Finding Your Purpose: Being Planted in the Right Church

Today’s reflection centers on a question that is both deeply personal and spiritually vital: “Am I in the right church?” In a culture where churches are as plentiful as fast-food restaurants, it’s easy to treat church like a buffet—sampling here and there, moving on when something doesn’t suit our taste. But the real question isn’t about our preferences, comfort, or even the programs offered. The true question is: Did God plant me here? When God places us in a church, it’s for a purpose that goes beyond our immediate likes or dislikes. Our spiritual growth, our calling, and our ability to serve are all tied to being where God wants us.

Scripture warns us not to neglect gathering together, especially as the day of Christ’s return draws near. There is a spiritual danger in drifting away from the body—complacency and isolation open the door to temptation, discouragement, and spiritual dryness. We are called to make every effort to stay united, to strive for peace, and to make allowances for each other’s faults. The church is not a place to run from when we are uncomfortable; often, discomfort is the Spirit’s way of refining us, calling us to repentance, and stretching us toward maturity.

Each believer is given a unique gift by Christ, not for self-promotion, but for the building up of the body. When we withhold our gifts or isolate ourselves, the whole body suffers. True spiritual nourishment comes not just from receiving, but from serving and watering others. The five-fold ministry—apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers—exists to equip the saints for ministry, to build up the church, and to protect against deception and false teaching. When we honor the gifts God has placed in the church and stay planted where He has called us, we grow in maturity, stability, and Christlikeness.

Being in the right church doesn’t mean being in the most comfortable church. Growth is often painful, and conviction is uncomfortable, but both are necessary for transformation. If you find yourself being stretched, challenged, and called to love those you wouldn’t have chosen, you are likely right where God wants you. Stay faithful, stay fruitful, and stay planted. The grass isn’t greener elsewhere; it’s greener where you water it. Let’s be a people who are rooted, connected, and committed to the body God has placed us in.

Key Takeaways

• 1. Spiritual Placement Over Preference The most important question is not whether you like the church, but whether God has placed you there. When God plants you in a church, He has a purpose for your presence that transcends personal comfort or preference. Your spiritual journey and growth are tied to obedience to His placement, not to the pursuit of a perfect environment. [05:24]
• 2. The Danger of Drifting and Isolation Neglecting the gathering of believers leads to spiritual drift, opening the door to temptation, discouragement, and deception. Isolation weakens what God designed to be strengthened in community. Your strength, accountability, and spiritual vitality are found in connection, not separation. [07:23]
• 3. Discomfort as a Sign of Growth A church that honors God will not always cater to your comfort; it will confront sin, call for repentance, and press you toward holiness. Discomfort is not always a sign to leave—it may be the Spirit exposing what needs to change in you. Powerful growth is often painful, and conviction is necessary for transformation. [57:19]
• 4. The Necessity of Serving and Honoring the Body Every believer is given a unique gift for the building up of the body of Christ. Withholding your gift or isolating yourself deprives others of what God wants to do through you. True spiritual refreshment comes as you serve and water others, and honoring the gifts God has placed in the church brings unity and maturity. [19:54]
• 5. Stability and Maturity Through Spiritual Authority The five-fold ministry exists to equip, protect, and mature the church. When you are planted under true spiritual authority, you are safeguarded from deception and tossed-about living. Maturity comes from being rooted, receiving truth—even when it’s hard—and allowing God to shape you through the community and leadership He has provided. [42:01]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [00:31] - Introducing the Question: Am I in the Right Church?
• [02:22] - The Buffet Mentality and Church Hopping
• [04:07] - Asking the Right Questions About Church
• [06:43] - The Call Not to Neglect Gathering
• [08:37] - The Spiritual Consequences of Neglect
• [13:37] - Unity, Effort, and Making Allowance for Faults
• [16:50] - Every Believer Has a Gift
• [19:54] - Serving, Watering Others, and Spiritual Refreshment
• [22:31] - Suffering, Conviction, and the True Gospel
• [25:02] - Conviction vs. Condemnation
• [28:15] - Tithes, Offerings, and the Storehouse
• [30:51] - Merchandising the Church and Heart Posture
• [38:14] - The Five-Fold Ministry and Spiritual Authority
• [42:01] - Equipping the Saints and Building the Body
• [48:15] - Maturity, Stability, and Avoiding Deception
• [54:45] - The Body Fit Together: Staying Planted
• [56:42] - Three Final Points: Drifting, Discomfort, and Fruitfulness
• [65:59] - Staying Planted and Closing Prayer

Bible Reading

Hebrews 10:24-25 (ESV) — > And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.

Ephesians 4:11-16 (ESV) — > And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes. Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.

Observation Questions

1. According to Hebrews 10:25, what specific warning is given to believers about their church life? Why do you think this warning was necessary? ([06:43])
2. In Ephesians 4:11-12, what are the different roles Christ gave to the church, and what is their main purpose? ([38:14])
3. The sermon described a “buffet mentality” toward church. What does this mean, and how does it show up in people’s attitudes or actions? ([02:22])
4. What does Ephesians 4:16 say happens when each part of the body does its own special work? ([54:45])

Interpretation Questions

1. The sermon says, “The real question isn’t about our preferences, comfort, or even the programs offered. The true question is: Did God plant me here?” Why is this distinction important for a believer’s spiritual growth? ([05:24])
2. How does neglecting to gather with other believers open the door to spiritual drift, temptation, and discouragement, according to both Hebrews 10 and the sermon? ([07:23])
3. The pastor shared that discomfort in church can be a sign of the Spirit refining us. How can someone tell the difference between healthy conviction and unhealthy condemnation? ([25:02])
4. Why does the sermon emphasize that every believer has a unique gift for the building up of the body, and what are the consequences when someone withholds their gift or isolates themselves? ([19:54])

Application Questions

1. The sermon challenges us to ask, “Did God put me here?” rather than “Do I like this church?” Have you ever made a church decision based on preference instead of prayer? How might your approach change after hearing this message? ([05:24])
2. Think about a time when you felt like drifting away from church or isolating yourself. What were the circumstances, and what helped you stay connected (or what could have helped)? ([07:23])
3. The pastor said, “Discomfort is not always a sign to leave—it may be the Spirit exposing what needs to change in you.” Can you recall a recent moment of discomfort in church? Was it God calling you to grow, or something else? How did you respond? ([57:19])
4. Are there ways you have been holding back your gifts or not serving in the church? What is one practical step you can take this month to serve or encourage someone in the body? ([19:54])
5. The sermon warns against “church hopping” and looking for the “greener grass.” Have you ever been tempted to look elsewhere when things got tough? What would it look like to “water the grass” where you are right now? ([01:04:08])
6. The message says, “When you are planted under true spiritual authority, you are safeguarded from deception and tossed-about living.” How do you respond to spiritual authority? Is there an area where you struggle to trust or submit? ([42:01])
7. The pastor encouraged the church to “make every effort to stay united, to strive for peace, and to make allowances for each other’s faults.” Is there someone in the church you need to forgive or make peace with? What is one step you can take this week? ([14:11])