Five Essential Elements of Prayer in Our Walk with God

Prayer is at the very heart of walking with God, not as a distant acquaintance but as a close companion who is always present and available. Through prayer, we experience our relationship with God in a living, dynamic way. To help us grasp the fullness of prayer, consider five essential elements—gratitude, repentance, asking, submitting, and praising—each represented by a finger on your hand, giving you a tangible way to remember and practice them.

Gratitude is the foundation. Everything we have comes from God, and expressing thankfulness not only honors Him but also transforms our own hearts. Scripture is filled with prayers of gratitude, from Jesus Himself to the dedication of the temple. Modern psychology even affirms the power of gratitude to shape our mental and emotional well-being. When we focus on what we have rather than what we lack, we align ourselves with God’s perspective and open ourselves to His work in our lives.

Repentance is the honest acknowledgment of our sin and a turning away from it. True repentance is specific, not vague or general. It’s not just about feeling sorry but about naming our failures, understanding their impact, and committing to change. This is a continual process, not a one-time event, and it keeps us humble and receptive to God’s grace. God’s forgiveness is always available, and repentance is a beautiful way to experience His mercy again and again.

Asking is not selfish; it’s an act of dependence on God. More than half of the prayers in Scripture are requests, reminding us that God created us with needs so that we would turn to Him. When we neglect to bring our needs to God, we risk seeking fulfillment elsewhere, which can lead to disappointment and idolatry. God invites us to cast all our anxieties on Him because He cares deeply for us.

Submission is the posture of yielding our will to God’s. Even Jesus, in the garden, prayed, “Not my will, but yours be done.” Submission is not passive resignation but an active trust that God’s ways are higher than ours. It extends to our relationships with others, our families, and the authorities in our lives. Through submission, we learn humility and discover the wisdom and safety of God’s order.

Finally, praise is the joyful recognition of who God is, beyond what He has done for us. Praise lifts our eyes to God’s character—His power, wisdom, and love. It anchors us in awe and wonder, reminding us that our lives are rooted in Someone far greater than ourselves. Scripture is rich with prayers of praise, and these can guide us when we struggle to find our own words.

Key Takeaways

• 1. Gratitude is more than a polite gesture; it is a spiritual discipline that reorients our hearts toward God’s generosity. By intentionally focusing on what we have received, we resist the pull of discontent and open ourselves to deeper joy and trust in God’s provision. Practicing gratitude daily, even in small things, can transform our outlook and relationships. [06:46]
• 2. Repentance is not a one-time event but a continual practice of honesty before God. True repentance involves naming our sins specifically, understanding their impact, and sincerely committing to change. This ongoing process keeps us humble, dependent on grace, and open to the transforming work of the Spirit. [10:10]
• 3. Asking God for what we need is an act of faith, not selfishness. God designed us with needs so that we would continually return to Him as our source. When we bring our requests to God, we acknowledge our dependence and avoid the trap of self-sufficiency or misplaced trust in other things. [16:14]
• 4. Submission is a deliberate act of trust, surrendering our will to God’s wisdom and authority. Even when we believe we know what is best, true submission recognizes our limitations and God’s greater perspective. This posture extends to our relationships and communities, teaching us humility and the value of learning from others. [19:45]
• 5. Praise shifts our focus from ourselves to the greatness of God. While gratitude centers on what God has done, praise celebrates who He is—His character, power, and faithfulness. Immersing ourselves in prayers of praise, especially from Scripture, deepens our awe and anchors our faith in God’s unchanging nature. [22:34]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [00:16] - The Importance of Prayer
• [01:39] - God as a Present Companion
• [02:33] - Five Elements of Prayer
• [03:02] - Gratitude: Thanksgiving in Prayer
• [04:44] - Biblical Examples of Gratitude
• [06:32] - The Power of Gratitude in Our Lives
• [07:59] - Repentance: Honest Acknowledgment
• [09:15] - Specific and Sincere Repentance
• [11:43] - The Ongoing Nature of Repentance
• [15:02] - Asking: Bringing Our Needs to God
• [16:32] - The Dangers of Self-Sufficiency
• [18:22] - Submission: Yielding to God’s Will
• [19:45] - Jesus’ Example of Submission
• [22:18] - Praise: Focusing on God’s Character
• [23:44] - Scriptural Prayers of Praise
• [24:35] - Recap: Grasping the Five Elements

Bible Reading

Luke 10:21-22 (ESV) — > In that same hour he rejoiced in the Holy Spirit and said, “I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that you have hidden these things from the wise and understanding and revealed them to little children; yes, Father, for such was your gracious will. All things have been handed over to me by my Father, and no one knows who the Son is except the Father, or who the Father is except the Son and anyone to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.”

2. Psalm 51:10 (ESV)
> Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.

3. 1 Peter 5:7 (ESV)
> Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.

Observation Questions

1. In Luke 10:21-22, what is Jesus specifically thanking the Father for? How does this show the element of gratitude in prayer? [03:52]
2. According to Psalm 51:10, what does the psalmist ask God to do for him? What does this reveal about the nature of repentance? [13:44]
3. In 1 Peter 5:7, what are believers encouraged to do with their anxieties, and why? [17:27]
4. The sermon describes five elements of prayer using the fingers of a hand. Can you list all five elements and briefly describe what each one means? [02:33]

Interpretation Questions

1. Why might Jesus choose to thank God for revealing things to “little children” rather than the “wise and understanding”? What does this teach about the attitude we should have in prayer? [03:52]
2. The sermon says that true repentance is specific, not vague. Why is it important to name our sins specifically when we repent? How might this affect our relationship with God? [09:56]
3. The act of asking God for what we need is described as an act of dependence, not selfishness. How does bringing our needs to God protect us from self-sufficiency or misplaced trust? [16:32]
4. Submission is described as “not passive resignation but an active trust.” What does it look like to actively trust God’s will, even when it’s different from our own desires? [19:45]

Application Questions

1. The sermon suggests starting prayers with gratitude, even for small things. What is one specific thing—big or small—that you can thank God for today? How might making this a daily habit change your outlook? [06:46]
2. Think about a recent time when you needed to repent. Were you specific about what you did and how it affected others or your relationship with God? How can you practice more honest and specific repentance this week? [10:10]
3. Are there needs or anxieties in your life that you have not brought to God in prayer? What holds you back from asking God for help, and how can you take a step to bring those needs to Him this week? [16:14]
4. Submission can be hard, especially when we think we know what’s best. Is there an area of your life right now where you sense God asking you to yield your will? What would it look like to trust Him with that situation? [19:45]
5. The sermon says that praise is about focusing on who God is, not just what He’s done. When was the last time you praised God simply for His character? Try to name one attribute of God you want to praise Him for this week. [22:34]
6. The message mentions that gratitude can transform our relationships. Is there someone in your life you could express gratitude to this week as a way of honoring God? How might this impact your relationship with them? [06:46]
7. The sermon talks about using prayers from Scripture when we don’t have words of our own. Is there a particular prayer or psalm you could use this week to guide your own prayers of praise or repentance? [23:44]