Five Principles for a God-Centered Life

Devotional

Day 1: Self-Reflection Over Blame

James teaches us that the root of our conflicts often lies within our own unfulfilled desires and pride. Instead of blaming others, we should look inward and ask God to reveal the areas in our hearts that need transformation. This self-reflection can lead to a more peaceful and Christ-like life. By choosing reflection over rage, we allow God to work within us, transforming our hearts and minds to be more aligned with His will. This process of introspection is not always easy, but it is essential for spiritual growth and maturity.

When we take the time to reflect on our own shortcomings and seek God's guidance, we can better understand the true source of our conflicts. This understanding helps us to approach situations with a spirit of humility and grace, rather than anger and blame. As we grow in our ability to reflect rather than react, we become more effective witnesses of Christ's love and peace in our relationships and interactions with others. [49:32]

James 4:1-2 (ESV): "What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you? You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask."

Reflection: Think of a recent conflict you experienced. How can you take responsibility for your part in it and seek God's help to transform your heart?

Day 2: Aligning Prayer with God's Will

Our prayers should align with God's will rather than our own selfish desires. James reminds us that God may not answer our prayers with a "yes" if our motives are wrong. True prayer purifies our hearts and aligns us with God's purpose, leading to a more fulfilling spiritual life. When we prioritize prayer over selfish pursuits, we open ourselves up to the transformative power of God's presence in our lives.

Prayer is not just about asking for what we want; it is about seeking God's will and allowing Him to shape our desires. As we spend time in prayer, we should ask God to reveal His plans for us and to help us align our hearts with His. This process of aligning our prayers with God's will requires humility and a willingness to surrender our own desires. When we do this, we experience a deeper connection with God and a greater sense of peace and fulfillment. [53:57]

James 4:3 (ESV): "You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions."

Reflection: Reflect on your recent prayers. Are they focused on your own desires, or are you seeking God's will? How can you align your prayers more closely with His purpose?

Day 3: Choosing God Over Worldly Values

James makes it clear that we cannot serve both God and the world. We must choose to be shaped by God's word rather than worldly values. This may put us in conflict with societal norms, but it is essential for living a life that honors God. Following Christ over friendship with the world means making intentional choices to prioritize our relationship with God above all else.

Living according to God's word often requires us to go against the grain of societal expectations and values. This can be challenging, but it is a necessary part of our spiritual journey. As we commit to following Christ, we must be willing to let go of worldly influences and embrace the teachings of Scripture. This commitment may lead to difficult decisions and sacrifices, but it ultimately brings us closer to God and helps us live a life that reflects His love and truth. [59:30]

James 4:4 (ESV): "You adulterous people! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God."

Reflection: In what areas of your life are you tempted to conform to worldly values? How can you choose to follow Christ more faithfully in those areas?

Day 4: Taking Sin Seriously

James urges us to take our sins seriously and not become apathetic or defiant. We should repent and seek God's help to live righteously. Atonement means recognizing our sins, asking for forgiveness, and making a conscious effort to change. By prioritizing atonement over apathy, we acknowledge the gravity of our sins and our need for God's grace and mercy.

Taking sin seriously involves a deep sense of humility and a recognition of our own shortcomings. It requires us to confront the areas of our lives where we have fallen short and to seek God's forgiveness and guidance. This process of repentance is not just a one-time event but an ongoing journey of transformation. As we continually seek to align our lives with God's will, we experience the power of His grace to overcome sin and live righteously. [06:10]

James 4:8-9 (ESV): "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Be wretched and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom."

Reflection: What sins in your life have you become apathetic about? How can you take steps to repent and seek God's help to overcome them?

Day 5: Speaking with Grace and Kindness

James warns against judging others and encourages us to speak with grace and kindness. Slander harms relationships and puts us in a position of judgment that only God should occupy. We should strive to build each other up with our words. By choosing grace-filled speech over slander, we reflect the love and compassion of Christ in our interactions with others.

Our words have the power to either build up or tear down. When we speak with grace and kindness, we create an environment of love and support that reflects the heart of God. This requires us to be mindful of our words and to avoid speaking out of anger or judgment. Instead, we should seek to encourage and uplift those around us, recognizing that we are all in need of God's grace. By choosing grace-filled speech, we become instruments of God's love and peace in the world. [08:15]

James 4:11-12 (ESV): "Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?"

Reflection: Think of a recent conversation where you spoke harshly or judged someone. How can you seek to speak with more grace and kindness in your future interactions?

Sermon Summary

### Summary

Today, we delved into James chapter 4, exploring five key principles for living a life devoted to God. The first principle is choosing reflection over rage. James challenges us to look inward and identify the root causes of our conflicts, which often stem from our own unfulfilled desires and pride. The second principle is prioritizing prayer over selfish pursuits. James reminds us that our prayers should align with God's will rather than our own selfish desires. The third principle is following Christ over friendship with the world. James makes it clear that we cannot serve both God and the world; we must choose to be shaped by God's word rather than worldly values. The fourth principle is atonement over apathy. James urges us to take our sins seriously, repent, and seek God's help to live righteously. Finally, the fifth principle is grace-filled speech over slander. James warns against judging others and encourages us to speak with grace and kindness.

These principles are not just theoretical; they are practical steps we can take to live a life that honors God. As we reflect on these teachings, let's commit to making these principles a part of our daily lives. Through God's grace and our willingness to change, we can become people who truly live for God.

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Key Takeaways

1. reflection can lead to a more peaceful and Christ-like life. [49:32]
2. Prayer Over Selfish Pursuit: Our prayers should align with God's will rather than our own selfish desires. James reminds us that God may not answer our prayers with a "yes" if our motives are wrong. True prayer purifies our hearts and aligns us with God's purpose, leading to a more fulfilling spiritual life.

3. Following Christ Over Friendship with the World: James makes it clear that we cannot serve both God and the world. We must choose to be shaped by God's word rather than worldly values. This may put us in conflict with societal norms, but it is essential for living a life that honors God.

4. Atonement Over Apathy: James urges us to take our sins seriously and not become apathetic or defiant. We should repent and seek God's help to live righteously. Atonement means recognizing our sins, asking for forgiveness, and making a conscious effort to change.

5. Grace-Filled Speech Over Slander: James warns against judging others and encourages us to speak with grace and kindness. Slander harms relationships and puts us in a position of judgment that only God should occupy. We should strive to build each other up with our words.

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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[44:01] - Introduction and Prayer
[45:37] - Five Things We Are For
[46:04] - Reflection Over Rage
[53:20] - Prayer Over Selfish Pursuit
[58:01] - Following Christ Over Friendship with the World
[02:31] - Atonement Over Apathy
[07:46] - Grace-Filled Speech Over Slander
[12:13] - Recap of Five Principles
[13:17] - God's Grace and Our Commitment
[18:25] - One Lawgiver and Judge
[19:23] - Call to Salvation
[20:23] - Prayer of Commitment
[21:29] - Invitation to Respond
[21:53] - Closing Remarks and Hand Over to Katie

Bible Study Guide

### Bible Reading

James 4:1-12 (NIV)

> "What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures. You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Or do you think Scripture says without reason that he jealously longs for the spirit he has caused to dwell in us? But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: 'God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.' Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up. Brothers and sisters, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against a brother or sister or judges them speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on it. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor?"

### Observation Questions

According to James 4:1, what does James identify as the root cause of fights and quarrels among people?
In James 4:3, why does James say that some prayers are not answered?
What does James mean by "friendship with the world" in James 4:4, and what are its consequences?
How does James 4:11-12 describe the act of judging others, and what is the warning given?

### Interpretation Questions

How does the concept of "reflection over rage" challenge our natural responses to conflict? Reflect on the pastor's example of conflict in his marriage. [50:03]
What does it mean to align our prayers with God's will rather than our own desires, and how can this change our approach to prayer? [53:57]
How can the idea of "following Christ over friendship with the world" manifest in our daily decisions and lifestyle choices? [59:30]
Why is it important to take our sins seriously and seek atonement rather than becoming apathetic or defiant? [01:02:31]

### Application Questions

Think about a recent conflict you had. How might self-reflection have changed your response? What steps can you take to practice "reflection over rage" in future conflicts? [49:32]
Evaluate your prayer life. Are there areas where your prayers might be more aligned with your own desires rather than God's will? How can you start to shift your focus in prayer? [53:57]
Identify one way in which you might be influenced by worldly values. What practical steps can you take to ensure you are being shaped more by God's word than by the world? [59:30]
Reflect on a sin or habit in your life that you have become apathetic about. What steps can you take to seek atonement and make a conscious effort to change? [01:02:31]
Consider your speech over the past week. Were there moments when you judged or spoke harshly about someone? How can you practice grace-filled speech in your interactions this week? [01:07:46]
How can you create a habit of self-reflection to identify areas in your heart that need transformation? What specific actions can you take to invite God into this process? [49:32]
Think of a person who tests your patience. What is a short prayer you can say before the next time you interact with that person to help you respond with grace and kindness? [01:07:46]

Sermon Clips

1. "James says hang on a minute You No It's pointing to something Within me He says the source of our conflicts Are the passions That are at war within us You have a desire for something And you desire it deep down And so you cover And you argue And at the most extreme You might even kill If not with actions Then with your words." [48:33] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "My reaction Is rooted in the pride That is in me In my own heart It's me Hi I'm the problem It's me At tea time Everyone agrees Some of you have no idea What I just said Talk to your teenage daughter On the way home And maybe in your situation The other person Genuinely has been at fault But James says Our reaction Is pointing to something That's going on Deep down In our heart." [51:40] (39 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "Maybe in your life As you've been praying Maybe the reason God hasn't said yes Is not because He does not love you But because he does And he sees a bigger picture And God has a heart For you And so Josh wants to Get off down the road Sometimes I have to say No it's not safe I'm not coming right now And we would do that To you well in our prayer life This week And as we go forward Take some time What is God's will In our life God what are you saying to me." [56:24] (39 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "James says are you a friend of God Or are you a friend with the world You think well that's a tough question John And some of us We want to live our lives this way right We want to live like the world With a dollop of God's blessing on top And James says it's not possible Because if you're a friend with the world You become an enemy of God The two are in opposition together The ways of the world Are both against God In ways that are subtle And in ways that are overt And James says that's not possible James is saying be a friend of God." [01:00:08] (44 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "We want to be for grace filled speech Not slander And we want to be gracious In the way that we speak to one another Slander is where we cause harm With our words towards someone else When we put ourselves As James said Into the seat of judgment We And James says That is not a seat That God has invited us to fill don't know if you have ever done this But I have gone to some big sporting events And I thought I looked carefully at my ticket So I sat in a seat Got there nice and early Ground fills up And then just before kick off You get a tap on the shoulder And they say Mate you are in the wrong seat And you have to go and walk somewhere else And try to find out where it was James says When we sit in the seat of judgment God would tap us on the shoulder And say You are not sitting in the right seat." [01:08:15] (57 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

6. "I believe that there's some of us today Who are listening to this Across our locations And in the room here That we are in danger of living the same way Toward God That there is sin in our lives That we are in danger of being apathetic about Or out of our lives But at worst Defiant Oh it's my right to live this way I'm okay to make that choice Because it's making me happy But God is not angry He's not stood there with a stick But he is there as a loving father Saying Hey come back Come back I'm giving you an opportunity." [01:05:18] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

7. "I read this quote I do not know the source In my preparation It says this Prayer isn't a guarantee God will grant All our desires Rather it's a guarantee Rather the practice of prayer Helps purify Our hearts I pray that this week In my life I'd be coming to God And I'd be asking him To purify my desires To know more of his will After all when Jesus Taught us to pray He says Our father in heaven Hallowed be thy name Thy kingdom come Thy will be done That we would take time To To know God's will For our lives." [57:13] (45 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

8. "James says are you a friend of God Or are you a friend with the world You think well that's a tough question John And some of us We want to live our lives this way right We want to live like the world With a dollop of God's blessing on top And James says it's not possible Because if you're a friend with the world You become an enemy of God The two are in opposition together The ways of the world Are both against God In ways that are subtle And in ways that are overt And James says that's not possible James is saying be a friend of God." [01:00:08] (44 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

9. "James says are you a friend of God Or are you a friend with the world You think well that's a tough question John And some of us We want to live our lives this way right We want to live like the world With a dollop of God's blessing on top And James says it's not possible Because if you're a friend with the world You become an enemy of God The two are in opposition together The ways of the world Are both against God In ways that are subtle And in ways that are overt And James says that's not possible James is saying be a friend of God." [01:00:08] (44 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

10. "James says are you a friend of God Or are you a friend with the world You think well that's a tough question John And some of us We want to live our lives this way right We want to live like the world With a dollop of God's blessing on top And James says it's not possible Because if you're a friend with the world You become an enemy of God The two are in opposition together The ways of the world Are both against God In ways that are subtle And in ways that are overt And James says that's not possible James is saying be a friend of God." [01:00:08] (44 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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