From Pride to Humility: Lessons from Esther

Devotional

Day 1: The Dual Nature of Pride

Pride is a complex and multifaceted issue that can manifest in two distinct forms: superiority and inferiority. The superiority form of pride is characterized by an incessant need to compare oneself favorably against others, often leading to arrogance and a sense of entitlement. On the other hand, the inferiority form involves self-deprecation and a fixation on one's perceived inadequacies, which can be just as self-absorbed as the former. Both forms of pride are rooted in a relentless focus on oneself, preventing individuals from experiencing true humility. True humility is not about thinking less of oneself but thinking of oneself less, allowing for a more outward focus on others and on God. [06:21]

"For if anyone thinks he is something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. But let each one test his own work, and then his reason to boast will be in himself alone and not in his neighbor." (Galatians 6:3-4, ESV)

Reflection: In what ways do you find yourself comparing to others, either feeling superior or inferior? How can you shift your focus outward to practice true humility today?

Day 2: The Destructive Consequences of Pride

Pride can have dire consequences, blinding individuals to their own faults and making them unable to learn from mistakes or accept criticism. This blindness often leads to foolish decisions, as seen in the story of Haman, whose prideful plot against Mordecai and the Jews ultimately led to his downfall. Pride fosters bitterness, anger, and even paralyzing fear, causing personal and social destruction. It is a silent but deadly force that can wreak havoc in one's life if left unchecked. Recognizing the consequences of pride is the first step toward seeking a more humble and fulfilling life. [16:29]

"Before destruction a man's heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor." (Proverbs 18:12, ESV)

Reflection: Can you identify a recent decision or action that was influenced by pride? How might humility have changed the outcome?

Day 3: The Hidden Nature of Pride

Pride is insidious, often hiding itself from those it grips. Unlike other sins, it is difficult to recognize in oneself, making it particularly dangerous. This hidden nature of pride can lead individuals to believe they are humble when, in fact, they are not. It requires a conscious effort to examine one's heart and motives to uncover the pride that may be lurking beneath the surface. By acknowledging the hidden nature of pride, individuals can begin to take steps toward true humility and self-awareness. [18:47]

"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it? I the Lord search the heart and test the mind, to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his deeds." (Jeremiah 17:9-10, ESV)

Reflection: What are some subtle ways pride might be hiding in your life? How can you invite God to search your heart and reveal these areas?

Day 4: The Transformative Power of Encountering Christ

The cure for pride lies not in mere religiosity or self-improvement but in a transformative encounter with Jesus Christ. Unlike Haman, who sought validation from an earthly king, we are invited to find our worth in the love and approval of the King of Kings. Jesus, in an act of ultimate humility, exchanged places with us, taking on our sins so that we might be clothed in His righteousness. This divine exchange offers the assurance and love we desperately seek, freeing us from the bondage of pride and enabling us to live with true humility. [29:43]

"Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men." (Philippians 2:5-7, ESV)

Reflection: How does understanding Jesus' humility and sacrifice change your perspective on pride? What steps can you take to embrace this transformative encounter with Christ today?

Day 5: The First Step to Humility

Recognizing one's own pride is the first step toward humility. Acknowledging pride allows individuals to begin the journey toward true self-forgetfulness and freedom in Christ. This process involves a willingness to confront the areas of life where pride has taken root and to seek God's help in cultivating a humble heart. By taking this first step, individuals open themselves up to the transformative power of God's love and grace, leading to a more fulfilling and Christ-centered life. [32:38]

"Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!" (Psalm 139:23-24, ESV)

Reflection: Are you willing to ask God to reveal areas of pride in your life? What practical steps can you take to begin this journey toward humility today?

Sermon Summary

In the story of Esther, we encounter a profound exploration of pride and humility through the character of Haman. Haman, elevated to a position of great honor by King Xerxes, becomes consumed by pride, seeking validation and respect from others. His inability to receive the respect he craves from Mordecai, a Jew who refuses to bow to him, ignites a destructive rage within him. This narrative serves as a vivid illustration of the dangers of unchecked pride and the transformative power of humility.

Pride, as depicted in Haman's story, is a relentless focus on oneself. It manifests in two forms: superiority and inferiority. The superiority form is characterized by a constant need to compare oneself favorably against others, while the inferiority form involves self-deprecation and a fixation on one's perceived inadequacies. Both forms are rooted in self-absorption, preventing individuals from experiencing true humility, which is not about thinking less of oneself but thinking of oneself less.

The consequences of pride are dire. It blinds individuals to their own faults, making them unable to learn from mistakes or accept criticism. Pride leads to foolish decisions, as seen in Haman's plot against Mordecai and the Jews, and it fosters bitterness, anger, and even paralyzing fear. Moreover, pride is insidious, often hiding itself from those it grips, making it a silent but deadly force in one's life.

The cure for pride lies not in mere religiosity or self-improvement but in a transformative encounter with the ultimate King, Jesus Christ. Unlike Haman, who sought validation from an earthly king, we are invited to find our worth in the love and approval of the King of Kings. Jesus, in an act of ultimate humility, exchanged places with us, taking on our sins so that we might be clothed in His righteousness. This divine exchange offers the assurance and love we desperately seek, freeing us from the bondage of pride and enabling us to live with true humility.

Key Takeaways

1. The Nature of Pride: Pride is a relentless focus on oneself, manifesting in both superiority and inferiority forms. It prevents genuine humility, which is about thinking of oneself less, not thinking less of oneself. [06:21]
2. The Consequences of Pride: Pride blinds us to our faults, making us unable to learn from mistakes or accept criticism. It leads to foolish decisions, bitterness, and paralyzing fear, ultimately causing personal and social destruction. [16:29]
3. The Insidiousness of Pride: Pride is a silent killer, often hiding itself from those it grips. Unlike other sins, it is difficult to recognize in oneself, making it particularly dangerous. [18:47]
4. The Cure for Pride: True humility and freedom from pride come from encountering Jesus Christ, who exchanged places with us, taking on our sins so that we might be clothed in His righteousness. This divine love and approval offer the assurance we seek. [29:43]
5. The First Step to Humility: Recognizing one's own pride is the first step toward humility. Acknowledging our pride allows us to begin the journey toward true self-forgetfulness and freedom in Christ. [32:38]
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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[00:10] - Introduction to Esther and Haman
[02:19] - The Character of Pride
[05:06] - Mordecai's Defiance
[06:21] - Understanding Pride
[09:33] - Forms of Pride
[12:31] - The Deadliness of Pride
[16:29] - Pride's Consequences
[18:47] - Pride's Hidden Nature
[21:11] - The Religious Trap
[22:57] - The Reversal of Fortunes
[26:03] - The Need for Ultimate Love
[29:43] - The Divine Exchange
[32:38] - The First Step to Humility
[33:35] - Closing Prayer

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and Haman is the most vivid and sustained case study in the Bible of everything the Bible says about pride and humility and what happens to people who let pride rage unchecked and therefore it's very vivid it is it illustrates so many other places the Bible speaks about pride and humility we're gonna learn a lot but I I don't want you to think this is hype when I say I really want you to listen because it might save the rest of your life not kidding [00:02:56]

pride according to the Bible is concentration on the self pride is absorption in the self I'll give you a definition it's from CS Lewis and I'll talk about him a lot tonight because I think he writes about this subject in a way no one else does pride he says quote is ruthless sleepless unsmiling concentration on the self ruthless sleepless unconcentrated miling concentration on the self this is what pride does probably makes you concentrate everything about you so you don't go into relationships you don't the jobs you don't do anything unless it makes you feel good about yourself [00:06:01]

pride gets no pleasure out of having something but only out of having more of it than the next person you may think you're proud of being successful or intelligent or good-looking but you're not because when you're surrounded by other people with as much or more success intelligence or looks you lose all pleasure in them say lust may actually drive you to sleep with a beautiful woman because you want her pride however drives you to sleep with a beautiful woman just to prove to everyone including you yourself that you can do it and do it over all others [00:06:55]

pride is concentration on the self self absorption there are two forms of pride it's very important to see this on the one hand you've got the superiority form of pride and the superiority form of pride is generally recognized as pride by most people because people with a superior air are constantly doing that calculation they're always comparing themselves they're always thinking how do I look how's it going you know am I being appreciated am I being regarded how am I being regarded and you feel like you're making out pretty well you're doing the calculation and you it's adding up okay [00:08:33]

pride makes you a fool how so first of all pride pride keeps you from ever learning from your mistakes in general but why cuz your self justifying a proud heart is always justifying itself and always saying you know there is you know your these your relationship breaks up or you you know you you there's a falling out with this person and there's this job doesn't work out and that job is worked out and what are you always doing it's him it's her it's them it's the circumstance it's never you and you justify yourself so you just can't learn from your mistakes [00:14:15]

pride makes you evil pride it's what made the devil the devil since st. Augustine Christian theology is understood that pride is not one sin among many but really the root under all of them pride is the hellish spiritual petri dish that grows all kinds of stuff in your life let me show you bitterness some of us many of us struggle a great deal with bitterness and anger toward things that people have done or people have done to us or classes of people or individuals there's many people whose lives are being distorted by anger [00:16:19]

as bad as pride is it's the one sin that hides itself pride is the carbon monoxide of sin killing you without you having any ability to tell it's happening it's odorless see by definition the more proud you are and therefore the more in its clutches you are the less proud you think you are see pride hides itself look you know when you're committing adultery right you never say oh my gosh you're not my wife no you know when you have over you know when you're embezzling somebody you don't say oh how did that three hundred thousand dollars get into my bank account [00:18:44]

there is no pride like religious pride there's no pride there's no proud people like Pharisees and just to be told God is great and you need to obey Him that doesn't necessarily let me tell me that does not decrease pride at all Jonathan Edwards and his great sermon on humility in his book charity and its fruits says to know that there's this great infinite god of holiness and justice does not create humility because either you will try to live up to that god standard and then become a rough self-righteous Pharisee or you will feel like you can't live up to that standard [00:21:46]

there's a king with ultimate glory who believe it or not came to earth and stripped himself of his glory and when he went to the cross he stripped himself not Jaden it wasn't a stripped of his clothes literally he was he was stripped of his father's love he was stripped of he was stripped of his father's approval of his father's respect why he was reversing places with us Mordecai was saved only because Haman reversed places with him but it was involuntary but Jesus does it voluntarily there's the ultimate king there's the king of glory Jesus Christ is the king that you can go to [00:29:14]

Jesus Christ was stripped naked so that we could be clothed in the righteousness of of His Son Jesus Christ exchange his places with us he takes what we deserves so we can get what he deserves and now in jenis in John chapter 17 here's a place where Jesus actually says father give them the glory that you gave me before the foundation of the world that's unbelievable the disciples that's us Jesus is the glory isn't just psychic fossil some kind of divine phosphorescence glorious delight glorious honor Jesus says you must realize that the praise of the ultimate praiseworthy [00:29:58]

it's not enough just to say oh I believe in God that doesn't make you humble we just said that'll make you either superior or inferior well you have to see is God coming all the way down in reversing places with us at infinite cost to himself because on the one hand to know that he had to die for you humbles you to know he was glad to die for you affirms you infinitely and when you realize that that one-two punch on the ego finally look you'll know this Jesus Christ was strong enough to be weak he was so strong they didn't care what people thought [00:31:07]

if anyone wants to acquire humility I can I think tell him the very first step the first step is to realize that one is proud and a biggish step it is - nothing whatsoever can be done before it if you think you are not conceited it means you are very conceited indeed let's pray [00:32:38]

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