Heartfelt Generosity: True Giving and Servant Leadership
Summary
In today's sermon, I explored the profound contrast between outward religious displays and genuine, heartfelt giving as exemplified in the scriptures. We began by examining the behavior of the scribes, who were criticized by Jesus for their ostentatious displays of piety and status. These religious leaders loved to wear elaborate robes, receive public greetings, and occupy places of honor, yet their actions were devoid of true godliness. Their external displays were contrasted starkly with the humble offering of a poor widow, who, though she gave only two tiny coins, actually gave more in the eyes of God because she gave all she had.
This discussion led us into a deeper exploration of what it means to give and serve genuinely. We reflected on the importance of not just giving from our surplus but integrating generosity into our budget, making sacrifices to give beyond our normal capacity. This kind of giving mirrors the example of the Macedonian church, which, despite extreme poverty, overflowed with generosity because their giving was first to the Lord and then to others.
We also tackled the topic of leadership and service, emphasizing that true leaders in the Christian context are those who serve others, not those who seek to be served. This is the model Christ himself set, and it challenges cultural and even some traditional church norms about leadership and authority.
The sermon series on giving concluded with a call to reevaluate our approach to church and community. It's not merely about what we receive but what we contribute to the community of believers and beyond. The church is not a place to be served but a community to serve within, a place where we grow together and strengthen one another in faith.
Finally, I shared a vision for our church's future, emphasizing that our engagement and generosity are crucial for reaching and discipling the next generation. This vision is not just about maintaining but actively participating in what God is doing through our church and beyond.
### Key Takeaways
1. The Contrast of Appearances vs. Reality
The scribes' focus on appearance and public acclaim starkly contrasts with the widow's humble yet significant offering. This teaches us that true value in the kingdom of God is not measured by outward appearances or the volume of our contributions but by the heart's posture that motivates them. This challenges us to examine our motives in giving and serving within our communities. [18:25]
2. Generosity Beyond Capacity
Reflecting on the Macedonian church's example, we see that their giving was marked by joy and sacrifice despite their poverty. This level of generosity was possible because they first gave themselves to the Lord. This principle should inspire us to consider not just what we give but how we give, ensuring our giving is a reflection of our total commitment to God. [20:56]
3. Leadership as Service
True leadership in a Christian context is modeled by service and humility, not by seeking positions of honor or authority. This redefines what it means to be a leader in our families, workplaces, and especially in the church. As leaders, we are called to be the chief servants, following Christ's example who came not to be served but to serve. [12:48]
4. Community Over Consumption
The church must be more than a place where we consume religious services. It should be a community where we actively contribute to one another's growth and the broader mission of the church. This shift from consumption to contribution can transform how we experience church and affect how we engage with the world around us. [28:39]
5. Investing in Future Generations
Our commitment to giving and serving not only impacts our current community but also sets the foundation for future generations. By investing in the spiritual education and development of our youth, we are planting seeds that will grow into future leaders who uphold and spread the truth of God's Word. [33:37]
### Chapters
- 0:00 - Welcome
- 00:58 - Critique of the Scribes
- 09:17 - Humility in Leadership
- 12:48 - Servant Leadership
- 18:25 - The Widow's Offering
- 20:56 - Macedonian Generosity
- 28:39 - Community and Contribution
- 33:37 - Vision for Future Generations
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. Luke 20:45-21:4 - The Widow's Offering
2. 2 Corinthians 8:1-5 - The Generosity of the Macedonian Churches
#### Observation Questions
1. What were the behaviors of the scribes that Jesus criticized in Luke 20:45-47?
2. How did Jesus describe the offering of the poor widow in Luke 21:1-4?
3. According to 2 Corinthians 8:1-5, what characterized the generosity of the Macedonian churches?
4. What does the term "first fruits" mean, and how does it relate to the story of Cain and Abel mentioned in the sermon? [19:39]
#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does Jesus consider the widow's offering more valuable than the larger contributions of the rich? [18:25]
2. How does the example of the Macedonian churches challenge our typical approach to giving and generosity? [20:56]
3. What does it mean to be a leader who serves, according to the sermon and the example of Jesus washing the disciples' feet? [12:48]
4. How can the church shift from being a place of consumption to a community of contribution, as discussed in the sermon? [28:39]
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your own giving habits. Are you giving out of your surplus, or are you making sacrifices to give beyond your normal capacity? What changes can you make to align more with the widow's example? [19:39]
2. Think about a time when you sought recognition or honor in your service or leadership. How can you shift your focus to serving others humbly, following Jesus' example? [12:48]
3. In what ways can you contribute more actively to your church community, moving from a consumer mindset to one of contribution? Identify one specific action you can take this week. [28:39]
4. How can you integrate generosity into your budget, ensuring that it reflects your total commitment to God? What specific steps will you take to make this a reality? [22:47]
5. Consider the future generations in your church. How can you invest in their spiritual education and development? What role can you play in discipling the next generation? [33:37]
6. Reflect on the example of the Macedonian churches. How can you cultivate a heart of joy and sacrifice in your giving, even in times of personal financial difficulty? [20:56]
7. Identify one area in your life where you can practice servant leadership. What specific actions will you take to serve others in that context this week? [12:48]
Devotional
Day 1: Heartfelt Giving Over Mere Appearance
True value in God's kingdom is measured by the sincerity of our giving, not the spectacle. In a world that often values appearance over substance, it's vital to reassess our motivations for giving. Are we seeking approval from others, or are we genuinely trying to serve God with our resources? This reflection is crucial because it aligns our actions with our faith, ensuring that our contributions are not just for show but are heartfelt and meaningful. The widow's offering, though small, was immensely valuable because it was all she had. This act of giving all teaches us the importance of sincerity in our offerings to God. [18:25]
Luke 21:1-4
"Jesus looked up and saw the rich putting their gifts into the offering box, and he saw a poor widow put in two small copper coins. And he said, 'Truly, I tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all of them. For they all contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on.'"
Reflection: How does your current giving reflect the sincerity of your faith rather than just fulfilling a duty or seeking approval?
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Day 2: Generosity Beyond Capacity
Reflecting on the Macedonian church's example, we see that true generosity doesn't depend on our abundance but on our willingness to give sacrificially, even in times of need. This kind of generosity is a powerful expression of trust in God's provision and a commitment to His work. It challenges us to not only give from our surplus but to intentionally make sacrifices that reflect our devotion to God and His purposes. This approach transforms our perspective on resources and aligns our financial practices with our spiritual values. [20:56]
2 Corinthians 8:2-4
"For in a severe test of affliction, their abundance of joy and their extreme poverty have overflowed in a wealth of generosity on their part. For they gave according to their means, as I can testify, and beyond their means, of their own accord, begging us earnestly for the favor of taking part in the relief of the saints."
Reflection: What might sacrificial giving look like in your life, and how can you implement it even amidst financial uncertainty?
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Day 3: Leadership as Service
True leadership in the Christian context is not about seeking power or prestige but about serving others with humility and love. This redefinition challenges conventional views and calls us to model our leadership after Christ, who came not to be served but to serve. By embracing servant leadership, we can profoundly impact our families, workplaces, and church communities. This approach fosters a nurturing and supportive environment where growth and spiritual maturity can flourish. [12:48]
Mark 10:44-45
"And whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."
Reflection: In what ways can you adopt a more servant-hearted approach in your leadership roles today?
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Day 4: Community Over Consumption
The church is not merely a venue for receiving spiritual services but a community of active contributors. This perspective shifts our engagement from passive consumption to active participation, where every member contributes to the growth and strength of the whole. By investing ourselves in the lives of others within the church, we embody the true essence of fellowship and communal life as intended in the Scriptures. This shift not only enriches our spiritual experience but also strengthens the church's impact on the broader community. [28:39]
Hebrews 10:24-25
"And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near."
Reflection: What are specific ways you can contribute more actively to your church community starting this week?
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Day 5: Investing in Future Generations
Our commitment to giving and serving does not only affect our current context but also lays a foundation for future generations. By prioritizing the spiritual education and development of our youth, we are investing in future leaders who will uphold and propagate the truth of God's Word. This long-term vision requires us to be proactive and generous, not only with our resources but also with our time and knowledge. Such investments are crucial for sustaining and advancing the church's mission through upcoming generations. [33:37]
Psalm 78:4-6
"We will not hide them from their children, but tell to the coming generation the glorious deeds of the Lord, and his might, and the wonders that he has done... that the next generation might know them, the children yet unborn, and arise and tell them to their children."
Reflection: How can you begin to invest more deliberately in the spiritual growth of the younger members of your community?
Quotes
"His heart was not to get a reputation. Well, that's the nice guy that buys, buys people's orders and pays it forward and that kind of stuff. That is an example that we can use to be generous with what we have. Not are you just giving out of your excess, you know, your leftovers, but are you making it a part of your budget?" [27:08]
"So being involved in a church, I'm going to be honest with you, the American church, the typical church has gotten this so wrong because what we do is we produce a product on Sunday morning that entertains you and you like, and you're like, man, I love that music. And the speaking is so good." [28:39]
"They are in a position of influence and they wanted to abuse that because of the position they wanted to be served. So here's where I find today that we struggle with this idea. And sometimes it comes down to gender. I'm going to be honest with you. I believe that in Genesis, the proper order, sin has affected this, by the way, is that the man would be the head of the house." [12:48]
"other churches. We are not in competition with other churches. The way God has brought our church together, the history and experience of our children's ministries is that we are kind of the place where people just know the reputation of Shelby Alliance Church is that you can take your children there and they will truly be discipled, not just entertained, not just free childcare, but they will memorize their Bible verses." [33:37]
"here, this is something I find hilarious. Um, have you ever pulled into a church and like saw a sign at the very first parking spot to the door reserved for pastor? Have you guys ever seen that? Anybody? Yeah. find that hilarious. Uh, I get that sometimes it's just the congregation wanting to honor the pastor and stuff. I'm just telling you, if you ever offered that to me, I'm going to say, absolutely not." [09:17]