Who God Really Is: Identity in Christ

Devotional

Day 1: When Coffins Meet Compassion

Jesus approached Nain’s gates as a widow buried her only son. Dust clung to mourners’ feet. The dead man’s body lay stiff on a plank. When Jesus saw the mother’s tears, His chest heaved. He touched the coffin and said, “Get up.” The corpse sat up, speaking. Jesus didn’t scold her grief – He entered it. [41:02]

God’s heart breaks with yours. He doesn’t stand far off when you hurt. Jesus proved God isn’t a sadistic judge waiting to punish, but a Father who runs toward brokenness. The same hands that raised the dead now reach for your pain.

How often do you assume God disapproves of your tears? When shame whispers He’s disappointed in your struggles, hear Jesus say, “Don’t cry.” What specific hurt have you been afraid to bring to Him?

“When the Lord saw her, his heart went out to her and he said, ‘Don’t cry.’ Then he went up and touched the bier they were carrying him on, and the bearers stood still. He said, ‘Young man, I say to you, get up!’ The dead man sat up and began to talk, and Jesus gave him back to his mother.”
(Luke 7:13-15, NIV)

Prayer: Ask Jesus to show you His face in your current struggle – not as critic, but as compassionate resurrecter.

Challenge: Write down one lie you’ve believed about God’s character during hardship. Rip it up after praying.

Day 2: Weeping With the Word

Martha fell at Jesus’ feet after Lazarus died. “If you’d been here…” she gasped. Mary’s tears fell silently. Jesus didn’t lecture about resurrection timelines. His throat tightened. Tears streaked His face as He cried, “Lazarus, come out!” The God who ordains victory first mourns loss. [41:51]

God’s silence isn’t absence. When Jesus waited two days before coming to Bethany, He wasn’t ignoring – He was deepening trust. Your desert seasons train your ears to hear beyond feelings. The Shepherd whispers even when storms roar.

You check your emotions like a spiritual thermometer. But what if God’s “quiet” moments are invitations to lean closer? When did you last sit in stillness, listening for His breath instead of demanding fireworks?

“Jesus wept.”
(John 11:35, NIV)

Prayer: Thank Jesus for the gift of His tears. Ask Him to help you worship when feelings fade.

Challenge: Set a 5-minute timer today. Sit silently with hands open – no requests, just presence.

Day 3: Throne Room Mud Stains

The woman bled for twelve years. The Pharisee hadn’t bathed since morning prayers. Both approached God – one clutching rules, the other clutching Jesus’ fringe. Hebrews says we can “approach God’s throne with confidence” not because we’re clean, but because Christ’s scars cleared the path. [55:23]

Religious performance says, “Fix yourself first.” Grace says, “Come dirty.” Jesus didn’t tell the bleeding woman to find a bathhouse – He called her “Daughter” while blood still stained her hands. Your worst sin can’t outshout His title for you: “Child.”

What sin have you been hiding, thinking it disqualifies you from prayer? How might today change if you pictured Jesus handing you mercy before you even speak?

“Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.”
(Hebrews 4:16, NIV)

Prayer: Confess one specific failure aloud, then immediately thank Jesus for His ready mercy.

Challenge: Text a trusted believer: “I struggled with ______ this week. Pray I receive Christ’s mercy?”

Day 4: From Rulebook to Birth Certificate

Paul listed spiritual blessings: chosen, adopted, redeemed. Not “if you avoid R-rated movies” or “if you tithe perfectly.” Your inheritance comes through birth, not behavior. The Father dances when you walk in, not because you’re flawless, but because you’re family. [01:04:50]

Legalism turns God into a divine accountant. The cross proves He’s a doting Father. You don’t earn worth through rule-keeping – you already have worth through Christ’s blood. Those who trust their resume more than His redemption live like orphans.

What man-made rule have you confused with gospel truth? How might embracing your “daughter/son” identity loosen your grip on performance?

“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ. For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ.”
(Ephesians 1:3-5, NIV)

Prayer: Ask God to reveal one area where you’re striving to earn what He’s already given.

Challenge: Replace one “I should…” statement today with “I’m already…” (e.g., “I’m already loved”).

Day 5: Fruit Over Force

Jesus described God’s nature: love, joy, peace, patience. Not wrath, rules, or rituals. The Spirit grows these fruits naturally as we abide – no self-help straining required. A vine doesn’t scream at branches, “Try harder!” It simply nourishes. [01:09:12]

You can’t manufacture what God freely gives. Striving reveals mistrust in His cultivation. When you fixate on sin management, you miss the Gardener patiently tending your soul. His first word to Adam wasn’t “Work!” but “Walk with Me.”

Where have you been white-knuckling holiness instead of resting in His presence? What fruit seems absent that you can ask Him to grow today?

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”
(Galatians 5:22-23, NIV)

Prayer: Thank Jesus for one specific fruit He’s grown in you this year – no matter how small.

Challenge: Do one intentionally kind act today, noting how it flows from Christ’s character in you.

Sermon Summary

“Who’s your daddy” presses into one big claim: a wrong view of God produces a wrong view of self. A distorted god turns into a distorted identity, so the enemy works overtime to steal identity by lying about the Father. A false picture breeds distrust, prayerlessness, and even quiet resentment, because nobody runs to a god they secretly fear or dislike. The gospel answers that by showing who God is in Jesus.

The sadistic god gets thrown out first. Suffering is not payback for sins. The cross strips that logic. Jesus told the world to expect many trials, then offered his peace as the shelter in the storm. At Nain his heart overflowed with compassion, and at Lazarus’ tomb Jesus wept. That is who comes near in pain, not a cosmic bully. The silent god also falls. Feelings rise and fall, but faith walks when emotions flatline. God is not quiet so much as believers are learning to hear, because God speaks through Scripture, creation, people, even a donkey if that’s what it takes. The yesterday god cannot stand either, because Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever, so Scripture does not bend to the culture of the moment.

The wrathful-only god misreads repentance and grace. Hell is real, but hell never saved anybody. The kindness of God leads to repentance, and repentance is a gorgeous word. It is not shame with a pulpit voice. It is the Spirit turning a soul from death to life, from self to Jesus. Propitiation means the wrath aimed at sin landed on Christ, so in Christ the wrath is removed and the throne is open. The unapproachable god is a lie. Hebrews says to come to the throne of grace with confidence, especially in a time of need. The no-standard god is a lie too. Grace never gives license. Grace trains a life to say no to ungodliness and yes to right living. Legalism is not holiness, and adding man-made rules only muddies the water. The genie god is also out, because God does not exist for human wishes. People exist for his glory.

Ephesians 1 names the true Father. Before the world, he chose and loved. In Christ he adopted, forgave, and purchased freedom by the blood. He gave an inheritance and sealed by the Spirit. That means a child of God is a child by birth, not worth. So the real move is not to lay down behavior first but to lay down a false identity. When God is seen in Jesus, the personality of God turns clear: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, self-control. Anything outside that is a wrong god. Run to the real Father.

Key Takeaways

1. A wrong God warps identity [31:48] A distorted picture of God always distorts the self. When God is seen as harsh or unreliable, the soul hides, postures, or numbs out, and purpose shrivels. Identity stabilizes only when the Father is known in Jesus, not in shame, nostalgia, or cultural drift. Freedom begins where the lie about God is named and dropped. [31:48]
2. God mourns, not punishes, in pain [41:02] Suffering is not divine payback; the cross already settled the bill. Jesus meets grief with tears and power, holding hearts and sometimes raising what looks gone for good. Hope stays alive when the soul crawls up under his arm instead of running from the only One who can carry it through the valley. [41:02]
3. Repentance is a beautiful turn [49:17] Repentance is not a red-faced threat; it is a Spirit-led pivot from self to Jesus. Turning around is how life, purpose, and clarity rush back in, because the direction changes the destination. The word that once felt like judgment turns out to be the doorway to joy. [49:17]
4. Grace trains, not excuses, believers [56:41] Real grace never shrugs at sin; it breaks sin’s spell and tutors new reflexes. If grace becomes a hall pass to indulge the flesh, it has been misunderstood. Grace fastens hearts to Jesus so tightly that yes to him starts to outgrow the old yes to self. [56:41]
5. Approach the throne with confidence [55:23] Propitiation means wrath removed, so access is open. The place to drag temptation, failure, and fear is the throne of grace, where mercy answers need in real time. Confidence rises not from performance but from Jesus, so prayer becomes oxygen again instead of a courtroom. [55:23]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[27:52] - Sabbatical gratitude and warfare
[30:27] - Who’s Your Daddy and wrong gods
[31:48] - Identity flows from knowing God
[33:39] - The mirror test and shame
[35:29] - Debunking the sadistic God
[38:38] - Trials, whispers, Christ’s peace
[40:30] - Jesus’ compassion for the grieving
[42:31] - When God feels silent
[45:34] - Learning to listen in prayer
[46:51] - Kindness leads to repentance
[50:50] - The throne is approachable
[55:56] - Real grace has a standard
[63:54] - Adopted, sealed, and given an inheritance
[69:12] - God’s character in nine words

Bible Study Guide

Bible Reading
Ephesians 1:3-14 (ESV)
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved. In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace, which he lavished upon us, in all wisdom and insight making known to us the mystery of his will, according to his purpose, which he set forth in Christ as a plan for the fullness of time, to unite all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth. In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will, so that we who were the first to hope in Christ might be to the praise of his glory. In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory.

Observation Questions

In Luke 7:11-15 and John 11:35, how does Jesus respond to human suffering? What emotions does He display?
According to Ephesians 1:3-14, what specific actions does God take to establish our identity as His children?
Hebrews 4:14-16 encourages believers to approach God’s throne “with confidence.” What reasons does this passage give for that confidence?
The sermon emphasizes that repentance is a “Spirit-led pivot from self to Jesus” [49:17]. How does this contrast with common misconceptions about repentance?

Interpretation Questions

Why is it significant that Jesus weeps at Lazarus’ tomb (John 11:35) and shows compassion to the widow in Luke 7? How does this challenge the idea of a “sadistic” or distant God?
Ephesians 1:7 says we have “redemption through [Christ’s] blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses.” How does this truth dismantle shame or feelings of unworthiness in a believer’s identity?
The sermon states, “Grace trains, not excuses, believers” [56:41]. How does Titus 2:11-12 (“For the grace of God has appeared… training us to renounce ungodliness”) support this idea?
How does a distorted view of God (e.g., silent, wrathful, or legalistic) directly impact a person’s prayer life and daily choices?

Application Questions

When facing pain or suffering, what practical step could you take to “crawl up under [God’s] arm” instead of running from Him, as described in the sermon [41:02]?
Identify one area where you’ve believed God is distant or silent. How might you actively listen for His voice this week through Scripture, prayer, or others?
Repentance is described as a “gorgeous turn” toward Jesus [49:17]. What habit, mindset, or sin do you need to turn from this week to turn toward His freedom?
The sermon warns against using grace as a “hall pass to indulge the flesh” [56:41]. Where have you excused sin instead of letting grace train you to say “no” to it?
Hebrews 4:16 invites us to approach God’s throne “in time of need.” What specific fear, failure, or temptation do you need to bring to Him with confidence today?
How might you remind yourself daily of your Ephesians 1 identity (chosen, adopted, forgiven) when shame or cultural pressures try to redefine you?
The sermon says, “Anything outside [God’s fruit of the Spirit] is a wrong god” [01:09:12]. Which characteristic of God (love, joy, peace, etc.) do you struggle to believe about Him? How could you meditate on that trait this week?

Sermon Clips

40s

“Do you truly wanna know what God's like? You wanna know what his personality is like? Who he really is? Here you go. You ready? This is gonna be life changing. You better get on the edge of your seats and buckle up, baby. This this is who Jesus is. This is God. You ready? You ready? Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, self control. Praise God. That's who he is. Anything outside of that, you got a wrong view of God. Chase him. Let it be a part of your life. Let him do something in your life. Alright? Let's pray. Father, we love you. We honor you. We glorify you. We thank you, Jesus, for who you are.”

24s

“And when we're born into the family of God through Jesus, we become children of God and always trying to gain worth with him will never ever ever ever work. Quit trying to gain worth with him. You're already worthy to him because you was born again to him. You're born into the family of God. So today, I'm not asking you to lay down your behavior. I'm asking you to lay down your false identity.”

21s

“If you use grace to go live the life that you wanna live for yourself and not for God, then you don't understand grace. Grace teaches you to say no to ungodliness, and it's teach you to say yes to right living. Grace doesn't teach you to go sin more. Great. God didn't save you to go sin more. He saved you so you can set you free from sin. You don't understand grace. Quit using grace as a license to go do what you want to.”

22s

“then don't you think that Jesus weeps and mourns with us also? If he's gonna ask us to do it, I think he would do the same thing. So for those in this room who thinks that God's bad at you God's not a loving God because something horrific happens, God told us horrific things would happen. But he says when it does, crawl up underneath me. Let me hold your hand. Let me hold you and walk with you through it. Amen. And so that's what we need to do. Don't listen to the devil.”

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Who God Really Is: Identity in Christ

Devotional

Day 1: When Coffins Meet Compassion

Day 2: Weeping With the Word

Day 3: Throne Room Mud Stains

Day 4: From Rulebook to Birth Certificate

Day 5: Fruit Over Force

Sermon Summary

Key Takeaways

Youtube Chapters

Bible Study Guide

Sermon Clips

Who God Really Is: Identity in Christ

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