Gratitude and Humility: Following Christ’s Example of Service

Paul’s letter to the Philippians, often called the Epistle of Joy, was written from a Roman prison—a striking reminder that true joy is not dependent on circumstances. The church at Philippi, which began with a diverse group of people, had become one of Paul’s most beloved congregations. Yet, even among such a faithful group, conflict and pride threatened their unity. Paul’s answer is clear: the path to joy is humility, and the path to humility is found in Christ.

The Christ hymn in Philippians 2 gives us a profound picture of Jesus: the eternal Son of God who willingly set aside his glory, took on human flesh, and humbled himself to the point of washing his disciples’ feet—even the feet of Judas, who would betray him. This act was not just a lesson in etiquette or service, but a revelation of God’s very nature. Humility is not self-loathing or thinking less of ourselves; it is seeing ourselves clearly in light of God’s grace. Gratitude and humility are inseparable, both rooted in the recognition that all we have is a gift from God.

We are called to value others above ourselves, to serve not for applause or recognition, but out of genuine love and gratitude for what Christ has done. Our culture often chases after empty glory—fame, influence, and self-importance—but the way of Jesus is the way of quiet, sacrificial service. Even in our failures and brokenness, God works in us, shaping us to reflect Christ’s humility. True gratitude is not about making much of ourselves, but about making much of God.

Jesus’ humility led to his exaltation. The path to glory always passes through humility. When we serve others, forgive offenses, and give without seeking recognition, we echo the pattern of Christ. Our daily challenge is to surrender our will, asking God to work in us and give us the desire to serve. Sometimes, obedience comes before the feeling, but as we practice humility, God forms Christlikeness in us. In all things, may our lives point to the glory of God, not ourselves.

---

Key Takeaways

• 1. Humility is seeing ourselves in God’s light Humility is not about self-deprecation or thinking less of ourselves, but about recognizing who we are in light of God’s grace. It is a clear-eyed acknowledgment of our dependence on God and the gifts we have received. This perspective frees us from the need to prove ourselves and opens us to genuine gratitude. [02:23]
• 2. True service values others above self Serving others is not about seeking recognition or applause, but about loving our neighbors as ourselves. When we serve with the right heart, we reflect Christ’s love and humility, even in the small, unseen acts. This kind of service transforms both us and those we serve, making God’s grace tangible in everyday life. [05:04]
• 3. Christ’s humility is our model and motivation Jesus, though fully God, emptied himself and took on the form of a servant. His humility was not a loss of identity, but the fullest expression of love. As we imitate Christ, his grace becomes our motivation, and his pattern of humility becomes our calling. [13:33]
• 4. Gratitude gives glory back to God When we live in gratitude, we resist the temptation to seek our own glory and instead point others to God’s goodness. Every act of humble service is an act of worship, declaring that any good in us is Christ at work. True gratitude magnifies God, not ourselves. [16:28]
• 5. Surrender and obedience shape Christlikeness God is not calling us to greatness by the world’s standards, but to daily surrender and obedience. As we yield our will to his, he works in us to do his good pleasure, forming the humility of Christ in our hearts. Sometimes the desire to serve comes after the act of obedience, but God honors our willingness and shapes us through it. [21:24]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [00:21] - Introduction to Philippians: The Epistle of Joy
• [00:35] - The Diverse Beginnings of the Philippian Church
• [00:50] - Conflict, Pride, and the Call to Unity
• [01:06] - The Christ Hymn: Jesus’ Humility
• [01:54] - Jesus Washes the Disciples’ Feet
• [02:23] - Defining True Humility
• [03:47] - Joy: Jesus, Others, Yourself
• [05:04] - Paul’s Command: Value Others Above Self
• [06:30] - Brokenness, Honesty, and Service
• [08:22] - Serving with the Right Attitude
• [10:07] - Humility Sees Others Through Grace
• [11:30] - Jesus Washes Judas’ Feet
• [13:05] - Following Christ’s Example of Humility
• [16:28] - Humility Leads to Glory
• [18:26] - Servant Leadership in Practice
• [21:24] - Surrendering Our Will to God
• [23:42] - Practical Acts of Humility
• [26:19] - Praying for a Willing Heart
• [27:15] - Closing Prayer

Bible Study Discussion Guide: Philippians 2 – The Path to Joy is Humility

---

### Bible Reading

Philippians 2:1-13 (ESV)

> So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.
>
> Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.
>
> Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
>
> Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.

---

### Observation Questions

1. According to Philippians 2:3-4, what specific attitudes and actions does Paul command believers to have toward one another?
2. How does Paul describe Jesus’ humility in verses 6-8? What did Jesus give up, and what did he take on?
3. In the sermon, what example did the pastor give about Jesus washing the disciples’ feet, and why was this significant? [[01:54]]
4. What does the passage say is the result of Jesus’ humility and obedience? (See verses 9-11)

---

### Interpretation Questions

1. The sermon says, “Humility is not self-loathing or thinking less of ourselves; it is seeing ourselves clearly in light of God’s grace.” How does this definition challenge common ideas about humility? [[02:23]]
2. Why do you think Paul connects humility with joy in his letter to the Philippians? How might humility actually lead to deeper joy? [[00:50]]
3. The pastor shared that Jesus washed even Judas’ feet, knowing Judas would betray him. What does this teach about the kind of humility and service Jesus models for us? [[11:30]]
4. The sermon mentions that “the path to glory always passes through humility.” What does this mean in the context of Jesus’ life and our own? [[16:56]]

---

### Application Questions

1. The pastor shared a personal story about serving his wife but doing it with the wrong attitude. Can you think of a time when you served someone but your heart wasn’t in the right place? What would it look like to serve with true humility and gratitude instead? [[07:25]]
2. Our culture often chases after “empty glory”—fame, influence, and self-importance. In what ways do you feel pressure to seek recognition or applause? How can you resist this and choose the way of quiet, sacrificial service? [[05:36]]
3. Jesus valued others above himself, even those who would hurt him. Is there someone in your life who is hard to serve or forgive? What would it look like to serve them in the spirit of Christ’s humility? [[11:30]]
4. The sermon challenges us to do one act of humility each day this week that expresses gratitude. What is one specific act of service, forgiveness, or generosity you could do this week? How will you remind yourself to do it for God’s glory, not your own? [[23:42]]
5. The pastor said, “Sometimes the desire to serve comes after the act of obedience.” Have you ever experienced this—where you didn’t feel like serving, but did it anyway and your heart changed afterward? What helped you take that first step? [[26:50]]
6. Paul says, “It is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.” Are there areas in your life where you need to surrender your will to God? What would it look like to pray, “Not my will, but yours be done” this week? [[21:24]]
7. The sermon says, “True gratitude magnifies God, not ourselves.” How can you make sure your acts of service and gratitude point others to God’s goodness rather than drawing attention to yourself? [[16:28]]