Forgiveness: The Strength of Faith and Healing

 

Summary

In today's gathering, we explored the profound and challenging concept of forgiveness as taught by Jesus. We began by acknowledging the excitement of community events like baptisms and retreats, which remind us of the joy and fellowship in our faith journey. However, the core of our reflection centered on the difficult teachings of Jesus regarding forgiveness, particularly the unsettling notion that if we do not forgive others, God will not forgive us. This teaching, found in the Lord's Prayer, challenges our understanding of God's nature and the essence of living in His kingdom.

We delved into the examples of Jesus and Stephen, both of whom demonstrated radical forgiveness in the face of extreme persecution. Jesus, while on the cross, asked for forgiveness for those who crucified Him, and Stephen, as he was being stoned, prayed for his executioners. These acts of forgiveness are not just historical anecdotes but are foundational to the Christian faith, illustrating the strength and power required to forgive.

Forgiveness is not a sign of weakness but a testament to spiritual strength. It is a muscle that must be exercised continually, as it does not come naturally to us. The story of Paul, once a persecutor of Christians who became a pivotal figure in spreading the gospel, underscores the transformative power of forgiveness. The early Christian community's willingness to forgive Paul allowed the message of Christ to reach far and wide.

We acknowledged that forgiveness is a difficult journey, often requiring us to let go of deep-seated hurts and grievances. Yet, it is essential for our spiritual growth and for living in accordance with God's will. Unforgiveness can fester and harm us from within, while forgiveness can lead to healing and the spread of God's love.

As we concluded, we were reminded that forgiveness is a crucial aspect of our faith, one that God takes seriously. It is a call to action for all believers to strive towards, even when it feels impossible. Through prayer and reliance on God's strength, we can work towards forgiving others, just as we seek forgiveness for ourselves.

Key Takeaways:

1. Forgiveness as a Strength: Forgiveness is not a sign of weakness but a testament to spiritual strength. It requires immense courage and resilience to forgive those who have wronged us deeply, as demonstrated by Jesus and Stephen. [49:22]

2. The Transformative Power of Forgiveness: The story of Paul illustrates how forgiveness can transform lives and spread the gospel. The early Christian community's forgiveness of Paul allowed him to become a pivotal figure in the faith. [01:04:41]

3. Forgiveness as a Spiritual Discipline: Forgiveness is a muscle that must be exercised continually. It does not come naturally, and we must work on it daily, just as we do with other spiritual disciplines. [59:43]

4. The Seriousness of Forgiveness in God's Kingdom: Jesus emphasizes the importance of forgiveness in the kingdom of God, stating that if we do not forgive others, we will not be forgiven. This highlights the gravity of forgiveness in our spiritual lives. [58:13]

5. The Healing Power of Forgiveness: Unforgiveness can fester and harm us from within, while forgiveness can lead to healing and the spread of God's love. It is essential for our spiritual growth and for living in accordance with God's will. [55:34]

Youtube Chapters:

- [00:00] - Welcome
- [26:32] - Opening Prayer
- [43:19] - Jesus' Example of Forgiveness
- [46:03] - Stephen's Martyrdom and Forgiveness
- [49:22] - The Challenge of Forgiveness
- [49:56] - Everyday Petty Grievances
- [50:52] - Dealing with Deep Hurts
- [55:34] - The Cost of Unforgiveness
- [57:05] - The Lord's Prayer and Forgiveness
- [58:13] - The Seriousness of Forgiveness
- [59:43] - Forgiveness as a Spiritual Muscle
- [01:02:48] - Paul's Transformation
- [01:03:52] - The Power of Community Forgiveness
- [01:05:52] - The Gospel and Forgiveness
- [01:08:22] - Closing Prayer and Baptism Preparation

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Matthew 6:12-15 - "And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."
2. Luke 23:34 - "Jesus said, 'Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.' And they divided up his clothes by casting lots."
3. Acts 7:59-60 - "While they were stoning him, Stephen prayed, 'Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.' Then he fell on his knees and cried out, 'Lord, do not hold this sin against them.' When he had said this, he fell asleep."

#### Observation Questions
1. What did Jesus say on the cross about those who were crucifying Him, and how does this reflect His teaching on forgiveness? [43:19]
2. How did Stephen respond to his executioners, and what does this reveal about his understanding of forgiveness? [47:05]
3. What is the significance of the early Christian community's forgiveness of Paul, and how did it impact the spread of the gospel? [01:04:41]
4. According to the sermon, why is forgiveness considered a spiritual discipline that must be exercised continually? [59:43]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the requirement to forgive others in order to receive God's forgiveness challenge our understanding of God's nature? [58:13]
2. In what ways do the examples of Jesus and Stephen demonstrate the strength required to forgive, even in extreme circumstances? [48:38]
3. How might the early Christian community's decision to forgive Paul serve as a model for modern believers in dealing with those who have wronged them? [01:04:41]
4. Why might forgiveness be described as a "muscle" that needs regular exercise, and what are the implications of this metaphor for our spiritual lives? [59:43]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you found it difficult to forgive someone. What steps can you take to begin the process of forgiveness, even if it feels impossible? [49:22]
2. Consider the story of Paul and the early Christian community. How can you apply their example of forgiveness to a current relationship or situation in your life? [01:04:41]
3. Forgiveness is described as a spiritual discipline. What practical steps can you take to make forgiveness a regular part of your spiritual practice? [59:43]
4. How does holding onto unforgiveness affect your spiritual and emotional well-being, and what changes can you make to address this? [55:34]
5. Jesus emphasized the seriousness of forgiveness in God's kingdom. How can you cultivate a heart of forgiveness in your daily interactions with others? [58:13]
6. Identify a person or situation where you need to extend forgiveness. What specific actions can you take this week to move towards reconciliation? [49:22]
7. How can the examples of Jesus and Stephen inspire you to forgive those who have wronged you, even when it feels undeserved? [48:38]

Devotional

Day 1: Forgiveness as Spiritual Strength
Forgiveness is often misunderstood as a sign of weakness, but it is, in fact, a profound testament to spiritual strength. The ability to forgive those who have wronged us requires immense courage and resilience. Jesus, while on the cross, asked for forgiveness for those who crucified Him, and Stephen, as he was being stoned, prayed for his executioners. These acts of forgiveness are not just historical anecdotes but are foundational to the Christian faith, illustrating the strength and power required to forgive. Forgiveness is a muscle that must be exercised continually, as it does not come naturally to us. [49:22]

"Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep." (Romans 12:14-15, ESV)

Reflection: Think of a person who has wronged you deeply. How can you begin to see forgiveness as a strength rather than a weakness in this situation?


Day 2: The Transformative Power of Forgiveness
The story of Paul illustrates how forgiveness can transform lives and spread the gospel. Paul, once a persecutor of Christians, became a pivotal figure in spreading the gospel. The early Christian community's willingness to forgive Paul allowed the message of Christ to reach far and wide. This transformation was not just about Paul's change of heart but also about the community's ability to embrace him despite his past. Forgiveness can lead to profound change, not only in the forgiven but also in the forgiver. [01:04:41]

"And I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has enabled me, because He counted me faithful, putting me into the ministry, although I was formerly a blasphemer, a persecutor, and an insolent man; but I obtained mercy because I did it ignorantly in unbelief." (1 Timothy 1:12-13, ESV)

Reflection: Consider someone in your life who has changed for the better. How can you support their transformation through forgiveness and acceptance?


Day 3: Forgiveness as a Spiritual Discipline
Forgiveness is a spiritual discipline that requires daily practice. It is not something that comes naturally, and like any discipline, it must be cultivated over time. The act of forgiving is a process that involves letting go of deep-seated hurts and grievances. It is essential for our spiritual growth and for living in accordance with God's will. Unforgiveness can fester and harm us from within, while forgiveness can lead to healing and the spread of God's love. [59:43]

"Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive." (Colossians 3:12-13, ESV)

Reflection: Identify a small grievance you hold against someone. How can you practice forgiveness in this situation today as part of your spiritual discipline?


Day 4: The Seriousness of Forgiveness in God's Kingdom
Jesus emphasizes the importance of forgiveness in the kingdom of God, stating that if we do not forgive others, we will not be forgiven. This teaching challenges our understanding of God's nature and the essence of living in His kingdom. Forgiveness is not just a suggestion but a command that holds significant weight in our spiritual lives. It is a call to action for all believers to strive towards, even when it feels impossible. [58:13]

"For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15, ESV)

Reflection: Reflect on a time when you struggled to forgive. How does understanding the seriousness of forgiveness in God's kingdom change your perspective on that situation?


Day 5: The Healing Power of Forgiveness
Unforgiveness can fester and harm us from within, while forgiveness can lead to healing and the spread of God's love. It is essential for our spiritual growth and for living in accordance with God's will. The act of forgiving is not just about the other person but also about freeing ourselves from the burden of resentment and bitterness. Through prayer and reliance on God's strength, we can work towards forgiving others, just as we seek forgiveness for ourselves. [55:34]

"Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32, ESV)

Reflection: Think of a hurt you have been holding onto. How can you begin the process of forgiveness to experience healing and freedom in your life?

Quotes

"Jesus talks about forgiveness and he's a little bit blunt at the end of the text after he gives the prayer he says a line that I'm still troubled by to this day I've been in church for almost 41 years I have an undergrad degree and a graduate degree and I still have trouble with this one a couple of verses that I still am having trouble making sense of and so we're going to go into that today when Jesus talks about forgiveness he's not just telling us what to do he's talking about something that he and the christian community did from the beginning on the cross jesus is looking down he's got a criminal on each side of him there are three crosses you've probably heard this story before and" [00:40:52]

"Jesus forgives he doesn't only tell the people to forgive he acts it out he does it does it. He models it. And then we get to the first written about martyr in the Christian community. It's in the book of Acts chapter 7. Luke, who we just read, wrote Acts also. So we're getting all the way through Acts, all the way up to chapter 7. No one's died in the name of Jesus yet, up until Stephen. Now Stephen is speaking the gospel. He's talking about Jesus. And the people of God who don't believe that Jesus is the Messiah, they're not happy about it because they've been the people who've studied and learned about and taught about God for their entire lives." [00:44:04]

"Jesus is crucified, and he says, Father, forgive them. They don't know what they're doing. Stephen is stoned to death, and he says, do not hold this against them. These two are stronger people. Than I am. If someone is crucifying me or stoning me, I am not, those are not the words that I'm shouting out. I'd be very surprised if they were. Again, Christian my whole life. Stronger Christian, I think, now than I've ever been. And yet, I don't think I'm saying, Father, forgive them." [00:48:23]

"Forgiveness is not an easy thing to do. People in life are going to hurt you. And if they haven't hurt you yet, they will. I would argue, if you're here and breathing, you've probably been hurt by people. I don't know. And there are little hurts and there are big hurts. And there are petty responses and there are big responses. Petty responses are me driving the middle school carpool home this past week. And a truck getting up right behind me. This is about where McDonald's is on Highway 30." [00:49:21]

"Forgiveness is for the strong because you need all the strength in the world to forgive someone who hurts you that deeply you know forgiveness is for the strong and forgiveness is almost impossible to do when you know that someone not only did something wrong but did something absolutely abhorrent and feels no remorse about it and when I think about Stephen's killers and when I think about Jesus killers they felt no remorse and not only did they not feel remorse they thought they were doing God's will that's the thing about it they thought they were doing the right thing they thought they were doing what God wanted them to do because what God wanted was for God's message to spread around the world and this guy's coming in this Jesus guy and he's throwing everyone off track this false prophet in their minds and they thought they were doing God's will and he's throwing everyone off track by getting rid of them." [00:52:49]

"Forgiveness is strength. Forgiveness is power. Forgiveness is something that is almost impossible for a lot of us. To do. But a lot of us also know that unforgiveness, unforgiveness can fester, unforgiveness can kill us from the inside. As we think about forgiveness, near the end of this prayer that Jesus gives us, our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. A few weeks ago we talked about how we're going to be forgiven. We begin a prayer by acknowledging the greatness of God." [00:55:20]

"Forgive us what we've done as we've also forgiven the people who've done wrong to us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. All great, all not forgive your sins. of scripture. If you don't forgive someone, God won't forgive you. Does that feel harsh to anyone else? Does that feel painful? Does that feel against what you know about God to anyone else? It does to me to look at that and have God say, God, I'm not going to forgive you. God in the flesh say, forgive or I'm not forgiving you. It feels wrong. It feels gross for God to do that." [00:57:05]

"There's something about following this Jesus guy that forces us, that requires us to forgive. God is. God is. so serious about forgiveness being a part of the kingdom of God that he says, to be in the kingdom of God, you have to forgive. He doesn't mess around. And again, this is never going to make entire God is that serious about forgiveness. Forgiveness. There's something about following Jesus that requires that we work on forgiving one another. Now, forgiveness is not something that just comes naturally." [00:58:13]

"Forgiveness is a muscle that we keep needing to work. I just started running again. I haven't done it in over a year or almost a year. And you forget that you're terrible at it after not doing it for a long time. But when you were in football, did you ever like take a break on the offseason? Did you come back at full, as best as you were when you left? No. Everyone takes a break on the offseason at least once and they learn their lesson. Whether or not they keep doing it again, me in cross country, you learn your lesson and you relearn your lesson when you come back and you're like, I have not been working that muscle." [01:00:44]

"Imagine if they hadn't forgiven him. They would be justified in doing so. They would be justified in not forgiving him. He had killed Stephen one chapter before. He had persecuted Christians. He didn't need to be forgiven by the Christians. No one would have batted an eye. And yet the greatest evangelist, the greatest missionary to ever be, became that because the Christian community, the Christian community, the Christian community, the Christian community, forgave him." [01:04:13]

"I think, in part, forgiveness is so important to Jesus because the gospel spreads when we forgive. We see what God can do. We see the miracles that God can work when we forgive. Again, we're not going to be good at it today. If you've never tried it, you're going to be terrible at it. If you've tried it, you're probably going to be terrible at it. Because it's not something that comes easily. It's not something that comes naturally. It makes a lot more sense in our brains, our beautiful brains that God gave us. It makes a lot more sense for us to hold on to the bad things that people did to us." [01:05:52]

"Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors. As we pray, may we ask forgiveness. Because there is some pattern that we have of sin and repentance, and sin and repentance, and sin and repentance. Asking forgiveness is good. Asking forgiveness is necessary because we recognize what we've done wrong. But we also recognize much more easily what other people have done wrong. And as we pray, let us remember. That forgiveness matters to Jesus. Forgiveness matters to God. Forgiveness is something that God cares about deeply. And part of being a Christian requires that we forgive." [01:07:14]

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