Grieving with Hope: Embracing Faith in Loss

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For a believer, where is home? It's heaven. And so much of grief today is built on us. It's on us. Oh, I miss him. Oh, I, me, this, that. Yes, we have to go through some of that. But dude, they're home. I told my wife on the boat the other day, we were on the pontoon boat. We were on Mac's boat. I'm not sure who all was on that boat, but we were on that boat and, and, and we were all talking. And I said, man, I love my wife, but not as much as Jesus. I love my children. I love my grandkids, but not as much as Jesus. [00:23:02] (36 seconds) Edit Clip


And so when we know, in fact, Paul was trying to beat that into the heads of the Colossians, the Galatians, the Ephesians, the Romans, he's like, we don't, are not hopeless. Like all those people who don't have Christ. We're not hopeless like them. We have a home of perfection forever. Amen. And Chuck is there now. [00:24:31] (23 seconds) Edit Clip


I don't know how long it's going to take you to get past feelings, and they'll come, they'll go, and all of that. But the fact is, we don't live by feelings. We live by what? We live by faith. And that's true with everything. But it seems that we have given in the church a pass card of, you know, a card that, oh, well, when it comes to death, now you can live by feelings. Baloney! We live by what? We live by faith. [00:25:51] (28 seconds) Edit Clip


And so when I went up and I got to talk to his sisters, you know, I told the one, I said, you know what, we can't freak out on the worst days. We can't get too excited on the best days. We just got to ride it out like the stock market. And she's kind of looking at me, and we went in and went to go pray with Chuck, and all his vitals were pretty low and whatever. And I grabbed his hand, and I prayed. And as the Holy Spirit led me to talk about eternity, I'm talking, I could feel him squeezing my hand when I'm talking about eternity. He knew where he was going, and he knew he was ready to go. [00:26:52] (36 seconds) Edit Clip


But we've got feelings in so many areas of our life. The feelings, we don't live by feelings. We live by faith. Faith comes from the Word of God. We've got to let the Word of God overcome our feelings. And with everything, not just death. And there's no pass on that. So, man, I want y 'all to rejoice. [00:28:05] (22 seconds) Edit Clip


And with Chuck, that story out of 2 Samuel is how I felt when I looked at Chuck, when I was praying with Chuck, and I'm watching his body deteriorate. You guys know as well as I do. Abby, you know, there's no way Chuck would be able to live like that. Man, and he's got total freedom now, total peace if we believe what the Word of God says. [00:28:27] (29 seconds) Edit Clip


And I would trade places in a heartbeat with him if God wanted me to. So fortunate where he's at right now. But I want you as a believer to not see this as the world. You've got to see it as God sees it. And yeah, we're going to have our moments. We're going to have things, but we've got to live by faith, not by feelings. Amen? All right. [00:29:31] (25 seconds) Edit Clip


And so again, I want to encourage you. I love what JJ said. He had to take Keone, allow God to take Keone from the feelings, from the feelings to fact and let God take him there. And when he got to fact, it's like, cool, now we can remember the good times. Now we can experience, we can remember all of that. And one day we'll all be up in heaven eternally together doing that. [00:24:54] (25 seconds) Edit Clip


So in this, bottom line, I got the privilege of being with Chuck. In fact, after we had lunch on Tuesday, we talked to you, talked about the stroke scenario and how it can be really a long thing. And what I've heard from everybody is it's long, it's up, it's down. And I said, yeah, it sounds like the stock market. And, you know, you can't, just because the stocks went crazy on one day, you can't look, ah! You got to just wait it out. See what God's going to do. See what happens. [00:26:25] (26 seconds) Edit Clip


So again, by grace, you've been saved. It's a gift from God through faith. God gives you the faith through grace. The gift, faith is in that gift. So believe God's Word. [01:52:04] (11 seconds) Edit Clip


In everything, in everything, give what? Thanks. How many of y 'all are like, yeah, yeah, you didn't experience what I experienced today. You didn't feel... No, in everything, give thanks. How about when he tells us we have peace, but you don't feel like you have peace, but God's Word says you have peace. What do you do with that, Ann? You have a whole mountain of evidence saying, I do not have peace right now. There is more chaos in my life than anything, but God's Word says I have what? So you've got to believe what? By faith. I have peace. [01:52:04] (29 seconds) Edit Clip


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