True relationships begin when we intentionally build trust with those who may be skeptical or even wounded by past experiences with Christians. Jesus modeled this beautifully in His encounter with the Samaritan woman, breaking social barriers and offering genuine attention and vulnerability. In our own lives, trust is built not through arguments or agendas, but through humility, patience, and consistent presence—showing up in the lives of others, joining them in shared interests, and loving them without strings attached. As we do this, we become bridges for others to experience the love of Christ, just as He did at the well. [45:34]
John 4:7-10 (ESV)
A woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” (For his disciples had gone away into the city to buy food.) The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?” (For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.) Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.”
Reflection: Who in your life might need you to simply show up and build trust through humble presence this week, without any agenda except to love them as Jesus would?
Curiosity about faith rarely arises on its own; it often needs to be sparked by thoughtful, non-threatening questions that invite deeper conversation. Jesus was a master at this, responding to questions with questions and stirring spiritual hunger in those He met. In your relationships, consider how a well-placed question—about someone’s story, their experiences with faith, or their thoughts on Jesus—can open doors to meaningful dialogue and help others move from indifference to genuine interest in spiritual things. [54:56]
John 4:9-10 (ESV)
The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?” (For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.) Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.”
Reflection: What is one specific, open-ended question you could ask a friend or coworker this week to gently spark their curiosity about faith?
As people become open to spiritual things, they often wrestle with dissatisfaction or longing for something more. Jesus gently but directly addressed the Samaritan woman’s deepest wounds, not to shame her, but to help her recognize her need for transformation. In our own friendships, we can lovingly challenge others to consider where they feel unfulfilled and what it might look like for God to meet them in those places. Sharing our own stories of brokenness and hope can help others see that change is possible and that God cares about their deepest needs. [57:35]
John 4:16-18 (ESV)
Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.” The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.”
Reflection: Is there someone you know who is struggling or dissatisfied in life? How could you gently ask them what it might look like for God to meet them in that area?
When someone begins actively seeking answers about faith, they need a companion who will walk with them, pray with them, and help them wrestle with their questions. You don’t have to have all the answers; your willingness to seek, study, and pray together can be a powerful support. Just as Jesus revealed Himself to the Samaritan woman as the Messiah, we can point others to Jesus as the One who fulfills every longing and answers the deepest questions of the heart. [01:01:02]
John 4:25-26 (ESV)
The woman said to him, “I know that Messiah is coming (he who is called Christ). When he comes, he will tell us all things.” Jesus said to her, “I who speak to you am he.”
Reflection: Who in your life is searching for spiritual answers? How can you come alongside them this week—perhaps by praying with them or exploring their questions together?
It’s easy to stay comfortable in the “huddle” of Christian community, but Jesus calls us to break the huddle and go into the world, sharing His love and inviting others to His table. The mission is not about having all the right words or being perfectly equipped; it’s about taking the next Spirit-led step with the people God has placed in your life. As you go, trust that the Holy Spirit will empower you, and remember that every small act of obedience can be a part of someone’s journey toward Jesus. [01:33:13]
Matthew 28:19-20 (ESV)
“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Reflection: What is one concrete step you can take this week to move out of your comfort zone and intentionally share God’s love with someone outside your usual circle?
The love of the Father is so profound that He sent His Son to bear the weight of our sin, longing to bring His children back into relationship with Him. This love is not just something to be celebrated in our gatherings, but something that compels us to action. Just as a football team huddles to receive the play but must eventually break and execute it, we as followers of Jesus are called to break from our comfortable gatherings and step into the world with the mission He has given us. Too often, we remain in the huddle, enjoying the presence of God and the fellowship of believers, but hesitating to go and share the good news with those who need it most.
Many of us struggle to step out because of fear, a sense of inadequacy, or simply not knowing how to begin. Yet, God’s call is clear: we are to go into the world and invite others to His table. To help us do this, I introduced the “Five Thresholds” framework—a practical guide to understanding where our friends and family might be on their spiritual journey and how we can walk with them, step by step. These thresholds are: building trust, sparking curiosity, fostering openness, encouraging seeking, and finally, inviting someone to follow Jesus.
Building trust is foundational, especially in a culture where many are skeptical of Christians. Like Jesus with the Samaritan woman, we must be willing to cross barriers, show humility, and genuinely care for people without an agenda. As trust grows, we can gently spark curiosity about spiritual things, often through thoughtful questions rather than arguments. When someone becomes open, we lovingly challenge them to consider the deeper longings of their heart and how God might meet them there. As they begin to seek, we walk alongside them, praying with them and helping them find answers to their questions. And when the moment comes, we invite them to follow Jesus, trusting the Holy Spirit to do the work only He can do.
This journey is not about having all the answers or moving people quickly through the process. It’s about faithfully taking the next step, being present, and allowing God to use us in the lives of those around us. As we heard from Jamie’s testimony, living on mission is often about simple, everyday faithfulness—showing up, building relationships, and letting God work through us. May we be a people who break the huddle, filled with the Spirit, and go into the world with the love and power of Jesus.
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John 4:4-26 (ESV) — > 4 And he had to pass through Samaria. 5 So he came to a town of Samaria called Sychar, near the field that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. 6 Jacob’s well was there; so Jesus, wearied as he was from his journey, was sitting beside the well. It was about the sixth hour.
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> 7 A woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” 8 (For his disciples had gone away into the city to buy food.) 9 The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?” (For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.) 10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.”
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> 11 The woman said to him, “Sir, you have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? 12 Are you greater than our father Jacob? He gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did his sons and his livestock.” 13 Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, 14 but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” 15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water.”
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> 16 Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.” 17 The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; 18 for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.” 19 The woman said to him, “Sir, I perceive that you are a prophet. 20 Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship.” 21 Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father. 22 You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. 24 God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” 25 The woman said to him, “I know that Messiah is coming (he who is called Christ). When he comes, he will tell us all things.” 26 Jesus said to her, “I who speak to you am he.”
In our secular age, people are more and more skeptical towards Christians. If you were to ask a non-believer to describe followers of Jesus, you'd hear some things that you probably don't want to hear. They'd say they're judgmental, they're narrow-minded, they're hypocritical, they're hateful. And here's the hard truth. They didn't come to that conclusion on their own. They came to it through experience. [00:44:48] (19 seconds) #TrustEarnedNotAssumed
In that moment, they built a bridge of trust, not through argument, but through humility and patience and love. And here's the thing. You don't have to set up a confession booth in your neighborhood. You don't have to, to confess about the crusades or some other lavish thing. You just simply have to show up in your friend's life and love them and begin to bridge that space of trust. [00:51:49] (27 seconds) #SharedInterestsBuildTrust
Throughout Jesus's earthly ministry, he was asked 200 questions over the four gospels. Almost every time he was asked a question, he rarely answered it. Instead, when he was asked a question, he would respond with a question. Here's why. Because questions ignite curiosity. Questions invite people deeper, and Jesus was a master of asking questions. [00:54:45] (22 seconds) #OpeningHeartsToMore
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