Honest Prayers: Embracing Raw Faith in God

 

Summary

### Summary

Good morning, church. Today, we delved into the book of Habakkuk, a profound text that speaks to the raw and honest relationship between humanity and God. Habakkuk's prayers are a powerful example of how we can bring our deepest complaints and frustrations to God. The prophet's first prayer of complaint questions God's justice and presence in a world where evil seems to prosper while the righteous suffer. This resonates with our own experiences of brokenness and chaos in the world and in our personal lives.

God's response to Habakkuk is complex and not what the prophet expected. Instead of immediate deliverance, God reveals that He will use the Babylonians, who are even more wicked than the Assyrians, to bring about His plan. This response challenges Habakkuk's understanding of God's nature and justice, yet it also shows that God is at work in ways that are beyond our comprehension.

Habakkuk's second prayer of complaint is even more audacious, as he boldly questions God's plan and demands clarity. This interaction highlights the relational aspect of our faith, where God invites us to be honest and authentic with Him. Despite our messiness and complaints, God is patient and gentle, willing to engage with us in our rawest form.

The prayers of Habakkuk teach us that it's okay to bring our unfiltered emotions to God. We don't need to hide our frustrations or pretend to be perfect. God already sees our ugliness and loves us anyway. This deep intimacy with God allows us to drop our masks and rest in His embrace, knowing that He is at work even when we don't understand His ways.

### Key Takeaways

1. Authentic Relationship with God: Habakkuk's prayers show that we can be raw and honest with God. We don't need to hide our frustrations or pretend to be perfect. God invites us to bring our unfiltered emotions to Him, and in doing so, we deepen our relationship with Him. [55:23]

2. God's Complex Responses: God's response to Habakkuk's complaints is not straightforward. He reveals that He will use the Babylonians, who are more wicked than the Assyrians, to fulfill His plan. This teaches us that God's ways are beyond our understanding, and we must trust that He is at work even when His plans don't align with our desires. [01:00:08]

3. Patience and Gentleness of God: Despite our messiness and complaints, God is patient and gentle with us. He doesn't scold or lash out but instead engages with us in a relational manner. This encourages us to bring our mess to Jesus, knowing that He will receive us with tenderness. [01:06:27]

4. Space for Lament: We need to allow space and time for the hard and difficult aspects of life. Rushing to the happy ending can cause us to miss out on authentically communing with God. The majority of our lives are spent in the tension of waiting and wrestling with God's answers. [01:10:13]

5. Dropping the Pretense: Like middle school boys trying to impress, we often settle for superficial attempts to show our best selves to God. However, God sees through our pretense and invites us to be real with Him. In this safe space, we can let our guard down and meet with a holy, gentle, and loving God. [01:11:21]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[47:12] - Transformation in Middle School Boys
[48:45] - Initial Stages of Dating
[49:44] - Authenticity in Marriage
[50:16] - Background of Habakkuk
[51:16] - Habakkuk's First Prayer of Complaint
[52:16] - Modern Parallels to Habakkuk's Complaints
[53:18] - Personal Struggles and God's Silence
[55:23] - Raw and Honest Prayers
[57:29] - Full Solar Spirituality
[58:59] - God's Response to Habakkuk
[01:00:08] - The Babylonians as God's Instrument
[01:01:40] - Habakkuk's Second Prayer of Complaint
[01:03:14] - Wrestling with God's Plan
[01:06:27] - God's Patience and Gentleness
[01:10:13] - Allowing Space for Lament
[01:11:21] - Dropping the Pretense with God
[01:14:29] - Conclusion and Prayer

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Habakkuk 1:1-4 - Habakkuk's First Prayer of Complaint
2. Habakkuk 1:5-11 - God's Response to Habakkuk's First Prayer
3. Habakkuk 1:12-2:1 - Habakkuk's Second Prayer of Complaint

#### Observation Questions
1. What are the main concerns Habakkuk raises in his first prayer of complaint? (Habakkuk 1:1-4)
2. How does God respond to Habakkuk's first prayer, and what surprising plan does He reveal? (Habakkuk 1:5-11)
3. In Habakkuk's second prayer of complaint, how does he express his dissatisfaction with God's plan? (Habakkuk 1:12-2:1)
4. According to the sermon, how does Habakkuk's approach to prayer challenge our typical understanding of how we should communicate with God? [55:23]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. What does Habakkuk's willingness to question God reveal about the nature of an authentic relationship with Him? [55:23]
2. How does God's complex response to Habakkuk's complaints challenge our expectations of how God should act in difficult situations? [01:00:08]
3. In what ways does the sermon suggest that God's patience and gentleness with our complaints can deepen our faith? [01:06:27]
4. How does the concept of "full solar spirituality" contrast with the reality of life's difficulties as discussed in the sermon? [56:59]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt frustrated or abandoned by God. How did you handle those feelings, and how might Habakkuk's example encourage you to approach God differently? [55:23]
2. God's response to Habakkuk was not what he expected or wanted. How can you learn to trust God's plan even when it doesn't align with your desires? [01:00:08]
3. The sermon emphasizes the importance of being honest and authentic with God. What are some unfiltered emotions or complaints you have been holding back from God? How can you bring them to Him this week? [01:06:27]
4. The idea of allowing space for lament was highlighted in the sermon. How can you create space in your life to process and express your grief and frustrations with God? [01:10:13]
5. The sermon mentioned the tendency to put on a facade, like middle school boys trying to impress. In what areas of your spiritual life are you tempted to "put on a show" for God or others? How can you drop the pretense and be more genuine? [01:11:21]
6. Think about a current situation in your life where you are waiting for God's answer. How can you practice patience and maintain hope during this period of waiting? [01:10:46]
7. How can you support others in your small group or community who are going through difficult times and may need space to lament and be honest with God? [01:10:13]

Devotional

Day 1: Authentic Relationship with God
Description: Habakkuk's prayers are a powerful example of how we can bring our deepest complaints and frustrations to God. The prophet's first prayer of complaint questions God's justice and presence in a world where evil seems to prosper while the righteous suffer. This resonates with our own experiences of brokenness and chaos in the world and in our personal lives. Habakkuk's raw and honest prayers show that we don't need to hide our frustrations or pretend to be perfect. God invites us to bring our unfiltered emotions to Him, and in doing so, we deepen our relationship with Him. [55:23]

Habakkuk 1:2-3 (ESV): "O Lord, how long shall I cry for help, and you will not hear? Or cry to you 'Violence!' and you will not save? Why do you make me see iniquity, and why do you idly look at wrong? Destruction and violence are before me; strife and contention arise."

Reflection: Think of a recent situation where you felt frustrated or disheartened. How can you bring these raw emotions to God in prayer today, trusting that He welcomes your honesty?


Day 2: God's Complex Responses
Description: God's response to Habakkuk's complaints is not straightforward. He reveals that He will use the Babylonians, who are more wicked than the Assyrians, to fulfill His plan. This teaches us that God's ways are beyond our understanding, and we must trust that He is at work even when His plans don't align with our desires. This response challenges Habakkuk's understanding of God's nature and justice, yet it also shows that God is at work in ways that are beyond our comprehension. [01:00:08]

Isaiah 55:8-9 (ESV): "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts."

Reflection: Reflect on a time when God's plan didn't align with your desires. How can you trust that God is at work in ways beyond your understanding?


Day 3: Patience and Gentleness of God
Description: Despite our messiness and complaints, God is patient and gentle with us. He doesn't scold or lash out but instead engages with us in a relational manner. This encourages us to bring our mess to Jesus, knowing that He will receive us with tenderness. God is patient and gentle, willing to engage with us in our rawest form. This deep intimacy with God allows us to drop our masks and rest in His embrace, knowing that He is at work even when we don't understand His ways. [01:06:27]

Psalm 103:13-14 (ESV): "As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him. For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust."

Reflection: In what areas of your life do you feel messy or unworthy? How can you bring these areas to Jesus, trusting in His patience and gentleness?


Day 4: Space for Lament
Description: We need to allow space and time for the hard and difficult aspects of life. Rushing to the happy ending can cause us to miss out on authentically communing with God. The majority of our lives are spent in the tension of waiting and wrestling with God's answers. Habakkuk's second prayer of complaint is even more audacious, as he boldly questions God's plan and demands clarity. This interaction highlights the relational aspect of our faith, where God invites us to be honest and authentic with Him. [01:10:13]

Lamentations 3:25-26 (ESV): "The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him. It is good that one should wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord."

Reflection: Think about a current struggle or unanswered prayer in your life. How can you create space to lament and wrestle with God, rather than rushing to a resolution?


Day 5: Dropping the Pretense
Description: Like middle school boys trying to impress, we often settle for superficial attempts to show our best selves to God. However, God sees through our pretense and invites us to be real with Him. In this safe space, we can let our guard down and meet with a holy, gentle, and loving God. The prayers of Habakkuk teach us that it's okay to bring our unfiltered emotions to God. We don't need to hide our frustrations or pretend to be perfect. God already sees our ugliness and loves us anyway. [01:11:21]

1 Samuel 16:7b (ESV): "For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart."

Reflection: In what ways do you find yourself putting on a facade before God or others? How can you practice being more authentic and real in your relationship with God today?

Quotes

### Quotes for outreach

1. "God is patient And gentle With his people He tolerates a lot From us He loves us so much That he is willing to endure Our fussing, complaining, whining Our raw and unfiltered emotions In the words of Dane Ortlund He says We are encouraged To bring our mess To Jesus Because he will know Just how to receive us." [01:06:27] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "God is relational God wants us to He wants to know us To walk with us You know what He already sees the ugly He sees the gross In me anyway He loved me so much That he sent Jesus To live and die on a cross To be raised back to life Jesus broke down the barriers Between us And a holy God." [01:07:29] (32 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "May we rest in the confidence Of knowing God So deeply and intimately That we can throw off the masks And rest in his embrace May we allow ourselves To recognize that God sees us And yet He is still patient and gentle With us That we certainly don't always see What he is doing But to wait expectantly And hopefully In the midst of the challenges That come our way." [01:13:58] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "God loves me so much That he is already Way Way Way past This stage of the relationship God has already provided us With a safe space And confidence in our relationship With him That we can let our guard down That I can let him see The utter ugliness that is inside That he can allow me To complain And to complain And to complain." [01:12:19] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "The prayers of Habakkuk Reveal a deep intimacy With God For this reason These prayers Have been a lifeline for me To be unencumbered By a sense of refinement That pretty clearly I never really had to begin with." [01:13:19] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for members

1. "Habakkuk's prayer in some ways Is very very simple It's simple in that he asks questions That on some levels I think all of us feel And all of us at some point ask Where are you God Why aren't you doing What you said you would do Why do the wicked And the evil Seemingly prosper While the innocent and good Seem to suffer Where is your justice Why is the world the way it is Where are you." [51:47] (35 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "The prayers of Habakkuk Refute the notion Of an unchallenged Hyper positive faith The world is broken We should be Disturbed Sad Angry And disappointed That the world is the way it is That our lives are messy." [58:59] (21 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "Habakkuk is raw Honest Confrontational And demanding to God Now I grew up in a very nurturing home Rather strict Where complaining to my parents Would have met with an automatic Oh I'll give you something to complain about Response Fussing, whining, questioning my parents Were not options My parents were not Raising the negotiators And future lawyers that we are raising today." [55:23] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "We need to allow space And time for the hard The difficult And the complaints Let us not rush to the sunlight To the full solar To the end of the story If we were to read on The rest of chapter two in Habakkuk And chapter three In many ways there isn't full resolution In the book of Habakkuk But there is some ease of the tension." [01:10:13] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "Don't act like a middle school boy With God Friends I fear I too often settle For the pathetic And awkward riz Of middle school boy life Laughing my mullet And weakly trying to impress God I often settle For spraying the cologne Over the gross And over the ugly that's inside I settle For those superficial First moments Of a middle school dating relationship Where I shyly put My best foot forward Trying to impress a God With my holiness My devotion My humility My vote My eloquent But less than totally honest prayers." [01:11:21] (53 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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