Guided by Love: Considering Others in Faith

 

Summary

In Romans 14:14-16, Paul emphasizes the importance of considering others in our Christian walk, particularly those who are weaker in faith. The guiding principle is to act in love and charity, always mindful of how our actions might affect our fellow believers. Paul warns against causing harm to a weaker brother by exercising our freedom in a way that might lead them into sin or spiritual difficulty. He reminds us that Christ died for these individuals, and thus, we should treat them with love and respect, even in matters that are indifferent or non-essential to salvation.

Paul's exhortation is not just about avoiding harm but also about ensuring that our good actions are not spoken of as evil. This means that even if something is permissible for us, it may not be beneficial if it causes others to stumble or leads to gossip and scandal within the church. This principle is especially relevant in cross-cultural contexts, such as missionary work, where cultural differences can lead to misunderstandings and offense. The key is to be sensitive to the conscience of others and to prioritize the glory of God in all our actions.

The conscience plays a crucial role in the Christian life, acting as a safeguard against mere intellectualism and false spirituality. It is a God-given monitor that helps us discern right from wrong, and we must be careful not to defile or sear it through repeated disobedience. A healthy conscience keeps us grounded in true Christian living, preventing us from falling into the traps of legalism or licentiousness. Ultimately, our actions should be guided by love, aiming to build up the church and bring glory to God.

Key Takeaways:

- The Christian life requires us to consider the impact of our actions on others, especially those weaker in faith. Our freedom should not lead others into sin or spiritual harm, as Christ died for them, and we are called to act in love and charity. [02:22]

- Even permissible actions can become harmful if they lead to gossip or scandal within the church. We must ensure that our good is not spoken of as evil by being sensitive to the conscience of others and prioritizing the glory of God. [05:31]

- The conscience is a vital part of the Christian life, acting as a safeguard against mere intellectualism and false spirituality. It helps us discern right from wrong and should not be defiled or seared through disobedience. [27:33]

- A healthy conscience prevents us from falling into the traps of legalism or licentiousness. It keeps us grounded in true Christian living, ensuring that our actions are guided by love and aim to build up the church. [36:23]

- Our ultimate goal should be to do all things to the glory of God, avoiding offense to both believers and non-believers. This requires a selfless attitude, seeking the profit of many that they may be saved. [13:23]

Youtube Chapters:

- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:10] - Introduction to Romans 14:14-16
- [01:03] - Considering Others in Christian Life
- [02:22] - Walking in Love and Charity
- [03:39] - Christ's Sacrifice for All
- [05:11] - Avoiding Scandal and Gossip
- [07:17] - Impact on the Church
- [08:03] - Cross-Cultural Sensitivity
- [10:17] - Understanding Conscience
- [13:23] - Doing All to the Glory of God
- [15:21] - Importance of Conscience in Christian Life
- [19:44] - Different Types of Conscience
- [27:33] - Defiling the Conscience
- [36:23] - Conscience as a Safeguard
- [43:02] - Avoiding False Spirituality
- [45:24] - Closing Prayer

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide

Bible Reading:
- Romans 14:14-16
- 1 Corinthians 10:31-33
- 1 Timothy 4:1-2

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Observation Questions:

1. According to Romans 14:14-16, what does Paul say about things that are considered unclean by some believers? How should this affect the behavior of those who are stronger in faith? [00:26]

2. In the sermon, what examples are given of actions that might be permissible but could lead to gossip or scandal within the church? [05:31]

3. How does the sermon describe the role of conscience in the Christian life, and what are the potential dangers of ignoring it? [27:33]

4. What does the sermon suggest about the importance of being sensitive to cultural differences, especially in missionary work? [08:03]

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Interpretation Questions:

1. How does Paul’s instruction in Romans 14:14-16 challenge the way believers exercise their freedom in Christ, especially in relation to those who are weaker in faith? [01:19]

2. What might be the consequences for the church if believers do not heed Paul’s warning about causing their good to be spoken of as evil? [07:17]

3. How does the sermon explain the concept of a "seared conscience," and what are the implications for a believer's spiritual life? [29:45]

4. In what ways does the sermon suggest that a healthy conscience can prevent believers from falling into legalism or licentiousness? [36:23]

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Application Questions:

1. Reflect on a time when your actions, though permissible, might have caused another believer to stumble. How can you approach similar situations differently in the future? [05:31]

2. Consider your own conscience. Are there areas in your life where you feel it has been ignored or defiled? What steps can you take to restore a healthy conscience? [27:33]

3. How can you be more mindful of cultural differences in your interactions with others, especially in a church or missionary context? Share a specific example where this awareness could be applied. [08:03]

4. Think about a recent decision you made. Did you consider how it might affect others in your church community? How can you ensure that your future decisions are guided by love and charity? [02:22]

5. Identify a situation where you might be tempted to stand on your rights rather than prioritize the glory of God. How can you shift your focus to align with Paul’s teaching in 1 Corinthians 10:31-33? [13:23]

6. How can you actively cultivate a good conscience in your daily life? What practices or habits might help you stay sensitive to the Holy Spirit’s guidance? [19:44]

7. Reflect on the sermon’s warning against false spirituality. Are there any beliefs or practices in your life that might fall into this category? How can you address them? [39:08]

Devotional

Day 1: Love in Action: Considering the Weaker Brother
In our Christian journey, we are called to be mindful of how our actions impact others, especially those who are weaker in faith. Paul emphasizes that our freedom should not lead others into sin or spiritual harm. This requires us to act in love and charity, recognizing that Christ died for these individuals. Our actions should reflect the love and respect that Christ has for them, even in matters that may seem indifferent or non-essential to salvation. By prioritizing the well-being of others, we demonstrate the love of Christ in practical ways. [02:22]

Romans 15:1-2 (ESV): "We who are strong have an obligation to bear with the failings of the weak, and not to please ourselves. Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, to build him up."

Reflection: Who in your life might be considered "weaker in faith," and how can you adjust your actions to support and uplift them today?


Day 2: Guarding Against Scandal: The Impact of Our Freedom
Even actions that are permissible for us can become harmful if they lead to gossip or scandal within the church. Paul warns us to ensure that our good is not spoken of as evil by being sensitive to the conscience of others. This is especially important in cross-cultural contexts, where misunderstandings can easily arise. By prioritizing the glory of God in all our actions, we can avoid causing offense and maintain the unity of the church. Our freedom should be exercised with a selfless attitude, seeking the profit of many that they may be saved. [05:31]

1 Corinthians 10:23-24 (ESV): "All things are lawful, but not all things are helpful. All things are lawful, but not all things build up. Let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor."

Reflection: Is there a specific area in your life where your freedom might be causing others to stumble? How can you adjust your behavior to prioritize the unity and peace of the church?


Day 3: The Role of Conscience in Christian Living
The conscience is a vital part of the Christian life, acting as a safeguard against mere intellectualism and false spirituality. It helps us discern right from wrong and should not be defiled or seared through disobedience. A healthy conscience keeps us grounded in true Christian living, preventing us from falling into the traps of legalism or licentiousness. By maintaining a clear conscience, we ensure that our actions are guided by love and aim to build up the church. [27:33]

1 Timothy 1:5 (ESV): "The aim of our charge is love that issues from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith."

Reflection: Are there areas in your life where you have ignored your conscience? How can you begin to listen more closely to this God-given guide today?


Day 4: Avoiding Legalism and Licentiousness
A healthy conscience prevents us from falling into the traps of legalism or licentiousness. It keeps us grounded in true Christian living, ensuring that our actions are guided by love. By focusing on the heart of the gospel, we can avoid the extremes of rigid rule-following or careless living. Our ultimate goal should be to do all things to the glory of God, avoiding offense to both believers and non-believers. This requires a selfless attitude, seeking the profit of many that they may be saved. [36:23]

Galatians 5:13-14 (ESV): "For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'"

Reflection: In what ways might you be leaning towards legalism or licentiousness in your faith journey? How can you refocus on living a life guided by love and grace?


Day 5: Living for the Glory of God
Our ultimate goal as Christians is to do all things to the glory of God. This means avoiding offense to both believers and non-believers and seeking the profit of many that they may be saved. By adopting a selfless attitude and prioritizing the well-being of others, we reflect the love and sacrifice of Christ. In every action, we should aim to bring glory to God, ensuring that our lives are a testament to His grace and love. [13:23]

1 Corinthians 10:31-33 (ESV): "So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. Give no offense to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God, just as I try to please everyone in everything I do, not seeking my own advantage, but that of many, that they may be saved."

Reflection: What is one specific way you can live for the glory of God today, ensuring that your actions reflect His love and grace to those around you?

Quotes

I know and I'm persuaded by the Lord Jesus that there is nothing unclean of itself but to him that esteemeth anything to be unclean to him it is clean but if thy brother be grieved with thy meat now walkest thou not charitably destroy not him with thy meat for whom Christ died let not then your good be evil spoken of. [00:00:17]

The Great rule for all of us in the Christian life is never merely to consider ourselves but to be always considering our brother also our fellow Christians we must never do anything without bearing in mind the possible effect upon this other brother and especially if he happens to be a weak brother. [00:01:05]

We must never allow what we do in that respect to be spoken of in an evil manner so this is the sort of conclusion to this bit of argumentation it's a summing up of it all now he's referring therefore to doing something which is good in and of itself but which leads to harm in others. [00:04:54]

The danger is the tendency is and the devil always encourages it to make the stronger brother say well this whole thing of course is quite ridiculous there's nothing wrong with all this and if there's nothing wrong am I to be held back by these stupid people and the danger therefore is that because he's sees the thing clearly. [00:06:11]

If you do that says the Apostle well you will cause talk and gossip and Scandal and these people in the Church your fellow members will say look at him he's guilty of sin he's not living the true Christian Life he's guilty of license in other words he will be speaking evil of this good thing. [00:06:49]

The foreign missionary comes across this very point and principle quite frequently here they are in an alien culture entirely different from everything that they've ever known and they're there preaching the gospel and people are converted under their ministrations and join the Christian church but as we've been seeing as happened in the early church. [00:07:52]

The ultimate in all this matter is what we read together just now from the 10th chapter of Paul's first epistle to the Corinthians this is the final summing up of it all as the Apostle puts it there he's dealing with exactly the same question only goes into it in yet greater thoroughness. [00:11:03]

Whether therefore he eat or drink or whatsoever he do do all to the glory of God now that's the secret that's the principle don't think so much in terms of right and wronging do all to the glory of God this is the thing that left don't stand on your rights these matters are all indifferent. [00:13:19]

The importance that the Apostle attaches to the conscience it's here and the still clar as I say in 1 Corinthians 10 you see his whole case in a sense is rested on this to him that steth anything to be unclean to him it is unclean that's basic in other words this man's conscience tells him that the thing is unclean. [00:15:50]

The conscience serves two exceptionally vital functions in the Christian here is the first it is the the greatest Safeguard possible against mere theoretical opinions about truth or a mere intellectual interest in truth here is something about which we always have to be on our guard the danger of being a theoretical Christian. [00:33:41]

Conscience is the greatest Safeguard of all against a false spirituality what do I mean by that well this is really what Paul is saying in 1 Timothy 41 and 2 or I'm following now the spirit speakers expressly that in the latter time some shall depart from the faith giving he to seducing spirits and doctrines of devils. [00:38:50]

The greatest Safeguard against this terrible danger is the conscience you see you can listen to people and they'll speak in a highly spiritual and devotional Manner and they'll give you the impression that it's wrong to get married but your conscience will say at once that's not so God made wom for men he said the Wayne shall be one flesh. [00:43:05]

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