The outward appearance of faith can be strong while the inner fire has grown cold. This is a slow and gradual drift, not a sudden departure. It happens when service and routine replace passion and intimacy with God. The danger lies in becoming so familiar with His grace that we take it for granted, reducing our mighty God to something common and manageable. [06:53]
“But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first. Remember therefore from where you have fallen, repent, and do the works you did at first.” (Revelation 2:4-5a, ESV)
Reflection: What is one routine spiritual activity in your life that has become more of a duty than a delight? What is one practical way you can approach that same activity this week with the intention of reconnecting with God’s heart?
Memory is a powerful spiritual tool God gives us to rekindle our passion. It is not about living in the past, but about drawing fuel from the past to ignite our future. We are called to remember God’s past faithfulness, His miracles, and the initial joy of our salvation. Recalling the moments we first fell in love with Jesus can provide the spark needed to light the fire once again. [19:15]
“I will remember the deeds of the LORD; yes, I will remember your wonders of old.” (Psalm 77:11, ESV)
Reflection: When you think back to your early days as a believer, what specific memory fills you with a sense of awe and gratitude for God? How can you intentionally revisit that memory this week to stir your affection for Him?
Repentance is more than saying sorry; it is a fundamental change of mind and perspective. It shifts our focus from what is wrong and hopeless to what is good and possible with God. This change in thinking is crucial because where our focus goes, our spiritual power flows. Choosing to see God’s goodness and faithfulness, even in difficult circumstances, rekindles hope and passion. [38:14]
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” (Romans 12:2, ESV)
Reflection: In your current circumstances, what is one situation where you have been focusing primarily on the negative? What is one evidence of God’s goodness or faithfulness you can choose to focus on instead?
Biblical love is defined by action, not by fleeting emotion. We often wait for a feeling to return before we act, but Jesus commands us to act in love so that the feeling can follow. Love is a choice to serve, sacrifice, and obey, just as Christ demonstrated for us on the cross. Restoring the fire requires us to resume the actions we did when our love was new and strong. [42:23]
“Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.” (1 John 3:18, ESV)
Reflection: What is one loving action you can intentionally do for your spouse or for God this week, even if you don’t initially feel like doing it?
The path back to first love fire is not complicated; it is a call to simple, obedient action. We are invited to resume the practices that characterized our passionate early walk with Christ: consistent prayer, worship, giving, and fellowship. As we act in obedience, God faithfully meets us and reignites the emotional connection and power that comes from a vibrant relationship with Him. [55:14]
“Remember therefore from where you have fallen; repent, and do the works you did at first.” (Revelation 2:5a, ESV)
Reflection: What is one “first work”—a spiritual practice you once did consistently with joy—that you feel God inviting you to resume this week? What is a specific time and place you can commit to doing it?
Revelation 2:1–7 confronts spiritual drift by naming a common yet subtle danger: losing the “first love” while maintaining impressive outward activity. The passage exposes how endurance, doctrinal vigilance, and tireless service can coexist with a cooled affection for Christ. Familiarity with past faithfulness and a growing routine reduce worship to duty, transform awe into assumption, and block the power that once moved a congregation. Scriptural illustrations — Jesus unable to work many miracles in Nazareth, Israel forgetting deliverance from Egypt, and early believers burning their occult books in Ephesus — underscore how proximity and habit can shrink wonder and surrender.
Three simple, accessible remedies arise from the text: remember, repent, and resume. Remembering functions as a spiritual tool that reactivates gratitude and trust by rehearsing God’s past faithfulness, miracles, and personal encounters. Repentance requires metanoia — a renewed mind that reframes circumstances, restores hope, and redirects effort from despair to expectancy. Resuming means returning to first works: concrete acts of worship, prayer, generosity, obedience, and sacrificial service. The argument insists that love proves itself through verbs; feelings follow faithful doing. Practical examples and historical illustrations — from Joseph’s long patience to King Edward’s costly choice, from Elijah’s persistence to everyday marriage dynamics — demonstrate that action, not mere emotion, restores affection.
A clear, measurable challenge follows: commit to intentional practices for a season (thirty days suggested) — consistent prayer, presence in worship, sacrificial giving, serving, and renewed pursuit of loved ones — and then evaluate the heart. The text promises that obedient engagement invites God’s restorative presence, revives intimacy, and brightens the candlestick of witness. The call ends in an urgent appeal to recover first love fire, moving hearts back from routine to radical devotion and inviting a renewed life marked by hope, obedience, and fervent worship.
Memory is a spiritual tool. Jesus doesn't start with a rebuke, he begins with memory. Memory is more than nostalgia. Memory is this tool that allows us to reignite the fire. If you want the right future, you have to remember the right past. Not the wrong past, but the right past. Sometimes we can overlook the power of remembering because the Bible does tell us to forget some things.
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#MemoryReignites
Jesus doesn't say feel again. He says, do again. Do what you did when love was new. Do what you did when love was strong. Do what you did when love was passionate. Jesus is saying, you don't have first love fire because you don't have first love works. You've treated love, listen to me, as a noun when love is a verb. Love is action not automatic.
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#LoveIsAVerb
It says, love is patient. It's kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It's not proud. It's not rude, it's not self seeking, it's not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, and always trusts, and always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails. Wait a second. Let me read that again. I'm just looking for the one sentence that describes a feeling. The whole definition of love. There's not an emotion in the list.
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#LoveIsNotEmotion
Because when your perspective shifts, all of a sudden what happens is where the where the focus goes, the power flows. Where the focus goes, the power flows. You have a choice to look at all the bad, or you have a choice to look at the good. And if you want hope to arise, if you want that flame to come back in your life, you need to repent, which means you have need to have a metanoia. You need to have a change of perspective.
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#FocusEqualsPower
But do you really wanna know the answer to the question why you don't have fire? It's because you're not doing what you want instead. It's because you let those things slip in your life. It's because you lost the passion for Christ that you once had. We are largely in part in charge of the passion that we have. We have to give God our everything, and this is a sobering reminder to the modern day church because the modern day church won't come to church on a cold morning, but won't miss their Super Bowl party that same night.
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#PassionRequiresAction
There's also a little pressure, isn't there? It's a little pressure because Valentine's Day forces us to ask a question we don't normally say out loud, how's the fire? Not the form, not the routine, not the responsibilities, but the fire. Is it there or has it waned? Is it is it still burning or has the flame went out? Not just in our relationship with our spouse, but on our relationship with our Lord. Because no couple starts off saying, one day we'll just coexist.
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#CheckTheFlame
Love without action is devoid of feelings, and the problem is culture keeps talking about, and singing about, and writing about, and falling in and out of this thing called love. Tina Turner said, what's love got to do with it? Then she said, it's just a second hand emotion. Farna said, I wanna know what love is. I want you to show me. I wanna feel what love is. I know you can show me. We keep singing about it. We keep talking about it. We keep falling in and out of it, but we have no understanding of what love truly is because it's not a feeling.
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#ShowMeLoveActions
But then they took some more rats and they put them in another big container of water, and it was hard to get out, but it was possible. And you know what they did? They swam and they swam and they swam and they swam they swam. Some made it out, others their heart exploded from from swimming so much. Why? Because they kept trying. And here's why they kept trying, because not where there's life, there's hope, but where there's hope, there's life.
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#HopeKeepsYouSwimming
Can I tell you if you will obey the word of God, the word of God will change your life? God wants you to have first love fire back, not just for your spouse, but in your relationship with him. Because it not only will change your household and your marriage, but I guarantee you will change the trajectory of your life. You will see God do things in you that you thought were never possible.
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#ObeyTransforms
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