Life's journey is not meant to be walked alone. We are created for connection, for mutual support, and for shared experiences. This community is a place where we can find encouragement, understanding, and belonging as we navigate life's ups and downs. Embracing this truth allows us to experience the fullness of what it means to be human and to grow together in faith. [30:28]
Bible passage:
"And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching." (Hebrews 10:24-25, ESV)
Reflection: In what specific ways can you actively contribute to fostering a sense of belonging and mutual support within our community this week?
Many of the things we consider normal or expected in life are the result of intentional efforts to shape our culture. From daily habits to significant life events, these norms are often deeply ingrained, influencing our desires and preferences without us even realizing it. Understanding the origins of these cultural expectations can help us discern what truly matters and where our loyalties lie. [34:59]
Bible passage:
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will." (Romans 12:2, ESV)
Reflection: Identify one cultural norm that you've unconsciously adopted. How might this norm be shaping your desires and preferences, and what would it look like to intentionally challenge it?
At our core, we all have a deep-seated need to be seen, known, and acknowledged for who we are. Simultaneously, we possess a longing to grow, to change, and to become more of who we are meant to be. This inherent desire for both affirmation and transformation points to a deeper purpose for our lives, a journey of becoming more like the one who created us. [36:46]
Bible passage:
"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." (Psalm 139:13-14, ESV)
Reflection: Reflect on a recent moment when you felt truly seen and known. What made that experience significant for you, and how can you cultivate more of those moments in your relationships?
Jesus' most frequent invitation was not to "believe" in a detached sense, but to "follow" Him. This call to follow is a profound invitation to an immersive, life-shaping relationship. It means aligning our lives, our loves, and our habits with His way, allowing His presence to transform us from the inside out. [48:01]
Bible passage:
"Then Jesus said to his disciples, 'Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.'" (Matthew 16:24, ESV)
Reflection: Consider an area of your life where you've been hesitant to fully surrender to Jesus' guidance. What specific aspect of "following" Him in that area feels most challenging, and what is one small step you could take to move forward?
We are constantly being formed by what we attach ourselves to, whether consciously or unconsciously. The invitation is to intentionally attach ourselves to Jesus, allowing His life and teachings to shape our own. This involves immersion in His way, connection with His people, and the repetition of practices that deepen our relationship with Him. [01:05:02]
Bible passage:
"I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing." (John 15:5, ESV)
Reflection: Beyond attending a service or participating in a group, what is one intentional practice you can commit to this week that will help you deepen your personal attachment and connection with Jesus?
The talk traces how ordinary habits and cultural expectations are manufactured and how those forces quietly shape who people become. It begins by naming familiar rituals — breakfast plates, engagement rings, birthday candles, Casual Friday — and shows how coordinated advertising and repetition dissolve origin stories until these practices feel inevitable. From there the argument moves to a theological anthropology: humans have two basic needs, to be known (to be) and to be transformed toward who they ought to be (to become). Formation is the language used for that becoming, and it always involves the interplay of loves (what one desires), habits (what one repeats), and character (what is formed inside).
Using the economic idea of revealed preference, the speaker contends that present lives are the cumulative result of thousands of budgeted choices of time, attention, and money; people tend to be living the life they unconsciously chose because they voted with their resources. The gospel offers a rival culture — the kingdom of God — that calls for a different loyalty. Jesus’ invitation is not primarily an intellectual assent but a summons to “follow,” to attach one’s life to a rabbi whose way of life shapes disciples into his likeness.
Discipleship is described practically: immersion into a new way of life, social connection with those on the same path, and repetition of formative practices (disciplines). These practices do not automate holiness, but they create the context in which God’s Spirit forms believers over time. Attention is drawn to the simple fact that a typical church service claims only a tiny fraction of weekly minutes; true formation requires reallocation of ordinary time and resources toward the person of Jesus. The conclusion is an open invitation to shift allegiance — not out of shame, but as a deliberate choice to be formed by Christ rather than by the patterns of the surrounding world.
When does a person stop being an apprentice? Notice this definition. An apprentice is no longer an apprentice when the work of the apprentice is indistinguishable from the work of the master. The work of the apprentice is no longer the the work the the the work of the apprentice is indistinguishable from the work of the master, meaning you cannot tell the difference between who did it, the apprentice or the master, which means it sets it up for that there is a a possibility for a whole life of being an apprentice.
[00:50:48]
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#masteryThroughApprenticeship
And whether or not we wanna agree, whether or not we wanna acknowledge it, there is no not being formed. There's no place in which none of us are just gonna stop being formed into something. The better question isn't really, you know, like, am I being formed? But it's really about, like, by who or what or into what am I being formed. The more helpful question for us because every single one of us is being formed into something. The question is by who or by what, but also into what? What what exactly am I becoming? What am I being formed into?
[00:38:38]
(28 seconds)
#whoShapesYou
In effect, what he's asking is a question, and maybe this might sound he's essentially asking a question as he's meeting Jesus, and he's heard all about Jesus. Jesus, at this point in his ministry, has got a kind of a reputation. And he shows up there to talk to Jesus, and effectively he's asking us this question. How do I have a life changing encounter with Jesus without changing my life? How do I have a life changing encounter with Jesus without changing my life? And the answer to that is, maybe, maybe, maybe he's already living the life he always wanted.
[00:54:19]
(32 seconds)
#meetingThatChangesYou
About eighty minutes of a week for people who are Jesus people, you're in you're in a church service. You know, it's sixty five minutes of for us, it's sixty five minutes of a service, then you get a donut, and you have to deal with our parking and all that other kind of nightmare stuff out But it's a give it eighty minutes. And that's basically about 1% of your week. So what do you do with the other ten minutes is this question. And what his point is, which is so good, is if eighty minutes if you're a person who's like, I'm I wanna be my life to be changed to be more like Jesus. If it's eighty minutes only per week that you're looking for, then that's a recipe for a life changing encounter with Jesus without changing my life. Life changing encounter with Jesus without changing my life.
[01:01:33]
(35 seconds)
#beyondSundayService
to kind of set the stage of the whole series, is that 95% of our lives, according to research, is done almost entirely without directed efforts, just unconscious, which means only 5% of what we're doing is actually the result of our conscious intention to do a particular thing. Most of the time, we're just going through the proverbial motions, just kind of living stuff out. Which means for better or for worse, we're constantly being being formed into a particular kind of thing.
[00:38:13]
(24 seconds)
#habitsShapeUs
and which in its particularity leaves no doubt as to who is deploying the formative power. Notice that the intent of this disciple person is to attach themselves and to have their whole life transformed by the nature of that attachment. And it also implies that the one who's doing the transformation is not this apprentice, but the master. That their life, their whole life is being transformed. A disciple is a person intending to be transformed by attaching themselves to a particular thing.
[00:51:42]
(26 seconds)
#transformationByAttachment
And in it, it says this, to get the idea. It says, there is a limited amount of resources, a limited resources budget that we all have, not just sort of, you know, money. That's part of it. But we have a limited amount of time, money, attention, and energy. And you and I are already living out. We're already voting on what it is that's most important to us. We've made choices on the basis of our particular budget of time, effort, and energy live the way that we want. In other words, whatever we whatever we value the most gets the most of our budget, which is a reflection of our choices. You with me? So this, by the way, is different than what ought to be valued the most. It's just what is value. We're we're voting by how we're spending our resources, our resources budget.
[00:40:28]
(40 seconds)
#voteWithYourTime
And maybe this idea is why when the Bible describes Jesus calling people to faith, the most common phrase he uses when he's calling people to faith isn't the phrase believe, although he does use believe a lot in the gospel of John. And he doesn't use the phrase, if you wanna be saved, although he does sometimes. And he does not more than anything else, he doesn't he doesn't say the phrase, hey. How is it that you do you wanna go to heaven when you die? That's not any all of that stuff is sort of, like, way pushed down. Even the phrase go to heaven when you die doesn't show up in Jesus' ministry. He says something else.
[00:46:43]
(31 seconds)
#followNotJustBelieve
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