As believers, we are called to be imitators of God, walking in love as Christ loved us. This love is not superficial or self-serving but is characterized by self-sacrifice and a rejection of self-indulgence. It is a reflection of our identity as God's beloved children, empowered by the Holy Spirit to live out this love in our daily lives. This transformation is not achieved through our own efforts but through the Spirit's work within us, enabling us to embody the love of Christ in all we do. [04:32]
Ephesians 4:1-2 (ESV): "I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love."
Reflection: Who in your life needs to experience the self-sacrificial love of Christ through you today? How can you practically demonstrate this love to them?
Day 2: Pursuing Holiness Over Happiness
God's primary concern for us is our holiness, not our happiness. While happiness may be a byproduct of a holy life, the focus is on being purified and conformed to the image of Christ. This process involves discipline and challenges, which are expressions of God's love for us. Understanding that God's goal is our holiness helps us to embrace the trials and discipline we face, knowing they are shaping us to be more like Christ. [07:20]
Hebrews 12:10-11 (ESV): "For they disciplined us for a short time as it seemed best to them, but he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it."
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you feel God is disciplining you? How can you embrace this discipline as an expression of His love and a path to holiness?
Day 3: Understanding God's Wrath
God's wrath is not an impulsive reaction but a settled response to sin. It reflects His holiness and love, aimed at eradicating all that is destructive. Recognizing the reality of God's wrath helps us appreciate the seriousness of sin and the need for repentance. It is a call to live in a way that aligns with God's holy nature, understanding that His opposition to sin is rooted in His desire for our ultimate good. [38:08]
Nahum 1:2-3 (ESV): "The Lord is a jealous and avenging God; the Lord is avenging and wrathful; the Lord takes vengeance on his adversaries and keeps wrath for his enemies. The Lord is slow to anger and great in power, and the Lord will by no means clear the guilty."
Reflection: Is there a sin in your life that you have been downplaying or ignoring? How can you bring this before God in repentance and seek His help to turn away from it?
Day 4: Justification and Sanctification
Justification is a legal declaration of righteousness, while sanctification is the ongoing process of being made holy. True justification is always accompanied by sanctification, evidenced by a life that reflects our new identity in Christ. This is not about legalism but about living out the reality of who we are in Christ, allowing the Holy Spirit to transform us into His likeness. [27:15]
Philippians 2:12-13 (ESV): "Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure."
Reflection: In what ways can you actively participate in your sanctification process today? What steps can you take to align your actions with your identity in Christ?
Day 5: Living with an Eternal Perspective
Our actions have eternal consequences, and we are accountable to God. We are called to live with an eternal perspective, recognizing that our hope is in the kingdom of God. This involves rejecting empty words and living in a manner worthy of our calling, understanding that our true inheritance is not in this world but in the eternal kingdom. [36:31]
Colossians 3:1-2 (ESV): "If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth."
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you are overly focused on temporary, worldly concerns? How can you shift your focus to align with an eternal perspective today?
Sermon Summary
In today's reflection, we delved into the profound truths found in Ephesians 5, focusing on the call to be imitators of God as His beloved children. This call is not merely about external conformity but about embodying the self-sacrificial love exemplified by Christ. We are reminded that our journey in faith is not about becoming something we are not through our own efforts, but about becoming who we already are in Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit. This transformation is rooted in the understanding that God's ultimate goal for us is holiness, not just happiness.
The passage challenges us to examine our lives, urging us to reject self-indulgence and embrace self-sacrifice. It is a call to live in a manner that reflects our identity as children of God, marked by purity and thanksgiving rather than immorality and greed. The apostle Paul warns us against being deceived by empty words that downplay the seriousness of sin and the reality of God's wrath. Instead, we are to understand that God's discipline is an expression of His love, aimed at purifying us and making us more like Christ.
The sermon also addressed the common misconception that once we are justified, our lifestyle is inconsequential. On the contrary, true justification is always accompanied by sanctification. The evidence of our justification is seen in a life that is progressively being conformed to the image of Christ. This is not about legalism but about living out the reality of our new identity in Christ. We are reminded that God's wrath is not a capricious outburst but a settled opposition to all that is destructive and contrary to His holy nature.
In conclusion, the message is a call to live with an eternal perspective, recognizing that our actions have consequences and that we are accountable to God. It is a reminder that our hope is not in this transient world but in the eternal kingdom of God, where we are called to live as heirs, reflecting His holiness and love.
Key Takeaways
1. Imitating God in Love: We are called to be imitators of God, walking in love as Christ loved us. This involves self-sacrifice and rejecting self-indulgence, reflecting our identity as God's beloved children. Our transformation is not through our own efforts but through the power of the Holy Spirit. [04:32]
2. Holiness Over Happiness: God's primary concern is our holiness, not our happiness. While happiness may be a byproduct, the focus is on being purified and conformed to the image of Christ. This process involves discipline and challenges, which are expressions of God's love. [07:20]
3. The Reality of God's Wrath: God's wrath is not an impulsive reaction but a settled response to sin. It is a reflection of His holiness and love, aimed at eradicating all that is destructive. Understanding this helps us appreciate the seriousness of sin and the need for repentance. [38:08]
4. Justification and Sanctification: Justification is a legal declaration of righteousness, while sanctification is the ongoing process of being made holy. True justification is always accompanied by sanctification, evidenced by a life that reflects our new identity in Christ. [27:15]
5. Living with Eternal Perspective: Our actions have eternal consequences, and we are accountable to God. We are called to live with an eternal perspective, recognizing that our hope is in the kingdom of God. This involves rejecting empty words and living in a manner worthy of our calling. [36:31] ** [36:31]
What does Ephesians 5:1-2 say about how we should walk in love, and how is this love defined? [02:28]
According to Ephesians 5:3-4, what behaviors are considered improper for saints, and what should replace them? [02:42]
How does the sermon describe the relationship between justification and sanctification? [20:11]
What warning does Paul give in Ephesians 5:6 about being deceived, and what are the consequences mentioned? [03:07]
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Interpretation Questions:
How does the concept of imitating God as beloved children challenge our understanding of self-sacrifice versus self-indulgence? [04:45]
In what ways does the sermon suggest that God's discipline is an expression of His love, and how does this relate to our pursuit of holiness? [09:04]
How does the sermon explain the seriousness of sin in light of God's wrath, and what does this imply about our need for repentance? [38:08]
What does it mean to live with an eternal perspective, and how does this affect our daily decisions and actions? [36:31]
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Application Questions:
Reflect on your daily life: Are there areas where you are more self-indulgent than self-sacrificial? What steps can you take to align more closely with the call to imitate God in love? [04:45]
Consider a recent challenge or discipline you faced. How can you view this as an opportunity for growth in holiness rather than just a source of unhappiness? [07:20]
Think about the influences in your life. Are there "empty words" or deceptive messages you need to reject to stay true to your identity in Christ? How can you guard against these influences? [03:07]
How can you actively pursue sanctification in your life? Identify one specific area where you can seek to grow in holiness this week. [20:11]
In what ways can you cultivate an eternal perspective in your daily routine? What practical changes can you make to focus more on God's kingdom rather than temporary concerns? [36:31]
Reflect on your understanding of God's wrath. How does this understanding impact your view of sin and your relationship with God? [38:08]
Identify one person in your life who may be struggling with understanding the balance between justification and sanctification. How can you support or encourage them in their faith journey this week? [20:11]
Sermon Clips
"Therefore, be imitators of God as beloved children and walk in love as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and a sacrifice to God. But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints." [00:02:18]
"Paul moves from the more doctrinal section of the book in the first three chapters to the moral and ethical impact of it all. Although having said that, we've noted almost immediately and consistently that all of his moral imperatives are grounded in what we've become accustomed to referring to as the doctrinal indicatives." [00:03:35]
"God's interest in us is not our happiness, which may be a byproduct, but it is in our holiness. This is not an emphasis unique to Ephesians. For example, when he writes to Titus in chapter 2, encouraging Titus in Crete to be a minister of the gospel, he reminds Titus to remind his people that he, that is Jesus, gave himself for us." [00:07:20]
"Every good earthly father disciplines his children. It's a nonsense to think that ill-disciplined or undisciplined children are a testimony to anybody at all. And so the writer argues from the lesser to the greater and he quotes the Old Testament and he says, have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons?" [00:08:31]
"God disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. So the disciplinary action of God in our lives, the fashioning of us, we could say quite honestly that just in the same way that there are times when we have had occasion to go up to our bedrooms greatly discouraged and unhappy because of the intervention of our earthly fathers." [00:09:56]
"God does not justify those whom he does not sanctify. Those who were predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified. So you can't take one piece of the puzzle and separate it from the unfolding drama of God in salvation." [00:20:08]
"Justification is an act of God's free grace, wherein he pardons all our sins and accepts us as righteous in his sight, only for the righteousness of Christ imputed to us and received by faith alone. So in the same way that a judge is able to declare the person in the dock free from condemnation." [00:26:08]
"Sanctification is the work of God's free grace, whereby we are so renewed in the whole man after the image of God and are enabled more and more to die unto sin and to live unto righteousness. So the one is, if you like, legal and forensic; the other is moral and ongoing." [00:27:40]
"Paul says, do not let, do not be deceived by vain and empty words. You say, well, we don't have that today, do we? Are you kidding me? Think of all the empty words that are part and parcel of our everyday life. God, they say, people say, if he exists, is far too kind to punish anyone." [00:32:01]
"The wrath of God is not the fiery outburst of a dad who's lost his temper and kicked the cat and driven his car into the wall. No, it's not like that at all. It is the settled response of the entire holiness and character of God to everything that he knows is marring and spoiling and disappointing and just destroying life." [00:38:08]
"Paul, you can just almost hear his heart, can't you? What are you going to do about this in light of the fact that it is appointed unto man once to die, and after this comes the judgment? If you go to funeral services much, and some of you do, it's almost an occupational hazard the older we get." [00:39:55]
"The ground of our salvation is in the work of Jesus Christ for us, not as a result of something done in us, definitely not done by us. But the evidence of the fact that we have been brought into the realm of the justified is in the ongoing of his work in us." [00:41:38]