Forgiven to Forgive: Mercy for Those We Hate

Oct 18, 2026

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#LoveYourEnemies
“And what I think you will find is this is going to soften your heart towards those people that are hard to get along with and position you to where God can lead you into whatever you need to do from there. It's a safe starting place, and it can move you in the direction of being able to love your enemy. Because as I said, that is a really hard thing, and if if it was easy, Jesus wouldn't have told us to do it.”
31s
#PracticeForgiveness
“So why would Jesus ask us to do something that seems nearly impossible? Could it be that Jesus wants us to accurately reflect the life that we've actually been given? Think of all the things you've been forgiven for and the numbers probably get pretty high. I know that over the years I've racked up a pretty high number of offenses that I'm sure God has forgiven me for and maybe it's the same with you.”
57s
#JesusCallsTheUnlikely
“Well, what happens in this story? Jesus is walking with this large crowd of people really locked in on what he does. And publicly, in front of this whole crowd, he calls out to the most hated man there, come follow me. There was no ambiguity to this and it wasn't even like Zacchaeus where Jesus invited himself over to lunch which is still a big deal. Jesus took this man that every single person in the crowd hated, and he invited him into his inner circle. He invited him to come follow, and of course, Matthew immediately followed. Jesus did this in a... As public a way as he possibly could.”
49s
#ForgivenessAndMercy
“Yet the king forgives it completely out of compassion, because... And not because the, servant earned it somehow. But then the same person who was forgiven an unfathomable amount turns around and denies forgiveness for what would otherwise be a minor amount. He even has him thrown into prison. Now when the king heard what the man has done, he didn't spare his his actions or words, calling him wicked and telling him he should have shown mercy just as he was shown mercy. He handed him over to be tortured until the debt was repaid, which we already know can't be done.”
38s
#GodsLove
“the people that we may hate, the people that we may not get along with, the people that may rub us the wrong way. God loves them. God loves the people that we just can't get along with. Just as much he loves he loves me. He loves each of you. He loves, pastor Terry, he loves Tom, he loves all of us, but he even loves those people that just we can't get along with.”
40s
#IntentionalGratitude
“I like to leave things at a point where it's something you can go out and do. And I'm gonna... What I would recommend as a place to experiment with is intentional gratitude. Now this is simple, but it's not easy. What I would like you to try to do this week is pick out somebody that you just have a hard time getting along with and find... Sit down and ask God to help you think of ways that you're thankful for that person.”
59s
#UnpayableDebt
“This brings us to the second parable in the scripture we just heard. Here we have a servant owing a debt that he could never repay. The word talent used in it isn't just another form of of currency like a euro or or, peso. One talent was the equivalent of twenty years of wages. Here it's being reported that that that he owed 10,000 talents. That would be almost like a single individual owing the entire federal debt debt, and it would take longer than recorded history to repay. In fact, the number 10,000 was the largest number in the Greek language at the time. So you get the picture. This was an absurdly huge number.”
47s
#JesusForTheBroken
“Now we continue on then later on. Matthew was so excited to be with Jesus. He has a party. He has a dinner at his house. And who does he invite? Tax collectors. Because those are the only people that would do anything with him. So he invites tax collectors to his house and Jesus comes and the Pharisees were there they're asking, what is he doing eating with all these tax collectors? And Jesus' response was, these are the people I'm here for. I'm not here for the righteous. I'm here for the ones that need healing.”
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