Finding True Riches: Contentment Beyond Material Wealth

 

Summary

Today’s reflection centers on the difference between being rich in material possessions and being rich in what truly matters to God. Drawing from both the parable of the rich man and his barns and a modern parable by Father Anthony DeMello, the story of the fisherman and the industrialist highlights the tension between striving for more and finding contentment in the present. The fisherman’s wisdom challenges the notion that happiness is always found in future achievements or greater wealth, suggesting instead that joy can be found in the simplicity of the present moment.

There are two common approaches to work in our culture: one that encourages relentless striving now for the promise of future enjoyment, and another that seeks only work that is immediately fulfilling. Both extremes can lead to dissatisfaction—either by sacrificing relationships and presence for material gain, or by chasing an elusive sense of fulfillment that work alone cannot provide. True satisfaction is not found in the accumulation of wealth or in the perfect job, but in a balanced life that values relationships, presence, and spiritual well-being.

Despite living in the wealthiest society in history, many in our country experience high rates of depression and loneliness. This paradox points to a deeper spiritual poverty that material wealth cannot address. The joy witnessed in those who have little, such as religious sisters who take a vow of poverty or children in impoverished communities, reveals that happiness is not tied to possessions but to a richness of spirit and community.

Personal experiences, such as visiting homebound parishioners, further illustrate the epidemic of loneliness and the need for genuine connection. The challenge is to examine our own lives honestly, to discern whether our pursuits are leading us closer to God or deeper into spiritual poverty. The invitation is to seek the Lord above all things, trusting that true joy and salvation are found in Christ alone.

Key Takeaways

- Contentment Is Found in the Present, Not in Endless Striving
The parable of the fisherman and the industrialist reveals that the pursuit of “more” often blinds us to the joy available in the present. True contentment is not a future reward for relentless effort, but a gift that can be received now by recognizing the sufficiency of what God has already provided. This challenges us to pause and appreciate the blessings of today rather than always looking ahead to what’s next. [01:54]

- Work and Wealth Have Limits in Providing Fulfillment
While diligent work and financial stability are important, they cannot satisfy the deepest longings of the human heart. When work becomes an end in itself or wealth is pursued for its own sake, relationships and spiritual health often suffer. The diminishing returns of wealth remind us that our ultimate fulfillment must be rooted in something greater than material success. [05:47]

- Spiritual Poverty Is a Greater Threat Than Material Poverty
Even in societies of abundance, loneliness and isolation can be pervasive, leading to a kind of poverty that is less visible but more devastating. The testimony of Mother Teresa and the experience of joyful religious sisters underscore that spiritual poverty—marked by a lack of connection, purpose, and love—is a deeper wound than material lack. Addressing this requires intentional community and a focus on what matters to God. [07:31]

- Joy Is Often Found Among Those Who Have Little
Encounters with those who possess little materially, such as children in impoverished communities or religious sisters living in poverty, reveal a surprising depth of joy. This joy is not rooted in possessions but in relationships, gratitude, and a sense of purpose. Their witness challenges us to reconsider where we seek happiness and to cultivate a spirit of generosity and simplicity. [06:54]

- Our Pursuits Should Lead Us Closer to God, Not Further Away
The call is to examine whether our ambitions and daily routines are drawing us into deeper relationship with God or distracting us from Him. True wealth is measured by our closeness to Christ and our capacity to love others, not by our bank accounts or achievements. Praying for the grace to seek the Lord above all else reorients our lives toward lasting joy and salvation. [09:29]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[00:56] - Introducing Father Anthony DeMello’s Parable
[01:25] - The Fisherman and the Industrialist
[01:54] - The Wisdom of Contentment
[02:30] - Two Approaches to Work
[03:29] - Wealth, Happiness, and Depression in America
[04:11] - The Disconnect Between Wealth and Joy
[05:00] - Witnessing Joy in Religious Life
[05:47] - The Limits of Wealth
[06:54] - Encountering Joy in Poverty
[07:31] - Mother Teresa on Spiritual Poverty
[08:07] - Loneliness in a Wealthy Society
[09:29] - Praying for True Riches in Christ

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide

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### Bible Reading

Luke 12:13-21 (ESV) – The Parable of the Rich Fool
13 Someone in the crowd said to him, “Teacher, tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me.” 14 But he said to him, “Man, who made me a judge or arbitrator over you?” 15 And he said to them, “Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.” 16 And he told them a parable, saying, “The land of a rich man produced plentifully, 17 and he thought to himself, ‘What shall I do, for I have nowhere to store my crops?’ 18 And he said, ‘I will do this: I will tear down my barns and build larger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. 19 And I will say to my soul, “Soul, you have ample goods laid up for many years; relax, eat, drink, be merry.”’ 20 But God said to him, ‘Fool! This night your soul is required of you, and the things you have prepared, whose will they be?’ 21 So is the one who lays up treasure for himself and is not rich toward God.”

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### Observation Questions

1. In the parable Jesus tells, what is the rich man’s main concern, and how does he plan to solve it? (Luke 12:16-19)
2. According to the sermon, what are the two common approaches to work that people often take in our culture? [02:30]
3. What did the fisherman in Father DeMello’s parable say when asked why he wasn’t working harder to get more? [01:54]
4. What did Mother Teresa say about the kind of poverty she found in America compared to Calcutta? [07:31]

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### Interpretation Questions

1. Why does Jesus call the rich man a “fool” in the parable? What does it mean to be “rich toward God” instead of just rich in possessions? (Luke 12:20-21)
2. How do the two approaches to work described in the sermon—relentless striving for future gain versus only seeking enjoyable work—both fall short of true fulfillment? [02:30]
3. What does the joy of the fisherman, the religious sisters, and the children in poverty reveal about the source of true happiness? [05:00] / [06:54]
4. How does spiritual poverty show up in a society that has plenty of material wealth? [07:31]

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### Application Questions

1. When you think about your own work or daily routine, do you find yourself more often striving for “more” or wishing for a more enjoyable job? How has this affected your relationships or spiritual life? [02:30]
2. Is there an area in your life where you are waiting for “someday” to enjoy life, rather than finding contentment in the present? What would it look like to pause and appreciate what God has already provided? [01:54]
3. Have you ever experienced or witnessed joy in someone who had very little materially? What did you learn from that experience? [05:00] / [06:54]
4. Are there ways in which your pursuit of wealth, success, or comfort might be leading you away from God or from deeper relationships? What is one step you could take to reorient your priorities? [09:29]
5. The sermon mentioned the epidemic of loneliness, even in a wealthy society. Is there someone in your life who might be experiencing loneliness or spiritual poverty? How could you reach out to them this week? [08:07]
6. What does it mean for you personally to be “rich toward God”? Are there practical changes you feel called to make in order to grow in this area? (Luke 12:21)
7. The sermon ended with a prayer for the grace to seek the Lord above all things. What is one specific way you can seek God first in your life this week? [09:29]

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