The way we engage with others is profoundly shaped by who we choose to follow. In a world filled with conflicting voices and examples, we are called to fix our gaze on Christ. He is the perfect pattern for how we are to relate to one another, demonstrating a love marked by humility and service. To see our relationships through the lens of His kingdom is to internalize His attitude and emulate His pathway. He is the way, the truth, and the life for every connection we have. [37:29]
Though he was God, he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to. Instead, he gave up his divine privileges; he took the humble position of a slave and was born as a human being. When he appeared in human form, he humbled himself in obedience to God and died a criminal’s death on a cross.
Philippians 2:6-8 (NLT)
Reflection: Who or what is primarily shaping the way you view and engage with the people in your life right now? Is it the pattern of Christ’s humility, or is it a different influence you’ve been following?
Our outward actions in relationships flow from an inward disposition. It is not enough to simply mimic Christian behavior; we are invited to a transformation of the heart. Having the same attitude as Christ Jesus means our internal posture is reshaped by His grace and love. This shift impacts how we show up for our families, our friends, and even those we find difficult. It is a call to be renewed from the inside out. [41:50]
You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.
Philippians 2:5 (NLT)
Reflection: As you consider your recent interactions, what does your internal attitude reveal about the state of your heart? Where might God be inviting you to ask for a heavenly “attitude adjustment” today?
We are called to actively pursue unity within the body of Christ, not as uniformity, but as a harmony of purpose and love. This is a posture of the heart that chooses engagement over avoidance and values connection over being right. It means regarding a brother or sister in Christ—regardless of differences—as a fellow image-bearer of God. This pursuit is a powerful witness to the world of God’s reconciling love. [47:44]
Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and one purpose.
Philippians 2:2 (NLT)
Reflection: Is there a specific relationship within the body of Christ where you have been holding someone at arm’s length? What would it look like for you to take one step toward pursuing unity with that person this week?
In a culture that celebrates self-promotion and winning arguments, the way of Jesus calls us to a quiet rebellion of humility. This is not about denying truth, but about laying down our need to be right, our status, and our pride. Christ Himself modeled this by setting aside His divine privileges and taking the position of a servant. To practice personal humility is to actively choose the lower place, just as He did. [59:13]
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.
Philippians 2:3 (NIV)
Reflection: Where is the Holy Spirit inviting you to practice humility? Could it look like listening instead of correcting, apologizing instead of defending, or giving up the need to have the last word in a particular situation?
The radical call of the gospel is to invert the world’s priority of self. We are instructed to look beyond our own interests and to actively take an interest in the well-being of others. This is the practical outworking of Christ’s humility in our daily lives. It moves us from a self-focused existence to a life of generous service, asking how we can love and serve others rather than how we can win or be first. [01:05:20]
Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.
Philippians 2:4 (NLT)
Reflection: Who in your life right now—a spouse, a friend, a coworker, or even an “extra grace required” person—most needs you to put their interests above your own? What is one tangible way you can prioritize them this week?
The series "Give Us Your Eyes" calls believers to adopt the vision of the kingdom of God and to see daily life, culture, and especially relationships through that heavenly lens. Scripture from Isaiah 40 opens with God's everlasting strength, and Philippians 2 becomes the central text: Christ left divine privilege, took a servant’s place, humbled himself to death on a cross, and received exaltation from the Father. That Christ-shaped humility becomes the relational model, not merely an example to admire but an attitude to internalize. Relationships receive attention as core to human flourishing: science and Scripture show humans wired for connection, and relational brokenness reveals deep spiritual and emotional cost.
Paul’s instructions in Philippians 2:1–5 translate the incarnation into practical habits for community life: pursue unity, practice personal humility, and prioritize others. Unity requires active pursuit, not enforced uniformity—agreeing in love and intent while holding differing perspectives. Humility means valuing others above self, listening before correcting, apologizing instead of defending, and willingly giving up the last word. Prioritizing others asks for a posture of service that seeks the well-being of neighbors, family, and fellow believers ahead of personal advantage.
Concrete illustrations reinforce these theological points: the orphanage studies underscore human need for connection; the Simon-says example exposes how imitation shapes behavior; and a household moment about a children’s song exposes the stubborn pride that resists correction. These examples sharpen the call: kingdom people must adopt Christ’s inward disposition so outward behavior changes. The text closes with searching questions—Who shapes interpersonal vision? Where has unity broken down? Where is humility required? Who needs someone put before personal comfort? The passage moves from doctrine to vocation, urging immediate response: restore relationships where possible, practice humility, and begin with renewed relationship to Christ as the source of relational life.
Is there someone that you've disagreed with that you've stopped loving well? And note, I'm not saying you've stopped loving, but loving well. You see, kingdom people pursue unity. Where might God be inviting you to pursue unity? Is there someone you need to forgive? Is there someone that you need to receive forgiveness from? Where might the Holy Spirit be calling you to practice humility? Maybe it looks like listening instead of correcting.
[01:09:47]
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#PursueUnity
What if we truly put others first? And I'm not saying we placate. I'm not saying we we don't say hard things. That's not what I'm saying. But what if we put other people first, their well-being first? What if in our marriages, we set our spouse before ourselves, obviously, in healthy ways? What if in our friendships and healthy friendships, we held one another as more important? What if our focus in the life of the church, this church, and our relationships was how would Jesus serve this person before me?
[01:06:45]
(37 seconds)
#OthersFirst
To say, Lord, help my attitude Because my attitude is shaping how I see my loved ones or the strangers or even those on TV, and it is coming up with harsh judgment, with harsh criticism, with condemnation, and that is not what you call me to, Lord. So would you give me a heavenly attitude adjustment today? Lord Jesus, would you, would you be inviting us into a place of pursuing unity with someone?
[01:13:11]
(34 seconds)
#HeavenlyAttitude
Now to be really clear though, unity is not uniformity. It doesn't mean we have to think the same, talk the same, act the same, dress the same. It is not uniformity. Unity is like, not never disagreeing. It isn't this this myth of like, well, unity means you never have a conflict or you never have a disagreement. No. That that's that's false unity, if you will. Unity is not avoiding conflict or just attempting to keep the peace.
[00:50:07]
(36 seconds)
#UnityNotUniformity
What if our posture as kingdom of God people was a heart posture of unity? A heart posture of compassion and the grace of God, the love of the Holy Spirit, and the unity of the spirit. What if we led from that posture? I think the kingdom people would be unstoppable in the world. If we led from that posture, Paul continues with this kingdom lens relationships that it pursues unity, but also that kingdom lens relationships practices personal humility, practices personal humility.
[00:53:36]
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#HeartOfUnity
What they found and have studied and what we know to be true according to science and the scriptures is that human beings were not meant and not created to survive on nutrition alone. We were created for connection. We were wired for relationship. We were built and we are built for emotional connectedness. We see this reality from the scripture from the very beginning. God looks upon Adam who is in this perfect and beautiful garden of Eden, if you will, and something was missing.
[00:32:26]
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#WiredForConnection
Paul's invitation, it is simple, but it is hard. Have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had. Where might God be inviting you to pursue unity? Maybe another question to say is, where have you broken unity with the body or with the brethren? Is there someone you've been holding at arm's length? Is there someone that you've written off because of what they've done or said or what they have not done or what they have not said?
[01:09:15]
(32 seconds)
#SameAttitudeAsChrist
Jesus came to serve and not to be served. Jesus modeled what it was to put people first, and Paul reminds the believers that Philippi and you and I today that the way of Christ is to prioritize other people. To prioritize of those in our lives that we are so prone to our own comforts and needs and wants. Promoting ourselves first, our thoughts and our perspectives, but we are called to the radical way of Jesus, to the radical humility of Christ, to prioritize people first.
[01:05:40]
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#ServeNotBeServed
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