Guarding Against Self-Deception in the Christian Walk
Summary
### Summary
Today, we delved into the theme of the self-deceived Christian, exploring how we can avoid falling into the trap of self-deception. We began by emphasizing the importance of listening—listening to our children, spouses, friends, and even our leaders. This act of listening is crucial in our relationships and our walk with God. We prayed for our leaders, including President Trump and President Biden, underscoring the biblical mandate to pray for those in authority, regardless of our personal feelings towards them.
We then transitioned to the core of the message: the self-deceived Christian. Proverbs 21:2 reminds us that every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the Lord weighs the heart. This scripture sets the stage for understanding that self-deception is a real danger for believers. We often think we are right, but without exposing ourselves to the light of God's Word, we can easily be led astray.
We discussed the importance of not isolating ourselves, as isolation can lead to self-deception. Instead, we should seek counsel from others and expose our thoughts and actions to the scrutiny of God's Word. We also touched on the importance of being part of a church community, as it provides accountability and support.
The message highlighted the need for constant self-examination and openness to correction. God corrects those He loves, and receiving correction is a sign of His love. We explored Revelation 3, where Jesus addresses the church in Laodicea, pointing out their lukewarmness and urging them to repent. This passage serves as a sobering reminder that it is possible for Christians to be deceived about their spiritual state.
We also looked at James 1, which warns against merely hearing the Word without doing it. True faith is demonstrated through action. We identified seven things that can hinder our walk with God and lead to self-deception: filthiness, rampant wickedness, the cares of the world, the deceitfulness of riches, desires for other things, traditions of men, and pride.
Finally, we discussed practical steps to avoid self-deception, encapsulated in the acronym "DIGEST TRUTH": Do the Word, Increase your intake of God's Word, Guard your heart, Eliminate falseness, Speak in tongues much, Thank God for truth, and Tap into His presence. By following these steps, we can guard against self-deception and walk in the truth of God's Word.
### Key Takeaways
1. The Importance of Listening: Listening is a vital skill in our relationships and our walk with God. By truly listening to those around us, we can build stronger relationships and better understand God's will for our lives. Listening also helps us stay connected and aware of the needs and concerns of others. [01:24]
2. The Danger of Isolation: Isolation can lead to self-deception. When we isolate ourselves, we rely solely on our own counsel, which can be flawed. Instead, we should seek the counsel of others and expose our thoughts and actions to the light of God's Word. [11:48]
3. Receiving Correction: God corrects those He loves. Receiving correction is a sign of God's love and a necessary part of our spiritual growth. We should be open to correction and willing to change our ways when we are shown where we are wrong. [21:41]
4. The Deceitfulness of Riches and Desires: The deceitfulness of riches and desires for other things can choke the Word of God in our lives. We must guard against these distractions and keep our focus on God's Word and His will for our lives. [39:40]
5. Practical Steps to Avoid Self-Deception: To avoid self-deception, we must do the Word, increase our intake of God's Word, guard our hearts, eliminate falseness, speak in tongues much, thank God for truth, and tap into His presence. These steps help us stay grounded in the truth and avoid the pitfalls of self-deception. [01:00:19]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[01:24] - The Importance of Listening
[02:05] - Praying for Our Leaders
[04:11] - Introduction to Self-Deception
[05:11] - Proverbs 21:2 and Self-Deception
[07:05] - The Need for Self-Examination
[08:50] - God is Always Speaking
[11:02] - The Danger of Isolation
[14:13] - The Importance of Community
[15:56] - Revelation 3: The Church in Laodicea
[19:21] - Jesus' Words to the Church
[21:41] - Receiving Correction
[27:16] - James 1: Quick to Hear, Slow to Speak
[30:26] - The Power of Listening
[32:17] - Putting Away Filthiness and Wickedness
[36:36] - The Parable of the Sower
[39:40] - The Deceitfulness of Riches and Desires
[45:58] - The Traditions of Men and Pride
[47:42] - Guarding Against Pride
[51:13] - Being Doers of the Word
[55:27] - The Self-Deceived Christian
[59:12] - How Not to Be Self-Deceived
[01:00:19] - DIGEST TRUTH: Practical Steps
[01:18:10] - The Community of Faith
[01:22:00] - Guarding Against Ideologies
[01:25:35] - Closing Remarks
Study Guide
### Bible Reading
1. Proverbs 21:2 (ESV): "Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the Lord weighs the heart."
2. Revelation 3:14-22 (ESV): The message to the church in Laodicea, focusing on their lukewarmness and need for repentance.
3. James 1:19-27 (ESV): Instructions on being quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger, and the importance of being doers of the Word.
### Observation Questions
1. According to Proverbs 21:2, what does the Lord weigh, and how does this contrast with how people view their own ways?
2. In Revelation 3:14-22, what specific criticisms does Jesus have for the church in Laodicea, and what does He counsel them to do?
3. James 1:19-27 emphasizes being doers of the Word. What analogy does James use to describe someone who hears the Word but does not do it?
4. The sermon mentioned seven things that can hinder our walk with God and lead to self-deception. Can you list these seven hindrances? [33:45]
### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the concept of self-deception in Proverbs 21:2 relate to the need for self-examination and openness to correction as discussed in the sermon? [07:05]
2. In Revelation 3, Jesus calls the Laodicean church lukewarm. What does it mean to be lukewarm in a spiritual context, and why is this state so dangerous? [19:59]
3. James 1:22 warns against merely hearing the Word without doing it. How does this warning apply to modern Christians, and what are some practical ways to ensure we are doers of the Word? [52:12]
4. The sermon highlighted the importance of community in avoiding self-deception. How does being part of a church community provide accountability and support in our spiritual walk? [13:21]
### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your listening habits. How can you improve your listening skills in your relationships with family, friends, and God? What specific steps will you take this week to be a better listener? [01:24]
2. Isolation can lead to self-deception. Are there areas in your life where you have isolated yourself? How can you seek counsel and community to bring those areas into the light of God's Word? [11:48]
3. Receiving correction is a sign of God's love. Think of a recent time when you received correction. How did you respond, and what can you do to be more open to correction in the future? [21:41]
4. The deceitfulness of riches and desires for other things can choke the Word of God in our lives. Are there any material desires or pursuits that are distracting you from your walk with God? How can you refocus on God's Word and His will for your life? [39:40]
5. The sermon provided practical steps to avoid self-deception using the acronym "DIGEST TRUTH." Which of these steps do you find most challenging, and how can you incorporate it into your daily routine? [01:00:19]
6. Reflect on the importance of being part of a church community. How can you actively contribute to your church community to foster accountability and support for yourself and others? [13:21]
7. Think about a specific area in your life where you might be self-deceived. What practical steps can you take to expose this area to the light of God's Word and seek counsel from others? [07:05]
Devotional
Day 1: The Power of Listening
Listening is a vital skill in our relationships and our walk with God. By truly listening to those around us, we can build stronger relationships and better understand God's will for our lives. Listening also helps us stay connected and aware of the needs and concerns of others. When we listen, we show love and respect, and we open ourselves to learning and growing. Listening to God through His Word and prayer is equally important, as it guides us in our daily decisions and helps us align our lives with His will. [01:24]
James 1:19-20 (ESV): "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God."
Reflection: Think of a recent conversation where you could have listened more attentively. How can you practice better listening in your relationships this week?
Day 2: The Danger of Isolation
Isolation can lead to self-deception. When we isolate ourselves, we rely solely on our own counsel, which can be flawed. Instead, we should seek the counsel of others and expose our thoughts and actions to the light of God's Word. Being part of a church community provides accountability and support, helping us stay grounded in truth. Isolation can make us vulnerable to wrong thinking and spiritual stagnation. By engaging with others, we open ourselves to correction, encouragement, and growth. [11:48]
Proverbs 18:1 (ESV): "Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment."
Reflection: Are there areas in your life where you have isolated yourself? How can you reach out to your church community for support and accountability this week?
Day 3: Embracing Correction
God corrects those He loves. Receiving correction is a sign of God's love and a necessary part of our spiritual growth. We should be open to correction and willing to change our ways when we are shown where we are wrong. Embracing correction helps us grow in wisdom and maturity, aligning our lives more closely with God's will. It is important to remember that correction, though sometimes uncomfortable, is a tool God uses to refine us and draw us closer to Him. [21:41]
Hebrews 12:6-7 (ESV): "For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives. It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline?"
Reflection: Think of a recent instance where you received correction. How did you respond, and how can you embrace correction as a sign of God's love in the future?
Day 4: Guarding Against Distractions
The deceitfulness of riches and desires for other things can choke the Word of God in our lives. We must guard against these distractions and keep our focus on God's Word and His will for our lives. Worldly desires and materialism can easily lead us astray, causing us to prioritize temporary pleasures over eternal truths. By staying vigilant and keeping our hearts aligned with God's Word, we can avoid the pitfalls of distraction and remain faithful to His calling. [39:40]
Mark 4:19 (ESV): "But the cares of the world and the deceitfulness of riches and the desires for other things enter in and choke the word, and it proves unfruitful."
Reflection: What are some distractions in your life that may be hindering your spiritual growth? How can you refocus your priorities to align more closely with God's Word?
Day 5: Practical Steps to Avoid Self-Deception
To avoid self-deception, we must do the Word, increase our intake of God's Word, guard our hearts, eliminate falseness, speak in tongues much, thank God for truth, and tap into His presence. These steps help us stay grounded in the truth and avoid the pitfalls of self-deception. By actively engaging with God's Word and seeking His presence, we can ensure that our faith is genuine and our walk with Him is steadfast. [01:00:19]
James 1:22 (ESV): "But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves."
Reflection: Which of the practical steps to avoid self-deception can you start implementing today? How will you commit to making these steps a regular part of your spiritual practice?
Quotes
### Quotes for Outreach
1. "It is right for us to pray. It doesn't matter how you feel about the person in office, whether you voted for them or not. It is the biblical thing to do, is to pray. So, I want to challenge you to do those things, amen. Don't rejoice at the downfall of anybody, wicked or not. But instead, pray. Amen." [02:57] (20 seconds)
2. "We need the Holy Spirit and we need to be open. I've been stuck for years. And you have too. But thank God for the Holy Spirit. He can help us. He can cause us to have a better life. If you keep doing things over and over, but expecting different results, it's called what? Insanity. And so we don't want to be insane." [07:05] (19 seconds)
3. "God is constantly speaking. He's given us 66 books. Everybody say 66 books. So we have 66 books that we need to devour. We need to learn. And if you'll listen to the written word, you'll know his spoken word because you have something to judge it by. All right. Any thoughts that you may have, you can compare it to the word of God." [08:50] (25 seconds)
4. "We need each other. Your arm doesn't say, well, I don't need the heart or the eyes or the ears or your body. The Bible refers to the church at large as of the body and members of the body of Christ. And we need our members. There's some members, you know, as you know, lady, Courtney got rid of one of her members that, you know, you can live without them. But for the most part, we need our body parts." [13:21] (23 seconds)
5. "We belong to Jesus. They say I belong to Jesus. Come on. Say it with some meaning. I belong to Jesus. If you belong to Jesus, your desires should submit to his Lordship. Lord, what do you want me to do? Lord, what do you want me to do? You want me to take this job? Do you want me to take another job? Do you want to Lord before when you're single? Lord, should I marry this person or should I not?" [44:19] (28 seconds)
### Quotes for Members
1. "We need God. We need the Holy Spirit and we need to be open. I've been stuck for years. And you have too. But thank God for the Holy Spirit. He can help us. He can cause us to have a better life. If you keep doing things over and over, but expecting different results, it's called what? Insanity. And so we don't want to be insane." [07:05] (19 seconds)
2. "If we're going to not be deceived, we got to receive correction. Correction is not always easy. It doesn't feel good. But we got to receive correction. The Lord corrects those he loves. If there's no correction, there's no love. God will correct you. And here the Lord told this church, it is possible for, it lets us know it is possible for Christians to be, to be deceived." [22:36] (29 seconds)
3. "The self-deceived Christian believes that they are actually praising God because they listen to praise and worship. The self-deceived Christian believes they're actually doing the word. Because they got a bunch of books about the word. The self-deceived Christian believes that they're doing the word because they're hearing the word. They equate hearing to doing or because they think they know something. They actually believe that they're actually doing it because, you know, it don't mean you're doing it." [53:39] (37 seconds)
4. "We need each other. Do not counsel yourself. Do not be by yourself. There's a time, you know, you just seeking the Lord, but don't stay in that. God never called people to go up in the mountains and stay forever for the rest of their life. They're no good to the kingdom of God. Did you hear me? They're no good to the kingdom of God. If you I'm a I'm in the I'm going to go and pray and I'm going to carry this burden for the world. You're not a light you darkness." [01:16:55] (24 seconds)
5. "We need to spend time reading the Bible every day. It reminds us that God exists. It reminds us that we need Jesus. It reminds us how God interacts with humanity. It reminds us that God is good. It reminds us of our future. Sometimes it's hard to forget about the master plan. And it shows us where we're heading. Increase your intake of God's word." [01:09:42] (28 seconds)