Flourishing Faith: Navigating Life's Middle Journey

 

Summary

### Summary

Today, we explored the concept of "life in the middle" and how it relates to our spiritual journey. We began by acknowledging the importance of fathers and their role as spiritual leaders in the home. We then delved into the parable of the sower, where Jesus describes the Kingdom of God as a seed planted in the ground. This seed represents our faith, which can sometimes struggle to grow due to various challenges, much like crops facing adverse weather conditions or weeds. However, the Holy Spirit nurtures this seed, ensuring it eventually flourishes.

We discussed how life often feels like a U-shaped journey, starting with excitement and hope, dipping into struggles and uncertainties, and then rising again with maturity and wisdom. This "middle" phase can be particularly challenging, especially for younger generations who are increasingly leaving the church due to cultural influences and a desire for certainty that faith doesn't always provide. Yet, God promises that even a bruised reed or a smoldering wick will not be broken or snuffed out. The Holy Spirit continues to work in us, rekindling our faith even when it seems weak.

We also looked at the example of Nicodemus, who was initially skeptical but eventually became a devoted follower of Christ. His journey illustrates how the Holy Spirit can guide us through our doubts and uncertainties. Similarly, Jesus Himself experienced being "stuck in the middle" during His crucifixion, yet emerged victorious, offering us hope and resurrection.

In conclusion, while life in the middle can be fraught with challenges, uncertainties, and even crises of faith, the Holy Spirit is always at work, nurturing our faith and ensuring that it will ultimately flourish. We are reminded that we are new creations in Christ, and there is always hope and joy in the resurrection.

### Key Takeaways

1. The Role of Fathers as Spiritual Leaders: Fathers are called to be spiritual leaders in their homes, guiding their families in the truth of God's Word. This role is crucial for the spiritual well-being of the family unit and is a responsibility that should be taken seriously. [00:57]

2. The Parable of the Sower and Our Faith: The parable of the sower illustrates how our faith, like a seed, can face numerous challenges but is nurtured by the Holy Spirit. Even when our faith seems weak or struggling, God ensures it will eventually flourish. [02:57]

3. Life's U-Shaped Journey: Life often feels like a U-shaped journey, starting with excitement, dipping into struggles, and rising again with maturity. This middle phase can be particularly challenging, but it is also a time for growth and deepening faith. [05:11]

4. The Holy Spirit's Unfailing Work: God promises that even a bruised reed or a smoldering wick will not be broken or snuffed out. The Holy Spirit continues to work in us, rekindling our faith even when it seems weak, ensuring that it will ultimately flourish. [09:58]

5. Examples of Faith in the Middle: Nicodemus and Jesus Himself serve as examples of being "stuck in the middle" yet emerging victorious. Their journeys remind us that the Holy Spirit guides us through our doubts and uncertainties, leading us to a place of renewed faith and hope. [12:28]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[00:57] - Opening Prayer and Father's Day Acknowledgment
[02:07] - The Parable of the Sower
[02:57] - Challenges in Growing Faith
[03:46] - The Holy Spirit's Role in Nurturing Faith
[04:33] - Life in the Middle: The U-Shaped Journey
[05:11] - Struggles and Growth in the Middle of Life
[07:05] - Cultural Influences and Leaving the Church
[08:20] - Demographic Shifts and Faith Challenges
[09:13] - The Desire for Certainty vs. Faith
[09:58] - God's Promise to Rekindle Faith
[10:48] - Nicodemus: A Journey of Faith
[12:28] - Jesus: Stuck in the Middle and Victorious
[13:10] - New Creations in Christ and Hope in the Resurrection
[13:49] - Conclusion and Encouragement

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Proverbs 14:26-28: "In the fear of the Lord, one has strong confidence, and his children will have refuge. The fear of the Lord is a fountain of life, that one may turn away from the snares of death. In a multitude of people is the glory of a king, but without people a prince is ruined."
2. Isaiah 42:3: "A bruised reed he will not break, and a smoldering wick he will not snuff out. In faithfulness he will bring forth justice."
3. John 3:1-2: "Now there was a Pharisee, a man named Nicodemus who was a member of the Jewish ruling council. He came to Jesus at night and said, 'Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher who has come from God. For no one could perform the signs you are doing if God were not with him.'"

#### Observation Questions
1. What does Proverbs 14:26-28 say about the fear of the Lord and its impact on one's confidence and family? How does this relate to the role of fathers as spiritual leaders? [00:57]
2. In the parable of the sower, what are some of the challenges that the seed (faith) faces? How does the Holy Spirit nurture this seed? [02:57]
3. How does the U-shaped journey of life described in the sermon reflect the phases of excitement, struggle, and maturity? [05:11]
4. What examples from the sermon illustrate the Holy Spirit's work in rekindling faith, even when it seems weak? [09:58]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the fear of the Lord provide a foundation for strong confidence and refuge for one's children, as mentioned in Proverbs 14:26-28? How might this apply to the role of fathers in the home? [00:57]
2. What does the parable of the sower teach us about the nature of faith and the challenges it faces? How does this parable encourage believers in their spiritual journey? [02:57]
3. How can the concept of life's U-shaped journey help us understand the periods of struggle and growth in our own lives? What does this metaphor reveal about the process of maturing in faith? [05:11]
4. How do the examples of Nicodemus and Jesus illustrate the idea of being "stuck in the middle" and emerging victorious? What can we learn from their experiences about dealing with doubts and uncertainties? [12:28]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflecting on Proverbs 14:26-28, how can fathers in our group take practical steps to become stronger spiritual leaders in their homes? What specific actions can they take to guide their families in the truth of God's Word? [00:57]
2. Considering the parable of the sower, what are some specific challenges you have faced in your faith journey? How can you rely on the Holy Spirit to nurture and strengthen your faith during these times? [02:57]
3. Think about a time when you felt "stuck in the middle" of a difficult situation. How did you see God working in your life during that period? How can you apply this understanding to current or future struggles? [05:11]
4. How can we support younger generations who are struggling with their faith and cultural influences? What practical steps can we take to encourage and guide them back to the church? [07:05]
5. Reflect on the example of Nicodemus. Have you ever experienced doubts or uncertainties in your faith? How did you navigate through them, and what role did the Holy Spirit play in your journey? [10:48]
6. Jesus' experience of being "stuck in the middle" during His crucifixion offers hope and resurrection. How can this example inspire you to persevere through your own challenges and uncertainties? [12:28]
7. Identify one area in your life where your faith feels like a "bruised reed" or a "smoldering wick." What steps can you take this week to invite the Holy Spirit to rekindle and strengthen your faith in that area? [09:58]

This guide aims to foster meaningful discussion and personal reflection, helping participants to apply the sermon’s teachings to their own lives.

Devotional

Day 1: Fathers as Spiritual Leaders
Fathers are called to be spiritual leaders in their homes, guiding their families in the truth of God's Word. This role is crucial for the spiritual well-being of the family unit and is a responsibility that should be taken seriously. Fathers have the unique opportunity to shape the spiritual lives of their children and set a godly example for their families. This leadership is not about authority but about serving, loving, and nurturing their families in the ways of the Lord.

In today's world, where many influences can lead families astray, the role of a father as a spiritual leader is more important than ever. Fathers are encouraged to engage in regular prayer, Bible study, and open discussions about faith with their families. By doing so, they create a strong spiritual foundation that can withstand the challenges and uncertainties of life. Fathers, remember that your role is not just to provide for your family's physical needs but also to nurture their spiritual growth. [00:57]

Ephesians 6:4 (ESV): "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."

Reflection: How can you, as a father or a father figure, actively nurture the spiritual growth of your family this week?


Day 2: The Parable of the Sower and Our Faith
The parable of the sower illustrates how our faith, like a seed, can face numerous challenges but is nurtured by the Holy Spirit. Even when our faith seems weak or struggling, God ensures it will eventually flourish. This parable reminds us that faith is not always a smooth journey; it can be affected by external factors such as cultural influences, personal struggles, and doubts.

However, the Holy Spirit is always at work, nurturing and strengthening our faith. Just as a farmer tends to his crops, God tends to our spiritual growth, ensuring that even in the face of adversity, our faith can take root and grow. We are encouraged to trust in God's process and remain patient, knowing that He is faithful to complete the work He has begun in us. [02:57]

Mark 4:26-29 (ESV): "And he said, 'The kingdom of God is as if a man should scatter seed on the ground. He sleeps and rises night and day, and the seed sprouts and grows; he knows not how. The earth produces by itself, first the blade, then the ear, then the full grain in the ear. But when the grain is ripe, at once he puts in the sickle, because the harvest has come.'"

Reflection: What are some challenges you face in nurturing your faith, and how can you invite the Holy Spirit to help you overcome them?


Day 3: Life's U-Shaped Journey
Life often feels like a U-shaped journey, starting with excitement, dipping into struggles, and rising again with maturity. This middle phase can be particularly challenging, but it is also a time for growth and deepening faith. During these times, it is easy to feel discouraged or lost, but it is important to remember that these struggles are part of the process of spiritual growth.

The middle phase of life is where we often face our greatest challenges and uncertainties. It is during these times that our faith is tested and refined. We are reminded that God is with us in the midst of our struggles, guiding us and helping us to grow. As we persevere through these difficult times, we gain wisdom and maturity, emerging stronger in our faith. [05:11]

James 1:2-4 (ESV): "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."

Reflection: Think about a current struggle you are facing. How can you see this challenge as an opportunity for growth in your faith?


Day 4: The Holy Spirit's Unfailing Work
God promises that even a bruised reed or a smoldering wick will not be broken or snuffed out. The Holy Spirit continues to work in us, rekindling our faith even when it seems weak, ensuring that it will ultimately flourish. This promise is a source of great comfort and hope, reminding us that God is always at work in our lives, even when we feel weak or discouraged.

The Holy Spirit is our constant companion, guiding us, comforting us, and strengthening our faith. Even when we feel like we are barely holding on, the Holy Spirit is there, nurturing our faith and helping us to grow. We are encouraged to trust in God's promise and rely on the Holy Spirit's unfailing work in our lives. [09:58]

Isaiah 42:3 (ESV): "A bruised reed he will not break, and a faintly burning wick he will not quench; he will faithfully bring forth justice."

Reflection: In what areas of your life do you feel like a bruised reed or a smoldering wick? How can you invite the Holy Spirit to rekindle your faith in these areas?


Day 5: Examples of Faith in the Middle
Nicodemus and Jesus Himself serve as examples of being "stuck in the middle" yet emerging victorious. Their journeys remind us that the Holy Spirit guides us through our doubts and uncertainties, leading us to a place of renewed faith and hope. Nicodemus, who was initially skeptical, eventually became a devoted follower of Christ, illustrating how the Holy Spirit can guide us through our doubts.

Similarly, Jesus experienced being "stuck in the middle" during His crucifixion, yet He emerged victorious, offering us hope and resurrection. These examples remind us that we are not alone in our struggles and that God is always at work, guiding us through our doubts and uncertainties. We are encouraged to trust in God's plan and rely on the Holy Spirit's guidance. [12:28]

John 19:39-40 (ESV): "Nicodemus also, who earlier had come to Jesus by night, came bringing a mixture of myrrh and aloes, about seventy-five pounds in weight. So they took the body of Jesus and bound it in linen cloths with the spices, as is the burial custom of the Jews."

Reflection: Reflect on a time when you felt "stuck in the middle" in your faith journey. How did you see God's guidance and the Holy Spirit's work in that situation?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "But Paul makes it so very clear that if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. And the Holy Spirit will not let that wick get snuffed out. That fire will again bloom. You are a new creation." (60 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "The kingdom of God is like a man who happens to scatter seed on the ground. And he couldn't sleep day or night. He wakes up, and he sees that seed grow and then blossom as it develops into a crop that gets harvested." (14 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "God guides us through this middle. He guides us when that seed is planted, and he, through the Holy Spirit, tries to nurture us in our faith, as sometimes we get hung up in the middle of our lives." (10 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "Faith, of course, is not based on sight, as Apostle Paul says. And when you're a young woman standing in the middle of life, as a millennial or Gen Xer, you're faced with the two poles. You're right sort of in the middle of the demographic segment. And yet the Holy Spirit, God says, will continue to work in all of us, whether you're male or female." (20 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "So if you're struggling, know that God will get you through that. If you're hurting, know that God will relieve your pain. And if you have someone that's struggling in faith, or you are, know that the Holy Spirit is going to turn up that pilot light and it's going to become a strong flame." (12 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "Sometimes this life in the middle is the mysterious middle. It's hard to understand what sometimes happens in our life of faith. And Jesus gives us a little understanding here when he shares this parable." (14 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "As we all get very concerned that the church is dying across the United States, that Christianity is on the wavering, well, God is in control through His Spirit. He knows there will be a bountiful harvest at the end. Now, we can be, however, in that path in the middle, and it can look rather bleak." (17 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "But today, that's really turned around. It's more like our U-shape that we've talked about. Historically, it's more like this, right? That sort of the curve, those bends in our life can happen rather early on in life. In fact, in the U.S., we have what's called the ex-evangelicals. And it's a group of millennials and gen-x's, if you remember what they are, I'll show you if you don't. And they are exiting the church because of tradition, because of sometimes what is taught in the colleges and the universities." (33 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "And just the mustard seed of faith can bloom into a great tree, as you know. And He also says here in Isaiah, the prophet, that a smoldering wick will not be snuffed out. A smoldering wick, of course, is where that flame, that pilot light, looks like it's not even hanging in there. Well, God says that smoldering wick will relight up. Faith in those that you love. Faith that has been planted in particular in those that have been baptized. The Holy Spirit will work His work." (27 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "Christ himself! Was stuck in the middle, was he not? He was stuck in the middle between two sinners. Two thieves that were being crucified with him. He was stuck in the middle between earth and heaven. When he was on this particular planet in his journey. When he went into Passion Week in Jerusalem. He was stuck in the middle between a joyous entry into the city and a predicted brutal death. But yet he was victorious." (26 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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