Gratitude: All My Words Fall Short - Week 1

Gratitude is not just a feeling, but a way of seeing the world and the people around us. When we begin to view other churches and believers as partners rather than competitors, our hearts are opened to the greater work God is doing in our community and beyond. Each week, we intentionally lift up other congregations in prayer, recognizing that we are all co-laborers in the mission of bringing people into God’s kingdom. This posture of gratitude extends beyond our church walls and into our daily lives, shaping how we respond to both blessings and challenges.

Reflecting on recent events, like our trunk or treat outreach, it’s easy to fall into the trap of self-congratulation, attributing success to our own efforts. Yet, true gratitude redirects the glory to God, acknowledging that every good thing comes from Him and is accomplished through the collective work of His people. Even when things don’t go as planned—whether it’s running out of supplies, facing unexpected obstacles, or dealing with personal trials—gratitude shifts our focus from what’s lacking to what God is already doing.

Paul’s letter to the Philippians, written from house arrest, overflows with thankfulness for the believers who supported him. His gratitude wasn’t rooted in their gifts, but in their partnership in the gospel and the evidence of God’s work in their lives. This teaches us that gratitude is a spiritual discipline, a posture that lifts our eyes from our own shortcomings and frustrations to the fingerprints of God in others. It’s about seeing people through the lens of grace, choosing to remember their encouragement and support rather than their flaws.

Gratitude also trusts that God will finish what He starts. We are all works in progress, being shaped and refined by God’s faithful hand. Even when life feels unfinished or messy, we can rest in the confidence that God is not done with us yet. This trust frees us to pray with purpose, asking God to grow our love, deepen our discernment, and fill us with the fruit of righteousness. When we encounter trials, gratitude helps us see them as opportunities for growth and testimony, rather than just inconveniences.

Finally, gratitude grows when it is shared. By expressing thankfulness to those who have encouraged us, we not only bless them but also cultivate a habit of gratitude in our own hearts. This week, let’s practice daily gratitude—thanking God for the people He’s placed in our lives, reaching out to encourage others, and remembering that every circumstance is an opportunity to give God the glory.

Key Takeaways

• 1. Seeing Others as Partners, Not Competitors When we view fellow believers and churches as co-laborers in God’s mission rather than rivals, our hearts are freed from comparison and competition. This unity allows us to celebrate the work God is doing through others and to pray for their success as if it were our own. True gratitude flourishes when we recognize that the kingdom of God is bigger than our individual efforts or congregations. [00:44]
• 2. Redirecting Glory from Self to God It’s tempting to attribute success to our own planning or abilities, especially when things go well. However, genuine gratitude acknowledges that every good outcome is ultimately the result of God’s grace and the collective effort of His people. By giving God the glory, we guard our hearts against pride and cultivate a spirit of humility and dependence. [05:12]
• 3. Gratitude as a Spiritual Posture Gratitude is more than polite words; it is a spiritual discipline that shapes our perspective. When we intentionally remember God’s work in others, we begin to see their lives through the lens of grace rather than frustration or criticism. This posture transforms our relationships, turning potential sources of irritation into reasons for thanksgiving. [14:35]
• 4. Trusting God to Complete His Work Life often feels unfinished, and we may be tempted to despair over our own shortcomings or the slow progress of others. Yet, gratitude trusts that God is faithful to complete what He has started in us and those around us. This confidence allows us to rest in His timing, knowing that we are all being shaped and refined for His purposes. [18:27]
• 5. Praying with Purpose in Every Circumstance Gratitude doesn’t ignore difficulties but brings them to God in prayer, seeking His glory and our growth through every trial. Even when life is inconvenient or painful, we can choose to see God’s hand at work, using our circumstances to bless others and deepen our faith. Purposeful prayer transforms complaints into opportunities for witness and worship. [27:04]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [00:44] - Praying for Other Churches
• [02:00] - Lifting Up Needs in Prayer
• [03:12] - Celebrating Trunk or Treat
• [05:12] - Redirecting Glory to God
• [06:28] - The Spirit of Gratitude
• [07:46] - Historical Context of Philippians
• [08:28] - Gratitude as a Spiritual Posture
• [09:51] - Shifting Perspective to Thankfulness
• [11:55] - God Working in Us
• [13:17] - Recognizing God’s Work in Others
• [15:13] - Encouragement Through Community
• [16:29] - Trusting God to Finish What He Starts
• [19:44] - God Still Has Work for You
• [22:19] - Praying with Purpose
• [25:41] - Finding Opportunity in Inconvenience
• [27:45] - Trials as Refinement
• [32:18] - Application: Practicing Daily Gratitude
• [33:35] - The Habit of Gratitude

Bible Reading

Philippians 1:3-11 (ESV) — > 3 I thank my God in all my remembrance of you, 4 always in every prayer of mine for you all making my prayer with joy, 5 because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now. 6 And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ. 7 It is right for me to feel this way about you all, because I hold you in my heart, for you are all partakers with me of grace, both in my imprisonment and in the defense and confirmation of the gospel. 8 For God is my witness, how I yearn for you all with the affection of Christ Jesus. 9 And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, 10 so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, 11 filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.

Observation Questions

1. According to Philippians 1:3-5, what is the reason Paul gives thanks for the Philippians?
2. In verse 6, what does Paul say about the work God has started in the believers?
3. What specific things does Paul pray for the Philippians in verses 9-11?
4. In the sermon, what was the pastor’s reaction after the trunk or treat event, and how did he later correct his thinking? ([05:12])

Interpretation Questions

1. Why does Paul focus on partnership in the gospel as a reason for gratitude, rather than just the gifts or help he received? How does this shape the way we see other believers? ([12:34])
2. The pastor mentioned that gratitude is a spiritual posture, not just polite words. What does it mean to see others “through the lens of grace” instead of frustration or criticism? ([14:35])
3. Paul expresses confidence that God will finish the good work He started in the Philippians. How might this confidence affect the way we view our own spiritual growth and the growth of others? ([18:27])
4. The sermon talked about praying with purpose, even in difficult or inconvenient situations. How does gratitude change the way we approach trials or setbacks? ([27:04])

Application Questions

1. The sermon challenged us to see other churches and believers as partners, not competitors. Is there a church or group of Christians you’ve struggled to see this way? What would it look like to pray for their success as if it were your own? ([00:44])
2. Think about a recent success or good thing in your life or in our church. Did you find yourself wanting to take credit, or did you give the glory to God? What practical step can you take this week to redirect the glory to God in your conversations? ([05:12])
3. The pastor shared about being tempted to focus on what went wrong or what was lacking. What is one area of your life where you tend to focus on the negative? How can you intentionally shift your perspective to gratitude this week? ([09:51])
4. Paul’s gratitude was rooted in seeing God’s work in others, not just their flaws. Who is someone in your life that you find difficult to appreciate? What is one thing you can thank God for about them? ([14:35])
5. The sermon encouraged us to trust that God is not finished with us or others. Is there an area where you feel “unfinished” or discouraged about your progress? How can you rest in God’s promise to complete His work in you? ([18:27])
6. The pastor shared a story about an unexpected inconvenience (the broken washing machine) turning into an opportunity to bless someone else. Can you recall a recent inconvenience or trial that could be reframed as an opportunity for gratitude or ministry? ([25:41])
7. This week’s challenge was to reach out to someone who has encouraged your faith and express your gratitude. Who is one person you can thank this week, and how will you do it? ([32:18])