In the journey of faith, emotions are not to be suppressed or allowed to lead us astray. Instead, they should be brought before God in prayer. The psalmist in Psalm 130 exemplifies this by crying out to God from a place of despair, seeking mercy and forgiveness. This act of bringing emotions to God is a path to healing and understanding. By expressing our struggles to God, we open ourselves to His guidance and comfort, allowing Him to transform our pain into peace. [03:49]
Psalm 62:8 (ESV): "Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us."
Reflection: What emotions have you been suppressing or allowing to control you? How can you bring these emotions to God in prayer today?
Day 2: Distinguish Between Guilt and Shame
Guilt and shame are powerful emotions that can deeply affect our spiritual and emotional well-being. Guilt is specific to actions, while shame attacks our identity. Recognizing this distinction is crucial in seeking innocence and glory through God's perspective. By understanding that guilt points to what we have done and shame to who we are, we can begin to seek healing and transformation through God's love and grace. [10:07]
2 Corinthians 7:10 (ESV): "For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death."
Reflection: Can you identify a specific action that has caused you guilt? How can you seek God's perspective to transform this guilt into a path toward healing?
Day 3: Seek a New Standard and Redeemer
Our redemption lies not in our own efforts but in Jesus, who offers a new standard of living and a perfect redeemer. This understanding shifts our focus from self-reliance to divine grace. By embracing Jesus as our redeemer, we are invited to live by a new standard that is not based on our achievements but on His love and sacrifice. This shift in perspective allows us to experience true freedom and transformation. [16:24]
Galatians 2:20 (ESV): "I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me."
Reflection: What worldly standards have you been relying on for your sense of worth? How can you begin to embrace Jesus as your new standard and redeemer today?
Day 4: Surrender to God's Love
True freedom comes from surrendering to God's love, not from our efforts to climb out of life's challenges. The psalmist's journey from guilt to redemption reminds us that our worth is not determined by our actions but by God's unfailing love. By trusting in His harness of redemption, we find security and hope, knowing that it is not our grip but our willingness to trust in His love and grace that sustains us. [27:00]
Isaiah 30:15 (ESV): "For thus said the Lord GOD, the Holy One of Israel, 'In returning and rest you shall be saved; in quietness and in trust shall be your strength.'"
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you find yourself holding back from surrendering to Jesus? What would surrendering this area to Him actually look like in terms of daily habits?
Day 5: Approach God with Confidence
With Jesus as our redeemer, we can approach God with confidence, knowing we are fully known and truly loved. This assurance transforms our relationship with God and ourselves, allowing us to live with a sense of security and hope. By embracing this truth, we are empowered to live boldly and authentically, trusting in God's love and grace to guide us through life's challenges. [28:18]
Hebrews 4:16 (ESV): "Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need."
Reflection: How does knowing you are fully known and truly loved by God change the way you approach Him in prayer? How can this assurance transform your daily life?
Sermon Summary
In today's gathering, we explored the profound themes of guilt and shame, drawing insights from Psalm 130. Life is filled with uncertainties, and our emotions often play a significant role in how we navigate these challenges. The psalmist teaches us not to suppress our emotions or let them lead us, but to bring them before God in prayer. This approach is particularly relevant when dealing with guilt and shame, emotions that can deeply affect our spiritual and emotional well-being.
Guilt and shame often arise when we set our own standards of right and wrong, much like Adam and Eve did in Genesis. The psalmist, however, offers a different perspective. He cries out to God from a place of despair, seeking mercy and forgiveness. This cry is not just about acknowledging guilt but also about understanding the need for a redeemer. The psalmist's journey from guilt to redemption is a powerful reminder that our worth is not determined by our actions but by God's unfailing love.
The opposite of guilt is innocence, and the opposite of shame is glory. Guilt points to specific actions, while shame attacks our identity. To overcome these, we need to embrace a new standard and a perfect redeemer. Jesus offers us this redemption, allowing us to approach God with confidence and without fear. This transformation is not about our ability to hold on but about surrendering to God's love and grace.
In our lives, we often try to climb out of our "sinkholes" using our own strength, relying on slippery ropes of worldly standards and achievements. However, true freedom comes from surrendering to Jesus, who provides a secure harness of redemption. This harness is not dependent on our grip but on our willingness to trust in His love and grace.
Key Takeaways
1. Embrace Your Emotions: Instead of suppressing or being led by emotions, bring them to God in prayer. The psalmist shows us that expressing our struggles to God is a path to healing and understanding. [03:49]
2. Understand Guilt and Shame: Guilt is specific to actions, while shame attacks our identity. Recognizing this distinction helps us seek innocence and glory through God's perspective. [10:07]
3. Seek a New Standard and Redeemer: Our redemption lies in Jesus, who offers a new standard of living and a perfect redeemer. This understanding shifts our focus from self-reliance to divine grace. [16:24]
4. Surrender to God's Love: True freedom comes from surrendering to God's love, not from our efforts to climb out of life's challenges. Trust in His harness of redemption for security and hope. [27:00]
5. Approach God with Confidence: With Jesus as our redeemer, we can approach God with confidence, knowing we are fully known and truly loved. This assurance transforms our relationship with God and ourselves. [28:18] ** [28:18]
The psalmist teaches us something to do with our emotions—not to suppress our emotions, not to allow our emotions to lead our lives, but rather that our emotions, we can take them and we can pray them to God. This is what the psalmist does. If you read through the Psalms, I must say, I enjoy reading the Psalms even more now with this kind of lens, seeing that this is a person taking what they're struggling with and saying, "Lord, here's where I am." [00:03:49]
The opposite of guilt is innocence. The opposite of guilt, the full opposite of guilt, is innocence. Why the word innocence? Because if I carry an innocence, then guilt doesn't enter the room. What is guilt? Guilt is so specific. Guilt says this simple thing: it points a finger to what you did. [00:09:11]
The opposite of shame is glory. The word glory, the full expression, the full expression that we know of God. And why is that simple? It's quite simple because when I have shame, I'm hiding an insecurity or a pain or something I've done. But when I have glory, I'm like, here I am, Lord, in full glory. [00:11:06]
The problem that the modern people have now is that they feel like sinners, though independent of guilt. What does it mean? They say, like, well, I am sinning, but I'm not going to feel guilty about it because that's just who I am. And he says that's the problem with modern people, with humanity right now. [00:12:28]
Guilt is saying that I've fallen short of the rules. Shame is saying I've fallen short of God's vision and calling over my life. So how do I step into it? Well, the problem is, and let me use this example, if I am busy lying or I'm busy cheating in my business, and I'm like, well, you know, everyone else is doing it. [00:13:27]
What does God's eye see in your life? If God's eyes see sin, confess it. But if in God's eyes it's not sin, the question is, you need to step into it. One Corinthians 4, Paul writes this to the Corinthian church, and I just love this because Paul explains something that I struggle to see. [00:20:12]
The beauty is my conscience is clear, and then he goes on to say, but that doesn't make me innocent. He says, guys, my conscience is clear, but that doesn't mean the stuff I've done wrong isn't there. He says, "My guilt might still be lying there because I'm definitely not perfect." [00:22:28]
What does God think about you? That you are loved and that you are treasured. What does that mean? If I know that God loves me, my life will be rearranged. You see, if you want to do things better, if you have a doing problem, it's not a doing problem; it's understanding God's love over you problem. [00:25:45]
If you know that you are fully loved and that you are truly known by God, that sets you free. What do we need? We need to know that we're in the hole. We need to know that there is a rope, and there are many slippery ropes, but this rope doesn't just have a rope; it has a harness. [00:28:18]
This is Jesus's promise to us, that his rope is not determined by how hard you can grip. His rope is determined by how much you can surrender, giving up holding the rope and putting on the harness, saying, "Jesus, the works of me getting out of this hole will never get me out of this hole." [00:27:33]
The psalmist writes this in the beginning in Psalm 130. He says, "Out of the depths I cry to you, Lord. Lord, hear my voice. My ears, let your ears be attentive for my cry for mercy." He's looking for mercy. He's crying to God and saying, "Lord, please, can you get me out of this hole?" [00:27:00]
The one guy goes, "Lord, please help me out of this hole. Please, I'm a worm. I'm not the best." But the other man stands before God and says, "I will walk in this throne room of God with a privilege and with a confidence and without fear to receive grace, to receive the same mercy." [00:30:52]