Finding True Joy Through Detachment and Faith
Summary
On this Gaudete Sunday, we are called to rejoice as we approach the celebration of Christmas. This time of Advent is a season of preparation, and today we reflect on the true meaning of joy. Joy, as described by St. Paul, is not merely a fleeting emotion but a profound state of the soul, a fruit of the Holy Spirit. It is a gift from God that we must prepare to receive by detaching ourselves from worldly attachments and making room in our hearts for the divine presence.
To cultivate this joy, we must first recognize and detach from the things of the world that occupy the throne of our hearts, where only Jesus should reside. This detachment is not about rejecting the good things in life but ensuring they do not overshadow our relationship with God. The early desert fathers exemplified this by emptying their hearts of worldly concerns to be filled with God’s presence.
Moreover, we must confront our struggles and sins, bringing them to the Lord in confession. By doing so, we allow our hearts to be emptied of earthly burdens and filled with heavenly grace. Joy, therefore, is not dependent on our circumstances but is a steadfast presence that endures through trials and crosses, as exemplified by St. Teresa of Calcutta. Despite her spiritual darkness, she radiated joy because of her deep union with Christ.
Embracing our crosses with gratitude and surrendering our will to God’s will is essential in experiencing this joy. It is through these acts of faith that we become more joyful and draw others to the gospel. As Pope Francis reminds us, the joy of the gospel is a powerful witness that attracts others to Jesus. This Advent, let us pray for the gift of joy, allowing it to transform our lives and prepare us for the deeper gift of faith promised to us.
Key Takeaways:
1. Joy as a State of the Soul: Joy is not a mere feeling but a state of the soul, a fruit of the Holy Spirit that we must prepare to receive by detaching from worldly attachments and making room for God. [10:58]
2. Detachment from Worldly Attachments: To experience true joy, we must detach from the things of the world that occupy the throne of our hearts, ensuring that Jesus remains at the center of our lives. [22:32]
3. Confronting Struggles and Sins: Bringing our struggles and sins to the Lord in confession allows our hearts to be emptied of earthly burdens and filled with heavenly grace, paving the way for joy. [22:32]
4. Joy Amidst Trials: Joy is not dependent on circumstances but is a steadfast presence that endures through trials and crosses, as exemplified by St. Teresa of Calcutta. [29:18]
5. Embracing Crosses with Gratitude: By embracing our crosses with gratitude and surrendering our will to God’s, we experience joy and become a powerful witness to the gospel, drawing others to Jesus. [29:18]
Youtube Chapters:
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [10:58] - Gaudete Sunday: A Call to Rejoice
- [12:46] - Understanding True Joy
- [15:30] - Detachment from Worldly Attachments
- [18:45] - The Example of the Desert Fathers
- [22:32] - Confronting Struggles and Sins
- [25:10] - Joy Amidst Trials: St. Teresa of Calcutta
- [29:18] - Embracing Crosses with Gratitude
- [32:00] - The Joy of the Gospel
- [34:22] - Eucharistic Celebration
- [37:08] - The Memorial of Christ’s Passion
- [39:39] - The Lord’s Prayer and Peace
- [42:00] - Preparing for the Coming Feasts
- [45:15] - Parish Announcements
- [55:17] - Final Blessing and Dismissal
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. Philippians 4:4-7 - "Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
2. Galatians 5:22-23 - "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
3. John 15:11 - "I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete."
#### Observation Questions
1. According to the sermon, how does St. Paul describe joy, and what is its source? [10:58]
2. What role do the early desert fathers play in understanding detachment from worldly attachments? [22:32]
3. How did St. Teresa of Calcutta exemplify joy amidst trials, according to the sermon? [29:18]
4. What does the sermon suggest is the relationship between embracing our crosses and experiencing joy? [29:18]
#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the sermon interpret the concept of joy as a "state of the soul" rather than a fleeting emotion? [10:58]
2. In what ways does the sermon suggest that detachment from worldly attachments can lead to a deeper relationship with God? [22:32]
3. How does the sermon use the example of St. Teresa of Calcutta to illustrate the enduring nature of joy? [29:18]
4. What does the sermon imply about the connection between gratitude, surrender, and joy? [29:18]
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your own life: Are there any worldly attachments that might be occupying the throne of your heart? How can you begin to detach from them this week? [22:32]
2. Consider a struggle or sin you are currently facing. How can you bring this to the Lord in confession and allow your heart to be filled with heavenly grace? [22:32]
3. Think of a recent trial or cross you have experienced. How can you embrace it with gratitude and see it as a way to unite with Christ? [29:18]
4. How can you cultivate the fruit of joy in your daily life, especially in challenging circumstances? [10:58]
5. Identify one way you can be a witness to the joy of the gospel in your community this Advent season. [29:18]
6. What practical steps can you take to ensure that Jesus remains at the center of your life, especially during this busy holiday season? [22:32]
7. How can you incorporate prayer and thanksgiving into your daily routine to help guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus? [10:58]
Devotional
Day 1: Joy as a Divine Gift
Joy is a profound state of the soul, a fruit of the Holy Spirit that transcends mere emotions. It is a divine gift that we must prepare to receive by detaching ourselves from worldly attachments and making room for God. This joy is not dependent on external circumstances but is a steadfast presence that endures through trials and crosses. By focusing on our relationship with God and allowing His presence to fill our hearts, we can experience true joy that transforms our lives. [10:58]
"Though the fig tree should not blossom, nor fruit be on the vines, the produce of the olive fail and the fields yield no food, the flock be cut off from the fold and there be no herd in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the Lord; I will take joy in the God of my salvation." (Habakkuk 3:17-18, ESV)
Reflection: What worldly attachment is currently occupying the throne of your heart, and how can you begin to make room for God's presence today?
Day 2: Detachment for True Joy
To experience true joy, we must detach from the things of the world that occupy the throne of our hearts, ensuring that Jesus remains at the center of our lives. This detachment is not about rejecting the good things in life but about prioritizing our relationship with God above all else. The early desert fathers exemplified this by emptying their hearts of worldly concerns to be filled with God’s presence. By following their example, we can cultivate a heart that is open to receiving the joy that comes from a deep union with Christ. [22:32]
"Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world." (1 John 2:15-16, ESV)
Reflection: Identify one area in your life where worldly attachments overshadow your relationship with God. What practical steps can you take to detach from it this week?
Day 3: Confession and Heavenly Grace
Bringing our struggles and sins to the Lord in confession allows our hearts to be emptied of earthly burdens and filled with heavenly grace, paving the way for joy. Confession is a powerful act of humility and surrender, where we acknowledge our need for God's mercy and forgiveness. By confronting our struggles and sins, we open ourselves to the transformative power of God's grace, which fills us with joy and peace. This process of confession and renewal is essential for experiencing the joy that comes from a heart aligned with God's will. [22:32]
"Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working." (James 5:16, ESV)
Reflection: What is one struggle or sin you need to bring to God in confession today? How can you seek His grace and forgiveness to experience true joy?
Day 4: Joy Amidst Trials
Joy is not dependent on circumstances but is a steadfast presence that endures through trials and crosses, as exemplified by St. Teresa of Calcutta. Despite her spiritual darkness, she radiated joy because of her deep union with Christ. This joy is a testament to the power of faith and the presence of the Holy Spirit in our lives. By embracing our crosses with gratitude and surrendering our will to God’s, we can experience joy even in the midst of suffering. This joy becomes a powerful witness to the gospel, drawing others to Jesus. [29:18]
"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness." (James 1:2-3, ESV)
Reflection: Think of a current trial you are facing. How can you embrace it with gratitude and find joy in the midst of it?
Day 5: Embracing Crosses with Gratitude
By embracing our crosses with gratitude and surrendering our will to God’s, we experience joy and become a powerful witness to the gospel, drawing others to Jesus. This act of faith requires us to trust in God's plan and to see our crosses as opportunities for growth and transformation. As we surrender our will to God’s, we open ourselves to the joy that comes from living in alignment with His purpose for our lives. This joy is contagious and can inspire others to seek a deeper relationship with Christ. [29:18]
"For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us." (Romans 8:18, ESV)
Reflection: What is one cross you are currently carrying? How can you embrace it with gratitude and allow it to draw you closer to God?
Quotes
Today we reach the Gaudete Sunday as it's known, which is just the Latin word for rejoice, taken from St. Paul's reading today. And we have one of these in Advent and then one in Lent. As we... have reached past the midpoint, so to speak, of our penitential season, approaching the celebration of Christmas. And so in this Sunday, I want to reflect on joy. [00:19:10] (29 seconds)
Like what does it mean for Paul to say rejoice and also to follow it up with have no anxiety at all but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. I think all of us desire that joy, but what is it and how do we receive it? How do we have that in our lives? And so joy first and foremost is not a feeling, but it's a state of our soul, like of our heart, right? Where and what God is doing in it. And so it's something that we receive, we prepare to receive from the Lord. It's a fruit of the Holy Spirit as the scriptures tell us. And so that means we're the Holy Spirit. And so what the Holy Spirit is, you're going to find the fruits. So you'll find the fruit of joy and peace and kindness and gentleness, all those fruits of the Holy Spirit. Well, how do I do that? How do I receive that? [00:20:32] (55 seconds)
Because I think we would all desire it. And we have to recognize a couple of different things. One is kind of a detachment from the things of the world, right? There's, I don't know if you're like me or not, but there's oftentimes when you find these things that my heart's become attached to. And so I think it's a fruit of the Holy Spirit. And so I think we're to. And I know that the Lord wants to take up that spot in my heart. And so I get attached to different things. And so this journey of life and the spiritual journey is always bringing these things to the Lord and being, Lord, okay, please help me detach from this thing that's kind of taken up a big place in my heart because I want you to have that place, right? And so it's always paying attention to what is it that my heart is becoming attached to. And it could be many different things. It doesn't have to be a fruit of the Holy Spirit. It could be a fruit of the could be something that's, you know, good in itself, but it becomes kind of the, or it takes up the throne of my heart where Jesus is the one who should be there. [00:22:33] (61 seconds)
That's the first thing you want to detach from those things of this life. And so we have to ask the Lord sometimes to know what it is. And then we have to ask him to help us let it go and give it over to him so that it takes the proper place in our heart. Other things are kind of like the, the early desert fathers, they were called. So it was about around the 300s, 400s. Things were a little easier to be a Christian. You weren't as much persecution or martyrdom. And so it became kind of lax is what some of the people thought. And so they would go out into the desert and give their life completely in asceticism, right? They would give everything to the Lord and they would just spend those time in, in prayer and in trying to grow in holiness. [00:24:01] (47 seconds)
Of course, people were attracted to that. And so they began to come out into the desert to ask questions and directions of these who had given their life to Jesus. [00:24:42] (10 seconds)
And one of the things that would happen is there would usually be somebody kind of taken care of that. And they would come and present this person to the desert father. And, and the desert father would ask a question. It would say, is their heart empty of the world so that it can be filled with God? [00:25:52] (19 seconds)
If not, they said, wait till you can do that and then come back. And St. Alphonsus Liguori used the image of, you know, imagine you've got a glass and you want to fill it up with the living water, right? The Holy Spirit as Jesus presents it. But in your glass, it's filled up with earth, right? With dirt, with all the stuff of the world. He said, you can't get much water into that. And so they would come out into the desert and they would pray with them and they would fill it up with God. And so one of those things is that detachment. But another is, what are those struggles that I have? Those, those sins, those weaknesses in my life that I need to bring to the Lord. I need to bring to confession. I need to ask him to help empty my heart of the things of the world so that it can be filled with the things of heaven, right? His very presence. So that's one of the other ways of like preparing our heart for that joy. Because it's going to be something God pours into our hearts in this life. And we have to recognize that joy can't be taken away by circumstances, by sufferings, by crosses that we may face in this life. That wouldn't be joy at all. [00:26:50] (71 seconds)
And so we can actually live a joyful life even amidst the crosses and sufferings of our life. Think of somebody like St. Teresa of Calcutta, right? We know now that she was in this kind of situation. She was in this kind of situation. She was in this kind of situation. She was in this kind of spiritual darkness. By the way, she had asked for that, like a participation in the people that she was ministering to who didn't have faith. She asked for participation in that. And Jesus gave her that participation for about 50 years of her life where she didn't recognize his presence. But that didn't stop her. She was every morning in prayer throughout the day in prayer, serving the poorest of the poor. And everyone that would meet her would say she's just so joyful. Right? They experienced the joy in her life even though she was in a bit of darkness, spiritually speaking, on that journey. No one knew that. And that's kind of how joy works. It comes through us because Jesus is at work in us whether we feel that or experience it in that way or not. She was one of the most joyful people people had ever met. Had no idea the thing that was going on, the cross that she was carrying. She was one of the most joyful people people had ever met. Had no idea the thing that was going on, the cross that she was carrying. She was one of the most joyful people that was making her extremely holy, by the way. That is what our crosses do. So how do I do that? [00:28:48] (82 seconds)
Well, the first thing is recognize your cross and don't be like me. Don't recognize your cross and then drag it around all mad. Okay? That's what I feel like I do sometimes. You know how kids, they drag it around because they're upset about something and just throw it around and fling it around? That's what I feel like I do sometimes when Jesus sends me a cross because I've always prepared myself for some other cross. I've always prepared myself for some other cross. I've always prepared myself for some other cross. I've always prepared myself for some other cross. I'm like, I could do that one, right? It's never the one you get, though. It's always the one you're not prepared to receive. [00:31:48] (28 seconds)
And so instead, I try to just embrace what's going on. Lord, I know you're with me. Help me to embrace this cross because I know that's how you're uniting me with you in this moment. And then I try to be grateful for it. I thank God for this participation in his cross. And I begin to be better at experiencing, that joy in the midst of the struggles. Because Jesus doesn't want to give us something like joy that can be taken away by circumstances or struggles. I have to keep surrendering to him in those moments, my will, so that I can do his. And as we do that, we become more joyful people, those who others are drawn to the gospel. Remember, Pope Francis's first encyclical was about the joy of the gospel. And now he said, that draws people to Jesus. Joy is that intangible that we are experiencing when we're united with Jesus that draws others to him. And they want to have that, just like everyone that met St. Teresa of Calcutta was drawn to that. They're like, what does she have? Because whoever that is, I want it, right? And that's Jesus. That's who he desires to fill us with that joy in our own lives. So bring those things to prayer this week. Ask the Lord, for that gift of joy, that fruit of the Holy Spirit at work in our lives, that is going to prepare us for that great gift that he's promised us over this Advent and Christmas, that gift, a deeper gift of faith, right? And that's what we want to ask him for today, that on this Gaudete Sunday, on this Sunday of rejoicing, of choosing to rejoice, that the Lord would help us to do that, that he would help us recognize the circumstances, the crosses, and the struggles. They don't take it away, but if we unite, ourselves with him in those moments, we'll begin to experience it and live it in a powerful way, so that we can live the truth of what St. Paul tells us to do today, which is to rejoice in the Lord always. He says, I'll say it again, rejoice. [00:34:48] (130 seconds)