Guided by the Holy Spirit: Navigating Life's Decisions

 

Summary

### Summary

Today, we explored the critical role of the Holy Spirit in discerning God's specific will for our lives. While the Bible provides general guidelines, it doesn't always offer specific instructions for individual circumstances. For example, the Bible teaches us about the principles of marriage but doesn't tell us who to marry. This is where the Holy Spirit comes in, offering personalized guidance that aligns with God's will. Whether it's deciding where to live, which job to take, or whom to marry, the Holy Spirit provides the clarity we need.

I shared personal anecdotes to illustrate this point. For instance, I once had a lucrative job offer in New York City, but the Holy Spirit guided me to stay and serve at a local church instead. This decision, though financially less rewarding at the time, eventually led to greater opportunities and blessings. Similarly, the Holy Spirit guided me in my relationship with my wife, Natalie, teaching me the importance of humility, sacrifice, and continuous apology.

The Holy Spirit's guidance isn't just for major life decisions; it extends to everyday choices as well. Whether you're planning a vacation or deciding how many laps to run, the Holy Spirit is there to offer wisdom and direction. This is why it's crucial to welcome the Holy Spirit into every aspect of our lives.

We also discussed the concept of "God 3.0," which involves recognizing God, receiving Jesus, and releasing the Holy Spirit. Many people stop at recognizing God or receiving Jesus, but to live a life of fullness, we must also release the Holy Spirit. This series aims to help you understand and experience the transformative power of the Holy Spirit.

In practical terms, this means normalizing conversations with the Holy Spirit. Ask Him for guidance in your daily activities and decisions. The Holy Spirit is not bound by time, space, or your past mistakes. He is always present, ready to help you navigate life's complexities.

We concluded by emphasizing the importance of stepping into the light of God's will. Many people have glimpses of their purpose but struggle to achieve it because they step out of the light and into the darkness. By staying anchored in the Holy Spirit, we can navigate the path God has set for us, avoiding the pitfalls that come from relying solely on our understanding.

### Key Takeaways

1. The Holy Spirit Provides Specific Guidance: While the Bible offers general principles, the Holy Spirit provides specific instructions tailored to our unique circumstances. Whether it's about relationships, career choices, or daily decisions, the Holy Spirit's guidance is indispensable. For example, the Holy Spirit might tell you to avoid a seemingly perfect business deal because it's a Ponzi scheme. Trusting this guidance can save you from future regrets. [08:06]

2. Obedience to the Holy Spirit Leads to Greater Blessings: Sometimes, the Holy Spirit's guidance may seem counterintuitive or less rewarding in the short term. However, obedience leads to greater blessings and opportunities in the long run. For instance, serving at a local church instead of taking a high-paying job eventually led to a fulfilling career that impacts many lives. [11:56]

3. The Holy Spirit is Present in Everyday Life: The Holy Spirit's guidance isn't limited to major life decisions; it extends to everyday activities. Whether you're planning a vacation or deciding how many laps to run, the Holy Spirit is there to offer wisdom. Normalizing conversations with the Holy Spirit in daily life helps us stay aligned with God's will. [18:50]

4. Releasing the Holy Spirit Completes Our Spiritual Journey: Recognizing God and receiving Jesus are crucial steps, but releasing the Holy Spirit is essential for living a life of fullness. This involves inviting the Holy Spirit into every aspect of our lives and allowing Him to guide us. This series aims to help you understand and experience the transformative power of the Holy Spirit. [17:16]

5. Staying in the Light of God's Will: Many people have glimpses of their purpose but struggle to achieve it because they step out of the light and into the darkness. By staying anchored in the Holy Spirit, we can navigate the path God has set for us, avoiding the pitfalls that come from relying solely on our understanding. This requires continuous engagement with the Holy Spirit and obedience to His guidance. [06:25]

### Youtube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[01:39] - The Holy Spirit is My Help
[08:06] - Specific Guidance from the Holy Spirit
[10:15] - Obedience and Humility
[11:56] - Long-term Blessings
[13:51] - Personal Testimonies
[15:42] - The Role of the Holy Spirit
[17:16] - God 3.0: Recognize, Receive, Release
[18:50] - Everyday Guidance
[20:17] - Skip the Middle Man
[22:00] - Conclusion and Prayer

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. John 14:16-17 (NIV) - "And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever—the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you."
2. John 16:13 (NIV) - "But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come."

#### Observation Questions
1. According to John 14:16-17, what role does the Holy Spirit play in the lives of believers?
2. In John 16:13, what specific function does the Holy Spirit perform for believers?
3. How did the pastor describe the Holy Spirit's role in his decision to stay and serve at a local church instead of taking a high-paying job? [11:56]
4. What are some everyday activities mentioned in the sermon where the Holy Spirit can provide guidance? [18:50]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the Holy Spirit's role as an "advocate" or "helper" in John 14:16-17 align with the pastor's personal anecdotes about receiving guidance in life decisions? [11:56]
2. What does it mean for the Holy Spirit to "guide you into all the truth" as stated in John 16:13, and how can this be applied to discerning God's will in specific situations?
3. The pastor mentioned the concept of "God 3.0" involving recognizing God, receiving Jesus, and releasing the Holy Spirit. How does this concept help in understanding the fullness of a Christian's spiritual journey? [17:16]
4. How does staying "anchored in the Holy Spirit" help believers avoid stepping into the darkness and missing their purpose, as discussed in the sermon? [06:25]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a recent decision you made. Did you seek the Holy Spirit's guidance? How might the outcome have been different if you had? [08:06]
2. The pastor shared a story about choosing to serve at a local church instead of taking a lucrative job offer. Have you ever faced a similar choice where the Holy Spirit's guidance led you to a less obvious but ultimately more fulfilling path? [11:56]
3. In what ways can you normalize conversations with the Holy Spirit in your daily life, such as during mundane activities like planning a vacation or deciding how many laps to run? [18:50]
4. The sermon emphasized the importance of releasing the Holy Spirit to live a life of fullness. What steps can you take this week to invite the Holy Spirit into every aspect of your life? [17:16]
5. The pastor mentioned that many people have glimpses of their purpose but struggle to achieve it because they step out of the light. What practical steps can you take to stay anchored in the Holy Spirit and avoid relying solely on your understanding? [06:25]
6. Think of a situation where you need specific guidance (e.g., a relationship, career choice, or daily decision). How can you actively seek the Holy Spirit's direction in this matter?
7. The pastor talked about the Holy Spirit being present in both major life decisions and everyday choices. Identify one small decision you will make this week and commit to seeking the Holy Spirit's guidance in it. [18:50]

Devotional

Day 1: The Holy Spirit Provides Specific Guidance
The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in providing specific guidance tailored to our unique circumstances. While the Bible offers general principles, it doesn't always give explicit instructions for every situation we face. This is where the Holy Spirit steps in, offering personalized direction that aligns with God's will. Whether it's about relationships, career choices, or daily decisions, the Holy Spirit's guidance is indispensable. For example, the Holy Spirit might tell you to avoid a seemingly perfect business deal because it's a Ponzi scheme. Trusting this guidance can save you from future regrets. [08:06]

Isaiah 30:21 (ESV): "And your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, ‘This is the way, walk in it,’ when you turn to the right or when you turn to the left."

Reflection: Think of a recent decision you had to make. Did you seek the Holy Spirit's guidance? How can you make it a habit to consult the Holy Spirit in your daily decisions?


Day 2: Obedience to the Holy Spirit Leads to Greater Blessings
Sometimes, the Holy Spirit's guidance may seem counterintuitive or less rewarding in the short term. However, obedience leads to greater blessings and opportunities in the long run. For instance, serving at a local church instead of taking a high-paying job eventually led to a fulfilling career that impacts many lives. This principle teaches us that God's plans are always for our ultimate good, even if they don't make immediate sense. Trusting and obeying the Holy Spirit can open doors to blessings we never imagined. [11:56]

Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV): "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."

Reflection: Reflect on a time when you followed the Holy Spirit's guidance even though it didn't make sense at the moment. What were the long-term blessings that came from that obedience?


Day 3: The Holy Spirit is Present in Everyday Life
The Holy Spirit's guidance isn't limited to major life decisions; it extends to everyday activities. Whether you're planning a vacation or deciding how many laps to run, the Holy Spirit is there to offer wisdom. Normalizing conversations with the Holy Spirit in daily life helps us stay aligned with God's will. By inviting the Holy Spirit into every aspect of our lives, we can experience His presence and guidance continuously. [18:50]

Galatians 5:25 (ESV): "If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit."

Reflection: How can you invite the Holy Spirit into your daily routine? Think of one specific daily activity where you can start seeking His guidance.


Day 4: Releasing the Holy Spirit Completes Our Spiritual Journey
Recognizing God and receiving Jesus are crucial steps, but releasing the Holy Spirit is essential for living a life of fullness. This involves inviting the Holy Spirit into every aspect of our lives and allowing Him to guide us. Many people stop at recognizing God or receiving Jesus, but to live a life of fullness, we must also release the Holy Spirit. This series aims to help you understand and experience the transformative power of the Holy Spirit. [17:16]

Acts 1:8 (ESV): "But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth."

Reflection: Have you fully released the Holy Spirit into every area of your life? What steps can you take today to invite the Holy Spirit's transformative power into your daily activities?


Day 5: Staying in the Light of God's Will
Many people have glimpses of their purpose but struggle to achieve it because they step out of the light and into the darkness. By staying anchored in the Holy Spirit, we can navigate the path God has set for us, avoiding the pitfalls that come from relying solely on our understanding. This requires continuous engagement with the Holy Spirit and obedience to His guidance. Staying in the light of God's will helps us fulfill our God-given purpose. [06:25]

Psalm 119:105 (ESV): "Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path."

Reflection: Are there areas in your life where you feel you have stepped out of God's light? How can you re-anchor yourself in the Holy Spirit to stay on the path God has set for you?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "Why wouldn't you accept the upgrade? Why? Why would I have all of this power available to me, all of this help available to me? Because somebody said it was weird? Because somebody abused the term before because you were never taught about it? I have a burden to help you experience God 3.0. See, a lot of people don't realize that there's three versions of God. And when you talk about an operating system, it just makes sense to me in my mind. Most of us recognize God. Most of us have loaded up the operating system of God. We say, you know what? I recognize him. But it is my goal at Transformation Church, we represent God to the lost and found, for one reason, that's transformation in Christ." [17:16](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "The crazy thing about the Holy Spirit is he is not bound by time, space, he's not bound by your sin. You could be in a jail cell right now, Holy Spirit is with you. You can be in a penthouse right now, Holy Spirit is with you. As you heard Brie say, she was at a place that she could not even see if she would have joy again. Guess who was with her? Holy Spirit. You may be going through a divorce, you may be in the middle of abuse, you may be at the best moment of your life and Holy Spirit's trying to speak to you. Holy Spirit, what are you trying to say to me? God, make it clear, show up. I want to accept the upgrade." [18:50](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

3. "Is there any area in your life that you need help? Yes. You need help to know which business deal to take? Ask the Holy Spirit. You need to know if you should leave the relationship that you've been in for 16 years with no commitment and no covenant? You may not even need to ask the Holy Spirit right there, you know, but if you're still confused, ask the Holy Spirit. You need to know God's will for your life. How do I grieve the Holy Spirit if he wasn't there? He's there everywhere." [20:17](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

4. "There's nothing like knowing who to go to for help. Like, have you ever been at a restaurant or something and somebody can't help you? What do you do? Can I speak to your manager? Because for some reason you understand that at that level, I ain't going to get no help. You, you just bringing me the food, but you can't. They messed this up and I ain't paying for it. And it's like, well, ma'am, I'm so sorry. And I don't have to be mean church people. Y'all got to stop being mean to people over your food. They got to know you by your love, not your ignorance." [01:39](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

5. "If you need help knowing what to do in your business, God can help you, Jesus can help you, but there's a God, Holy Spirit, who has been fashion formed and suited to help you and you need to know where to go because the Holy Spirit is your help." [04:37](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "If you want to know the specific will of God on who to marry, you need the Holy Spirit because he's the one that says, leave him alone. But God, he looks like Michael B. Jordan mixed with a little bit of Vin Diesel with just a little bit of Thor from the movie Lord. And he said, and he's going to beat you supernaturally. You need to leave him alone. See, because in the Bible, it says, it would be easy if the Bible laid it out and it was that simple. But the problem is when we come to this life, it's not a straight line. We are presented with all kinds of options." [08:06](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "You can read the Bible all day and he'll say, a sheep know my voice and a stranger they won't listen to. But if you want exact instructions, you need the Holy Spirit. Move to Tulsa. But father, when I moved to Tulsa, do I have a job? Move back to home. God, this business deal has all of the makings of what I've always prayed for, but it's a Ponzi scheme. Don't do it. Keep serving at that job. Keep praying for the home. Ah, no. I know you already signed and told them you were coming, but call them back. Call them back. No, I know you'll be embarrassed, but I'm about to save you four years. Call them back and tell them you made a mistake and just keep going forward where I told you to serve." [10:15](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

3. "Holy Spirit, am I supposed to marry Natalie? Yep. Does that mean I'm going to have to apologize? Yep. And that means I'm going to have to keep apologizing? Yep. And that means I'm going to have to sacrifice for her? Yep. And that means that I'm going to have to cut all these other chicken heads off? Yep. And that means I'm going to have to tell people my story because you asked me to be a pastor? Yep. And that means... Even though it's decades ago when I tell the story, it could potentially scratch the wound that she had again, and I might have to say sorry again? Yep." [13:51](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

4. "All I'm saying to you is no matter where you are right now, even if it feels like you're completely in the dark, I'm asking you listen to the Holy Spirit through what I'm saying and get back in position. That you can step into the light. And now when you read your Bible, God tells you, yeah, you need an assembly of believers that you can be around. You need to get in connection with people that aren't like how you used to be. And well, what church do I go to? There's 50 on the same block. God tells you, you don't need to forsake the gathering together. You need to go to church, but the Bible don't tell you which church to go to. Guess who does? The Holy Spirit." [15:42](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

5. "So many people ask me all the time, pastor, how do I know God's will for my life? Can I paint a picture for you? Take the lights down for me. In your life, God, what is your will for my life? You stand here and God shows you a glimpse of your purpose. How do I get there? I can't step outside of the light. So many people are trying to get there, but when they step out, they step into the darkness. And now I'm at award shows, now I'm living everybody's life. The problem is you got money but no God. The problem is you got a marriage but it is filled with things that don't have God." [06:25](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

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