God’s relationship with His people is compared to the intimacy, vulnerability, and power of marriage—a relationship that, when betrayed, brings deep pain and heartbreak, yet also reveals the depth of God’s love for us even in our unfaithfulness. When we chase after other “gods”—whether success, approval, or comfort—we break God’s heart, but He continues to pursue us, longing to restore the relationship no matter the cost. [01:53]
Hosea 3:1-3 (ESV)
And the Lord said to me, “Go again, love a woman who is loved by another man and is an adulteress, even as the Lord loves the children of Israel, though they turn to other gods and love cakes of raisins.” So I bought her for fifteen shekels of silver and a homer and a lethech of barley. And I said to her, “You must dwell as mine for many days. You shall not play the whore, or belong to another man; so will I also be to you.”
Reflection: Where in your life do you sense you are seeking fulfillment or security from something other than God, and how might you honestly name and confess that “idol” to Him today?
God’s love is not passive or distant; He enters into our brokenness, pays the price for our redemption, and carries us when we cannot carry ourselves, just as Hosea ransomed his wife and as Christ gave His life for us. No matter how far we have wandered, God’s love is willing to bear the wounds of our betrayal and pay whatever it takes to bring us back into relationship with Him. [08:20]
Romans 5:8 (ESV)
But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Reflection: Is there a place in your life where you feel too far gone or too broken for God’s love—how might you let Him “carry you” and receive His costly grace today?
God’s grace is scandalous and extravagant, not making sense by human standards, as He pays the ultimate price to redeem us and promises a future where every tear and betrayal is healed in His presence. This grace is not just about forgiveness, but about being cherished, chosen, and restored, as we look forward to the day when we will be united with Christ at the wedding feast of the Lamb. [15:09]
Revelation 19:6-9 (ESV)
Then I heard what seemed to be the voice of a great multitude, like the roar of many waters and like the sound of mighty peals of thunder, crying out, “Hallelujah! For the Lord our God the Almighty reigns. Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure”—for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints. And the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.” And he said to me, “These are the true words of God.”
Reflection: How does knowing you are invited to the “marriage supper of the Lamb” change the way you see your worth and your future with God today?
God does not merely tolerate us—He delights in us, calling us His beloved and inviting us to rest in the security of belonging to Him, not defined by our failures or idols but by His love and grace. Even when we feel unworthy or distant, we are called to remember that our truest identity is found in being His, and to let that truth shape our confidence and peace. [18:26]
1 John 3:1 (ESV)
See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him.
Reflection: What would it look like for you to walk through today with the deep assurance that you are God’s beloved child, cherished and delighted in by Him?
Having received God’s costly, forgiving love, we are called to extend that same grace, patience, and forgiveness to others—even those who have wounded or betrayed us—standing on the ground of our own forgiveness and reflecting the heart of God to the world. This does not mean tolerating harm, but it does mean choosing to love as we have been loved, letting God’s relentless grace shape our relationships and actions. [20:48]
Ephesians 4:32 (ESV)
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Reflection: Who is one person you find difficult to forgive or love—how might you take a step today to extend to them the same grace and patience God has shown you?
God chooses the image of marriage to describe his relationship with his people because it is the most intimate, vulnerable, and powerful of human relationships. Just as a marriage can deeply affect every aspect of our lives, so too does our relationship with God. When that relationship is broken, the pain and devastation are profound. Israel’s unfaithfulness—seeking other gods for power, security, or prosperity—is not just a matter of preference, but a deep betrayal, akin to marital infidelity. Our own hearts, too, are “idol factories,” constantly searching for something to give ourselves to, hoping for meaning, security, or happiness apart from God.
Yet, God’s love is not passive or indifferent. Like Hosea, who paid a costly price to buy back his unfaithful wife, God pursues us at great cost to himself. This is not a love that ignores betrayal or brushes aside the pain. It is a love that absorbs the wound, pays the ransom, and seeks restoration. The ultimate expression of this love is found in Jesus, the true Bridegroom, who gave his own life to redeem us. Grace, by its very nature, is scandalous and illogical—it pays the price for those who will likely fail again, and it welcomes home the unfaithful.
God’s promise is that, after seasons of wandering and loss, his people will return—not with grudging obligation, but with trembling joy and repentance, overwhelmed by mercy. This points us forward to the great wedding feast, when Christ and his people are united forever, every wound healed, every tear wiped away. In the meantime, we are called to face our idols honestly, rest in God’s pursuing love, and reflect that same costly grace to others. Our identity is not in our failures or our wandering, but in being God’s beloved, cherished, and chosen. The God who buys us back will never let us go.
Hosea 3:1-5 (ESV) — And the Lord said to me, “Go again, love a woman who is loved by another man and is an adulteress, even as the Lord loves the children of Israel, though they turn to other gods and love cakes of raisins.” So I bought her for fifteen shekels of silver and a homer and a lethech of barley. And I said to her, “You must dwell as mine for many days. You shall not play the whore, or belong to another man; so will I also be to you.” For the children of Israel shall dwell many days without king or prince, without sacrifice or pillar, without ephod or household gods. Afterward the children of Israel shall return and seek the Lord their God, and David their king, and they shall come in fear to the Lord and to his goodness in the latter days.
Revelation 19:6-9 (ESV) — Then I heard what seemed to be the voice of a great multitude, like the roar of many waters and like the sound of mighty peals of thunder, crying out, “Hallelujah! For the Lord our God the Almighty reigns. Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure”—for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints. And the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.” And he said to me, “These are the true words of God.”
We look to all sorts of other gods in order to give us what only God can give us. This is the pain of God's love. God loves people who constantly and continually reject him through our unfaithfulness. [00:04:37] (20 seconds) #GodsPainfulLove
He doesn't just say, well, you know what? I know you have been flirting with these other gods. I know you've had some other sources of pleasure and meaning and significance in your life. That's okay. It's all right. I forgive you. No big deal. Bygones be bygones. He doesn't say that. What he says is, my sin, my infidelity, my unfaithfulness, my betrayal has a consequence. It costs something. And God himself is willing willing to pay that price. God himself is willing to take the wound of my betrayal. [00:07:34] (44 seconds) #ConsequencesOfBetrayal
Centuries later, another bridegroom will come. Another bridegroom that we know as Jesus Christ, who calls himself the bridegroom. And like Hosea, this bridegroom takes an unfaithful bride. He marries a fickle and rebellious people. But unlike Hosea, the cost is not just silver and barley and wine. The cost is his own life. And on the cross, he is stripped. He's abandoned. He's mocked. He's spat upon. And ultimately, he is killed. And why does he do this? Why does he pay this cost? Why does he pay this cost? Thank you. to bring us home, to bring us back, to redeem us from our own rebellion. [00:10:10] (55 seconds) #BridegroomSacrificialLove
That sense of scratching their heads gives us a sense of the scandal of grace. Grace doesn't make sense. It doesn't compute. It doesn't calculate. The math doesn't math when it comes to grace. But God pays the price to bring us home. He pursues us when we're at, not our best, but at our worst. And he says, you are mine. You belong to me. [00:11:32] (34 seconds) #ScandalOfGrace
That story is pointing us towards a wedding feast. In Revelation 19, that feast is called the Marriage Supper of the Lamb. And it's the moment when Jesus, our bridegroom, the bridegroom of the church, is reunited with his people forever. And he says in that moment, we will tremble, overwhelmed with mercy and grace and love for our bridegroom. And we will experience the joy of having every tear wiped away, every betrayal is healed, every unfaithful heart is made true, and we're restored and live again in relationship with our God. We wait for that day. [00:15:09] (48 seconds) #WeddingFeastHope
If our hearts are truly idol factories, if we, like Israel, are prone to wander. that we're called to face and name our idols. Hosea shows us that sin is not just breaking the rules. It's breaking God's heart. It's when we run to another God for security, for comfort, for meaning. Where is it in your life, where is it in my life that we're saying, if only I had that, if only that could happen, if only that next thing, then I would be okay. Then I would be happy. Then I would be satisfied. Then I would be whole. Whatever that is, can I name it? Can I recognize it? Can I confess it? We're honest about our idols. [00:16:14] (61 seconds) #NamingOurIdols
You may be here today and you feel like you have just walked too far away. Maybe you feel like you're too stained, you're too broken, you're too angry, you're too stuck. But if Hosea could buy back Gorma. Let's go. Thank you. We rest in the world. Come with God's listen carefully. If you look like a mother, you're too skinny. Knock on two Gemino. There is ????, you're too much Nancy möglicher. If Jesus can pay for us with his own blood, then no one is beyond his reach. God doesn't just tolerate you. He delights in you. Let's get that into our bones. We walk the face of the earth under the shining light of God's delight. [00:17:23] (53 seconds) #BeyondReachOfGrace
In the same way, Christ comes to us, and he says, you are my child. You belong with me. You belong with me. you belong here our identity is not our failures it's not our brokenness it's not our idols it's in being his beloved. [00:18:52] (29 seconds) #BelovedIdentity
The love that we have received the identity that we have experienced we're called to reflect that same love to others once we know and taste this kind of love in our own life it will change how you treat people it will change how you relate to others especially those who wound you especially those who betray you please hear me very clearly this is not saying you should tolerate abuse or you should put up with staying in a harmful situation but what this is saying is we can also standing on the ground of our own forgiveness forgive others we can express patience we can extend costly grace because we have been loved that way. [00:19:29] (59 seconds) #ReflectingCostlyGrace
``At the center of the universe is a God who looks at his wandering and unfaithful people and doesn't give up. He says, I will not give up on you. I will buy you back. I will bring you home and I will pay whatever price it takes. And on the cross, Jesus, our bridegroom, paid that price in full. And that means that you are not just forgiven, but you are cherished. You're not just tolerated. You're chosen. You're not just free, but you are loved with an everlasting love. So come home. Choose that today. Choose that today. Come home. Come trembling into the presence of the Lord who is crazy in love with you and experience his blessing. Because the God who buys us back is the God who will never let me go. [00:20:29] (64 seconds) #NeverGivingUpLove
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