Honoring Leadership and Embracing Our Unique Roles

 

Summary

In today's sermon, we delved into 1 Timothy 5:17-25, focusing on the principles of church leadership and the importance of honoring those who serve in ministry. We began with a prayer, asking God to speak through His word and to change us in some way. Timothy, a young pastor in his 30s, was leading a church that was veering off course, and Paul wrote to encourage and guide him. Paul emphasized that elders who direct the church's affairs are worthy of double honor, especially those who preach and teach. He also laid out guidelines for handling accusations against elders, stressing the need for multiple witnesses to ensure fairness.

One of the key points discussed was the difficulty ministry leaders often face in receiving honor and recognition. As a pastor, I shared my personal struggle with accepting compliments and praise, emphasizing that ministry is not about us but about how God works through us. God uses leaders to help others in their time of need and to grow spiritually so they can be an encouragement to others.

Timothy was someone who felt he had to do everything perfectly to set an example for the church. However, Paul reminded him that he was human and saved by grace. This was a significant encouragement, highlighting that it's okay to take care of oneself and that perfection is not a requirement for being a good leader.

We then moved on to appreciate and recognize the various leaders and pastors in our church. I called up Josh, Janelle, David, Derek, Matt, and McCain, acknowledging their hard work and dedication. Each of them plays a crucial role in different areas of ministry, from building usage to youth leadership and young adult ministry. Their efforts often go unnoticed, but they are vital to the church's functioning and growth.

I also extended this appreciation to the board members and other volunteers who contribute in various ways, such as providing rides, serving coffee, and simply offering a smile. Every act of service, no matter how small, is a ministry if it stems from a relationship with Christ. I shared a personal story about my father, who was proud of my brother and me despite our disabilities, drawing a parallel to how God views us as His children. We are loved and valued by God, not for what we do but for who we are.

Discipline and correction are also part of our journey as children of God. While Paul's instructions were specific to a particular church and time, the principles still apply to us today. Serving and loving God is always good, and we don't need to constantly proclaim our faith verbally. Often, our actions and the way we live our lives speak louder than words. People will recognize us by our love and the way we reflect Christ in our daily interactions.

I concluded by encouraging everyone to embrace their unique roles and seasons in life. God created each of us with different tasks and experiences, and we should not envy others but rather find joy in our own journey. Whether it's teaching someone to ride the bus or any other act of service, God can use us to bless others. Remember, God is good, and we are His children. People can like us exactly as we are, and we should follow Jesus wholeheartedly.

### Key Takeaways

1. Honoring Church Leaders: Elders and pastors who direct the church's affairs and preach are worthy of double honor. It's essential to recognize and appreciate their hard work and dedication, even though they often go unnoticed. This acknowledgment not only encourages them but also strengthens the church community. [24:23]

2. Ministry is About God, Not Us: As leaders, it's crucial to remember that ministry is not about personal accolades but about how God works through us. Our role is to be vessels for God's work, helping others in their time of need and growing spiritually to encourage others. This perspective helps maintain humility and focus on God's purpose. [26:02]

3. Grace Over Perfection: Timothy's struggle with perfectionism is a common issue among leaders. Paul’s reminder that we are saved by grace and not by our works is a powerful encouragement. It's important to take care of oneself and understand that being a good leader doesn't mean being perfect. [27:35]

4. Every Act of Service is Ministry: Whether it's providing rides, serving coffee, or offering a smile, every act of service is a ministry if it stems from a relationship with Christ. This broadens the understanding of ministry, showing that everyone has a role to play in God's kingdom, regardless of how small it may seem. [31:10]

5. Embrace Your Unique Role and Season: God created each of us uniquely, with different tasks and experiences. We should not envy others but find joy in our own journey. God can use us in our current season to bless others, and we should embrace our unique roles with gratitude and purpose. [37:27]

### Youtube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[24:23] - Background on 1 Timothy
[26:02] - Honoring Church Leaders
[27:35] - Grace Over Perfection
[29:08] - Appreciation for Pastors
[31:10] - Every Act of Service is Ministry
[33:11] - We Are Children of God
[35:05] - Living Out Our Faith
[37:27] - Embrace Your Unique Role and Season

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1 Timothy 5:17-25

#### Observation Questions
1. What does Paul mean by saying that elders who direct the church's affairs are "worthy of double honor"? ([24:23])
2. According to the sermon, why is it important to have multiple witnesses when handling accusations against elders? ([24:23])
3. How did Timothy's struggle with perfectionism affect his leadership, and what was Paul's advice to him? ([27:35])
4. What are some examples of acts of service mentioned in the sermon that are considered ministry? ([31:10])

#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why might Paul emphasize the need for "double honor" for those who preach and teach? How does this principle apply to our church today? ([24:23])
2. How can the concept of ministry being about God and not us help leaders maintain humility and focus? ([26:02])
3. In what ways does understanding that we are saved by grace, not by works, impact our approach to leadership and service? ([27:35])
4. How does recognizing every act of service as ministry broaden our understanding of our roles within the church? ([31:10])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you found it difficult to accept recognition or honor for your service. How can you shift your perspective to see it as an acknowledgment of God's work through you? ([26:02])
2. Think about the leaders in your church. How can you practically show them "double honor" this week? ([24:23])
3. Are there areas in your life where you struggle with perfectionism? How can you remind yourself of God's grace in those moments? ([27:35])
4. Identify a small act of service you can do this week that stems from your relationship with Christ. How can you see this as part of your ministry? ([31:10])
5. How can you embrace your unique role and season in life without comparing yourself to others? What specific steps can you take to find joy in your current journey? ([37:27])
6. Reflect on how your actions and the way you live your life can speak louder than words about your faith. What changes can you make to better reflect Christ in your daily interactions? ([35:05])
7. Consider the various leaders and volunteers in your church. How can you encourage and support them in their roles? ([29:08])

Devotional

Day 1: Honoring Church Leaders

Elders and pastors who direct the church's affairs and preach are worthy of double honor. It's essential to recognize and appreciate their hard work and dedication, even though they often go unnoticed. This acknowledgment not only encourages them but also strengthens the church community. Elders and pastors often face challenges in receiving honor and recognition. They work tirelessly to guide the church, preach, and teach, often without expecting any accolades. Recognizing their efforts is not just about giving them a pat on the back; it's about acknowledging the vital role they play in the spiritual growth and well-being of the congregation. This appreciation can uplift their spirits and motivate them to continue their work with renewed vigor. [24:23]

1 Thessalonians 5:12-13 (ESV): "We ask you, brothers, to respect those who labor among you and are over you in the Lord and admonish you, and to esteem them very highly in love because of their work. Be at peace among yourselves."

Reflection: Think of a church leader who has impacted your life. How can you show them appreciation and honor this week?


Day 2: Ministry is About God, Not Us

As leaders, it's crucial to remember that ministry is not about personal accolades but about how God works through us. Our role is to be vessels for God's work, helping others in their time of need and growing spiritually to encourage others. This perspective helps maintain humility and focus on God's purpose. Ministry can often become a platform for seeking personal recognition, but true ministry is about being a conduit for God's love and grace. When leaders focus on God's work through them, they can better serve their congregation and fulfill their calling with humility and dedication. [26:02]

2 Corinthians 4:5 (ESV): "For what we proclaim is not ourselves, but Jesus Christ as Lord, with ourselves as your servants for Jesus' sake."

Reflection: Reflect on your motivations in serving others. Are there areas where you seek personal recognition? How can you shift your focus to God's work through you?


Day 3: Grace Over Perfection

Timothy's struggle with perfectionism is a common issue among leaders. Paul’s reminder that we are saved by grace and not by our works is a powerful encouragement. It's important to take care of oneself and understand that being a good leader doesn't mean being perfect. Leaders often feel the pressure to be flawless, but the truth is that God's grace covers our imperfections. Embracing this grace allows leaders to serve more authentically and effectively, knowing that their worth is not based on their performance but on God's love and grace. [27:35]

Ephesians 2:8-9 (ESV): "For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast."

Reflection: In what areas of your life do you struggle with perfectionism? How can you remind yourself of God's grace in those moments?


Day 4: Every Act of Service is Ministry

Whether it's providing rides, serving coffee, or offering a smile, every act of service is a ministry if it stems from a relationship with Christ. This broadens the understanding of ministry, showing that everyone has a role to play in God's kingdom, regardless of how small it may seem. Every act of kindness and service, no matter how insignificant it may appear, contributes to the overall mission of the church. When done with a heart for Christ, these small acts can have a profound impact on the lives of others and the church community as a whole. [31:10]

Colossians 3:23-24 (ESV): "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ."

Reflection: Identify a small act of service you can do today. How can you perform this act with a heart for Christ?


Day 5: Embrace Your Unique Role and Season

God created each of us uniquely, with different tasks and experiences. We should not envy others but find joy in our own journey. God can use us in our current season to bless others, and we should embrace our unique roles with gratitude and purpose. Each person's journey is unique, and comparing ourselves to others can lead to dissatisfaction and envy. Instead, embracing our unique roles and the season we are in allows us to see how God is working in our lives and how we can be a blessing to others right where we are. [37:27]

1 Corinthians 12:18-20 (ESV): "But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. If all were a single member, where would the body be? As it is, there are many parts, yet one body."

Reflection: Reflect on your current season of life. How can you embrace your unique role and find joy in your journey today?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "It is good to serve God, it is good to love God, and one other a couple other things, you don't have to go tell everyone that you're a Christian all the time. Get people to become a Christian if you are living out a Christian life. What you're doing would making sure that the parishes that you visit your of Christiaanah." [35:05](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "We've heard the saying that good news travels fast, bad news travels faster. Enough said, right? So if people see what God is doing in our lives for our actions, and whatnot, then people would know who we are, and we would be known by our love. So that's enough. Sometimes it does require some words, but oftentimes it's how we live our lives." [35:05](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

3. "Like my old friend, Mr. Rogers, says, there's only one person like you, and that's you yourself, and people can like you exactly as you are. So God created each and every one of us in a unique way to do different tasks, to be different, to be in different experiences. Not all the same, but to be in different experiences." [35:05](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

4. "So don't be in the stretch of her, so don't be envious of what other people's seasons are, just to be, enjoy your season of life, and God could use you in that season to bless others, because you never know who is, is watching you. So I close with this. God is good, and we are children of his, and people can like you exactly as you are. Follow Jesus." [37:27](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "Everyone who smiles, that's a ministry. What you get my drift, whatever you do, and then if that's drawn from your relationship with Christ, that's your ministry, that's your response for menace for the call to be a child of God. To be a child of God, it's not about what you do, it's about who you are." [33:11](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "My dad, when I was born, he knew that my brother and I would be both born with disabilities, but he said, he said, when we were born, 'That's my sons, that's my sons,' regardless of what the issues were. He said, 'I'm proud, that's my sons.' That's the same thing that God says to us. We are a child of God. We are your, you are my child, he says, child, child, child of God. How cool is that?" [33:11](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

3. "Ministry is not about us. It's how God is moving in and among us. And he's using different leaders for his kingdom. God is doing some, God works in the leaders to, in our own lives, to bring, to help others in their time of need. And our time of need, he helps us grow so we can be an encouragement to those in need." [26:02](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

4. "Timothy was one person that thought he had to do everything right in order to be an example to the church. Like, you name it. If it was taboo, he would not do it. But Paul says, no. If it's, if it. You're, you're human, saved by grace. So, if it's helpful for you to, to do, to do some stuff, do it for your own health." [27:35](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

5. "These are our pastors. These are the shepherds of the church. And they deal with a lot of people, a lot of issues throughout the week, throughout people, and have their own issues to deal with. But, are allowing themselves to be used by God in the midst of all that. So, thank you for what you're, what you're doing, what you're doing in ministry." [29:08](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

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