Firebrand Women of Oasis Day 4 | Sunday 23 November 2025 | Tayo Ogunbona

I shared from a very real place today. I know what it feels like to pray hard and wait longer than I expected, and to start asking, “Lord, what do I need to change?” That hunger took me to Mark 2:1–12 and to the paralyzed man whose four friends refused to be stopped at the doorway. They climbed a roof, tore it open, and lowered him to Jesus. That picture has been working on me: faith that won’t turn back at the first “no,” faith that will inconvenience itself for another, faith that becomes visible through action.

I also testified about a sister in our community whose visa was “delayed” for months—only for her to discover it had actually been approved months earlier. While we prayed, fasted, and refused to accept a closed door, God was already at work. And I shared about our team returning to Lowestoft, a hard ground we first met with resistance. We’re not quitting; we’re planning, praying, and pushing, because love keeps showing up.

From the Mark 2 story, I named the “crowd” that blocks us from getting to Jesus: fear of the unknown, comfort over obedience, busyness, people’s opinions, sin and guilt, and outright opposition. Some of these we choose; some are strategies of the enemy. Either way, faith doesn’t just agree; it acts. It makes room through the roof when the door is jammed. Jesus noticed not their statements but their movement: “When He saw their faith…” It’s His love language.

I also pointed out that Jesus first said, “Your sins are forgiven.” Our greatest need isn’t always the visible one. Sometimes the deeper blockage is in the heart—unforgiveness, pride, or shame that keeps us from receiving. So I called us to three simple moves: come to Jesus with persistence, take action that matches what we believe, and bring others to Him, even at a cost. Pray. Plan. Push. Faith that stops at the door never sees the miracle. Faith that climbs the roof does.

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Key Takeaways

• 1. Push through the crowded obstacles. The “crowd” can be fear, comfort, busyness, shame, or the enemy’s resistance. Name yours honestly, then refuse to let it be the last word between you and Jesus. If the doorway is blocked, start looking for a roof and a rope. Faith solves for access, not convenience. [26:18]
• 2. Faith acts beyond comfortable agreement. Belief becomes faith when it takes steps that align with what it confesses. Make the call, sow the seed, keep the fast, show up again—let obedience put skin on what you say you trust. Jesus sees faith when it moves, not when it muses. [46:43]
• 3. Become and seek roof-climbing friends. We all need people who carry us when we can’t carry ourselves—and we’re called to be those people. Love risks inconvenience and reputation to bring others to Jesus. Ask, “Whose mat am I lifting, and who has permission to lift mine?” [24:17]
• 4. Persistence is a holy strategy. Ask, seek, knock—and keep knocking. Waiting is not wasted when it keeps you in motion toward God with a stubborn hope. Often the door is open, but adversaries stand there; persistence learns to pray, plan, and push. [34:08]
• 5. Let Jesus heal beneath symptoms. Jesus addressed the man’s heart before his legs. Sometimes our visible problem hides a deeper wound—unforgiveness, bitterness, or pride—blocking grace from flowing. Invite Jesus to touch the root, not just the pain. [48:59]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [01:33] - Vulnerability and calling
• [02:47] - Prayer for clarity and power
• [04:18] - When answers seem delayed
• [06:43] - Testimony: immigration delay overturned
• [13:36] - Street evangelism and Lowestoft
• [15:41] - Theme: Push Through, Don’t Give Up
• [18:45] - Mark 2 scene: blocked doorway
• [24:17] - Friends who risk for others
• [26:18] - Identifying your “crowd” obstacles
• [31:37] - Faith that acts, not waits
• [34:08] - Persistence and the gift of friends
• [38:44] - Jesus sees faith, forgives first
• [52:12] - Pray, Plan, and Push

Bible reading (ESV)
Mark 2:1–12
1 And when he returned to Capernaum after some days, it was reported that he was at home. 2 And many were gathered together, so that there was no more room, not even at the door. And he was preaching the word to them. 3 And they came, bringing to him a paralytic carried by four men. 4 And when they could not bring him to Jesus because of the crowd, they removed the roof above him, and when they had made an opening, they let down the bed on which the paralytic lay. 5 And when Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralytic, “Son, your sins are forgiven.” 6 Now some of the scribes were sitting there, questioning in their hearts, 7 “Why does this man speak like that? He is blaspheming! Who can forgive sins but God alone?” 8 And immediately Jesus, perceiving in his spirit that they thus questioned within themselves, said to them, “Why do you question these things in your hearts? 9 Which is easier, to say to the paralytic, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Rise, take up your bed and walk’? 10 But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins”—he said to the paralytic—11 “I say to you, rise, pick up your bed, and go home.” 12 And he rose and immediately picked up his bed and went out before them all, so that they were all amazed and glorified God, saying, “We never saw anything like this.”

Observation questions

1. Who are the people named in Mark 2:1–12 and what does each person or group do in the story? (look for the paralytic, his four friends, the crowd, the scribes, and Jesus)
2. In verses 3–4 the friends make a surprising decision to bring the man to Jesus. What actions do they take, and where does the story point your attention — to their words or to their movement?
3. Verse 5 says, “When Jesus saw their faith…” What exactly does the text show Jesus responding to — the friends’ action, the paralytic’s condition, or something else?
4. The preacher listed the kinds of “crowd” that block us (fear of the unknown, comfort over obedience, busyness, people’s opinion, sin/guilt, opposition). Which of those did he highlight as common in people’s lives? [26:18]

Interpretation questions

1. In the narrative, why might Jesus pronounce forgiveness before giving physical healing? What does that order suggest about priorities in Jesus’ ministry and the deeper need behind some physical problems?
2. How does the story show that faith is visible through action rather than only words or private belief? Point to details in Mark 2 that support this idea.
3. The preacher said faith “makes room through the roof when the door is jammed.” How should this metaphor shape a church member’s understanding of creative faith and lawful risk in helping others? [24:17]
4. The sermon emphasizes persistence as a “holy strategy” (ask, seek, knock). How should a believer balance persistent spiritual disciplines (prayer, fasting) with practical planning and outreach when a need seems delayed? [34:08]

Application questions

1. Identify one specific “crowd” (fear, comfort, busyness, people’s opinion, sin/guilt, or enemy opposition) that is currently blocking you from coming to Jesus about a need. What concrete step will you take this week to “build a roof” or create access (one measurable action and a day/time)? [26:18]
2. Who is one person in your life whose “mat” you could carry toward Jesus (someone you can help, pray for, invite, or accompany)? Name that person and one practical thing you will do for them in the next seven days (phone call, visit, pray with them, bring them to a service). [24:17]
3. The sermon urged faith that acts, not just agrees. Choose one faith-step to take this week that matches what you say you believe (example: make the call, give a specific gift, start the job application, fast one meal and pray). Write the action, when you will do it, and how you’ll measure it. [46:43]
4. Where do you need to be more persistent? Draft a 30-day “Pray. Plan. Push.” rhythm for one long-standing issue (list the first three things you will do this week and who will hold you accountable). [34:08]
5. The preacher said Jesus often heals under the symptom by addressing the heart (unforgiveness, pride, shame). Is there a root issue (forgiveness, pride, shame) you need to address? Name it and a specific step you will take this week (confess to a trusted friend, ask forgiveness of someone, meet with a pastor). [48:59]
6. Who could you invite to be one of your “roof-climbing friends” — someone you will call when you can’t push any more? Ask them this week to be your support and set a time to pray and plan together. What will you say when you ask them? [24:17]