The Heart Matters: Lust, Grace, and Practicing God's Presence

Devotional

Day 1: Jesus Raises the Bar on Righteousness

Jesus redefines what it means to be right with God, moving beyond mere external actions. He sets a new, higher standard that encompasses not just our deeds but also our innermost thoughts and intentions. This standard is not about following a set of rules perfectly, but about an internal transformation of the heart. It is an invitation to a deeper, more authentic relationship with God that touches every part of our being. [47:46]

"Unless your righteousness exceeds that of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the kingdom of heaven." (Matthew 5:20, NIV)

Reflection: When you consider the state of your inner life—your private thoughts and motivations—where do you sense the greatest gap between your external actions and your internal reality before God?

Day 2: God Sees and Knows Our Inner World

There is no private, hidden space that is separate from God’s presence and knowledge. Our thoughts, intentions, and secret desires are fully known and completely laid bare before Him. This can feel intimidating, yet it is also the foundation for genuine intimacy, as we are fully known and fully loved. We are invited to live in the freedom of being truly seen, without the need for pretense or hiding. [58:43]

"Nothing in all creation is hidden from God’s sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must give account." (Hebrews 4:13, NIV)

Reflection: What is one thought or attitude you have recently tried to keep private from God, and what might it look like to honestly bring it into His light today?

Day 3: The Battle for Our Hearts and Minds

Our inner world is a place where God’s Spirit is at work, transforming us to be more like Christ. Yet, it is also a battleground where temptation and lies seek to gain a foothold and disrupt this process. Spiritual warfare is not only about external forces but is often waged within the private dialogues of our own minds. Acknowledging this reality is the first step toward engaging in the fight with intentionality and reliance on God’s strength. [01:11:07]

"We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." (2 Corinthians 10:5b, NIV)

Reflection: Identify a specific recurring thought pattern that does not align with God's heart. What is one practical way you can, with the Spirit's help, take that thought captive this week?

Day 4: Being Intentional With Our Thoughts

We are called to be active participants in guarding our minds and shaping our inner dialogue. This involves making conscious choices about what we allow to influence us and what we choose to dwell upon. By filling our minds with what is true, noble, and pure, we create less room for thoughts that lead us away from God. This intentional practice is a vital part of our spiritual growth and maturity. [01:14:13]

"Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things." (Philippians 4:8, NIV)

Reflection: What is one source of input in your daily routine (e.g., media, conversation, environment) that you could adjust to better nourish your mind with things that honor God?

Day 5: Living in Grace and Practicing God's Presence

The high standard Jesus sets is ultimately impossible to meet on our own strength, which is why we desperately need His grace. We are called to a life of humble dependence, quickly bringing our failures to God for forgiveness and then moving forward in freedom. This involves cultivating a continual, conversational awareness of God’s presence in the ordinary moments of our day, transforming our inner world through relationship. [01:20:39]

"Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need." (Hebrews 4:16, NIV)

Reflection: How might your inner dialogue change today if you consciously practiced bringing each thought and feeling to God in the moment, rather than waiting until a designated prayer time?

Sermon Summary

Jesus raises the standard of righteousness from outward behavior to the hidden life of the heart. Matthew’s Sermon on the Mount reframes Old Testament commands: law remains but fulfillment moves the demand inward. The prohibition against adultery becomes a probe into desire—lustful looking constitutes moral culpability because sin originates in intention, not merely in outward acts. Graphic hyperbole about gouging an eye and cutting off a hand functions as a rhetorical device to show that the body does not cause sin; the heart and inner motives do.

The biblical witness insists that no thought remains private before God. Scripture repeatedly affirms that God searches minds and knows plans; inner intentions stand exposed to divine judgment. Adultery functions throughout Scripture as the metaphor for unfaithfulness to God, so sexual lust serves as a concrete case of broader spiritual infidelity. The prevalence of intrusive, disordered desires—whether sexual, angry, jealous, or covetous—means the moral task extends to the regulation and reorientation of imagination and affection.

Practical response divides into two complementary paths. First, intentional stewardship of mental inputs matters: guard screens, rhythms, tiredness, and triggers that lower defenses; deliberately replace harmful imaginings with things "true, honorable, pure" (Philippians 4:8). Anticipatory practices—changing channels, avoiding late-night scrolling, cultivating contentment—reduce the oxygen given to dark thoughts. Second, the gospel supplies the only viable rescue from an impossible standard: Christ’s grace makes one right with God even while inner transformation continues. The law’s bar exposes human inability; grace provides forgiveness and the hope of sanctification.

A formative model emerges in the practice of continuous God-presence: keeping God in the immediate inner dialogue, quickly confessing disordered thoughts, and returning to ordinary duties with humility and gratitude. This blend of vigilance and dependence resists self-righteousness while fostering real change. The heart’s purification results from spiritual disciplines, accountability, and reliance on divine mercy, pursuing holiness without presuming perfected self-sufficiency.

Key Takeaways

1. Inner life matters to God God evaluates intentions and imaginations as morally significant, so secret thoughts alter relationship with God just as much as visible actions. Cultivating holy affections reshapes choices before temptation becomes behavior. Spiritual formation must prioritize the regulation of desires, not only external conduct. [56:52]
2. Sin begins in the heart Sin finds its root in motives, not merely deeds; a lustful look already constitutes covenant unfaithfulness. Attention to first impulses prevents escalation into plans and harms. Moral discipline targets the soil of desire rather than merely pruning branches of behavior. [53:45]
3. Be intentional about mental inputs Choosing what to watch, read, or imagine functions as spiritual stewardship; environments and rhythms either feed or starve disordered desire. Anticipate vulnerable moments—fatigue, stress, isolation—and set up practices that remove temptation’s oxygen. Replace corrosive content with thoughts that align with God’s character to rewire affection. [72:05]
4. Accept grace while pursuing holiness The law exposes incapacity; grace grants right standing while the inner life transforms. Confession and quick repentance prevent rumination from becoming identity, and dependence on Christ sustains growth. Holiness becomes a work of both intentional effort and humble reception of mercy. [76:53]

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[00:00] - Welcome
[43:37] - Opening question and series context
[44:47] - Setting the Sermon on the Mount scene
[47:29] - Law fulfilled and higher righteousness
[48:40] - Reading: adultery and the heart
[52:36] - Not primarily about outward adultery
[55:39] - Heart, not body, causes sin
[56:52] - The inner life matters to God
[60:13] - Adultery as a metaphor for unfaithfulness
[71:07] - Spiritual warfare in the inner world
[72:05] - Intentional guarding of mental inputs
[76:53] - Accepting grace amid high standards
[80:57] - Practicing God’s presence daily
[81:39] - Closing invitation and practical steps

Bible Study Guide

Bible reading
Matthew 5:27–30 (ESV)
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.”

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Observation questions

According to Jesus in Matthew 5:28, at what point does adultery occur?
What does Jesus say about the relationship between the body (eye/hand) and sin in verses 29–30?
In the sermon, what was identified as the true source of sin, rather than the body itself? [55:39]
How is the concept of “adultery” expanded beyond the physical act in the broader biblical context? [59:56]

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Interpretation questions

Why do you think Jesus uses such extreme language (gouging eyes, cutting off hands) to make His point?
How does the idea that “God searches every mind and understands every plan and thought” (1 Chronicles 28:9) affect the way we understand personal holiness?
In what ways can inappropriate thoughts (whether lust, anger, or jealousy) function as a form of spiritual unfaithfulness to God? [01:00:13]
What might it look like to “practice the presence of God” in our everyday inner dialogue? [01:19:53]

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Application questions

What practical steps can be taken to “guard mental inputs” and reduce exposure to content that feeds unhealthy desires? [01:12:05]
How can someone cultivate a habit of quickly acknowledging wrong thoughts to God without dwelling in shame or guilt? [01:20:20]
In what specific situations or times of day do you find your “guard gets lowered” most often? What would it look like to prepare for those moments? [01:13:25]
How can regularly reflecting on God’s grace and forgiveness help someone pursue holiness without falling into self-righteousness or despair? [01:16:53]
What would it look like this week to intentionally fill your mind with “whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, pleasing, or commendable” (Philippians 4:8) instead of harmful thoughts?
How can married couples intentionally nurture gratitude and contentment in their relationship to strengthen faithfulness in thought and action? [01:14:53]
What’s one way you can invite God into your ordinary, mundane moments this week to make Him part of your inner dialogue? [01:21:39]

Sermon Clips

But you know what he did do that's important? Was he held a really short account with God. And what I mean by that is if he had a wrong thought, he quickly acknowledged it to God. He asked for forgiveness and then that was it. It was done with. It was dealt with. He didn't need to brood on it because he knew and he understood the gospel which is that God already loved him and had forgiven him. [01:20:16] (37 seconds) #QuickConfession

I know my inner world. You don't know it. Okay? I know my secret spaces or what I think is secret. And I know I am capable of the worst thoughts. The darkest thoughts at times. The most inappropriate thoughts. And I'm not just talking about lustful thoughts, church. Unhealthy anger, jealousy, bitterness. I could go on. Know, the thoughts which are secret to me and to God alone. [01:07:44] (33 seconds) #HiddenThoughts

This is the gospel. This is the gospel church. Jesus fulfills that law, that impossible law that none of us can meet by giving us a new way of being right before him before that process of inner transformation is complete and I've got a long way to go. Jesus is that way. He makes us clean before God right now. It's amazing. It's humbling because we don't deserve it. [01:17:45] (38 seconds) #ImmediateGrace

But can I also invite you as you try to do that to also practice walking in the grace of God remembering what the gospel is? Yeah. Knowing that God knows each of us fully inside and out the good and the bad and yet and yet he loves me and he loves each of you with a passion. [01:22:25] (33 seconds) #WalkInGrace

the writer writes, the word of God is able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart and before him, God, no creature is hidden but all are naked and laid bare to the eyes of the one to whom we must render an account. Ouch. I thought that was my private place. [00:58:36] (28 seconds) #NothingHidden

Accepting his sacrifice for all the wrong things that we have thought or will think in our inner lives. His willingness to be present in our inner lives despite knowing our darkest thoughts. His desire to work with us to begin and continue this process of transformation. His willingness to be part of and come into that inner dialogue so that our hearts and minds become more aligned to his. [01:17:02] (38 seconds) #GodInOurInnerLives

Then he says this. He says, unless your righteousness exceeds those of the pharisees and the scribes. These are the people who practice God's old testament law the best. Unless your righteousness exceeds theirs, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Ouch. Ouch. This is before he goes on to do the whole sermon. What's going on? What's going on is that Jesus is already starting to raise the bar for what good looks like in terms of righteousness Which is a term which means kind of being right with God or being clean in front of God. [00:47:29] (53 seconds) #BeyondThePharisees

But Jesus isn't really saying that here. What he's saying is that even if a lustful thought about another woman or man never leads to a wrong action, it's still wrong. It's still a sin. It still stops us from being right with God. It still makes us unclean inside. Jesus is raising this bar. [00:53:37] (35 seconds) #InnerUncleanness

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The Heart Matters: Lust, Grace, and Practicing God's Presence

Devotional

Day 1: Jesus Raises the Bar on Righteousness

Day 2: God Sees and Knows Our Inner World

Day 3: The Battle for Our Hearts and Minds

Day 4: Being Intentional With Our Thoughts

Day 5: Living in Grace and Practicing God's Presence

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The Heart Matters: Lust, Grace, and Practicing God's Presence

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