Fostering Unity: Overcoming Division Through Humility

Devotional

Day 1: The Power of Words and a Critical Spirit

Words have the power to either build up or tear down. A critical spirit can extinguish the fire of enthusiasm and hinder God's work. It's essential to guard our hearts and minds against negativity and to focus on what God is doing rather than on what might go wrong. When we allow a critical spirit to take root, it can create division and dampen the collective enthusiasm within the church. This negativity can act as a barrier to the work God wants to accomplish through us.

Instead of focusing on the negative, we should strive to speak words of encouragement and affirmation. By doing so, we can build each other up and create an environment where God's work can flourish. Remember, our words have the power to either build up or tear down, so let's choose to use them wisely. [01:13:51]

Bible Passage:
"Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear." - Ephesians 4:29 (ESV)

Reflection:
Think of a recent conversation where you may have been critical. How can you turn that criticism into encouragement today?

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Day 2: Trials as Opportunities for Growth

James teaches that trials and difficulties are opportunities for God to cultivate greater faithfulness in us. A powerful prayer to adopt is, "God, use this in me until you choose to remove this from me," which encourages us to allow God to work through our struggles and produce greater faithfulness. Trials are not just obstacles to be overcome but are also opportunities for spiritual growth and development.

When we face difficulties, it's easy to become discouraged and question God's plan. However, these moments are often when God is working most powerfully in our lives. By embracing our trials and asking God to use them for our growth, we can develop a deeper, more resilient faith. [01:15:04]

Bible Passage:
"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness." - James 1:2-3 (ESV)

Reflection:
What current trial are you facing, and how can you ask God to use it to cultivate greater faithfulness in you?

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Day 3: The Importance of Resolving Conflict

Jesus emphasized that reconciliation should take precedence over acts of worship. Resolving conflicts quickly and humbly is crucial for maintaining unity. Agreeing with your adversary quickly can disarm their power and restore peace, demonstrating humility and a willingness to reconcile. Conflict is inevitable, but how we handle it can either build up or tear down the community.

By prioritizing reconciliation, we show that we value our relationships and the unity of the church. This approach not only restores peace but also reflects the love and humility that Jesus taught. [01:18:45]

Bible Passage:
"So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift." - Matthew 5:23-24 (ESV)

Reflection:
Is there someone you need to reconcile with today? What steps can you take to resolve this conflict quickly and humbly?

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Day 4: Humility in Conflict Resolution

Humility is the pathway to victory in spiritual battles. By humbling ourselves and seeking reconciliation, we can disarm our adversaries and promote unity. The story of resolving a social media conflict illustrated how humility and seeking reconciliation can transform relationships and restore peace. Humility allows us to see beyond our own perspective and consider the feelings and viewpoints of others.

When we approach conflicts with humility, we open the door for genuine reconciliation and healing. This not only resolves the immediate issue but also strengthens the bonds within our community. [01:25:11]

Bible Passage:
"Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves." - Philippians 2:3 (ESV)

Reflection:
Think of a recent conflict where you could have shown more humility. How can you approach similar situations differently in the future?

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Day 5: Unity as the Foundation of a Strong Church

The aim of spiritual attacks is often to sow division. Unity is the foundation of a strong church and a continuing move of God. By giving honor, avoiding a critical spirit, and resolving conflicts humbly, we can maintain unity and align ourselves with God's desire for a blessed and harmonious community. Unity is not just the absence of conflict but the presence of a deep, abiding love and respect for one another.

When we strive for unity, we create an environment where God's blessings can flow freely. This unity is a powerful testimony to the world of God's love and grace. [01:27:59]

Bible Passage:
"Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity! It is like the precious oil on the head, running down on the beard, on the beard of Aaron, running down on the collar of his robes!" - Psalm 133:1-2 (ESV)

Reflection:
What steps can you take today to promote unity within your church community? How can you contribute to a harmonious and blessed environment?

Sermon Summary

### Summary

Today's message focused on the importance of unity within the church and the spiritual battles that threaten it. We explored how a critical spirit, unresolved conflict, and a lack of honor can sow division among us. The story of "Hype Night" illustrated how negative words and a critical spirit can dampen enthusiasm and hinder God's work. We were reminded that our heart's posture towards others is crucial in maintaining unity. James teaches us that trials and difficulties are opportunities for God to cultivate greater faithfulness in us. A powerful prayer to adopt is, "God, use this in me until you choose to remove this from me," which encourages us to allow God to work through our struggles.

We also discussed the importance of resolving conflicts quickly and humbly. Jesus emphasized that reconciliation should take precedence over acts of worship, highlighting the significance of maintaining harmonious relationships. The story of a personal conflict involving social media slander demonstrated how humility and seeking reconciliation can disarm adversaries and restore peace. The principle of agreeing with your adversary quickly was underscored as a means to defuse conflict and promote unity.

Ultimately, the message called us to examine our hearts and actions, ensuring that we are not contributing to division but rather fostering unity. The spiritual battle we face is often about maintaining a humble and loving attitude towards others, even in the face of criticism and conflict. By doing so, we align ourselves with God's desire for unity, where He commands a blessing.

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Key Takeaways

1. The Power of Words and a Critical Spirit: Words have the power to either build up or tear down. A critical spirit can extinguish the fire of enthusiasm and hinder God's work. It's essential to guard our hearts and minds against negativity and to focus on what God is doing rather than on what might go wrong. [73:51]
2. Trials as Opportunities for Growth: James teaches that trials and difficulties are opportunities for God to cultivate greater faithfulness in us. A powerful prayer to adopt is, "God, use this in me until you choose to remove this from me," which encourages us to allow God to work through our struggles and produce greater faithfulness. [75:04]
3. The Importance of Resolving Conflict: Jesus emphasized that reconciliation should take precedence over acts of worship. Resolving conflicts quickly and humbly is crucial for maintaining unity. Agreeing with your adversary quickly can disarm their power and restore peace, demonstrating humility and a willingness to reconcile. [78:45]
4. Humility in Conflict Resolution: Humility is the pathway to victory in spiritual battles. By humbling ourselves and seeking reconciliation, we can disarm our adversaries and promote unity. The story of resolving a social media conflict illustrated how humility and seeking reconciliation can transform relationships and restore peace. [85:11]
5. Unity as the Foundation of a Strong Church: The aim of spiritual attacks is often to sow division. Unity is the foundation of a strong church and a continuing move of God. By giving honor, avoiding a critical spirit, and resolving conflicts humbly, we can maintain unity and align ourselves with God's desire for a blessed and harmonious community.

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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[71:28] - Introduction to Hype Night
[72:40] - The Impact of Negative Words
[73:51] - The Spiritual Battle of a Critical Spirit
[75:04] - Trials and Greater Faithfulness
[76:16] - Unresolved Conflict and Unity
[77:29] - The Challenge of Conflict in Small Communities
[78:45] - Jesus' Teaching on Reconciliation
[80:05] - Agreeing with Your Adversary
[81:22] - Personal Story of Conflict Resolution
[83:56] - The Power of Humility
[85:11] - Choosing Peace Over Being Right
[86:43] - The Fruit of Humility
[87:59] - The Aim of Spiritual Attacks
[89:23] - Prayer for Unity and Conclusion

Bible Study Guide

Observation Questions

What does James say about the purpose of trials and difficulties in our lives? (James 1:2-4)
According to Matthew 5:23-24, what should take precedence over acts of worship?
How does Jesus suggest we handle conflicts with our adversaries in Matthew 5:25?
In the sermon, what was the impact of negative words and a critical spirit on "Hype Night"? [01:12:40]

Interpretation Questions

How can viewing trials as opportunities for growth change our perspective on difficult situations? (James 1:2-4)
Why do you think Jesus places such a high importance on reconciliation before worship? (Matthew 5:23-24)
What might be the practical implications of agreeing with your adversary quickly, as Jesus advises in Matthew 5:25? [01:20:05]
How does the story of resolving a social media conflict illustrate the power of humility in conflict resolution? [01:23:56]

Application Questions

Reflect on a recent trial you faced. How can you adopt the prayer, "God, use this in me until you choose to remove this from me," in your current struggles? [01:15:04]
Think of a conflict you have with someone. What steps can you take to resolve it quickly and humbly, as Jesus teaches in Matthew 5:23-24? [01:18:45]
Have you ever experienced the dampening effect of negative words on your enthusiasm? How can you guard your heart and mind against a critical spirit? [01:12:40]
In what ways can you show humility in your interactions this week, especially in situations of conflict? [01:25:11]
How can you contribute to fostering unity within your church community? Identify one specific action you can take this week to promote harmony. [01:27:59]
Is there someone you need to reconcile with before you can fully engage in worship? What steps will you take to make that reconciliation happen? [01:18:45]
How can you ensure that your words build up rather than tear down others in your church and community? [01:13:51]

Sermon Clips

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "Because words can throw water on people's fire, and that is something that we need to watch out for, because that happens with a critical spirit. So, here's this, here's the spiritual battle of it. The true spiritual battle is really about our heart towards people." [01:13:51] (15 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "God, whatever's going on right now, I want you to use this in me until you choose to remove this from me. So, if you're struggling with, with, with, with personal things, God, use this in me to produce greater faithfulness to you." [01:15:04] (12 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "Humility is the pathway to victory. How important is it to resolve conflict? This is what Jesus said, Matthew chapter 5, verse 23. He says, Therefore, if you're offering your gift, pardon me, if you're offering your gift at the altar, and there, you remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave the gift in front of the altar, go first, and be reconciled to them, then come back and offer your gift." [01:18:45] (28 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "The true spiritual battle that you're going to face is this, whenever you're struggling, is will you humble yourself? Again, is it fun? No, but I want to tell you the fruit of this, of what happened in that moment, it was unbelievable. It changed the way that I see conflict. It changed the way that I see everything, to be honest with you." [01:26:43] (21 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "The aim of an attack in your family is division. The aim of the attack in your church is division, and unity, the struggle with it is it's based on individual decisions, but at the core of every strong church and every continuing move of God is unity." [01:27:59] (18 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "Whenever you're dealing with stuff, when you're dealing with people, when you're dealing with a struggle, and it's really kind of getting to you, one, make sure your heart towards people is good. Make sure your heart towards the situation is good." [01:14:51] (9 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "Avoiding this critical spirit, it doesn't mean that you don't analyze things to make them better. It doesn't mean that you don't, it doesn't mean that you don't, you know, reflect on things. A critical spirit is whenever people, we get that whenever people don't conform to our ways, whenever things don't go the flow that we want them to, or we search, we always search for what's wrong with somebody first." [01:16:16] (21 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "Conflict destroys unity, so the true spiritual battle that you're going to face is this, whenever you're struggling, is will you humble yourself? Again, is it fun? No, but I want to tell you the fruit of this, of what happened in that moment, it was unbelievable. It changed the way that I see conflict. It changed the way that I see everything, to be honest with you, but the true spiritual battle, to win the battle, requires humility, and to say, I'm going to agree with my adversary." [01:26:43] (30 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "The true spiritual battle, these three things I've just done. Giving honor when you don't want to, always checking our heart towards people, and humbling ourself in the midst of conflict. You know, we never forget the aim of a spiritual attack is division, and we forget that. The aim of an attack in your family is division. The aim of the attack in your church is division, and unity, the struggle with it is it's based on individual decisions, but at the core of every strong church and every continuing move of God is unity." [01:27:59] (42 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "So, I pray that you would help us to be people who give honor. I pray that we would, we would not have a critical spirit towards people or situations, but we would allow you to work something in us until you remove the problem from us, God. God, I pray that you would help us in conflict resolution, that we would humble ourselves. We'd humble ourselves with our spouses, with our children, with people in our church, with people that we work with. God, that we could agree with our, our adversary quickly, and allow you to work in us and disarm their power." [01:30:52] (36 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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