Guarding Against Complacency: Strengthening Faith and Marriage

 

Summary

### Summary

Today, we celebrated our VBS volunteers and those going out to share the love of Jesus Christ. We also focused on the importance of marriage, sharing personal reflections on my 51-year journey with my wife. I emphasized that no marriage is without its challenges, but with God's help, nothing is impossible. We prayed for blessings over all marriages, asking for God's wisdom and guidance.

We then discussed the ease of sharing the gospel through simple means, like distributing cards with QR codes that lead to a salvation message. This is an easy way to spread the love of Jesus without feeling intimidated.

The core of today's message was about the dangers of complacency and compromise. Using biblical examples like David, Solomon, and Rehoboam, we explored how complacency can lead to compromise, which in turn leads to sin and its devastating consequences. David's fall into sin with Bathsheba and Solomon's idolatry were highlighted as cautionary tales. Both men started strong but allowed complacency to lead them astray.

We also examined the spiritual lukewarmness of the Laodicean church, which Jesus found distasteful. This serves as a warning to us to stay spiritually fervent and not become lukewarm. Complacency leads to compromise, which leads to sin and ultimately death, both spiritual and physical.

I encouraged everyone to press into God, to read the Word daily, and to rely on the Holy Spirit for guidance and strength. The Holy Spirit is our helper, encourager, and teacher, and we must not neglect this divine relationship.

Finally, I extended an invitation to anyone who has not yet accepted Jesus Christ as their Savior, emphasizing the urgency and importance of making that decision today.

### Key Takeaways

1. The Importance of Marriage and God's Role in It: Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God. Despite the challenges, with God's help, nothing is impossible. My own 51-year marriage has had its ups and downs, but God's grace has seen us through. We must continually seek God's wisdom and guidance to strengthen our marriages. [43:06]

2. The Ease of Sharing the Gospel: Sharing the love of Jesus doesn't have to be intimidating. Simple acts like distributing cards with QR codes can make a significant impact. These small gestures can lead people to the message of salvation and the goodness of God. [41:45]

3. The Dangers of Complacency and Compromise: Complacency is the first step towards compromise, which leads to sin and its devastating consequences. Biblical examples like David and Solomon show how even the most faithful can fall if they become complacent. We must guard our hearts and stay vigilant. [01:03:12]

4. Spiritual Lukewarmness is Distasteful to God: The church of Laodicea was neither hot nor cold, and Jesus found this lukewarm state nauseating. We must strive to be spiritually fervent, either hot and healing or cold and refreshing, but never lukewarm. [01:20:20]

5. Relying on the Holy Spirit: The Holy Spirit is our helper, encourager, and teacher. We must cultivate a relationship with the Holy Spirit to gain wisdom, strength, and guidance. This divine relationship is crucial for overcoming complacency and living a life that honors God. [01:23:41]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[40:37] - Celebrating VBS Volunteers
[41:15] - Sharing the Gospel Made Easy
[43:06] - Blessing Marriages
[45:20] - Prayer for Marriages
[47:06] - Word of Life Confession
[48:02] - Personal Testimony of Healing
[50:00] - The Battle of Faith
[51:40] - God's Will is Healing and Blessing
[53:05] - Warning Against Complacency
[56:08] - The Consequences of Complacency
[01:00:50] - David's Fall into Sin
[01:07:05] - Solomon's Idolatry
[01:09:07] - Rehoboam's Complacency
[01:12:36] - Guarding Our Hearts
[01:16:31] - The Danger of Lukewarmness
[01:20:20] - The Laodicean Church
[01:23:41] - Relying on the Holy Spirit
[01:27:00] - Invitation to Accept Christ
[01:28:36] - Closing Prayer and Encouragement

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. 2 Samuel 11:1-5 - The story of David and Bathsheba.
2. 1 Kings 11:1-13 - Solomon's idolatry.
3. Revelation 3:15-16 - The lukewarmness of the Laodicean church.

#### Observation Questions
1. What actions did David take that led to his sin with Bathsheba? ([01:00:50])
2. How did Solomon's heart turn away from God in his later years? ([01:07:05])
3. What was Jesus' reaction to the lukewarmness of the Laodicean church? ([01:20:20])
4. How did the pastor describe the ease of sharing the gospel with QR code cards? ([41:45])

#### Interpretation Questions
1. What does David's fall into sin teach us about the dangers of complacency? ([01:03:12])
2. How did Solomon's idolatry affect his relationship with God and his kingdom? ([01:07:05])
3. Why is spiritual lukewarmness so distasteful to Jesus, according to Revelation 3:15-16? ([01:20:20])
4. How can simple acts like distributing QR code cards be an effective way to share the gospel? ([41:45])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your own marriage or relationships. How can you seek God's wisdom and guidance to strengthen them? ([43:06])
2. Have you ever felt intimidated to share the gospel? What simple steps can you take to overcome this fear? ([41:45])
3. In what areas of your life might you be experiencing complacency? How can you guard against it to avoid compromise? ([01:03:12])
4. How can you ensure that you remain spiritually fervent and avoid becoming lukewarm in your faith? ([01:20:20])
5. What role does the Holy Spirit play in your daily life? How can you cultivate a deeper relationship with the Holy Spirit for guidance and strength? ([01:23:41])
6. Think of a time when you compromised your values. What led to that decision, and how can you prevent it from happening again? ([01:03:12])
7. Identify one person in your life who might benefit from hearing the gospel. How can you share the love of Jesus with them this week in a simple and non-intimidating way? ([41:45])

Devotional

Day 1: The Sacredness and Resilience of Marriage
Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, and it is essential to recognize that no marriage is without its challenges. However, with God's help, nothing is impossible. The journey of marriage is filled with ups and downs, but God's grace can see couples through even the most difficult times. It is crucial to continually seek God's wisdom and guidance to strengthen and sustain marriages. By doing so, couples can experience the fullness of God's blessings in their union. [43:06]

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (ESV): "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken."

Reflection: Think about a recent challenge in your marriage or a close relationship. How can you invite God into that situation to seek His wisdom and guidance?


Day 2: Simple Acts of Evangelism
Sharing the love of Jesus doesn't have to be intimidating. Simple acts, such as distributing cards with QR codes that lead to a salvation message, can make a significant impact. These small gestures can open the door for people to encounter the message of salvation and the goodness of God. By taking these small steps, believers can spread the love of Jesus in a way that is approachable and effective. [41:45]

Matthew 5:14-16 (ESV): "You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven."

Reflection: Think of a simple way you can share the love of Jesus with someone today. Can you commit to doing this small act of evangelism this week?


Day 3: The Perils of Complacency and Compromise
Complacency is the first step towards compromise, which leads to sin and its devastating consequences. Biblical examples like David and Solomon illustrate how even the most faithful can fall if they become complacent. David's fall into sin with Bathsheba and Solomon's idolatry serve as cautionary tales. It is essential to guard our hearts and stay vigilant to avoid the pitfalls of complacency. [01:03:12]

1 Corinthians 10:12-13 (ESV): "Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed lest he fall. No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."

Reflection: Reflect on an area of your life where you may have become complacent. What steps can you take to guard your heart and stay vigilant in your faith?


Day 4: Avoiding Spiritual Lukewarmness
The church of Laodicea was neither hot nor cold, and Jesus found this lukewarm state nauseating. Believers must strive to be spiritually fervent, either hot and healing or cold and refreshing, but never lukewarm. Spiritual lukewarmness is distasteful to God and can lead to a life that lacks true commitment and passion for Him. It is vital to maintain a fervent spiritual life to honor God fully. [01:20:20]

Revelation 3:15-16 (ESV): "I know your works: you are neither cold nor hot. Would that you were either cold or hot! So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth."

Reflection: Examine your spiritual life. Are there areas where you have become lukewarm? What practical steps can you take to reignite your passion for God?


Day 5: Cultivating a Relationship with the Holy Spirit
The Holy Spirit is our helper, encourager, and teacher. Cultivating a relationship with the Holy Spirit is crucial for gaining wisdom, strength, and guidance. This divine relationship helps believers overcome complacency and live a life that honors God. By relying on the Holy Spirit, believers can navigate the challenges of life with divine assistance and grow in their spiritual journey. [01:23:41]

John 14:26 (ESV): "But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you."

Reflection: How can you cultivate a deeper relationship with the Holy Spirit this week? What specific actions can you take to rely more on His guidance and strength?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "I want to encourage anyone that's struggling in their bodies here this morning. I want to encourage you, hang on to the promises of God. It was a matter of about four or five, maybe even six weeks ago, I walked into the sanctuary. I could barely walk. The pain was so bad. You've heard me share that. I'm not going to get into that. The pain, but the pain was so bad." [48:02] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "Don't give up. The enemy will try to get you discouraged and he will try. Don't give up. Don't give in to his lies and his deception that this is what God has intended for you or this is the way you'll be the rest of your life. No, believe God for what he has declared within his word." [49:08] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "Any battle that you're facing, any circumstance that you're facing, it may be in your marriage, it may be in your body, it may be within your mind, your mind being tormented. And I declare in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, be free, be free, be healed through our Christ and our King." [50:30] (18 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "I want to encourage you to fellowship through the Holy Spirit. As I shared last week, perhaps, I don't know if it was on Wednesday or last Sunday, but I shared this, that I'm coming into a new understanding of the purpose of the Holy Spirit, that it just came alive to me. He's my helper. He's my encourager. He is the one that will give me insight and wisdom and understanding. He will teach me all truths." [01:23:41] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "I believe that we can walk in a place where the power and the favor and the goodness of God as the kingdom come, God's will be done. Well, we know what his will is. His will is healing. His will is blessing. His will is favor in the lives of his children." [51:40] (16 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "You can't fall into sin unless you first fall into complacency. I heard Andrew Womack say this. You cannot go anywhere with your body that you haven't already been in your mind. Think about that. That is a heavy statement. The enemy wants to continue to plague your mind with evil thoughts. And oftentimes he's waiting for you to take hold of one and begin to meditate and think about it." [01:14:38] (36 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "I believe that when Paul spoke of those who were ever learning but never coming to the knowledge of the truth is because their hearts were hard. They were complacent and being complacent they fell into compromise. But you are not like that. Your heart is open and receptive to receive the truth of God's word that is going to change, transform your life for his glory and for his honor." [56:38] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "The point of this is simply this. We need to continue to guard our hearts, church. And I believe that there would probably be some here today that I'm speaking to, some who are listening to us online at this very moment. You've become lukewarm. You've cooled off. You've become complacent. And you find yourself in a place where you're thinking about, if not already, in a place of compromise." [01:12:36] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "Complacency leads to compromise. And compromise leads to sin. And sin leads to death. Romans 6:23, the wages or the earnings, watch that, think of that word wages, the wages of sin. In other words, what you have earned by living in sin or moving in sin or giving yourself to sin, what you have earned is death." [57:27] (41 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "I want to close today just with this encouragement. If you're not feeding in the Word daily, feed in the Word. I understand it may take some discipline, some sacrifice, maybe getting up 15 minutes in the morning earlier to spend some time in the Word of God and love the Spirit of God to speak to you in these ways. But I want to encourage you to do it." [01:22:11] (60 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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