Titus stood on Crete surrounded by rebellious people. Paul commanded him to keep reminding believers: submit to authorities, avoid slander, show humility. The Cretans hated their leaders, but Titus built gospel bridges through obedience. Like police lights flashing behind you, respect disarms conflict. [44:38]
Jesus modeled radical submission. He honored corrupt tax collectors and Roman soldiers. Our obedience to human authorities reflects our ultimate submission to Christ.
This week, someone will test your patience – a boss, officer, or family member. Choose one interaction to answer with “Yes, sir” or “Thank you” instead of complaint. Where does resentment toward authority simmer beneath your polished words?
“Remind the believers to submit to the government and its officers. They should be obedient, always ready to do what is good. They must not slander anyone and avoid quarreling. Instead, they should be gentle and show true humility to everyone.”
(Titus 3:1-2, NLT)
Prayer: Ask Jesus to reveal one relationship where you’ve withheld respect. Confess any hidden bitterness.
Challenge: Write three names of people in authority. Beside each, note one way to honor them this week.
We were fools enslaved by cravings. Paul lists our old resume: malice, envy, hatred. Then comes the three-letter demolition – “BUT.” God’s kindness erupts into our sewage. Mercy, not merit, becomes our new address. [59:32]
That “but” split history. The Ephesians moved from death to life, the Colossians from alienation to reconciliation. Your story hinges on this divine interruption.
You still battle old habits. When shame whispers “You’re still that person,” grab the conjunction. What lie about your past requires a “but God” declaration today?
“Once we, too, were foolish and disobedient. We were misled and became slaves to many lusts and pleasures. Our lives were full of evil and envy, and we hated each other. BUT—when God our Savior revealed his kindness and love, he saved us, not because of the righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy.”
(Titus 3:3-5a, NLT)
Prayer: Thank Jesus for three specific “but God” moments in your life.
Challenge: Open your journal. Draw a line down the center. Left side: write a past sin. Right side: write God’s mercy response.
God didn’t dab our stains – He plunged us into cleansing floods. The Holy Spirit wasn’t rationed but poured out like monsoon rains. Your sins aren’t hidden in fog but cast into ocean depths. [01:00:42]
Mercy is God’s gut reaction to our mess. He withholds deserved blows, instead taking the strike Himself. You’re declared righteous because Mercy wore skin.
When you’re tempted to self-punish, remember the tide. What practical step reminds you that your record’s clean? Throw away an old guilt-trigger – a memento, app, or toxic thought-path.
“He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior.”
(Titus 3:5b-6, NLT)
Prayer: Confess one area where you still try to earn grace. Receive His “enough.”
Challenge: Fill a bowl with water. Dip your hands while praying: “I am washed.” Repeat after every guilt-tinged thought today.
Vince Lombardi held a football. John Wooden demonstrated socks. Champions master fundamentals. Paul told Titus: “Stress these things” – not new doctrines, but gospel core. [01:08:30]
We complicate faith with programs and politics. Jesus simplified: love God, love others. Your worn Bible and creased prayer list matter more than trending hashtags.
Audit your spiritual gear. What basic have you neglected – daily Scripture, honest prayer, serving neighbors? Choose one to relearn this week. When did “advanced Christianity” distract you from kindergarten faith?
“I want you to insist on these teachings so that all who trust in God will devote themselves to doing good. These teachings are good and beneficial for everyone.”
(Titus 3:8, NLT)
Prayer: Ask God to prune one complicated habit. Water one simple discipline.
Challenge: Text a newer believer: “What’s one Bible story/promise you cling to?” Discuss it over coffee.
Paul built leadership bridges. The pastor built a literal bridge for neighbors. Gospel influence isn’t viral posts but splintered hands meeting needs. [01:09:37]
Jesus healed before preaching. Your good works pave roads for His words. An ACTIVE faith – fixing sinks, holding hospital vigils, tutoring kids – makes grace tangible.
Today, spot one practical need: a widow’s yard, a single mom’s errand, a teen’s resume. Don’t say “I’ll pray.” Show up with tools or takeout. Whose need have you spiritualized instead of addressing?
“Our people must learn to do good by meeting the urgent needs of others; then they will not be unproductive.”
(Titus 3:14, NLT)
Prayer: Name one person you’ve judged instead of helped. Ask for serving opportunities.
Challenge: Buy $10 worth of socks. Keep them in your car. Give a pair to the next homeless person you see.
We walk through Titus 3 and hold to a small but seismic word that changes everything: but. We trace how we lived in ignorance, grasped by cravings, malice, and hostility, and how God, in mercy, interrupted that story. Mercy appears as God withholding deserved punishment, pouring out the Spirit, cleaning sins, and making us right with himself. We must keep returning to these basics, not as trivia but as the foundation that shapes every action, word, and relationship.
We commit to continual reminders of the gospel so our lives do not drift back into old patterns. The gospel rewires our public presence: we pursue respect for authorities, readiness to do what is good, and refined gentleness toward everyone. Those behaviors flow not from moral pride but from being washed, justified, and filled by the Spirit. The Spirit does not tiptoe into our lives; God saturates us so that obedience, kindness, and practical mercy become the fruit of a living union with Christ.
We also see three practical ways our renewed life expresses itself. First, we model the gospel in visible conduct at home, work, and community so others encounter the truth in ordinary moments. Second, we choose gentleness with difficult people rather than escalation; gentleness carries conviction better than wrath. Third, we meet urgent needs with hands and skills, building bridges from brokenness to blessing. Those acts of service make the gospel believable.
We return frequently to the conjunction but: it marks a before and after. Before describes exile to sin; but now describes reconciliation, holiness, and inheritance by grace. If we remember where we came from and what God has done, our devotion to doing good follows naturally. We resolve to live as the living proof of mercy, to be agents who meet needs and invite others across the bridge from rebellion into righteousness.
But when God, our savior, revealed his kindness and his love, He saved us not because of the righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. Church, you don't have to have your act together to become a believer. You just have to trust in the perfect sacrifice of Jesus Christ, and you get all the benefits of that salvation that comes after the conjunction. But you get holiness. You get righteousness. You get forgiveness. You get his mercy. You get his love. You get his grace. Church, these things are things we need to be reminded of.
[00:59:45]
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#SavedByMercy
He saved us. He saved us by washing away our sins. Our sins are like the words on a seashore, taken away, washed away, forever removed from his sight. East is to west. We are the ones. We are the ones who remember them and bring them back and think, you see, Satan, you're right. Yeah. I'm I'm I'm such a broken person. I've messed up. I've screwed up. And, no, I don't deserve that blessing. And we take away the blessing that god wants us to have because we've listened to the wrong voice.
[01:02:11]
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#SinsWashedAway
You should memorize that. Amen. Every single one of us who's accepted the conjunction but, not how we were, but how we are, you are holy in his sight. Amen. You are holy, church. Amen. You are without blemish, church. You don't have any scars. You don't have any wrinkles. You are perfect in his sight. You are free from accusation. And who's making accusations against you? Satan. He's going, hey. Did you see what Paul did? Have you have you have you heard him? Have you listened to him? Have you you know what he's thinking?
[00:58:18]
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#YouAreHoly
These truths, Paul writes to Titus, these truths need to be stressed. Stressed, constantly reminded. Every morning, constantly remind yourself of the gospel, how I'm saved. Constantly remind yourself of the truth. Wow. It's by his mercy. It's by his love. It's by his grace that I am saved. I am filled with his spirit. I am washed clean. I am forgiven. I am not guilty. How how can you not have a great day? How can you not have a wonderful day? How can you not walk out and go, woo hoo. Go Jesus. Go. Let's do it. No matter how hard your challenges are.
[01:05:00]
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#RememberTheGospel
Do good by being a visible a visible example. Paul writes to Titus, and everything set for them an example of what is good. You're at home. Do good. Set an example for what good is to your spouse. Set an example of what good is to your children. Set an example of what good is to your relatives. Those people in your familial circle. You're at work. You're in school. Set an example for what good is. Set an example. Everybody's watching, so set a good example. Here, you're an example for other people to follow.
[01:07:10]
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#BeTheExample
People should be able to see the gospel working in your habits, in your heart, and in the way that you live. Church, be an example of the gospel. Number two, treat difficult people gently. Treat difficult people gently. Do good with your words. Refuse to trash talk people or trash or speak trash about people. Right? Don't stir up fights online. Work at home and in the church. Choose gentleness when your flesh wants to be sarcastic, when your flesh wants to be harsh, or when you just wanna hit somebody in the throat.
[01:08:24]
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#GentleWithEveryone
Wow. You call yourself a Christian. We need to live differently than the people in Crete. You call yourself a Christian. We need to live different than the people in California. We call yourself a Christian. We live in a culture whose pastime pastime is insulting those in leadership. Who's pastime who makes millions of dollars on getting more likes, more clicks, whatever by saying mean, evil, rotten things against evil, rotten people. We've gotta be different. We've gotta we've gotta attract them to Christianity instead of being just like the rest of the culture, insulting, demeaning, and besmirching those people who think differently than us.
[00:48:49]
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#DistinctiveChristianity
Be ready to do whatever is good. If someone curses you, don't return a curse for a curse. Return a curse for a blessing. If someone speaks ill of you, don't return that illness, that bitterness, that hatred towards you with bitterness, evil, and hatred. Return it with a blessing. Be a blessing. You cannot be a blessing if you are cursing other people. Church, continually remind the people to be respectful, ready, and refined. Refined. Look what it says. To slander no one, to be peaceable, to be considerate, to always be gentle towards everyone,
[00:47:14]
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#RespondWithBlessing
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