Bible Study Discussion Guide: John 3 and the Story of Nicodemus
Bible ReadingJohn 3:1-21 (ESV) Now there was a man of the Pharisees named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews. This man came to Jesus by night and said to him, “Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher come from God, for no one can do these signs that you do unless God is with him.” Jesus answered him, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.” Nicodemus said to him, “How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother’s womb and be born?” Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You must be born again.’ The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear its sound, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.”
Nicodemus said to him, “How can these things be?” Jesus answered him, “Are you the teacher of Israel and yet you do not understand these things? Truly, truly, I say to you, we speak of what we know, and bear witness to what we have seen, but you do not receive our testimony. If I have told you earthly things and you do not believe, how can you believe if I tell you heavenly things? No one has ascended into heaven except he who descended from heaven, the Son of Man. And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up, that whoever believes in him may have eternal life.
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God. And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed. But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.”
Observation Questions- What reasons are given in the passage and sermon for why Nicodemus might have come to Jesus at night? ([11:43])
- According to Jesus, what is required to “see the kingdom of God” or have eternal life? ([09:27])
- How does Jesus use the story of Moses lifting up the serpent in the wilderness to explain his own mission? ([21:58])
- What does John 3:16 say about God’s motivation for sending Jesus? ([26:43])
Interpretation Questions- Why do you think Jesus tells Nicodemus that being “born again” is necessary, even though Nicodemus is already a respected religious leader? What does this say about religious background and spiritual life? ([16:04])
- The sermon mentions that the new birth is a “miraculous work of the Spirit.” How does this challenge the idea that we can earn or inherit eternal life? ([14:02])
- In what ways does the story of Nicodemus show that the journey from spiritual darkness to light can be gradual and involve questions or confusion? ([35:48])
- The sermon says that God’s love is the “initiating force” behind salvation. How does this shape the way we view God and ourselves? ([28:55])
Application Questions- The sermon describes a world “saturated with bad news.” When you are overwhelmed by negative headlines or personal struggles, what does it look like for you to cling to the “good news” of Jesus? ([01:10])
- Nicodemus came to Jesus with curiosity and questions, possibly in secret. Are there areas of your faith where you feel like you’re still “in the dark” or hesitant to be open about your beliefs? What would it look like to take a step toward the light this week? ([12:21])
- Jesus says we must be “born again” by the Spirit, not by heritage or effort. If you grew up in a Christian family or have a religious background, how do you personally relate to God apart from your family or tradition? ([16:04])
- The sermon points out that God’s love comes first—He loves us before we are lovable or worthy. Is there a part of you that struggles to believe God loves you as you are? How might you remind yourself of His initiating love this week? ([28:55])
- The Israelites had to look at the bronze serpent to be healed; we are called to look to Jesus for salvation. What does “looking to Jesus” practically mean for you in your daily life? ([24:21])
- Nicodemus’s journey moved from secrecy to open faith. Is there a specific relationship or situation where you feel called to be more open about your faith in Jesus? What is one step you could take? ([35:48])
- The sermon ends with the invitation to “believe, trust, and step into the light.” What is one area of your life where you need to trust God more fully or surrender control to Him? ([39:24])
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