God's Unconditional Help: Trusting in His Grace
Summary
Taking a moment to reflect on our journey with God, we often encounter the notion that "God helps those who help themselves." This phrase, while popular, is not found in the Bible. Instead, it originates from ancient Greek literature. Many people, including practicing Christians, mistakenly believe it to be a biblical truth. However, the essence of our faith reveals a deeper understanding of God's nature as a helper, not just for those who strive on their own but for those who cannot help themselves and those who trust in Him.
The story of a gym experience illustrates how we sometimes perceive God as a distant spotter, waiting for us to struggle before stepping in. Yet, this is a misconception. God is not waiting for us to exhaust our efforts before He intervenes. He is a present help, ready to assist us in our weakness. The Bible teaches us to work diligently, but it also emphasizes the importance of relying on God's strength and guidance.
God's help extends beyond our efforts. He aids those who cannot help themselves, as demonstrated in the story of Thomas Vanderwoody, who sacrificed his life to save his son. This mirrors the sacrifice of Jesus, who died for us while we were powerless in our sins. God's grace is not contingent on our ability to help ourselves; it is freely given to those who acknowledge their need for Him.
Moreover, God helps those who trust in Him. The psalmist declares that our help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth. Trusting in God means placing our confidence in His ability to provide, guide, and sustain us through life's challenges. It requires us to shift our reliance from our own understanding to His divine wisdom.
Finally, God helps those who admit their need for Him. The story of blind Bartimaeus illustrates the power of acknowledging our need and calling out to Jesus. When we admit our dependence on God, we open ourselves to His transformative help and guidance. This act of humility invites God's presence into our lives, allowing Him to work in ways we cannot imagine.
Key Takeaways:
1. God's Help is Not Conditional on Our Efforts: While the phrase "God helps those who help themselves" is popular, it is not biblical. God's assistance is not limited to those who strive on their own; He is a present help for all who seek Him. [04:27]
2. God Aids the Powerless: Just as Thomas Vanderwoody sacrificed his life for his son, God helps those who cannot help themselves. Jesus' sacrifice on the cross exemplifies God's grace, given freely to us when we were powerless in our sins. [15:27]
3. Trust in God's Provision: Our help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth. Trusting in God means relying on His wisdom and strength rather than our own understanding. This trust invites His guidance and provision in our lives. [19:18]
4. Admitting Our Need for God: Like blind Bartimaeus, acknowledging our need for God opens the door to His transformative help. Humility and dependence on God allow Him to work in our lives in ways we cannot achieve on our own. [25:52]
5. God's Nature as a Helper: The Holy Spirit is our helper, sent by God to guide and support us. Recognizing our need for God's help aligns us with His character and invites His presence into our daily lives. [28:18]
Youtube Chapters:
- [0:00] - Welcome
- [01:04] - Celebrating Growth and New Beginnings
- [02:10] - The Gym Spotter Analogy
- [03:16] - Misconceptions About God's Help
- [04:27] - The Origin of "God Helps Those Who Help Themselves"
- [05:47] - The Balance of Prayer and Work
- [07:03] - The Relationship Between Effort and Faith
- [08:08] - Biblical Perspective on Work
- [09:25] - God as a Helping God
- [10:41] - Helping Those Who Cannot Help Themselves
- [12:58] - Spiritual Helplessness and God's Grace
- [14:08] - Trusting in God's Timing
- [15:27] - The Sacrifice of Thomas Vanderwoody
- [19:18] - Trusting in God's Provision
- [25:52] - Admitting Our Need for God
- [28:18] - The Holy Spirit as Our Helper
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide
Bible Reading:
1. Ephesians 2:4-5 - "But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved."
2. Romans 5:6-8 - "You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly."
3. Psalm 121:1-2 - "I lift up my eyes to the mountains—where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth."
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Observation Questions:
1. What is the common misconception about the phrase "God helps those who help themselves," and where does it actually originate from? [04:27]
2. How does the story of Thomas Vanderwoody illustrate the concept of God helping those who cannot help themselves? [15:27]
3. In the sermon, what analogy is used to describe how some people perceive God's help, and what is the flaw in this perception? [03:16]
4. How does the story of blind Bartimaeus demonstrate the importance of admitting our need for God? [25:52]
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Interpretation Questions:
1. How does the passage from Ephesians 2:4-5 challenge the idea that we can earn God's help through our own efforts?
2. In Romans 5:6-8, what does it mean to be "powerless," and how does this relate to the concept of grace?
3. How does Psalm 121:1-2 encourage believers to shift their reliance from their own understanding to God's provision and strength?
4. Reflecting on the sermon, why is it significant that God helps those who trust in Him, and how does this trust manifest in our daily lives? [19:18]
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Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a time when you tried to handle a situation on your own strength. How might acknowledging your need for God's help have changed the outcome? [27:07]
2. The sermon mentions the importance of trusting in God's provision. What is one area of your life where you struggle to trust God, and how can you begin to shift that trust to Him this week? [19:18]
3. Consider the story of blind Bartimaeus. What is one specific need you have that you haven't brought to God, and how can you take a step to admit this need to Him today? [25:52]
4. How can you remind yourself daily that your help comes from the Lord, especially when facing challenges or uncertainties? [21:56]
5. The sermon challenges the idea of "God helps those who help themselves." How can you balance working diligently with relying on God's strength in your current responsibilities? [05:47]
6. Think about a situation where you felt powerless. How can the truth of Romans 5:6-8 encourage you to rely on God's grace rather than your own efforts?
7. Identify a specific way you can demonstrate trust in God's wisdom and guidance in a decision you are currently facing. How will you seek His direction this week? [20:38]
Devotional
Day 1: God's Help is Unconditional
God's assistance is not dependent on our efforts or achievements. The popular saying "God helps those who help themselves" is not found in the Bible and can lead to a misunderstanding of God's nature. Instead, God is a present help for all who seek Him, regardless of their ability to help themselves. This understanding shifts the focus from self-reliance to reliance on God's grace and presence. God is not waiting for us to exhaust our efforts before He intervenes; He is always ready to assist us in our weakness. This truth invites us to trust in God's strength and guidance rather than our own abilities. [04:27]
Psalm 46:1-2 (ESV): "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way, though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea."
Reflection: In what areas of your life are you relying solely on your own strength? How can you invite God to be your present help today?
Day 2: God's Grace for the Powerless
God's grace extends to those who cannot help themselves, as demonstrated by the story of Thomas Vanderwoody, who sacrificed his life to save his son. This mirrors the sacrifice of Jesus, who died for us while we were powerless in our sins. God's grace is not contingent on our ability to help ourselves; it is freely given to those who acknowledge their need for Him. This understanding of grace challenges us to recognize our spiritual helplessness and embrace the transformative power of God's love and sacrifice. [15:27]
Romans 5:6-8 (ESV): "For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. For one will scarcely die for a righteous person—though perhaps for a good person one would dare even to die—but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."
Reflection: Reflect on a time when you felt powerless. How did you experience God's grace in that situation, and how can you extend that grace to others today?
Day 3: Trusting in God's Provision
Trusting in God means placing our confidence in His ability to provide, guide, and sustain us through life's challenges. The psalmist declares that our help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth. This trust requires us to shift our reliance from our own understanding to His divine wisdom. By doing so, we invite God's guidance and provision into our lives, allowing Him to work in ways we cannot achieve on our own. [19:18]
Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV): "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you struggle to trust God's provision? How can you actively choose to rely on His wisdom and guidance today?
Day 4: Admitting Our Need for God
Acknowledging our need for God opens the door to His transformative help. The story of blind Bartimaeus illustrates the power of admitting our dependence on God and calling out to Jesus. This act of humility invites God's presence into our lives, allowing Him to work in ways we cannot imagine. By admitting our need for God, we align ourselves with His character and invite His transformative power into our daily lives. [25:52]
Mark 10:46-52 (ESV): "And they came to Jericho. And as he was leaving Jericho with his disciples and a great crowd, Bartimaeus, a blind beggar, the son of Timaeus, was sitting by the roadside. And when he heard that it was Jesus of Nazareth, he began to cry out and say, 'Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!'"
Reflection: In what areas of your life do you need to admit your dependence on God? How can you practice humility and invite His transformative help today?
Day 5: Embracing God's Nature as a Helper
The Holy Spirit is our helper, sent by God to guide and support us. Recognizing our need for God's help aligns us with His character and invites His presence into our daily lives. This understanding of God's nature as a helper encourages us to rely on the Holy Spirit for guidance, strength, and support in all aspects of our lives. By embracing God's nature as a helper, we open ourselves to His transformative power and presence. [28:18]
John 14:16-17 (ESV): "And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you."
Reflection: How can you invite the Holy Spirit to be your helper in your daily life? What specific areas do you need His guidance and support in today?
Quotes
1. "Every single week, somebody is taking a next step in their relationship with Jesus. It never, it never, never ceases to amaze me. Every single Sunday we're worshiping with you and we may have different service times, but we're worshiping with you. And every single week when it's time for someone to start or restart their relationship with Jesus, everyone's eyes are closed, but not mine because I get a special privilege and I get to look around. And so every single week when I look around, people are raising their hands and I love it. So that's something to celebrate this morning." [01:04] (28 seconds)
2. "I think so many of us, we view God in this way, that he'll only help us when he really sees us trying our best. That after we struggled a little bit, that's when he'll step in to our moment and actually really help us. And so the bad advice I want to tackle today is simply this, God helps those who help themselves. Now this advice, you've probably said this, or you've heard this, God helps those who help themselves. I found this staggering that years ago, there was a study that was done and 80% of Americans believed that this was actually, that this is a verse in the Bible, that God helps those who help themselves." [04:27] (39 seconds)
3. "Does God help those that help themselves in a way? You do have to work and pray. You got to work, Pastor Jason says, as if it depends on you, but you got to pray as if it depends on God. There is some sort of relationship here. Some people are saying, I really need a job. Well, then you should apply to a job, right? Like you should actually get, and all the parents are nudging their teenagers saying, see, like employers aren't just going to fall in your lap, right? There's this, there's this important work pray dynamic." [08:08] (32 seconds)
4. "God is, a helping God. I do believe that. While there's not a chapter and verse that says God helps those that help themselves, I do believe that God is a helping God. And all throughout scripture, he helps people in various ways and various times. And God is not our enemy. He's not our adversary. God wants to come alongside us and he wants to help us. I really do believe that." [09:25] (24 seconds)
5. "He helps those that cannot help themselves. That is to say that God doesn't just help those that help themselves. Is that true in a way? But he really does help people that cannot help themselves. Something you need to know about me is this, that I'm not handy. When it comes to home projects, I'm just, I'm not your guy, okay? Like in my relationship with my wife, we say that she's the one that's more handy than me and everyone makes jokes and all this stuff. But the reality is she's in North Lakeland. I love you, baby. And you know this, but I just don't, I don't get it." [10:41] (34 seconds)
6. "God helps those who cannot help themselves. This is the type of God that we serve, that he helps those that cannot help themselves. No, no, no. It's not just those that can try to find their way and they can try to do a good job to help themselves. God helps those that have no clue how to save themselves. This is the type of God that we serve." [15:27] (18 seconds)
7. "God helps those who trust in him. Write that down in your notes. God helps those who trust in him. Now, here's the question. Here's the question. It's an honest question for us all to answer to ourselves. In whom or in what have you put your trust? Right now, today, in North Lakeland, online, wherever you are, in whom or in what have you put your trust? For your finances, for your future, for the decisions that you have to make, for the teenager that you're going through it with right now. Where are you trusting? Who are you trusting?" [20:38] (34 seconds)
8. "God helps those who admit their need for him. We're going to fly to the New Testament of the Bible, and Mark, there's a story. I'm just going to read it real quickly for us this morning, because I think there's a couple things that we should see out of this. And really, this story, just so you know, represents a lot of what I feel like a lot of interactions that Jesus has with people. When they say to him, hey, we need something from you, Mark 10 says this. Your Bible, if you're reading a physical Bible, it probably says blind Bartimaeus. That's what this story's about." [23:11] (28 seconds)
9. "God's just saying, you don't have to have it all put together. You don't have to be perfect, but I do want you to admit that you need me. I think there's something special that happens. Something unlocks in God's character and with us, and there's something that we can take from his character that's special. Once we say, God, I need you. This is too much. I've been trying to help myself, but I really, I need you." [27:07] (22 seconds)