Bible reading: Matthew 26:36-46 (ESV)
Then Jesus went with them to a place called Gethsemane, and he said to his disciples, “Sit here, while I go over there and pray.” And taking with him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, he began to be sorrowful and troubled. Then he said to them, “My soul is very sorrowful, even to death; remain here, and watch with me.” And going a little farther he fell on his face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.” And he came to the disciples and found them sleeping. And he said to Peter, “So, could you not watch with me one hour? Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” Again, for the second time, he went away and prayed, “My Father, if this cannot pass unless I drink it, your will be done.” And again he came and found them sleeping, for their eyes were heavy. So, leaving them again, he went away and prayed for the third time, saying the same words again. Then he came to the disciples and said to them, “Sleep and take your rest later on. See, the hour is at hand, and the Son of Man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. Rise, let us be going; see, my betrayer is at hand.”
Observation questions
- What three specific actions did Jesus ask of his closest friends in the garden?
- What was the content of Jesus’ prayer, and how did it change between his first and second prayers?
- How did Jesus describe his emotional state to his disciples, and what did he ask them to do about it? [47:59]
- What reason was given for why the disciples could not do what Jesus asked of them?
Interpretation questions
- Jesus addressed God as “My Father” in his prayer. What does this intimate language reveal about the nature of prayer, even in moments of deep distress?
- The disciples were physically present but failed to stay awake. What is the difference between simply being near someone in trouble and truly being present with them? [54:34]
- Jesus returned from his time of solitary prayer ready to face his arrest. How can time spent alone in prayer equip a person to re-enter a difficult situation?
- Why is the disciples’ failure to stay awake a more significant spiritual failure than just a physical one?
Application questions
- Prayer can hold both the honest desire to avoid suffering and the choice to submit to God’s will. [48:31] What is a current situation in your life where you feel this tension, and how can you bring both of those honest feelings to God in prayer this week?
- Where are your friends with you in prayer? [52:08] Is there someone in your life who needs you to “stay awake” with them—to be a supportive, prayerful presence without distraction? What is one tangible way you can do that?
- Addressing God as “Abba” models a childlike, trusting vulnerability. [59:24] What would it look like to pray with that kind of raw honesty this week, trusting God can handle your fears and agitation?
- Choosing to lay aside one distraction can create space for prayer. [01:03:05] What is one specific thing (e.g., a screen, a habit, an activity) you could intentionally set down to be more present with God and others?
- The Lord’s Supper frames suffering within the story of deliverance and final victory. [01:11:11] How can remembering Christ’s resurrection hope change the way you walk through a current personal trial?
- The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak. In what area of your spiritual life do you most identify with this struggle, and what is one practical step you can take to rely more on God’s Spirit than your own strength?