Forgiveness and Love: A Lesson from Luke 7

 

Summary

### Summary

Good morning, church family. Today is Fellowship Sunday, a special day where we come together to foster deeper connections within our community. We also have the joy of introducing our new children's leadership team: Ken Slavin and Elizabeth Miller. Both bring a wealth of experience and a heart for serving our children and families. As we look forward to the fall, we encourage everyone to consider volunteering in our children's ministries, whether on Sunday mornings or during Awana on Monday nights.

Our scripture reading today is from Luke 7:36-50, where we encounter a profound story of forgiveness and love. Jesus is invited to dine at the house of a Pharisee named Simon. During the meal, a woman known for her sinful life enters and anoints Jesus' feet with her tears and expensive ointment. This act of devotion starkly contrasts with Simon's lack of basic hospitality towards Jesus. Simon's internal judgment of the woman reveals his misunderstanding of Jesus' mission and the depth of his own need for forgiveness.

Jesus uses this moment to teach a powerful lesson about forgiveness and love. He tells a parable of two debtors, one owing a large sum and the other a smaller amount. Both debts are forgiven, and Jesus asks Simon which debtor would love the moneylender more. Simon correctly answers that the one forgiven the larger debt would love more. Jesus then points out that the woman's actions demonstrate her deep love and gratitude for the forgiveness she has received, while Simon's lack of hospitality shows his failure to recognize his own need for forgiveness.

The key takeaway from this passage is that the more we understand the magnitude of our forgiveness, the more we will love the forgiver. This woman's extravagant love for Jesus was a response to the profound forgiveness she had experienced. In contrast, Simon's self-righteousness blinded him to his own need for grace. As we reflect on this story, we are reminded to continually gaze upon God's holiness, recount our own sinfulness, acknowledge the cost of our forgiveness, confess our dependence on Jesus, and express daily gratitude for His grace.

### Key Takeaways

1. Understanding Forgiveness Deepens Love: The more we grasp the depth of our forgiveness, the more our love for Jesus grows. This woman’s extravagant act of devotion was a direct response to the profound forgiveness she had received. Her actions were a testament to her deep gratitude and love for Jesus, who had forgiven her many sins. [47:29]

2. Self-Righteousness Blinds Us to Our Need for Grace: Simon the Pharisee's lack of hospitality and judgmental attitude towards the woman revealed his self-righteousness. He failed to see his own need for forgiveness, which prevented him from showing love and honor to Jesus. This story challenges us to examine our hearts and recognize our own need for grace. [50:21]

3. Jesus Knows Our Hearts: Jesus demonstrated His divine knowledge by addressing Simon's unspoken thoughts. This reminds us that Jesus knows our innermost thoughts and intentions. We cannot hide our true selves from Him, and this should lead us to a place of humility and honesty before God. [01:04:54]

4. Expressing Gratitude Through Actions: The woman's actions of anointing Jesus' feet with her tears and ointment were expressions of her deep gratitude. Our love for Jesus should be evident in our actions, showing our appreciation for the forgiveness and grace we have received. This story encourages us to find tangible ways to express our love and gratitude to God. [01:12:42]

5. Daily Remembrance of Grace: Jesus reminded the woman of her forgiveness, reinforcing the importance of continually remembering the grace we have received. This daily remembrance helps us to live in gratitude and love, motivating us to obey His commands and serve others. Reflecting on our forgiveness should be a regular part of our spiritual practice. [01:17:35]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[0:45] - Fellowship Sunday Introduction
[1:30] - New Children's Leadership Team
[3:00] - Volunteer Opportunities
[4:00] - Prayer for Ministries
[5:30] - Scripture Reading: Luke 7:36-50
[6:30] - Introduction to the Passage
[7:45] - Jesus' Relationship with the Pharisees
[9:00] - Simon's Lack of Hospitality
[10:30] - The Woman's Act of Devotion
[12:00] - Jesus' Parable of the Two Debtors
[13:30] - The Lesson on Forgiveness and Love
[15:00] - Understanding Our Need for Grace
[16:30] - Daily Remembrance of Grace
[18:00] - Closing Prayer and Communion
[20:00] - Benediction and Dismissal

Study Guide

### Bible Reading
- Luke 7:36-50

### Observation Questions
1. What were the customary courtesies that Simon the Pharisee failed to show Jesus when He entered his house? [53:18]
2. How did the woman express her gratitude and love for Jesus during the meal at Simon's house? [47:29]
3. What was Simon's internal reaction to the woman's actions, and how did Jesus respond to his thoughts? [01:03:32]
4. What parable did Jesus tell Simon, and what was its main point? [01:07:41]

### Interpretation Questions
1. Why did Jesus highlight the contrast between Simon's lack of hospitality and the woman's extravagant actions? [01:10:57]
2. How does the parable of the two debtors relate to the concept of forgiveness and love in the context of this story? [01:07:41]
3. What does Jesus' ability to know Simon's thoughts reveal about His divine nature? [01:04:54]
4. How does the woman's understanding of her forgiveness influence her actions towards Jesus? [01:12:42]

### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt deeply forgiven. How did that experience affect your love and gratitude towards God? [01:12:42]
2. In what ways can self-righteousness prevent us from recognizing our need for grace, similar to Simon the Pharisee? [01:03:32]
3. How can we cultivate a daily remembrance of God's grace in our lives to deepen our love for Him? [01:17:35]
4. Think about someone in your life who might feel like an outcast. How can you show them the same love and acceptance that Jesus showed the woman in this story? [01:10:57]
5. What are some tangible ways you can express your gratitude to God for His forgiveness and grace this week? [01:12:42]
6. How can we ensure that our actions reflect our love and gratitude for Jesus, similar to the woman's actions in the story? [01:12:42]
7. Identify one area in your life where you struggle with self-righteousness. What steps can you take to humble yourself and acknowledge your need for God's grace? [01:03:32]

Devotional

### Day 1: The Depth of Forgiveness Fuels Our Love

Understanding the depth of our forgiveness deepens our love for Jesus. In Luke 7:36-50, a woman known for her sinful life anoints Jesus' feet with her tears and expensive ointment. This act of devotion starkly contrasts with Simon the Pharisee's lack of basic hospitality towards Jesus. Simon's internal judgment of the woman reveals his misunderstanding of Jesus' mission and the depth of his own need for forgiveness. Jesus uses this moment to teach a powerful lesson about forgiveness and love through the parable of the two debtors. The woman’s extravagant love for Jesus was a direct response to the profound forgiveness she had received. Her actions were a testament to her deep gratitude and love for Jesus, who had forgiven her many sins. [47:29]

Luke 7:47 (ESV): "Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven—for she loved much. But he who is forgiven little, loves little."

Reflection: Think of a time when you felt deeply forgiven by God. How did that experience affect your love and devotion to Him? How can you express that love in a tangible way today?


### Day 2: Self-Righteousness Hinders Our Need for Grace

Self-righteousness blinds us to our need for grace. Simon the Pharisee's lack of hospitality and judgmental attitude towards the woman revealed his self-righteousness. He failed to see his own need for forgiveness, which prevented him from showing love and honor to Jesus. This story challenges us to examine our hearts and recognize our own need for grace. Simon's self-righteousness serves as a cautionary tale, reminding us that we must not let our perceived righteousness blind us to our own need for God's grace and forgiveness. [50:21]

Romans 2:1 (ESV): "Therefore you have no excuse, O man, every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things."

Reflection: Reflect on a recent situation where you judged someone else. How did this judgment affect your relationship with them and with God? What steps can you take to acknowledge your own need for grace in this area?


### Day 3: Jesus Knows Our Innermost Thoughts

Jesus knows our hearts and our innermost thoughts. In the story of the sinful woman and Simon the Pharisee, Jesus demonstrated His divine knowledge by addressing Simon's unspoken thoughts. This reminds us that Jesus knows our innermost thoughts and intentions. We cannot hide our true selves from Him, and this should lead us to a place of humility and honesty before God. Knowing that Jesus sees and understands our deepest thoughts should encourage us to be transparent and genuine in our relationship with Him. [01:04:54]

Psalm 139:1-2 (ESV): "O Lord, you have searched me and known me! You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from afar."

Reflection: What thoughts or feelings have you been hiding from God? Take a moment to bring these before Him in prayer, asking for His guidance and understanding.


### Day 4: Gratitude Expressed Through Actions

Expressing gratitude through actions is a powerful way to show our love for Jesus. The woman's actions of anointing Jesus' feet with her tears and ointment were expressions of her deep gratitude. Our love for Jesus should be evident in our actions, showing our appreciation for the forgiveness and grace we have received. This story encourages us to find tangible ways to express our love and gratitude to God. Whether through acts of service, worship, or kindness, our actions should reflect the profound impact of God's grace in our lives. [01:12:42]

James 2:17 (ESV): "So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead."

Reflection: Identify one specific way you can express your gratitude to God through your actions today. How can this act of gratitude impact those around you?


### Day 5: Daily Remembrance of Grace

Daily remembrance of grace helps us live in gratitude and love. Jesus reminded the woman of her forgiveness, reinforcing the importance of continually remembering the grace we have received. This daily remembrance helps us to live in gratitude and love, motivating us to obey His commands and serve others. Reflecting on our forgiveness should be a regular part of our spiritual practice, keeping us grounded in the reality of God's grace and inspiring us to extend that grace to others. [01:17:35]

Lamentations 3:22-23 (ESV): "The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness."

Reflection: How can you incorporate a daily practice of remembering God's grace in your life? What specific steps can you take to ensure this becomes a regular part of your spiritual routine?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "The more you understand the magnitude of your forgiveness, the more you love the forgiver. The more you and I understand the magnitude of our forgiveness, the more you love the forgiver." [01:13:55] (16 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "For by grace you have been saved through what? Faith. And this is not of yourself. It's a gift of what? God. He says, because of what you have shown here, be comforted, be known that you are safe, that you are secure. And so she left with peace." [01:18:30] (15 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "May the Lord help us to see the magnitude of our forgiveness so that we would grow in love for him." [01:26:27] (7 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "And so we go, knowing that our sin has been forgiven, the debt has been canceled, and Christ has triumphed. So go forward in his victory and his power. And all God's people said, amen." [01:34:47] (12 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "The reason why this Pharisee did none of the things for Jesus that should have been done was because he could not understand Jesus for who he was. Yet this woman, this sinner, she understood it fully." [01:13:55] (16 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "Jesus was not blind to what was happening. He felt the full force of this man's treatment of him. Jesus was being mocked and not honored. He was dishonored in his treatment." [55:47] (16 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "The more you understand the magnitude of your forgiveness, the more you love the forgiver. The more you and I understand the magnitude of our forgiveness, the more you love the forgiver." [01:13:55] (16 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "Jesus is not saying that she loved much and therefore she was forgiven. A better translation of that is Jesus saying is that, is that therefore I tell you her sins which are many are forgiven. Her love is an expression of this. She's loving me in this way because of what she has come to know." [01:16:04] (19 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "If you're failing to express daily gratitude, even in your sufferings and in your struggles, it's because somewhere along this chain there's a break. But when we come back to grace, and it's all of grace, it is cultivated." [01:25:01] (12 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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