If You're Real, Help Me | God, If You're Real | Menlo Church Live Stream

``Doubt is what drives both of them. We get a choice of what we'll do with our doubt, whether you're a person of faith or not. And as we've already said over these last couple weeks, doubt is not the enemy. Doubt honestly expressed is actually a catalyst. It can be the most spiritually productive posture that someone can have because it forces us past the easy answers of simple faith to a discovery process that draws us closer to God himself. That as we get older, as we grow wiser, as we lean in more with God, we can find him more beautiful because he can handle the complexities of a life that feels overwhelming to us. The problem isn't doubt. The problem is what we do with it. [00:51:35] (45 seconds)  #DoubtAsCatalyst

``The writer of Hebrews is saying God doesn't watch from a distance in your in my life. That whatever you're feeling as big as you're feeling it, God is feeling it even bigger. He suffers with you, and he still is. So with all that as a backdrop, I don't think that Jesus was leading with annoyance or performance. I think what's most likely is he was leading with significance. He asked this question, who touched me? He wasn't making an accusation. He wasn't trying to blame someone. He was trying to ascribe this woman value. Jesus felt something happen and he wasn't gonna just walk past the moment. Jesus wasn't trying to make an example of her. He wasn't trying to solve a problem because she wasn't a problem to be solved. She was a person to be loved. This moment wasn't a throwaway moment because she wasn't a throwaway person even if people had been throwing her away for twelve years. [00:47:56] (57 seconds)  #JesusSeesYou

``You know, one of the ways that I think this can feel like is think about a glass under a running faucet and you can pour a little bit out and go, okay, my day feels a little bit better, my week feels a little bit better, but the faucet is just gonna keep running. And if you would let it run for a while and overflow, you may remember or realize for the first time that you were never meant to take all the stresses and all the pressures and all the problems of a broken world onto yourself. That actually if you feel that, if you will allow your heart or your head to reckon with that difference, you will properly understand your finite nature in the span of God's infinite reality. [00:56:08] (41 seconds)  #StopCarryingItAll

``How do you close the distance in your faith from something you limit to your control to something you expand to God's domain even if it requires you to let go? Most of our doubts, they come from something that we've been trying to manage unsuccessfully, something we can't fix, something we can't find out on our own. And the invitation of this story is to stop trying to manage it on your own, to realize that desperation is not weakness. Desperation is an accurate assessment of your reality. What if God's activation in your situation is actually waiting for your desperation first? If you knew that to be true, would you be desperate? Would you let yourself go there? Would you stop distracting yourself? Would you stop trying to fix it on your own? [00:58:17] (46 seconds)  #DesperationInvitesHelp

``I don't care what your net worth is, how sophisticated your personal coping skills are, from the greatest of the world's standards to the least, the cosmic scale of the gap between our capacity to understand and God's immediate and eternal cosmic reality, if that's not overwhelming to you, if that doesn't make you desperate about something, it's because we're so distracted we haven't noticed. Desperation isn't for the least prepared in life. It's for the most aware in life. For the people who are finally willing to admit what they know under the surface all along. They need help, and God is the only one who can really deliver it. Even if it's not the kind of help that you always want, even if it's not the kind of help you would necessarily ask for, the woman in our story, she arrived way faster at it because she had run out of other options. And we see her in a moment, but it took her twelve years to get to this moment. [00:57:12] (58 seconds)  #DesperationForTheAware

``God wants you and me to pursue him. We'll never bother him. Genuine desperation knows you can't bother God. He loves and longs for us to long for him. He is looking for you and me to reach, And when we do, we will find a deeper faith and deeper answers and deeper questions than we could find on our own. Cynicism will tell you this is a nice story about a person you've never met. Cynicism will keep you protected from hope in the cocoon of a critical spirit. Some of you, you need to hear this. That is killing your faith. It's killing your relationships. It's killing distance over and over with people around you. Desperation isn't for the least prepared in life. It's for the most aware in life. Let's aim for that. Desperation has nothing left to lose by reaching to God. [00:59:48] (51 seconds)  #ReachForGod

``If your doubt is about a God who can let bad things happen to good people, my guess is that there's specific bad thing that happened to a specific good person that you're really upset about. Talk to God about that. Then ask God for help. And not just help for you to understand it more, not just help for you to think about it in a certain way, but for God's direct and clear intervention about the area of your life or the area of the world that's out of your control and you feel desperate about. And he may not do exactly what you want, but that's okay. The point is connection. He wants to deliver hope through connection. Now Christian cynicism, it will assume that there's a really good reason why God hasn't done the thing you're praying for anyway, so why bother him with it? That's cynicism too. [00:59:03] (45 seconds)  #TalkToGodAboutIt

``This wasn't just physically exhausting or socially limiting under Jewish law. This was spiritually separating. As a matter of fact, someone with this kind of disorder at this time was considered ritually or ceremonially unclean. She couldn't participate in worship. She couldn't touch other people without infecting them and making them unclean. She couldn't even be touched by others. She, had been socially and religiously quarantined longer than we stayed quarantined in the Bay Area during COVID. This was a long time. That was a joke. Everyone who had loved her would have had to pull back if they didn't want the same social and religious sentence that she'd been given. She had become invisible, untouchable, and forgotten. [00:39:54] (51 seconds)  #InvisibleNoMore

``But that's not what happened. See, Jesus stops because even though he didn't see her, he felt something. Luke shares the moment this way. Jesus said, who was it that touched me? When all denied it, which is funny because definitely more people than just her touched her even just by being close. Peter said, master, the crowds surround you and are pressing in on you. But Jesus said, someone touched me for I perceive that power has gone out from me. Jesus stops in the middle of the crowd pressing in on him on his way to a dying child with a powerful leader waiting on him and asks, who touched me? The short answer to that question is, everybody touched you, Jesus. But that's not what he was asking. [00:42:37] (42 seconds)  #HeFeltIt

``Now if you've been in church for a while, that sounds that makes sense. Yeah, of course. God, woman, daughter, sure, checks out. This is the only time in all four gospels that Jesus calls anyone by that name. Not a title, not a category, a familial relationship with a woman he's never met before who everyone had worked so hard for the last twelve years to ignore. In one word, he gives her back an identity and a condition that her other condition had taken from her for twelve years. In a moment, she got back her health, her place, her belonging, her significance in a family of God that maybe she'd never had before. Jesus says, daughter, your faith has made you well. Go in peace. She came into the crowd invisible, untouchable, forgettable, but she left named, she left healed, and she left sent to a life that she thought was completely unrecoverable. [00:49:56] (63 seconds)  #RestoredAndNamed

``Now, the harder exit that's far easier to live because it's honest, is desperation. And that's what we see in this woman. Desperation isn't weakness. It's not a character flaw or spiritual failure or evidence that you haven't worked hard enough on your spiritual life. Desperation is actually need on display. It is a correct assessment of the world and your life. It's what honestly looks like when our own effort finally falls short, and it always falls short. Not quickly maybe, but over time, you try to hide it for a while and eventually you can't. [00:54:25] (36 seconds)  #DesperationIsHonest

``The addiction that you feel like you used to manage and now it's managing you. The grief of a loss that you still feel even though the cards and the meal trains and the services and the check-in stopped a while ago, the anxiety that feels so constant that you're not sure who you can trust, including yourself, things that would surprise people that are the closest to you that you feel like are actually the truest things about you right now. If that's you, there's a woman in Luke eight who knows exactly the weight that you're feeling. She's been carrying hers for twelve years, and what happens when she finally runs out of options, when she finally sees the situation for as clear as it really is, is this honest and risk taking step, one of the most honest and risk taking steps in the entire New Testament. And it holds something for you and me. It holds a truth about how God often shows up in our life. [00:35:55] (52 seconds)  #SharedBurden

``Now I don't know about you, but I'm guessing that she had spent more than just what she had. If you have people in your life that are close to you and they've gone through difficult medical journeys or difficult circumstances in their life, you don't just burn through what you have. I bet she burned through every friend on her contact list to get money and connections and resourcing for second and third opinions over and over again from the best conventional medicine and the the highest compensated doctors and experts at the time to the most extreme experimental solutions just trying to find something. And she is at this moment at her peak of desperation. She has tried everything for a dozen years and none of it's worked. Think about that. Twelve years is not a bad season. [00:38:58] (45 seconds)  #TriedEverythingForYears

``The problem is what we do with it. Now the easy exit, like the easy choice but it's tough to live with, the easy exit of doubt is cynicism. And I wanna name what cynicism actually is because we dress it up. Right? We dress it up as intellectually honest and sophisticated skepticism. We dress it up as kind of the adult version of been there, done that, I have the t shirt. I remember when I thought God could do that. I remember when I thought that the Bible was true. I remember when I thought that God could make a difference in my life, but I've I've graduated past that. That's cynicism. And underneath it, cynicism is just pride in disguise. Oftentimes, it's self protection because of pain you've gone through. It's this decision to stay at a safe distance from anything that might disappoint you, that you'll never have to be wrong, you'll never have to be vulnerable, that you'll never have to admit that you tried something or trusted someone that failed you. [00:52:17] (55 seconds)  #CynicismIsPride

``Cynicism, it feels like wisdom, but it's really just a version of self protection that we've learned to add the language of wisdom to in order to cover our tracks in conversations. You can spot it in yourself with some common symptoms. If you find yourself more interested in the problems of faith than the possibilities that it contains for you, that's probably cynicism. If you have a a ready answer for every piece of evidence that God might be real and you deploy it like a reflex in conversations before you even hear what someone else might have to say, that's cynicism. Maybe every example of God working, it dates back years for you. You just keep avoiding them. You keep trying to forget. If you have a pile of suggestions for every sermon you hear but you really struggle to hear God and what he might be asking you to do or reflect on in the midst of it, that's probably cynicism. And it will protect you from being disappointed. It will also protect you from connection. [00:53:12] (65 seconds)  #CynicismBlocksConnection

``She's lost all the money that she's ever saved, all the friends that she ever knew, and now she's at this place that we might call rock bottom, but to her, it's just like this is where my life ends. Right? This is the end of it. She's in a crowd that's watching Jesus go to someone that everybody would have described as more important than her, and she makes a decision. She makes a bold, desperate decision. She doesn't stand up and call for attention. She doesn't make her argument or a case for it. She doesn't make a request. She doesn't offer a speech. There's no proclamation of the power of Jesus. There's just a thought. If I can touch the edge of his robe, then I think something might happen. [00:40:56] (39 seconds)  #BoldQuietFaith

``The immediate symptoms, they attack the things that you're often really good at. It attacks things like clear thinking, sound decision making, emotional resilience, the ability to trust other people. All of that is being undermined because your body was not designed to do this forever. You can you can feel that stuff slipping. We can all feel it. The division in our country, the division in our community, the division in our world right now is not normal. And I'm not just trying to make, like, a political statement. I'm I'm saying that as a social diagnosis of the reality that we are always on, and our bodies, minds, and I would say souls, were not designed to function like this. [00:30:42] (39 seconds)  #StressStealsClarity

``And what we're gonna continue to do is communicate that if you're a follower of Jesus, you have a king, king Jesus. You are a part of a kingdom, the kingdom of heaven, and it has no end. And as we live as citizens in this world, grateful for it, we pray for peace. We pray for hope. We pray for wisdom for leaders, even those that we disagree with, maybe for you, especially those you disagree with. But we're gonna be a place that people who see things differently politically can continue to pursue Jesus together, because that's what the church has done for thousands of years. So no matter where you find yourself, if that feels to you like it's not enough, I'm just telling you that the opportunity for all of us, no matter where you find yourself in connection to faith, is that God really does wanna help. [00:33:02] (54 seconds)  #GodWantsToHelp

``Everybody else has denied touching Jesus, and she kind of comes shuffling in, bracing for some combination of his response between annoyance, performance, maybe something worse than the entire walk up, clearing her throat, falling at his feet, and she tells him everything. Now remember, she's been healed. She knows that nobody else does. And in the midst of that, she tells him about the twelve years, all the doctors, the illness, the people that had walked away from her, the money that's been spent, all of it, in public, in front of a crowd that is now curious if her presence has become a problem for their religious adherence. [00:49:08] (38 seconds)  #SheToldHerStory

``Think about the number of times she'd been given medicine. I was like, well, let's just keep trying this. Let's just let's do another treatment. Let's keep trying that. Let's see this doctor. Oh, well, it seems like maybe things are getting better. She knew what it was like to get gaslit for twelve years to see if a medical treatment might eventually help. And now, in a moment, she experiences complete and total healing. And in some ways, this is like the best case scenario, isn't it? She's healed and Jesus isn't slowed up at all. Jesus doesn't even see her. [00:42:06] (31 seconds)  #HealingAfterTwelveYears