Forgiveness: The Path to Overcoming Anger
Summary
In this sermon, I was reminded of the importance of forgiveness and how it can help us overcome anger. I was challenged to reflect on the people in my life who I may be holding grudges against and how this unforgiveness could be fueling my anger. I was encouraged to release this anger and forgive those who have wronged me, not because they necessarily deserve it, but because I have been forgiven by God. I was also reminded that if I haven't received forgiveness from God, I may struggle with uncontrollable anger.
In the second part of the sermon, I was encouraged to channel my anger towards the injustices in the world, such as starvation and human trafficking. I was reminded that while it's okay to be angry about these issues, I should not let this anger produce unrighteousness. Instead, I should let it produce a righteousness that reflects God's heart. I was also reminded to put my trust back in the Lord and to receive His forgiveness.
Key takeaways:
- Forgiveness is a crucial step in overcoming anger. It's not about whether the other person deserves it, but about releasing the hold that unforgiveness has on us ([34:41]).
- If we haven't received forgiveness from God, we may struggle with uncontrollable anger. We need to accept God's forgiveness in order to truly overcome anger ([39:12]).
- Our anger should be directed towards the injustices in the world, such as starvation and human trafficking. However, this anger should not produce unrighteousness, but a righteousness that reflects God's heart ([41:11]).
- Trusting in the Lord is key in overcoming anger. When we put our trust back in Him, it allows us to release our anger and receive His forgiveness ([36:27]).
Study Guide
Bible Reading:
1. Ephesians 6:12 - "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." [07:40]
2. Ephesians 4:26 - "In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry." [44:13]
Observation Questions:
1. In Ephesians 6:12, what does it mean that our struggle is not against flesh and blood?
2. How does Ephesians 4:26 guide us in dealing with anger?
Interpretation Questions:
1. How does understanding our struggle as spiritual (Ephesians 6:12) change our perspective on anger and conflict?
2. What practical steps can we take to follow the advice in Ephesians 4:26 and not let the sun go down on our anger?
Application Questions:
1. Can you think of a recent situation where you felt anger towards someone? How could understanding the struggle as spiritual (Ephesians 6:12) have changed your response?
2. What is one practical step you can take this week to ensure you do not let the sun go down on your anger (Ephesians 4:26)?
3. Can you identify a person or situation that consistently triggers anger in you? How can you apply the teachings from Ephesians to handle this better?
4. How can you practice forgiveness this week in a situation where you feel wronged or angered?
5. How can you channel your anger into a 'righteous anger' that motivates you to share the gospel and love of Jesus?
Devotional
Day 1: Righteous Anger Drives Action
Righteous anger is a powerful motivator that can drive us to take action for the Kingdom of God. It is the kind of anger that Jesus displayed when he overturned the tables in the temple, an anger driven by love and a desire for justice. This anger should not lead us to sin, but to act in love and righteousness ([41:46]).
James 1:19-20 - "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires."
Reflection: Reflect on a time when you felt righteous anger. How did it motivate you to act?
Day 2: Trust in the Lord
When we face anger and other struggles, we must look upward and put our trust back in the Lord. He is faithful and just, and He will guide us through our struggles if we trust in Him ([42:58]).
Proverbs 3:5-6 - "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."
Reflection: How can you actively put your trust in the Lord when you face anger or other struggles?
Day 3: The Power of Forgiveness
Forgiveness is a powerful tool that can help us overcome anger. When we forgive others, we release the hold that their actions have on us, freeing us from the burden of anger ([34:41]).
Colossians 3:13 - "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
Reflection: Who do you need to forgive in order to release your anger?
Day 4: The Struggle with Anger
Anger is a struggle that many of us face. It can damage our relationships and our spiritual health. But with God's help, we can overcome it ([43:42]).
Ephesians 4:26-27 - "In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold."
Reflection: How can you rely on God's help to overcome your struggle with anger?
Day 5: The Healing Power of Jesus
Jesus has the power to heal us from the damage caused by anger. His love and forgiveness can mend our relationships and heal our hearts ([45:32]).
1 Peter 2:24 - "He himself bore our sins in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; by his wounds you have been healed."
Reflection: How have you experienced the healing power of Jesus in your life?
Quotes
1. "We can get desensitized to the fact that there are people that are struggling today and it's easy for us to go into our phones and get lost in social media and just numb ourselves because it's not happening to us in the moment." - 00:02
2. "Why in the world would you move away from your family to go start a church 12 and a half hours away in a city that you never knew? Because I'm angry about the Lost and it drives me to produce a righteous anger in God to go out and preach the gospel to share the hope and love of Jesus." - 41:33
3. "Our anger can go from a starting a righteous place right but then it can end up in our unrighteous flesh. We have this expectation of our husband or an expectation of our wife that the world has sold us that says this is what a husband should be this is what a wife should be and then because of that our expectations aren't met and then our energy of anger starts getting fueled." - 09:59
4. "I was not going to get stepped on anymore in no way of my life. It didn't matter if it was an innocent thing that you did I was not gonna let you do it and you know what that that lived with me for so long this is something I'm still dealing with today that I still battle today as as anger inside of me." - 26:48
5. "The amazing thing about the gospel, the good news that Jesus came and he died for us so that the spirit of God lives in us and because of that we have a thing called self-control through the power of the Holy Spirit." - 26:48