual lives because we don't. We're not in control of our spiritual formation. [00:00:48]

A rule of life is not a list of rules. I mean, you may have some dos and don'ts in your rule. That's not what it is. The Original Latin word was this word regula where we get words like regular, regulation. It's also where we get words like rule or ruler because it literally means a straight piece of wood. [00:02:48]

A rule of life is a schedule and a set of practices and relational rhythms that organize our life around the three goals of a disciple: be with Jesus, become like him, do as he did, and in doing so enable us to live in alignment and congruence with the deepest desires of our heart. [00:04:40]

We all have a rule of life, even if that language is 3 minutes old in your mental Rolodex. You already have a rule, meaning you already have some kind of a schedule instead of practices and relational rhythms that you live by. The question is not do you have a rule of life, it's do you know what it is? [00:06:35]

Practices and disciplines that slow us down, they get us back in our bodies and create time and space for us to open to God so that God can begin to develop the fruit of the spirit in us: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness through a joyful just sense of Friendship with God and just a sense of his presence and his peace. [00:11:05]

A good rule will almost always make you do less, not do more. So it's for most modern people, right? It's not actually, oh, this sounds like a lot of work. This sounds like I probably need to declutter my life to make room for God's transformation in me. [00:12:28]

Start very small, tiny habits, micro habits. Embrace spiritual poverty and humility and just start really, really small to begin to both take out and add in practices that augment the trajectory of your life. Focus on subtraction over addition, so take out of your life more than you put in. [00:20:49]

Really in the beginning, key in on practices that are deeply joyful for you. Like it's joy that leads the human heart. There is our mutual friend AJ Cheryl who an Anglican vicer writes about Upstream disciplines and downstream disciplines. And I love that kind of and what he means by Downstream disciplines are the practices or spiritual disciplines that are just are easy. [00:21:28]

A rule of life should not be aspirational. This is not a workout program that's going to get you to your goals in three months or this is not that kind of thing. I'm really helped by the image of an anchor where a ship drops anchor to stay in a certain place. [00:24:37]

Every relationship of substance is built on Rhythm and spontaneity. Yes, you know, marriage, friendship, everything. Your best friend from college that you stay in touch with, you have some rhythm of like, oh yeah, we chat on the phone every other Friday and then you have spontaneity and every year we visit a new city together. [00:25:45]

If you rely only on spontaneity to know and grow in relationship with God, the relationship will have a low ceiling on it. And if you rely only on Rhythm, the relationship will have a low ceiling on it. But spontaneity often comes from those who prioritize Rhythm. [00:26:57]

A key practice in my wife and I's relationship is a weekly date night. It's not a legalistic rule. I don't think I'm a bad husband or she's a bad wife if I'm out of town or we're too busy or we're exhausted some week and we miss it or we don't have money in the budget that month to go whatever. [00:27:05]

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