Growing in Intimacy and Oneness With God

Oct 18, 2026

Devotional

Day 1: Becoming One With God Through Surrendered Will

The deepest intimacy with God begins when our desires align with His. Just as Jesus prayed for believers to become one with the Father, this unity requires surrendering our plans, fears, and ambitions. It’s not about negotiating with God but letting His purposes rewrite our priorities. True oneness means His dreams become our lifeline, His voice our compass. This spiritual fusion transforms how we live, pray, and love. The world recognizes God’s power not through our arguments, but through our surrendered unity with Him. [01:07:10]

“And this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent.” (John 17:3, NIV)

Reflection: What area of your life feels most resistant to God’s leadership? How might surrendering it deepen your oneness with Him?

Day 2: Growing Into Heirship Through Daily Closeness

Keys to the kingdom aren’t handed to spiritual infants. Like a prince training to rule, believers grow into their inheritance through intentional nearness to the Father. Jesus modeled this, rising before dawn to pray alone. Favor with God isn’t automatic—it’s cultivated through habits that thin the veil between heaven and earth. Each quiet moment, Scripture soaked in, and obedient step prepares us to steward greater authority. Maturity isn’t about age but the consistency of drawing close. [58:10]

“But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” (2 Peter 3:18, NIV)

Reflection: What daily rhythm could you start or strengthen to “grow in favor” with God as Jesus did?

Day 3: Hearing the Whisper That Changes Everything

God’s voice often comes as a nudge—a thought during traffic, a verse that lingers, a sudden urge to help a stranger. Recognizing it requires silencing distractions and tuning our hearts. Like a child distinguishing their parent’s call in a crowd, believers learn divine whispers through repeated encounters. Every obeyed prompt strengthens our discernment. The goal isn’t dramatic signs but a conversational relationship where His guidance feels as natural as breathing. [01:16:19]

“My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” (John 10:27, NIV)

Reflection: When has a “whisper” from God redirected you? How can you create space to hear Him more clearly today?

Day 4: Repentance as a Bridge to Deeper Intimacy

Sin isn’t just broken rules—it’s relational distance. Every unconfessed grudge, habit, or prideful stance erects walls between us and God. Repentance isn’t shame’s dead end but a bridge back to closeness. Like David after Bathsheba, raw honesty invites restoration. God often highlights old wounds or conflicts because unresolved baggage limits our capacity to carry His presence. Cleansed hands and pure hearts aren’t prerequisites for approaching God—they’re the fruit of approaching Him. [01:21:28]

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9, NIV)

Reflection: What relationship or habit might God be asking you to reconcile to remove barriers to intimacy?

Day 5: Prioritizing Kingdom Business Over Earthly Urgency

Heirs live differently. They invest time, resources, and energy into what lasts beyond paychecks and funerals. Seeking God’s kingdom first isn’t neglecting responsibilities—it’s filtering them through eternal significance. Like a farmer planting seeds while buying groceries, believers balance earthly duties with heavenly priorities. Every act of worship, service, and obedience stocks heaven’s account. The more we value our inheritance, the more naturally kingdom choices flow. [01:33:09]

“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:33, NIV)

Reflection: What “urgent” earthly concern might God want you to entrust to Him so you can focus on eternal priorities?

Sermon Summary

God’s love gives believers the right to become children of God, not someday down the road, but now. The Spirit bears witness that they belong to the Father, and that family relationship makes them heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ. Christianity is not a list of rules that earns a place with God. Christianity is relationship, Father and children, built on the right God has given through Christ.

Heirship carries a growing process. Galatians shows that an heir can be master of all and still live under guardians until the time appointed by the father. Spiritual growth is not just getting older, knowing more Bible facts, or looking mature on the outside. Jesus grew in wisdom, stature, and favor with God and man, showing that growing up in God means growing closer to Him.

Intimacy with God becomes the goal. Jesus prayed that His people would be one, just as He and the Father are one. That oneness will be complete in heaven, but the desire for it ought to shape life right now. The closer a child gets to God, the more that child becomes ready to carry kingdom responsibility.

The word “know” carries more weight than head knowledge. Adam “knew” Eve, and the word points to a coming together as one. Jesus says eternal life is knowing the only true God and Jesus Christ whom He sent. Demons know facts about God, but they do not surrender to Him. Knowing God means yielding personal will, desires, plans, and ways until His will becomes the thing that directs life.

Jesus gives the pattern for that kind of closeness. Jesus got alone with the Father before sunrise, making room for one-on-one time without all the noise. Prayer includes talking to God, but it also includes sitting still long enough to hear Him. The Father speaks to His children and confirms His voice as they learn to recognize it.

Truth must also become part of a believer’s DNA. Jesus says truth makes people free when they know it, embrace it, and act on it. Repentance keeps the heart clean as God exposes things that do not belong near Him. Fellowship, humility, submission to godly authority, reconciliation with brothers and sisters, and making the Father’s business first all draw God’s children closer. The ultimate goal remains simple and deep: “that they may know You,” becoming one with the Father.

Key Takeaways

1. Childhood in God is present reality God does not merely promise future belonging. Through Christ, believers are called God’s children now, and the Spirit confirms that identity against every accusation of the enemy. That identity is relational before it is functional, because children receive from a Father rather than strive to earn a place in His house. [52:31]
2. Heirs must grow into responsibility Heirship is real from the beginning, but kingdom responsibility requires growth. God does not hand the keys to a child who has not learned His heart, His ways, or His voice. Spiritual maturity means becoming fit to carry what the Father wants to entrust. [58:10]
3. Knowing God means becoming one Knowledge about God can fill a mind while leaving a life untouched. The biblical sense of knowing God calls for surrendered will, where His desires become the desires that shape a person’s choices. Eternal life is not mere information about God, but living union with Him. [1:06:52]
4. Closeness requires quiet, responsive time Jesus made time to get alone with the Father, and that pattern exposes the cost of intimacy. Prayer cannot remain a one-sided stream of words if a child is going to learn the Father’s voice. God’s leading becomes clearer as His children make room to listen and respond. [1:15:08]
5. Repentance protects intimacy with God God’s holiness reveals hidden sin, old wounds, and unresolved wrongs as His children draw near. Repentance may require confession to God, but it may also require making things right with a wounded brother or sister. Unity with the Father cannot be separated from a clear conscience toward His children. [1:23:18]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[46:28] - Children of God by Faith
[53:21] - The Spirit Confirms God’s Children
[55:45] - Heirs and Joint Heirs With Christ
[56:57] - Growing Into Kingdom Responsibility
[58:45] - Jesus Grew in Favor With God
[1:00:39] - The Call to Intimacy With God
[1:01:27] - Jesus Prays for Oneness
[1:04:43] - Yadah: Knowing God as One
[1:07:34] - More Than Head Knowledge
[1:11:56] - Jesus’ Pattern of Private Prayer
[1:14:45] - Listening for the Father’s Voice
[1:18:24] - Truth That Becomes Part of Life
[1:20:20] - Repentance and Reconciliation
[1:25:05] - Fellowship, Humility, and God’s Kingdom

Bible Study Guide

Bible Reading

John 1:12-13
“Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God— children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.” [50:19]

1 John 3:1-2
“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.” [51:30]

Romans 8:14-17
“For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.” [53:21]

Observation questions

In John 1:12–13, what is the connection between receiving Christ, believing in His name, and becoming a child of God? [50:19]
According to 1 John 3:1–2, when are believers called children of God—only in the future, or in the present? [52:19]
In Romans 8:14–17, what words describe the Spirit’s role in a believer’s relationship with God, and what does the passage say children of God become? [53:21]
What picture does the example of an heir who is still a child give about growth before receiving responsibility? [56:49]

Interpretation questions

What does it mean that becoming God’s child is a gift and a right given through Christ, rather than a place earned by religious effort? [54:33]
Romans 8 connects being led by the Spirit with being God’s children. How might the Spirit’s leading help a believer live from the security of being a child rather than from fear?
If believers are already heirs of God but still need to grow, what kind of growth prepares a person to carry greater kingdom responsibility? [58:10]
Jesus prayed that His people would be one with the Father and the Son. How does this help explain that knowing God involves more than knowing Bible facts? [01:06:43]

Application questions

When accusations, shame, or fear make it difficult to feel close to God, what would it look like to remember that the Spirit confirms, “This one belongs to God”? [54:12]
Where might there be a tendency to treat Christianity mainly as rules to follow instead of a Father-child relationship to enjoy? What is one simple way to lean into that relationship this week? [54:33]
What is one area in which spiritual growth is needed before greater responsibility can be trusted? How could growing closer to God, not merely gaining more information, change that area? [59:49]
What time and place could realistically become regular one-on-one time with the Father this week, with distractions set aside? [01:13:42]
In prayer, is there usually more talking than listening? What might help create a few quiet minutes to listen for God’s direction and to test it by His Word? [01:15:05]
Has God recently brought a truth, a sinful habit, or an unresolved relationship to mind? What step of repentance, confession, or reconciliation may be needed to respond faithfully? [01:21:03]

Sermon Clips

30s

#EternalLife

“That is what Jesus call eternal life. Eternal life is that they may know you, become one with you. That is the goal, guys. That is the ultimate goal. If you don't get anything else that I have said today, if you don't get anything that is ever said to you about your walk and your relationship with God, know that his ultimate goal is for you and he to become like this.”

32s

#ListeningPrayer

“He prayed talking with God. Guess what? He wasn't the only one talking, guys. Prayer is not us doing all the talking. Prayer is actually sometimes spent silently listening to the voice of the Lord. This is how you get to know his voice. This is how you learn how he's speaking to you. As you get alone and you quiet the outside world and you spend some time listening to the father.”

45s

#OneWithGod

“Although I would love to go to heaven with him right now. So much I gotta do. But, anyway, there is a proximity in this thing called relationship, guys. Intimacy with God is real, and we have to prioritize it to get closer and closer and closer. And the ultimate goal is to become one with him. Like Jesus said, that they may know you. And like he said in the Bible, you don't want him to say, I don't know you. This is not a head knowledge. Always remember, this is yada knowledge. This is, like, becoming one until you and he think alike, you feel alike. Everything becomes one in you. That is the goal.”

47s

#LiveTheTruth

“the truth, not just the head knowledge. Don't just read it to gain a head knowledge of it. Read it to become one with it. Say, Lord, I want you to make the truth in this word, in your word, who I am. I want you to make it me. I wanna become one with what I read. So now when you read and revelation hits you, a fire, something in you says, I gotta do something about that right now. I gotta... I... Lord, help me fix that right now. It's not something that that you you you tend to later. When you read the word and you becoming one with it and, and and the Lord hits you with a revelation or something, you wanna do something about that right now.”

34s

#DrawCloserToGod

“This is the intimacy that the Bible is talking about. The ultimate goal of a believer in God is to get as close to God as humanly possible, as close as you possibly can until be... You become one. We ultimately know that that doesn't happen until we get to heaven, but that doesn't stop us from achieving. It doesn't stop us from, trying to achieve that here on this earth. That's Jesus' desire for us, that that they may be one in us, that the world may believe that you sent me.”

52s

#RelationshipNotReligion

“Why is this important, guys? That's because our faith is one that is founded on relationship, not religion. Christianity, what we believe, everything that we believe in, it's based on a relationship between us and the father. It's not a list of religious rules that we father. No other no other religion on the planet can say they garner a relationship with the creator of the universe like we do. Ours is not a religion a religion, it's a relationship, a relationship between God and us, which he calls fathers and children. We are his children, and he is our father. That is the basis of our faith. Why am I saying all of this? This is important. I'm going somewhere.”

56s

#Reconciliation

“Sometimes that happens. The scripture says when you come to him with with with an offering, worship, whatever it might be, when you come before the Lord on a Sunday morning or anytime you get ready to come before the Lord, and there he reminds you that your brother has something against you. He says, lay down your offering. Stop what you're doing. Put it on pause. Go get right with your brother, and then come make your offering. This is how important this is to God because we're all his sibling, all his children. We're all siblings, and God didn't like when his children have a problem between them because that's the vision. That's when the enemy starts to work. So he will, from time to time, say, hey. I need you to remember this and go get it right. That's part of repentance. Sometimes our repentance is directly with him, but sometimes our repentance is with others.”

29s

#HearGodsVoice

“Can can I talk a little bit now? Now now you... Don't don't be in a hurry and go, oh, man. Can't... No. Sit. Sit still and let him talk. We we wanna hear him. Right? This is how this happens. You have to be willing to say, I'm gonna sit here for a few minutes and listen for the voice of God, and he is a good dad. He will talk to you, and he will let you know it's him. You'll be like, woah. Woah.”

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