From Brokenness to Grace: The Samaritan Woman's Encounter

Today’s focus was on the story of the Samaritan woman at the well in John 4, a powerful encounter that reveals the heart of God’s grace and the way He meets us in our brokenness. We began by recognizing that none of us are truly “okay”—we all have needs, failures, and places of emptiness that we try to fill with things that never truly satisfy. Just as Jesus went out of His way to meet Zacchaeus last week, today we saw Him intentionally travel through Samaria, breaking cultural, racial, and moral barriers to meet a woman who was an outcast even among outcasts.

This woman came to the well at noon, likely to avoid the shame and whispers of her community. Her life was marked by failed relationships and deep thirst—not just for water, but for meaning, acceptance, and love. Jesus met her right there, not to shame her, but to gently expose her need and offer her living water—true fulfillment that only He can give. He didn’t ignore her past, but neither did He condemn her. Instead, He revealed Himself as the Messiah, the one who could satisfy her deepest longings.

We reflected on how we, too, often chase after things that cannot hold water—careers, pleasures, addictions—only to find ourselves empty. Like broken cisterns, our efforts to fill ourselves apart from God always fail. But Jesus, the master craftsman, takes our shattered pieces and creates something beautiful for His glory. True worship and transformation begin when we admit our brokenness and receive His grace.

The woman’s encounter with Jesus didn’t end with her own healing. She left her water jar behind—a symbol of her old pursuits—and ran to tell her town, “Come and see!” Her testimony led many to believe, and a revival broke out. This is the pattern for all of us: from brokenness, to grace, to witness. When we truly encounter Jesus, we cannot keep it to ourselves. Our belief overflows into proclamation, inviting others to experience the Savior for themselves.

Key Takeaways

• 1. Jesus intentionally seeks out the broken and marginalized, crossing every barrier to meet us where we are. His love is not deterred by our past, our shame, or the labels others put on us. He comes to us in our isolation and offers us a place in His story. [21:29]
• 2. True fulfillment cannot be found in the “wells” of this world—relationships, achievements, or pleasures. Like the woman at the well, we must recognize the futility of trying to fill our emptiness with anything but Christ. Only the living water He offers can satisfy our deepest thirst. [34:40]
• 3. Jesus exposes our brokenness not to condemn, but to heal and restore. His gentle truth-telling invites us to step into the light, admit our need, and receive grace. Our failures become the very places where His mercy shines brightest, transforming us into vessels for His glory. [40:02]
• 4. Grace is not merely acceptance; it is a costly gift that transforms us. God loves us as we are, but He does not leave us as we are. He incorporates our brokenness into a new creation, shaping us through His Spirit into people who reflect His love and holiness. [45:41]
• 5. Genuine belief in Christ always overflows into witness. The Samaritan woman’s encounter with Jesus moved her from shame to bold proclamation. Our faith is not meant to be private; when we are truly filled with Christ, we cannot help but invite others to “come and see” what He has done. [56:40]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [18:44] - Introduction: The Grace of God Meets Us
• [19:39] - The Woman at the Well: Setting the Scene
• [21:29] - Jesus Breaks Barriers to Reach the Outcast
• [23:16] - The Woman’s Brokenness and Thirst
• [24:08] - Divine Appointment: Jesus Meets Her Need
• [25:18] - Grace That Transforms
• [26:37] - Reading John 4:1-15
• [29:10] - Jesus’ Deliberate Detour
• [31:06] - The Weight of Shame and Isolation
• [32:08] - The Offer of Living Water
• [34:40] - Broken Cisterns and True Fulfillment
• [36:20] - Brokenness as the Path to Worship
• [37:29] - The Encounter of Grace
• [38:19] - Worship in Spirit and Truth
• [39:14] - No Secrets Before God
• [45:41] - Grace That Changes Us
• [48:33] - The Woman’s Witness and Town’s Response
• [51:24] - From Belief to Proclamation
• [54:01] - Saturated with Jesus
• [56:40] - Belief Is Not Private
• [61:15] - Prayer and Invitation
• [62:37] - Closing Song and Announcements

Bible Reading

John 4:1-30 (ESV) — (You may want to read the whole passage as a group, but here are the key verses)

> 1 Now when Jesus learned that the Pharisees had heard that Jesus was making and baptizing more disciples than John 2 (although Jesus himself did not baptize, but only his disciples), 3 he left Judea and departed again for Galilee. 4 And he had to pass through Samaria. 5 So he came to a town of Samaria called Sychar, near the field that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. 6 Jacob’s well was there; so Jesus, wearied as he was from his journey, was sitting beside the well. It was about the sixth hour.
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> 7 A woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” 8 (For his disciples had gone away into the city to buy food.) 9 The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?” (For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.) 10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.”
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> 28 So the woman left her water jar and went away into town and said to the people, 29 “Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did. Can this be the Christ?” 30 They went out of the town and were coming to him.

Jeremiah 2:13 (ESV) — > “For my people have committed two evils: they have forsaken me, the fountain of living waters, and hewed out cisterns for themselves, broken cisterns that can hold no water.”

Observation Questions

1. Why did Jesus choose to travel through Samaria instead of taking the usual route around it? What does this tell us about His intentions? ([21:29])
2. What time of day did the Samaritan woman come to the well, and why is that detail important? ([30:19])
3. How does Jesus respond when the woman brings up her past and her current living situation? What is His tone and approach? ([40:02])
4. What does the woman do after her encounter with Jesus at the well? What is significant about her leaving her water jar behind? ([39:14])

Interpretation Questions

1. The sermon says Jesus “intentionally seeks out the broken and marginalized, crossing every barrier to meet us where we are.” What barriers did Jesus cross in this story, and what does that reveal about His character? ([21:29])
2. The woman’s “water jar” is described as a symbol of her old pursuits. What might the water jar represent in our own lives? ([39:14])
3. The sermon compares our efforts to find fulfillment apart from God to “broken cisterns that hold no water” (Jeremiah 2:13). What are some modern examples of “broken cisterns” people turn to today? ([34:40])
4. Jesus exposes the woman’s brokenness “not to condemn, but to heal and restore.” How does this approach differ from how people often respond to others’ failures? ([40:02])

Application Questions

1. The woman at the well was isolated and avoided her community because of shame. Are there areas in your life where you feel like an “outcast among outcasts”? How does knowing Jesus seeks you out change your perspective? ([31:06])
2. The sermon says we all have “wells” we go to for fulfillment that never truly satisfy. What are some things you have tried to fill your emptiness with? How can you turn to Jesus for “living water” instead? ([34:40])
3. Jesus gently exposed the woman’s need without condemning her. How can you practice this kind of gentle truth-telling with yourself or others this week? ([40:02])
4. The woman left her water jar behind and ran to tell others about Jesus. Is there something you need to “leave behind” in order to follow Jesus more fully or to share your story? ([39:14])
5. The woman’s testimony led to a revival in her town. Who in your life needs to hear your story of how Jesus has met you in your brokenness? What is one step you can take to share with them this week? ([51:24])
6. The sermon says, “Grace is not merely acceptance; it is a costly gift that transforms us.” In what area of your life do you need to let God’s grace change you, not just comfort you? ([45:41])
7. The message ended with the call to “come and see.” What would it look like for you to invite someone to “come and see” Jesus—either to church, to a conversation, or to experience His love through you? ([56:40])