God’s goodness is not dependent on our actions or worthiness. He remains gracious, mighty, and majestic, providing for our needs and protecting us from dangers both seen and unseen. His character is constant, offering blessings we do not deserve simply because of who He is. This foundational truth reminds us that our hope is built on His unwavering nature, not our fluctuating circumstances. [01:20:36]
The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. He will not always chide, nor will he keep his anger forever. He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities.
Psalm 103:8-10 (ESV)
Reflection: In what specific area of your life have you been most aware of God’s goodness toward you, even when you knew you didn't deserve it? How does recognizing this change the way you view a current challenge?
True forgiveness is not merely a concept but a powerful action demonstrated by Christ on the cross. He prayed for the pardon of those who were actively causing Him immense pain and injustice. This divine example shows that forgiveness is a decision to release others from the debt they owe us, mirroring the grace we have received. It is the starting point for healing the deepest of wounds. [01:31:30]
And Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” And they cast lots to divide his garments.
Luke 23:34 (ESV)
Reflection: Who is one person the Holy Spirit brings to your mind that you have struggled to forgive? What would it look like today to take a step toward releasing them, not for their sake, but for your own freedom in Christ?
Forgiveness involves consciously dismissing the hold that a past hurt has on your present life. It is like dismissing a warning light; ignoring it doesn't fix the underlying problem. Choosing to forgive is the active process of addressing the wound so that healing can truly begin. This decision prevents the pain from continuing to dominate your thoughts and steal your joy. [01:37:22]
Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
Colossians 3:13 (NIV)
Reflection: What is one "maintenance required" warning in your heart regarding an old hurt that you have been ignoring? What is one practical step you can take this week to move beyond dismissal and into genuine release?
Your painful past does not have to dictate your present or your future. Holding onto bitterness posts a "no stopping" sign for God's grace, preventing His healing love from parking in your heart. Letting go of that hurt is an act of faith that allows you to walk into the better things God has for you. You can be better, not bitter, because of what God has done. [01:40:24]
Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 3:13-14 (NIV)
Reflection: What person or event from your past have you allowed to post a "no stopping" sign for God's grace in a specific area of your life? What would it look like to take that sign down today?
Healing begins when forgiveness is offered. This is not just about physical restoration but a profound healing of the heart. God desires to free you from the shackles of wanting to repay evil for evil and to help you let go of what has haunted you. In doing so, you claim the abundant life and true freedom that Christ died to give you. [02:00:15]
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
Psalm 147:3 (ESV)
Reflection: As you reflect on this week, what specific hurt have you carried that you are now ready to lay at the foot of the cross? What prayer can you pray to ask God to help you let it go and fully receive His heart healing?
The resurrection weekend celebrates an undefeatable, living Christ whose empty tomb guarantees both sovereignty and restoration. Luke 23 focuses attention on Calvary’s scene: Jesus hangs between two criminals and utters, “Father, forgive them,” modeling forgiveness as an active, public act that reverses accusation, pain, and mislabeling. Emotional wounds and betrayed trust haunt long after visible injuries fade, and Calvary provides a framework for addressing that haunting—dismiss what destroys, leave what stunts growth, and receive pardon that frees the conscience. Forgiveness, as practiced on the cross, refuses cosmetic silence; it confronts the root of bitterness so the heart can stop carrying what God already removed.
The text connects historical redemption to present healing by insisting that forgiveness happens before apology and before moral worthiness. Divine pardon arrives “while still sinners,” proving that grace precedes deserving and that release from past offenses depends on accepting a gift, not on perfect repentance from others. Holding grudges functions like a posted sign—no stopping, no standing, no parking—blocking the Holy Spirit’s work and stalling spiritual movement. Laying burdens at Calvary means choosing to lay down claims, to relinquish repayment, and to allow God’s stripes to enact inner healing.
The narrative presses toward action: those who need to forgive, those whose relationships must mend, and those who seek healing should respond at the altar of repentance and reconciliation. Personal testimony anchors the teaching: letting go of long-held hurts produced measurable freedom and fuller ministry. The final appeal connects theology to practice with a prayer that enlists the Father’s help to release pain, asks for Spirit-led deliverance from retaliation, and claims abundant life as the fruit of forgiven hearts. The call concludes with communal worship, mutual encouragement, and an invitation to step forward into the freedom Jesus purchased.
For years, I carried unnecessary pain. And my last appeal is this, you will not be free until you let it go. I have the world's best father because I let it go. I'm free to preach like this because I let it go. My last appeal is this. If you've been holding on to some hurt and this word touches you, I want you to put your hand in the air and say, father, help me to let it go. Father, repeat after me. Father, help me to let it go.
[01:57:48]
(65 seconds)
#FatherHelpMeLetGo
He asked Jesus to for Jesus asked the father to forgive us before we were acceptable. That's why the apostle Paul could write, but God demonstrates his own love towards us And that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Christ died for the ungodly. He dies for the liar. He dies for the pedophile. He dies for the hated. He dies for the bitter. He dies for the racist. He died in advance of asking for forgiveness. Jesus died. Amen. That we could be forgiven.
[01:46:57]
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#ChristDiedForAll
And if you are like me and you want all that God has for you, I dare you to lay your burden to rest. I dare you let the troubles rest. Your painful past, watch this, is just that. It's the past. Your past doesn't have to be your present and your or a preacher of your future. You can lay it to rest right now. Jesus, watch this, ask God to forgive you and me before we actually forgave.
[01:46:17]
(40 seconds)
#LayYourBurdenDown
Sometimes forgiveness means dismissing what is destroying you. Amen. Can I come a little closer? Yes. Yes. Some people you need to dismiss from your life. Amen. Some habits need to be dismissed from your life. Some addictions need to be dismissed from your life. Praise him. I've been dealing with this car all week long. I've gone into my car. Every time I push the start button on my car, on the dashboard, a light, an indicator comes on that says maintenance required.
[01:37:15]
(45 seconds)
#DismissWhatDestroys
And so I began to do a little research on this sign and I found out that this is the strictest rule in a traffic sign and in the kingdom of god, bitterness has posted a sign on some of our hearts that reads, no stopping, no standing, and no parking. I don't want the Holy Spirit stopping. I don't want forgiveness standing. I don't want the love of God parking. No stopping. No standing. No parking. But I come to let you know because Jesus paid it all.
[01:44:45]
(34 seconds)
#NoRoomForBitterness
It was in seminary. I learned something very important. Hurting people hurt people. I've got the world's greatest father, but he lost his father at eight. So he didn't know how to father a child that he had out of wedlock at 18. He didn't call me on my birthdays, Anniversaries for my wife, never called. If I talk to my dad on my birthday, it's because I've called him. What kind of father can't even remember his son's firstborn son's birthday?
[01:56:36]
(59 seconds)
#HurtingPeopleHurtPeople
I recall never hearing my own father tell me I love you. My father's alive and well. I was an honor athlete in newspapers, a basketball, and scholarship, but he never came to a game in high school. Went to college on a scholarship, and he never showed up. I went into the seminary feeling a call from God, and he and my mom dropped me off. No. No. That was college. Yeah. That was that was college. He and my mom dropped me off, not seminary, my undergrad. He dry dropped me off in college.
[01:54:47]
(59 seconds)
#AbsentFatherWounds
I was two years in Aurora University. And when I got there, I lost my mind. Lost the scholarship because I was there to party and not do right. Lost the scholarship, got kicked out pretty much, Took a long seven year stretch to get a four year degree. He showed up at my graduation from college, but that was the last time he showed up. I went and got a master's, didn't go to graduation. Got an MDL, went to three years of study, and my father showed up finally. It was in seminary. I learned something very important.
[01:55:45]
(57 seconds)
#RedeemedAfterFailure
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